Please remove me from the Miss GFY contest.. Rude People here :-(

[HAPPYPEEKERS]

Here is the deal...
I wrote a message on this board last night about trading pics or a sig for a good camera because mine sux and I have seen plenty of girls ask for stuff on this board over the past year.... then I went to bed... My husband wrote FOR ME in the rest of the threads and I just woke up to read it..

I am sitting here crying right now.. some of your really hurt my feelings.. I was just asking about a trade.. I did not think that people would put me down and talk mean about me, insult me and make me freakin cry!!!!!
I honestly thought more of the people on this board.... I never ever would have even posted anything if I thought that people would be mean and ugly and insulting to me.. I feel so terrible.

My feelings are really hurt and just so everyone knows.. I will take my name off of the Miss GFY contest and I will not post here anymore.. I am sorry that everyone does not like me that much.. My feelings are really hurt. I had no idea that I had done anything to anyone on this board but I do see now that some of you treat people like shit and try to hurt their feelings.. well congrats.. I never get upset like this and I am just bawling over being called ugly and more or less stupid.. :-(((

I will not post on GFY anymore .. even though you really have a great message board.. I honestly think that people should have a little more respect for women on this board.

I cant belive some of you were so mean..
Today is my daughters birthday and you have ruined my day and i just cant stop crying.

Sorry for the trouble and have a nice day
April

[sexsup]

There are not only idiots on GFY April, dont give too much importance to what people said here, continue to post here and continue your Miss GFY thing. Cheers

[Joetanto]

damn are you 12? get over it!

[jhauser]

Dont let other peoples opinions matter. BE you BE happy ~

[Joesho]

Hang in there Babe, do not let the assholes ruin your day, or your chance to recieve some really great prizes as well as exposure....

There are good people here too, and most of the dudes making stupid personal comments, couldn't even get a cyberdate, let alone find someone in real life, their opinions should just roll past you.... stick around, I for one will mark you high in some categories just cause you have the fortitude to say fuck you to the asshole haters..... plus if all the good people like you leave cause of the assholes, then the assholes win...... now take a deep breath, and go enjoy your day with your daughter...she is way more important, than a bunch of dumb fucks, trying to entertain themselves!

[broke]

This has to be a joke.

[KRL]

You shouldn't come anywhere near this board unless you have thick skin.

I agree there are a lot of sharp tongued people here that have zero respect for women, but its the nature of the beast. This board is called GoFuckYourself.com. Guys are here to fuck around and be assholes pretty much, with just a few exceptions.

You have to be able to laugh everything that is said here off or you'll either end up crying like you are or want to go and kill somebody.

This sandbox is a rough one to play in no doubt about it.

[=^..^=]

well I didnt have any thing to do with THIS one . so let me say:

yes! the members on this board can be REALLY fucking harsh
not just guys girls too (yes I give ppl a hard time too, not often , but I admit I do)

the board IS called gofuckyourself - and I guess it sort of gives you an idea of what to expect when you come here

don't worry too much about what anyone says here - half the time it's just keyboard warriors and most ppl here arent that bad -they just use the board as an excuse to vent coz they haven't got anywhere else to do it.


Don't take to heart being called ugly or stupid or whatever they said , they call EVERYONE that at some point (yes! even the playboy bunnies)


it's a shame to see you drop out of the miss gfy contest, however I must say that it' IS gonna be a bitch fight/insult/backstab feista. just the thread asking for prize donations turned pretty ugly

all in all this ia a really good board - you just learn to ignore the idiots
(add them to your ignore list if you have to)

dont feel liek you have to leave the board.
just hold your chin up and tell peopel to GO FUCK THEMSELVES!

[DR_PHIL]

that sucks..there are plenty of other boards..good luck

[Joesho]

Originally posted by =^..^=
well I didnt have any thing to do with THIS one . so let me say:

yes! the members on this board can be REALLY fucking harsh
not just guys girls too (yes I give ppl a hard time too, not often , but I admit I do)

the board IS called gofuckyourself - and I guess it sort of gives you an idea of what to expect when you come here

don't worry too much about what anyone says here - half the time it's just keyboard warriors and most ppl here arent that bad -they just use the board as an excuse to vent coz they haven't got anywhere else to do it.


Don't take to heart being called ugly or stupid or whatever they said , they call EVERYONE that at some point (yes! even the playboy bunnies)


it's a shame to see you drop out of the miss gfy contest, however I must say that it' IS gonna be a bitch fight/insult/backstab feista. just the thread asking for prize donations turned pretty ugly

all in all this ia a really good board - you just learn to ignore the idiots
(add them to your ignore list if you have to)

dont feel liek you have to leave the board.
just hold your chin up and tell peopel to GO FUCK THEMSELVES!

