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What do you consider cheating?
ie, open mouth kissing, oral sex, or are you one of those people who think cheating has to be intercourse?
Well tonight I went over to a close friend's house for dinner and later in the evening when everyone had a few drinks and a group of us were just relaxing and watching tv. Well, I was sitting next to a female friend of mine who was quite drunk. Out of the blue, she puts her hand on my "special area" and kind of grabbed. I immedietly told her to stop, becuase I do have a girlfriend, but she couldn't make it to the dinner tonight. I know I did nothing wrong, but should I tell my girlfriend about this? Thing is they both know each other and I don't want to start any "drama", lol. The girl actually tried going for it again a couple of times and I moved after repeatedly telling her to knock it off. Sorry, for the rambling. This is all just drunk talk. Go back to sleep! lol |
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I need a beer
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Dump the whore
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wtf
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hit that shit!
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just tell your GF. so she can warn that friend and she'll stop
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turn off computer and go back to the party
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flirting.......some drunk junk grabbing, grinding on the dance floor....a quick kiss with no tongue here and there....
is NOT cheating..... the second your naked or condomed cock touches something moist that belongs to another person....yer cheating. ![]() |
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Once again I apologize for the drunk talk. |
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I need a beer
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No fucking way, you didnt cheat.
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Never tell your woman anything even remotely having to do with another girl. Trust me, even mentioning that she gave you a friendly look could get you a pitchfork through the face.
You remind me of those people that really do cheat and then decide to confess. wtf??? Just keep your mouth shut. |
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LOL that's nothing
Just tell your girl friend so she doesn't get confused ![]()
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wtf
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ohhh to be single
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If you think telling your gf is gonna set her off, how do you think she'll react when she finds out from the other girl? Or someone else that was there?
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wtf
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no, i mean, that rule is just for us guys, if our woman does that she's cheating. |
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Don't mention it, if it bothers you just stay away from her, I know it's going to be tough, I've been doing it for 14 years
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One way to approach the situation is to think what YOU would like to know if the roles were reversed. (ie., your girl went to the party and some drunk friend put his hand on her, etc)
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Tell her before her friend does.
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Well its not cheating, but you should tell your g/f about that. Cause the girl is not a very good friend for your women if she trying to have you in the bed. And if your g/f find out about it and you didin't told her before, your going to be the one in trouble.
But thats not cheating what you did. Cheating for me would be like if you would of let the girl continue what she doing, or kissing her or something. I know one thing is that if I know a girl is trying to get my man and he doesent do nothing about it and let her do what she wants, he's a dead man. |
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DO NOT TELL HERE! ANYONE WHO IS TELLING U TO IS AN IDIOT AND THE LAST SEX THEY GOT IS FROM A PRIEST!
dude! think about it u did nothing wrong! this is women we are talking about. u tell her some chick grabbed your balls she is gonna tell u u shouldnt hang around that group of friends without her etc. she will also automatically think that u had something to do with it because u felt guilty enough to tell her. just keep your mouth shut and all should be good. |
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If what I'm doing might hurt the person I'm with, I consider it cheating. I would never even spend time alone with another guy (talking or whatever), much less hug, kiss or in any way molest another guy. If I'm in a committed relationship, I'm committed all the way. I know other people feel differently, but I just feel that if you know it would hurt the person you claim to love, you shouldn't do it.
I don't know what to tell you about your girlfriend. She might get mad at you and think you had something to do with it, but she might also think you're being honest and it might make her trust you more. Depends on what type of person she is. I guess, just think of whether it would bother YOU if SHE did it with someone else. Would it bother you if she had sex with another guy? If was kissing another guy? If she held another guy's hand? If it would bother you, don't do it. And if it wouldn't bother you, then maybe you shouldn't be in a serious relationship at that time. |
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Personally I would tell her.
There are two factors that I believe contribute to a successful relationship: a) Honesty .. yah yah same old boring answer b) A desire to not inflict harm on your partner. IMO .. keeping that from her would be breaking both rules. You'd be showing her that you're not honest and that you don't care enough for her know what happens when she's not around. To answer your question, and to destroy my credibility.. lol .. my opinion about cheating is that it has to be emotional. If my wife fucked someone else I wouldn't be hurt as long as she was up-front about it and reassured me that it was just for fun and there's no lingering strings. If she had dinner with another guy, received flowers, went on a vacation, hugged and kissed him, held hands and displayed affection on an ongoing basis.. that would be cheating to me and I'd be worried. .. but I know that's not common. My wife and I are very secure in our relationship and open when it comes to sex. To us love and sex are two very different things. |
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That certainly aint cheating tell the gf and don't worry about it. Tell the other girl to go and fondle someone else.
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We're raised with the idea that sex is to be shared only with someone that we love. That it's sacred. That it's special. So it's normal to think that if two people fuck they must be in love. Even if on the outside you don't believe it.. most people believe that deep down inside because of child-hood upbringings. So getting over that idea isn't easy, and it's certainly not common to find people that are able to. Personally I find the idea of my wife fucking another guy erotic .. and many would consider me a freak for that.. lol. Some people will kid themselves and say "it's only cheating if there's emotion involved" so they can feel better about fooling around. But they have to put themselves in the position where they witness their partner fucking someone else. If it honestly doesn't bother them.. and if they even find it a turn on .. then they truly believe that sex and love are distinct. Otherwise they're full of shit. |
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don't say anything
if you don't want the free bj's or whatever she was offering..you will be able to dodge her advances |
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Tell your girlfriend and don't forget to add "It's not my fault if I'm irrisitable"
Then watch them fight... |
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Tell your gf that her friend is a bitch and was hitting on you. It's pretty simple...
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don;t tell her, u stoped her advances that was good enuff
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Tell your girlfriend about it while you're fucking her... Then hold on for the ride.
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