flirting with a hot bartender... - GoFuckYourself.com

04-11-2004, 12:27 AM

interesting night tonight, I went to this pool place with a FUCKING hot bartender.

I mustve bought her 10 shots or so, and I was paying for all my friends, mustve blown 100$ on shots tonight, ahah

anyways, so this bartender seems older than I am, maybe shes 21 or so.

the thing is there was an amount of flirting throughout the night, she grabbed my ass once, and put her arm around me telling me I'm getting her drunk, and so on...

anywho, my question is just in GENERAL

hot bartenders,
to bang? (they are interested in you)
or
not to bang? (they are just doing their job)

I mean I would say they are just doing their job, but she REALLY gave me more attention than all the other guys

...then again, I am so damb good looking

Ironhorse · 04-11-2004, 12:29 AM

Doing her job you were obviously the one paying, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young, won't hurt to ask her to lunch or something though

BradM · 04-11-2004, 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ironhorse
Doing her job, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young

Sorry man thats the truth

HS-Trixxxia · 04-11-2004, 12:30 AM

You were paying - you were tipping - you got more attention. If she wants to bang....go ahead, just don't go falling head over heels in love with her. It may be genuine if you see her alot, she remembers very detailed stuff about you and so forth....if you go back next week and she doesn't so much as glance at you.....you know it was just business.

beemk · 04-11-2004, 12:30 AM

never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss...

04-11-2004, 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ironhorse
Doing her job, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young, won't hurt to ask her to lunch or something though

gotcha bro, thanx for the opinion

modifried · 04-11-2004, 12:31 AM

Of course she's going to give you more attention, you're the one buying all the drinks, you're the one showing you've got the money to give her a bigger tip. ;)

04-11-2004, 12:32 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by beemk
never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss...

ah for sure bro
I do get pussy, and lots of it, trust me

but this is a case that interested me particularly, because it can be seen in different ways, ya know?

if you compare it to a girl that winks at you at a club and wants you to go dirty dance with her, it's a completely different story

Vox · 04-11-2004, 12:33 AM

Doing her job, most barmaids won't even admit having a boyfriend just to increase her tips from all the flirting.

04-11-2004, 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by modifried
Of course she's going to give you more attention, you're the one buying all the drinks, you're the one showing you've got the money to give her a bigger tip. ;)

god damn she was fucking hot

ztik · 04-11-2004, 12:34 AM

they do it to get bigger tips.

04-11-2004, 12:34 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Trixxxia
You were paying - you were tipping - you got more attention. If she wants to bang....go ahead, just don't go falling head over heels in love with her. It may be genuine if you see her alot, she remembers very detailed stuff about you and so forth....if you go back next week and she doesn't so much as glance at you.....you know it was just business.

I'll go see her for sure next week
even if it's business, it's fucking good business, getting all that attention from a girl that smoking hot

beemk · 04-11-2004, 12:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf
if you compare it to a girl that winks at you at a club and wants you to go dirty dance with her, it's a completely different story

how is that different? some bartenders flirt for bigger tips, and some club whores flirt to get guys to buy them drinks. you cant let either of them spoil it for girls that are actually interested in you.

Axeman · 04-11-2004, 12:35 AM

I think a lot of the time they are just doing their job. Remember they really thrive on tips so.

04-11-2004, 12:36 AM

alright then lets discuss my tip to her tonight

I must've bought her 10 shots and gave her 5$ at the end
do you think that's fair?

she dropped like 3 glasses and completely tripped and fell once, her and us were cracking up when that happened

damn it was a good night with the guys

WarChild · 04-11-2004, 12:36 AM

Doing her job.

I for one try not to hit on bartenders or waitresses. I mean, they're at work .. They just want to get paid, probably not find dates.

04-11-2004, 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by beemk
how is that different? some bartenders flirt for bigger tips, and some club whores flirt to get guys to buy them drinks. you cant let either of them spoil it for girls that are actually interested in you.

hehe good reply

HS-Trixxxia · 04-11-2004, 12:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf

I'll go see her for sure next week
even if it's business, it's fucking good business, getting all that attention from a girl that smoking hot

Just make sure, when you ask for her number, she doesn't give you the number to 'The Loser Line' wouldn't want to hear 'Trixxxia, you were right on Mix 96' hehehe

(Not saying your a loser, hopefully, you know what I'm referring to)

ztik · 04-11-2004, 12:37 AM

I don't buy girls drinks and I hardly tip (at shitty bars). Girls like it

beemk · 04-11-2004, 12:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf

I'll go see her for sure next week
even if it's business, it's fucking good business, getting all that attention from a girl that smoking hot

yeah this time make sure you tell her you're going to let her go out to lunch with you the next week. then come on here and give us an update, prove to these guys that its not hard to bag a bartender.

04-11-2004, 12:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Trixxxia

Just make sure, when you ask for her number, she doesn't give you the number to 'The Loser Line' wouldn't want to hear 'Trixxxia, you were right on Mix 96' hehehe

(Not saying your a loser, hopefully, you know what I'm referring to)

hehe for sure hun

Kard63 · 04-11-2004, 12:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by beemk
never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss...

Word. If anyone grabs my ass that I'm attracted to I'm gonna try to lay the pipe on them. period. If she doesn't want it, then the misconception is her fault.

04-11-2004, 12:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by beemk
yeah this time make sure you tell her you're going to let her go out to lunch with you the next week. then come on here and give us an update, prove to these guys that its not hard to bag a bartender.

Vox · 04-11-2004, 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf
alright then lets discuss my tip to her tonight

I must've bought her 10 shots and gave her 5$ at the end
do you think that's fair?

she dropped like 3 glasses and completely tripped and fell once, her and us were cracking up when that happened

damn it was a good night with the guys

Damn you're cheap, did you run a tab? how much was it?

beemk · 04-11-2004, 12:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ztik
I don't buy girls drinks and I hardly tip (at shitty bars). Girls like it

i never buy any girls drinks, but i always tip good, even if its an ugly bartender or even a dude. you have to tip to get good service. plus they work for tips, its not fair to not tip them.

04-11-2004, 12:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vox

Damn you're cheap, did you run a tab? how much was it?

mustve been 100$ or so
but every drink I bought the guys, I bought her one as well (I honestly thought that would be enough)

and trust me, I'm not usually cheap

Ironhorse · 04-11-2004, 12:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf

mustve been 100$ or so
but every drink I bought the guys, I bought her one as well (I honestly thought that would be enough)

and trust me, I'm not usually cheap

$5 on a $100 tab, man something tells me you're not petting that putty-tat anytime soon

ztik · 04-11-2004, 12:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by beemk
i never buy any girls drinks, but i always tip good, even if its an ugly bartender or even a dude. you have to tip to get good service. plus they work for tips, its not fair to not tip them.

Well you arn't really getting any service if they are just sitting behind a bar serving drinks. How could they fuck that up? McDonalds is a harder job than that.

beemk · 04-11-2004, 12:42 AM

what kind of freeloader friends do you hang out with?

04-11-2004, 12:42 AM

alright people, almost 4 am here so I'm gonna hit the sack

thanx alot for the nice discussion, and feel free to continue while I'm asleep

good night! and see ya 2morrow

Kard63 · 04-11-2004, 12:43 AM

Thats a terrible tip, lol. I'd still try to hit it. If she is just trying to 'do her job' I'm sure this has happened to her a lot and she doesn't think much of it.

beemk · 04-11-2004, 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ironhorse

$5 on a $100 tab, man something tells me you're not petting that putty-tat anytime soon

hes not buying the pussy. chances are if she drank 10 shots she probably wont even remember him, let alone remember how much he tipped.

04-11-2004, 12:44 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ironhorse

$5 on a $100 tab, man something tells me you're not petting that putty-tat anytime soon

if you count the shots I Bought her, tha'ts 35$, which is like 1/3rd of the money I spent there

I Dont know, I dont usually go out to drink, usually its at a friends house with a few bottles and chicks who want to suck cock

I must've seen it differently than you, I figured the drinks I bought her was "tip enough" ya know?

beemk · 04-11-2004, 12:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ztik

Well you arn't really getting any service if they are just sitting behind a bar serving drinks. How could they fuck that up? McDonalds is a harder job than that.

so you get the drinks yourself or they serve them to you?

04-11-2004, 12:45 AM

so in conclusion for me tonight, even though I buy her X amount of drinks, I should still leave her a big Cash Tip?

Ironhorse · 04-11-2004, 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf

I Dont know, I dont usually go out to drink, usually its at a friends house with a few bottles and chicks who want to suck cock

I gotta hang out with you more often

04-11-2004, 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ironhorse

I gotta hang out with you more often

Vox · 04-11-2004, 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf

mustve been 100$ or so
but every drink I bought the guys, I bought her one as well (I honestly thought that would be enough)

and trust me, I'm not usually cheap

I don't count the shooters that I buy barmaids or waitresses in my tip total, I buy them because they are friendly and entertaining, and they usually buy me a few too.