[PMGames]

totally agree with =^..^=

Place is called go fuck yourself, so it kinda comes with that attitude.

Also, look at those that are slamming you,.....normally they are just professional posters....they don't even own their own site...just have a referring link in their sig.....they just sit here all day long and post....just because they have a high post count doesn't mean they are anyone in the business....they just spend a ton of time posting, while the rest of us actually work and build businesses and lives worth having.

Don't take any of this personally too...myself and friends of mine here in philly have had fun over the last year years....some of these big alter ego's seem tough and big online...then when we find the fucker at one of the shows, it ends up being this little pimpled face dweeb. All I can say...don't fuck with philly. lol.

Good luck with your site, and I hope you make out with the camera....and don't get caught up in the drama.

[Rictor]

Originally posted by =^..^=
Don't take to heart being called ugly or stupid or whatever they said , they call EVERYONE that at some point (yes! even the playboy bunnies)

Playboy bunnies are ugly skanks. I hate fake tits, excessive makeup, and bleached blonde hair.

[mailman]

WELCOME TO GFY!

NOW GET OVER IT!

you comming here and looking to get 500$ for a camera in the sig forum is why you got beat up on.

first off you were breaking the rules you were not to be in there selling and i know you were not selling you were "" TRADING "" as you call it and that makes it okay... never the less still lame and against the rules..

later you talk about how well your sites do.. then just buy you own camera big baller, if your doing so well yet you cant spring 500$ bucks later to find out you can get what you want for even 350 and you still cant afford that??

I dunno... welcome to reality!

[Theo]

hey April, this is only a board and people here more than often posts things that do not really mean them, but anyway others opinion shouldn't affect you. Never let this board or any other board affect your life.

[C_U_Next_Tuesday]

Thick skin is the key word here.. this is a rough board and you got to be able to shrug this shit off and give back as hard as you get in here. Im very rough around the edges and not much bothers me when people are fucking dickweeds..

JUst remember the only opinion about yourself that counts is your own..

fuck the haters.. stick around girl!

[JFK]

Originally posted by KRL
You shouldn't come anywhere near this board unless you have thick skin.

I agree there are a lot of sharp tongued people here that have zero respect for women, but its the nature of the beast. This board is called GoFuckYourself.com. Guys are here to fuck around and be assholes pretty much, with just a few exceptions.

You have to be able to laugh everything that is said here off or you'll either end up crying like you are or want to go and kill somebody.

This sandbox is a rough one to play in no doubt about it.

KRL your first sentence says it all

[uvort]

Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
hey April, this is only a board and people here more than often posts things that do not really mean them, but anyway others opinion shouldn't affect you. Never let this board or any other board affect your life.

well said

[=^..^=]

Originally posted by Rictor


Playboy bunnies are ugly skanks. I hate fake tits, excessive makeup, and bleached blonde hair.

see?


Seriosuly - the winner of miss GFY will be the girl with the thickest skin
you ever seen those girls on shows liek American Idol and survivor and they get all teary eyed and cry - and that is around ppl who are spose to be NICE!
it's gonna be a milion times worse here.


I understand why a lot of chicks havent enetered miss GFY it's gonna be the online version of Hell in a Cell

[polish_aristocrat]

Originally posted by Rictor


Playboy bunnies are ugly skanks. I hate fake tits, excessive makeup, and bleached blonde hair.

i agree

[HS-Trixxxia]

Hi April,

First, let me say welcome to GFY - I see they have baptized you
KRL pretty much summed it up by advising that here, they attack first and ask questions later.

Let me tell you a little about what the problem was -
Women generally hear about this forum from other sources and see it as a good opportunity to make a grand entrance - true in most cases, not here. The first thing you must do when entering GFY for the first time is - get a nick, but read for about 1-3 weeks until you have a feel of these 'colorful' characters. See how they treat the 'newbies' when they come in with a 'splash' - your tactic has to be opposite to that. Come in quietly and post when you feel comfortable - and never, ever ask for something you haven't worked your ass for.

BTW, as for your camera - start a quality thread which will get good responses & be the thread of the day, and you'll get a nice camera from GFY (in about 2-3 weeks).

Please don't take offense and don't waste any tears on a board insults! It's your child's birthday - enjoy that blessing today!

Have fun!

Trixxxia

[malakajoe]

I have read the other thread that upset you. In all honesty, for GFY...it wasn't that harsh. Just laugh it off. Your hubby seemed to fight right back with them, and when that happens...expect it to get worse. But again, I didn't think it was that bad.

If you are going to enter Missy GFY, you have to expect worse than that. People are going to rate you and judge you. Probably be 1000 times worse and very critical....or be just plain assholes to you.

I just think you need to realize people here are just asses and laugh it off. Don't let it ruin your day.

[Buff]

Deeprub's wife:

I don't know you, and I don't know Deeprub, but I hope you are not really upset. If you want to feel better, I urge you to do the opposite of what your plan seems to be. Don't withdraw from this message board -- rather, post more and then come to some conventions.

Like the Philly guy up there said -- when you get a look at the people calling you names, you will be able to laugh like you've never laughed before.

[TheSenator]

Go Fuck Yourself

"Is this not a barber shop(GoFuckYourSelf.com)?"

If you can't speak honestly here...than where else can a webmaster go?

[Theo]

thanks uvort

Originally posted by =^..^=

you ever seen those girls on shows liek American Idol and survivor and they get all teary eyed and cry - and that is around ppl who are spose to be NICE!
it's gonna be a milion times worse here.

the winner could easily take part and win on FEAR FACTOR as well !

[Funbrunette]

See what you people did! SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!

[JFK]

Originally posted by Funbrunette
See what you people did! SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!

Hey FB , have you entered yet ?

[Intrigue]

don't let the assholes get you (there's alot in life, let alone here). Definitley don't let it affect your personal life, it's all irrelevant to your everyday life. so go enjoy your daughters birthday, make sure she gets hooked up with some good gifts, and just move on, blow of what they said.

[TheNotorious]

Originally posted by Joetanto
damn are you 12? get over it!

//The Notorious

[DarkJedi]

Originally posted by deeprubs' wife
waaaaa !! waaaaa !!!

[TheEnforcer]

Fuck em. Stay in the contest and keep posting!!

[dougeetx]

Hey Sweetie! Cheer up! About 95% of the people here on GFY are azzholes! Trust me! I know! Fuck what most of the people say here. There are some really kewl people here, too, though!

1) Lensman (*the gawd of the board*)
2) Joesho
3) LadyMischief (*salt of the Earth...love ya GF*)
4) Kat
5) Gus
6) Most peeps selling traffic

and a few others (myself included in that).

So, put on your tough skin and like Jay-Z says, knock the "Dirt Off Your Shoulder".

[Funbrunette]

Originally posted by JFK


Hey FB , have you entered yet ?

After what they did to that poor girl....lol NO WAY!

[angeleyes]

You are a cute girl, but you are taking things way too seriously. The people calling you names aren't your friends... who cares? I've been called uglier than a crack whore and due to some unflattering photos I've even been called fat and I'm a size 1. Just blow them off.. it's not worth the energy to get worked up about it.

[Elli]

Originally posted by deeprubs' wife
Here is the deal...

I am sitting here crying right now.. some of your really hurt my feelings.. I was just asking about a trade.. I did not think that people would put me down and talk mean about me, insult me and make me freakin cry!!!!!
I honestly thought more of the people on this board.... I never ever would have even posted anything if I thought that people would be mean and ugly and insulting to me.. I feel so terrible.

April, I lurked on GFY for months before getting the gumption up to actually post for that very reason. It's taken me a year to thicken my skin, and I still get hurt by some of the comments, but I try not to show it. It's part of the fun of the board, watching other people get flamed, but eventually those flames will turn their attention on you, no matter how nice and sweet and lovable your adorable self may be. The trick is not to take it too serioulsy, because if you do, then that's just too bad for your own piece of mind and it attracts the haters like blood in the water. Just look up any flame war thread.

Here's a quick GFY summary:
beautiful women get flamed for dying their hair, getting implants, tanning, not tanning, posting pictures (attention whore), not posting pictures (tease, too shy), bad picture quality, not knowing obscure site development trivia

talented designers get flamed for charging too much, doing too simple designs, doing too fancy designs, not guaranteeing sales from their designs

talented photographers get flamed for posting too many pictures (spamming), not posting enough pictures (selfish), bad photo quality, ugly models, sexing up the models, not sexing up the models

post whores get flamed for whoring, for sporting an unfashionable sig, for not posting if they're been absent

successful business people get flamed for starting in mainstream (infiltrator), moving to mainstream (selling out), retiring too early (showoff), not retiring yet (obviously not that successful), trying to give advice, not giving enough advice

This list is by no means exhaustive. Just keep your chin up, April. And it's ok to say
now and then to tell people to mind their own business.

[Va2k]

Hehehe I know how you feel, try being a man and new here.. I was dogged, made fun of, and everything else! Was told I have a little weewee etc... At first It upset the piss out of me. I did like you " fuck em i just wont post no more " But after really thinking about it I said screw that and came back and took the abuse.. Glad I did I have met alot of nice helpful people.


Some people just don't know how to be nice *shrugs* Just keep posting and ignore the ones that you really don't like.. Hell if you want use the ignore button in your profile and just put int their names and bam you wont have to see shit.



