flirting with a hot bartender...
 

interesting night tonight, I went to this pool place with a FUCKING hot bartender.

I mustve bought her 10 shots or so, and I was paying for all my friends, mustve blown 100$ on shots tonight, ahah


anyways, so this bartender seems older than I am, maybe shes 21 or so.

the thing is there was an amount of flirting throughout the night, she grabbed my ass once, and put her arm around me telling me I'm getting her drunk, and so on...



anywho, my question is just in GENERAL

hot bartenders,
to bang? (they are interested in you)
or
not to bang? (they are just doing their job)


I mean I would say they are just doing their job, but she REALLY gave me more attention than all the other guys :winkwink:

...then again, I am so damb good looking :Graucho

Doing her job you were obviously the one paying, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young, won't hurt to ask her to lunch or something though :2 cents:

Sorry man thats the truth

You were paying - you were tipping - you got more attention. If she wants to bang....go ahead, just don't go falling head over heels in love with her. It may be genuine if you see her alot, she remembers very detailed stuff about you and so forth....if you go back next week and she doesn't so much as glance at you.....you know it was just business.

never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss...

gotcha bro, thanx for the opinion :thumbsup

Of course she's going to give you more attention, you're the one buying all the drinks, you're the one showing you've got the money to give her a bigger tip. ;)

ah for sure bro
I do get pussy, and lots of it, trust me

but this is a case that interested me particularly, because it can be seen in different ways, ya know?

if you compare it to a girl that winks at you at a club and wants you to go dirty dance with her, it's a completely different story :winkwink:

Doing her job, most barmaids won't even admit having a boyfriend just to increase her tips from all the flirting.

god damn she was fucking hot :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

they do it to get bigger tips.

I'll go see her for sure next week
even if it's business, it's fucking good business, getting all that attention from a girl that smoking hot :Graucho :thumbsup

how is that different? some bartenders flirt for bigger tips, and some club whores flirt to get guys to buy them drinks. you cant let either of them spoil it for girls that are actually interested in you.

I think a lot of the time they are just doing their job. Remember they really thrive on tips so.

alright then lets discuss my tip to her tonight

I must've bought her 10 shots and gave her 5$ at the end
do you think that's fair?

she dropped like 3 glasses and completely tripped and fell once, her and us were cracking up when that happened

damn it was a good night with the guys :thumbsup

Doing her job.

I for one try not to hit on bartenders or waitresses. I mean, they're at work .. They just want to get paid, probably not find dates.

hehe good reply :thumbsup

Just make sure, when you ask for her number, she doesn't give you the number to 'The Loser Line' wouldn't want to hear 'Trixxxia, you were right on Mix 96' hehehe :1orglaugh

(Not saying your a loser, hopefully, you know what I'm referring to)

I don't buy girls drinks and I hardly tip (at shitty bars). Girls like it :)

yeah this time make sure you tell her you're going to let her go out to lunch with you the next week. then come on here and give us an update, prove to these guys that its not hard to bag a bartender.

hehe for sure hun :glugglug

Word. If anyone grabs my ass that I'm attracted to I'm gonna try to lay the pipe on them. period. If she doesn't want it, then the misconception is her fault.

:glugglug

Damn you're cheap, did you run a tab? how much was it?

i never buy any girls drinks, but i always tip good, even if its an ugly bartender or even a dude. you have to tip to get good service. plus they work for tips, its not fair to not tip them.

mustve been 100$ or so
but every drink I bought the guys, I bought her one as well (I honestly thought that would be enough)

and trust me, I'm not usually cheap :thumbsup

$5 on a $100 tab, man something tells me you're not petting that putty-tat anytime soon :2 cents:

Well you arn't really getting any service if they are just sitting behind a bar serving drinks. How could they fuck that up? McDonalds is a harder job than that.

what kind of freeloader friends do you hang out with?

alright people, almost 4 am here so I'm gonna hit the sack

thanx alot for the nice discussion, and feel free to continue while I'm asleep :winkwink:


good night! and see ya 2morrow :thumbsup

Thats a terrible tip, lol. I'd still try to hit it. If she is just trying to 'do her job' I'm sure this has happened to her a lot and she doesn't think much of it.

hes not buying the pussy. chances are if she drank 10 shots she probably wont even remember him, let alone remember how much he tipped.

if you count the shots I Bought her, tha'ts 35$, which is like 1/3rd of the money I spent there

I Dont know, I dont usually go out to drink, usually its at a friends house with a few bottles and chicks who want to suck cock :Graucho

I must've seen it differently than you, I figured the drinks I bought her was "tip enough" ya know?

so you get the drinks yourself or they serve them to you?

so in conclusion for me tonight, even though I buy her X amount of drinks, I should still leave her a big Cash Tip? :glugglug

I gotta hang out with you more often :Graucho

:thumbsup

I don't count the shooters that I buy barmaids or waitresses in my tip total, I buy them because they are friendly and entertaining, and they usually buy me a few too.

I usually leave a 1$ for every drink, and depending on how many shooters, I tip between $1 to $5 per round.

gotcha, thanx for the tip :thumbsup

No prob, now let me meet those chicks that like to suck cock. :)

dude I'm telling you

House Party + Booze = all the cocksucking you can imagine :thumbsup

alright, no more for me

goodnight everyone, and thanx again :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

np

dont shit where you eat.

100 cad isnt shit to drop at a bar, last time i was there i dropped 400+ before tip and there was only 2 of us drinking.

dont screw the bartender or take thier flirting serious, its like hooters, they are doing it for tips.

no, just normal. leave her like 15%

you're crazy. hes going out to have a good time. if he can get in the bartenders pants by all means do it. hot bartenders are a dime a dozen.

aren't bartenders not supposed to tip on the job :tongue:

seriously though, if you have never worked in the resturant business your need to know that you have to leave at LEAST 15%. And even if you spend $15 at a bar no one wants to serve you or bring you food and drinks for $1 dollar.

What is the name of the bar ?

I may have already gotten blown from her ............ so if you kiss her you will be tasting my c*ck !

Save your breath bdjuf. You seem like a decent kid and don't need to get caught up in the 'yoyo effect'. I'll give you a hint, you are NOT the string nor do you have control of the hahahahahahahaha Bartenders, dancers, and bar maids are professional grafters for the most part. :winkwink: