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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I'm actually quite good friends with the girl that pulled the move on me and I remember having a simalar conversation about cheating a loooong time ago. She believes it's not cheating unless you're emotionally attatched. But personally I could not even bare the thought of having my girlfriend or wife fucking some guy.
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Most other people can't either. You've got to be very secure in youre relationship, have a VERY open line of communication and bear the *mutual* opinion that sex != love.
We're raised with the idea that sex is to be shared only with someone that we love. That it's sacred. That it's special. So it's normal to think that if two people fuck they must be in love. Even if on the outside you don't believe it.. most people believe that deep down inside because of child-hood upbringings.
So getting over that idea isn't easy, and it's certainly not common to find people that are able to. Personally I find the idea of my wife fucking another guy erotic .. and many would consider me a freak for that.. lol.
Some people will kid themselves and say "it's only cheating if there's emotion involved" so they can feel better about fooling around. But they have to put themselves in the position where they witness their partner fucking someone else. If it honestly doesn't bother them.. and if they even find it a turn on .. then they truly believe that sex and love are distinct. Otherwise they're full of shit.