If ya need help let me know I can try to help with what ever, same goes for ya hubby, I didnt see the thread went looking for it but didnt see it *shrugs*


Have a good one

TOM

[SoundMan]

it is good your quiting now.

other wise it could have been much worst in the contest.

good luck and happy birthday.

[Elli]

Actually, I just read the other thread here:
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...hreadid=259444

April, it looks like you defended yourself quite well, if not a little heavy-handed.

Your opponents do have a point. Trading is equivalent to selling in the sig market. Your individual name hasn't been registered for the prescribed duration of time. And you don't have that many posts under your belt that would earn you a 300$+ sale for your signature.

Wipe up those tears, have a good birthday, and read the rules before posting. People are going to jump down your throat anyway, so you might as well make sure it's for a good reason.

You said you weren't a newbie at GFY, and yet you seem surprised at the reaction your post got. Silly.

Welcome to GFY

[angeleyes]

Originally posted by va2k
Hehehe I know how you feel, try being a man and new here.. I was dogged, made fun of, and everything else! Was told I have a little weewee etc... At first It upset the piss out of me. I did like you " fuck em i just wont post no more " But after really thinking about it I said screw that and came back and took the abuse.. Glad I did I have met alot of nice helpful people.


Some people just don't know how to be nice *shrugs* Just keep posting and ignore the ones that you really don't like.. Hell if you want use the ignore button in your profile and just put int their names and bam you wont have to see shit.



If ya need help let me know I can try to help with what ever, same goes for ya hubby, I didnt see the thread went looking for it but didnt see it *shrugs*


Have a good one

TOM

Excellent Post Elli and so much truth to it.

[pink_in_the_middle]

April I just sent you an e-mail

[Elli]

Originally posted by angeleyes


Excellent Post Elli and so much truth to it.

You quoted va2k's post, but I'll just say thanks

[TheJimmy]

Originally posted by KRL
You shouldn't come anywhere near this board unless you have thick skin.

I agree there are a lot of sharp tongued people here that have zero respect for women, but its the nature of the beast. This board is called GoFuckYourself.com. Guys are here to fuck around and be assholes pretty much, with just a few exceptions.

You have to be able to laugh everything that is said here off or you'll either end up crying like you are or want to go and kill somebody.

This sandbox is a rough one to play in no doubt about it.

what he said ^^^^


ok, so I'm plagerizin' a smart guy again...

[LadyMischief]

All you have to do is read some of the posts around here to know that you should have known better. I don't mean to be callous or crass, but if you can't take the heat, don't walk into the fucking kitchen. If you honestly didn't know better I'm sorry, but to expect anything but attitude is very naive if you've actually read the board.

[Illicit]

This is GFY. What do you expect ? This board is a harsh environment, if you cant take the heat get out of the kitchen.

[CrazyNakedChick]

pasted from your original thread in the sig sale forum:

dollface, don't let the rowdies get to you. i just read this entire thread and i can tell you they were being gentle in comparison.

you have to be a fighter to make it on this board, and very self confident. trust in your own abilities and you'll find the opinions of complete strangers really hold no value.

you aren't really going to let some slob you have never met ruin your day are you?

this goes for any forum, pick your chin up and do your own thing. you'll attract others like yourself and find your own groovy niche to do business with.

[shepherd]

Sig whores and other gfy'ers just try to get post count saying whatever weather it's funny, crazy, shocking, hurtful, lies, etc.
Just look at it as one big game because that's all it really is.
I have to tell you, when I first saw few posts about some subjects that matters to me I was shocked and hurt as well. What did I do? Moved to another thread

[Marcus Aurelius]

sorry to hear that. The opinions of others I've found have no influence whatsoever on the happiness you achieve in life. Dont let the immature comments of the few outweigh the decency of the many. Hell half of them were probably just pumping their postcount for sig day and couldnt think of anything intelligent or insightful to say. Good luck with your endeavours and have a great day, dont let this place trample you, because it will certainly try.

[TheMob]

are you fucking kidding me? i'd think that someone who joins a miss contest at an adult webmaster forum called Go Fuck Yourself would have enough self esteem to just laugh at idiots who post stupid offencing shit. if you're serious with this, i'm sorry.. but then you shouldn't be here. if not, this is the slimiest fucking way to get votes. give me a break..

now have a nice day and go fuck yourself!

[chrisp420]

[CDSmith]

Originally posted by CrazyNakedChick
you aren't really going to let some slob you have never met ruin your day are you?

Words to live by right there.


Don't feel intimidated and hurt by ignorant slobs. Feel sorry for them.

Ignorant slobs are only trying to compensate for their tiny peepees and miniscule senses of self-worth.


Don't quite GFY over that!

[baddog]

Originally posted by =^..^=




Seriosuly - the winner of miss GFY will be the girl with the thickest skin

now that is a scary thought