I usually leave a 1$ for every drink, and depending on how many shooters, I tip between $1 to $5 per round.

04-11-2004, 12:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vox

I don't count the shooters that I buy barmaids or waitresses in my tip total, I buy them because they are friendly and entertaining, and they usually buy me a few too.

I usually leave a 1$ for every drink, and depending on how many shooters, I tip between $1 to $5 per round.

gotcha, thanx for the tip

Vox · 04-11-2004, 12:49 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf

gotcha, thanx for the tip

No prob, now let me meet those chicks that like to suck cock.

04-11-2004, 12:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vox

No prob, now let me meet those chicks that like to suck cock.

dude I'm telling you

House Party + Booze = all the cocksucking you can imagine

04-11-2004, 12:52 AM

alright, no more for me

goodnight everyone, and thanx again

ztik · 04-11-2004, 12:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf
alright, no more for me

goodnight everyone, and thanx again

np

Fukeneh · 04-11-2004, 12:55 AM

dont shit where you eat.

100 cad isnt shit to drop at a bar, last time i was there i dropped 400+ before tip and there was only 2 of us drinking.

dont screw the bartender or take thier flirting serious, its like hooters, they are doing it for tips.

beemk · 04-11-2004, 01:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf
so in conclusion for me tonight, even though I buy her X amount of drinks, I should still leave her a big Cash Tip?

no, just normal. leave her like 15%

beemk · 04-11-2004, 01:11 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fukeneh
dont shit where you eat.

100 cad isnt shit to drop at a bar, last time i was there i dropped 400+ before tip and there was only 2 of us drinking.

dont screw the bartender or take thier flirting serious, its like hooters, they are doing it for tips.

you're crazy. hes going out to have a good time. if he can get in the bartenders pants by all means do it. hot bartenders are a dime a dozen.

XxShiznaughtxX · 04-11-2004, 01:12 AM

aren't bartenders not supposed to tip on the job

jmarzlak · 04-11-2004, 01:55 AM

seriously though, if you have never worked in the resturant business your need to know that you have to leave at LEAST 15%. And even if you spend $15 at a bar no one wants to serve you or bring you food and drinks for $1 dollar.

Dugmor · 04-11-2004, 02:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bdjuf
interesting night tonight, I went to this pool place with a FUCKING hot bartender.

I mustve bought her 10 shots or so, and I was paying for all my friends, mustve blown 100$ on shots tonight, ahah

anyways, so this bartender seems older than I am, maybe shes 21 or so.

the thing is there was an amount of flirting throughout the night, she grabbed my ass once, and put her arm around me telling me I'm getting her drunk, and so on...

anywho, my question is just in GENERAL

hot bartenders,
to bang? (they are interested in you)
or
not to bang? (they are just doing their job)

I mean I would say they are just doing their job, but she REALLY gave me more attention than all the other guys

...then again, I am so damb good looking

What is the name of the bar ?

I may have already gotten blown from her ............ so if you kiss her you will be tasting my c*ck !

Gemini · 04-11-2004, 03:32 AM

Save your breath bdjuf. You seem like a decent kid and don't need to get caught up in the 'yoyo effect'. I'll give you a hint, you are NOT the string nor do you have control of the hahahahahahahaha Bartenders, dancers, and bar maids are professional grafters for the most part.

04-11-2004, 12:27 AM	#1
buddyjuf Guest Posts: n/a	flirting with a hot bartender... interesting night tonight, I went to this pool place with a FUCKING hot bartender. I mustve bought her 10 shots or so, and I was paying for all my friends, mustve blown 100$ on shots tonight, ahah anyways, so this bartender seems older than I am, maybe shes 21 or so. the thing is there was an amount of flirting throughout the night, she grabbed my ass once, and put her arm around me telling me I'm getting her drunk, and so on... anywho, my question is just in GENERAL hot bartenders, to bang? (they are interested in you) or not to bang? (they are just doing their job) I mean I would say they are just doing their job, but she REALLY gave me more attention than all the other guys ...then again, I am so damb good looking

04-11-2004, 12:29 AM	#2
Ironhorse Pixel Pusher Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,093	Doing her job you were obviously the one paying, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young, won't hurt to ask her to lunch or something though __________________ [email protected]

