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Originally posted by garett
Personally I would tell her.
There are two factors that I believe contribute to a successful relationship:
a) Honesty .. yah yah same old boring answer
b) A desire to not inflict harm on your partner.
IMO .. keeping that from her would be breaking both rules. You'd be showing her that you're not honest and that you don't care enough for her know what happens when she's not around.
To answer your question, and to destroy my credibility.. lol .. my opinion about cheating is that it has to be emotional. If my wife fucked someone else I wouldn't be hurt as long as she was up-front about it and reassured me that it was just for fun and there's no lingering strings.
If she had dinner with another guy, received flowers, went on a vacation, hugged and kissed him, held hands and displayed affection on an ongoing basis.. that would be cheating to me and I'd be worried.
.. but I know that's not common. My wife and I are very secure in our relationship and open when it comes to sex. To us love and sex are two very different things.
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I'm actually quite good friends with the girl that pulled the move on me and I remember having a simalar conversation about cheating a loooong time ago. She believes it's not cheating unless you're emotionally attatched. But personally I could not even bare the thought of having my girlfriend or wife fucking some guy.