04-11-2004, 12:30 AM	#4
HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	You were paying - you were tipping - you got more attention. If she wants to bang....go ahead, just don't go falling head over heels in love with her. It may be genuine if you see her alot, she remembers very detailed stuff about you and so forth....if you go back next week and she doesn't so much as glance at you.....you know it was just business. __________________ ~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~ Patrizia COO - ♥ MassiveDollars Email: patrizia at MassiveDollars dot com ICQ: 465.826.441 Yahoo: trixxxia_me MSN: trixxxia at hotmail dot com

04-11-2004, 12:30 AM	#5
beemk CLICK HERE Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 20,829	never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss... __________________ I host with Vacares

04-11-2004, 12:33 AM	#9
Vox Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 2,710	Doing her job, most barmaids won't even admit having a boyfriend just to increase her tips from all the flirting. __________________ Social profile assassination for hire

04-11-2004, 12:31 AM	#7
modifried Registered User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: BC, Canada Posts: 38	Of course she's going to give you more attention, you're the one buying all the drinks, you're the one showing you've got the money to give her a bigger tip. ;)

04-11-2004, 12:34 AM	#11
ztik Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Nomad Posts: 5,196	they do it to get bigger tips. __________________ .

04-11-2004, 12:35 AM	#14
Axeman Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Swamp Posts: 5,201	I think a lot of the time they are just doing their job. Remember they really thrive on tips so. __________________ XXXRewards - Karups - Boyfun - Jawked. Paying on time since 1997. Contact me at brent [at] xxxrewards.com

04-11-2004, 12:36 AM	#15
buddyjuf Guest Posts: n/a	alright then lets discuss my tip to her tonight I must've bought her 10 shots and gave her 5$ at the end do you think that's fair? she dropped like 3 glasses and completely tripped and fell once, her and us were cracking up when that happened damn it was a good night with the guys

04-11-2004, 12:36 AM	#16
WarChild Let slip the dogs of war. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Bermuda Posts: 17,263	Doing her job. I for one try not to hit on bartenders or waitresses. I mean, they're at work .. They just want to get paid, probably not find dates.

04-11-2004, 12:37 AM	#19
ztik Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Nomad Posts: 5,196	I don't buy girls drinks and I hardly tip (at shitty bars). Girls like it __________________ .

04-11-2004, 12:42 AM	#29
beemk CLICK HERE Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 20,829	what kind of freeloader friends do you hang out with? __________________ I host with Vacares

04-11-2004, 12:43 AM	#31
Kard63 Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: 237 619 975 Posts: 8,944	Thats a terrible tip, lol. I'd still try to hit it. If she is just trying to 'do her job' I'm sure this has happened to her a lot and she doesn't think much of it. __________________

04-11-2004, 12:45 AM	#35
buddyjuf Guest Posts: n/a	so in conclusion for me tonight, even though I buy her X amount of drinks, I should still leave her a big Cash Tip?

04-11-2004, 12:52 AM	#42
buddyjuf Guest Posts: n/a	alright, no more for me goodnight everyone, and thanx again

04-11-2004, 12:55 AM	#44
Fukeneh Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Location: Location: Posts: 1,245	dont shit where you eat. 100 cad isnt shit to drop at a bar, last time i was there i dropped 400+ before tip and there was only 2 of us drinking. dont screw the bartender or take thier flirting serious, its like hooters, they are doing it for tips.

04-11-2004, 01:12 AM	#47
XxShiznaughtxX Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 408	aren't bartenders not supposed to tip on the job __________________ Why haven't you given FastSize a try yet? Wm Signup: http://www.fastsize.com/webmasters/?rid=1016 Tour: http://fastsize.com ICQ 21950315

04-11-2004, 01:55 AM	#48
jmarzlak Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 632	seriously though, if you have never worked in the resturant business your need to know that you have to leave at LEAST 15%. And even if you spend $15 at a bar no one wants to serve you or bring you food and drinks for $1 dollar. __________________ Promote Nikki and Teen Kelly

04-11-2004, 03:32 AM	#50
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	Save your breath bdjuf. You seem like a decent kid and don't need to get caught up in the 'yoyo effect'. I'll give you a hint, you are NOT the string nor do you have control of the hahahahahahahaha Bartenders, dancers, and bar maids are professional grafters for the most part. __________________ <center><a target="_blank" href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac"><img border="0" src="http://216.130.172.224/gfy/gsig.gif" width="490" height="100"></a><br><a href="http://dev.datedollars.com/index.php?s=signup&aid=535&cfg=aac" target="_blank"><b><font face="Arial"><font color="#FF99FF"> Buy me away from Slavedriver Smokey!<br>It's May Sig Sweeps!<font></b></center>