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"Tala posted on GFY the day after her surgery!!"
To those saying she deserves no sympothy because she came on GFY the next day....
My Fiance (GF at the time) had the same EXACT operation as Tala did. Cut from hip to hip to remove a tumor planted on her uterus but we originally thought it was on her ovary. Anyhow, she was in hospital for 3 days, then went home. Yes she was in extreme pain but she WAS able to move somewhat, and even get on the pc for few hours each day if needed. she STILL gets pain to this day! months later!! Just wanted to let you know that it IS possible. Doesnt mean she wasnt in pain, or that maybe she didnt have the surgery. Now as far as people not paying what they promised, well i am one of those people. Not because i havent got the money, or that i didnt think it was deserved, but because i simply forgot to take care of it. I dont know how much (if any) money this thread generated, but i have no way to track it, sorry. But as for my money, if it wasnt for Tooties post about people missing the payments, i would have never made mine. Check is going out and im sorry Tala, i understand what your going through, it trully isnt easy. ![]()
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Don't be dumb and risk your health/healing for stupid crap like posting on GFY
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GF went through same exact thing
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In fact, I'm laid out flat on the couch right now posting...just goes to prove that you don't actually have to sit at a desk to get your work done. |
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Why don't you keep your thoughts for yourself, asshole.... Do you even have a clue of what Tala is going through??? ![]() ![]() ![]()
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In fact, that only pisses me off more. If she doesn't give enough of a fuck about herself not to do self-destructive things to herself, that makes me question her worthiness of charity. It's like people on the list for liver transplants, you promise not to ever drink and if they catch you drinking before the transplant, you get kicked off the list. |
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Yep I had two c-sections.. it's the same incision hip to hip closed with staples and excrutiatingly painful. I was up and moving the first day. You don't have much choice when you have to be up feeding a newborn :P I get to do it again in just over a month (march 4th).
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i also remember how helpful you were when my GF was going through it all, even from when we got the first news when we were scared about it being cancerous and all ... ![]()
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What does it say about worthiness of charity that she can't get a check cashed and can't get paypal?
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Still at least 6-8 weeks for FULL recovery for most people, and for myself it's generally 6-8 months (because of my abdominal bleeding). |
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I had a brain surgery before 6 months....but i was in hospital 2 weeks after the surgery...But agaion that is brain surgery and it is much danger..
I really think she was able to go home after one day from surgery,couse i know couple guys who did Don't listen to them Tala.. ![]()
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She was in alot of pain the first day and just slept but she was sitting up watching television and doing crossword puzzles the next day and he doctor actually told her to get up and move around as long as she could bear the pain. He said it would make her heal faster as long as she didn't overdo it. If you need anything while you're healing please don't hesitate to let me know and I'll do whatever I can. Having a baby is hard enough. I can only imagine how hard it will be for you having to have surgery, too. ![]() |
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My youngest was completely breach when I went into labor, but no one knew it at the onset. When nothing was happening right, other than the contractions from hell, they took me for an ultrasound and found out that his butt was where his head was supposed to be and his ankles where next to his ears. So... C-Section it was.
That wasn't a bit problem. Some pain, but I was up and around within a few hours. They told me to walk as much as possible while I was in the hospital. Well... after having a baby all you ladies know they won't let you go home until they know the plumbing is all working correctly. For some reason mine wasn't. I had the nurses constantly telling me to walk ..walk...walk.. and I did and did and did. Still nothing working right. After 8 days in the hospital, my son (they kept him there because I hadn't been released) developed a fever. After some tests it was determined that he had spinal meningitus. He did not show any of the classic signs, but the tests were positive. If we had gone home after a day or two as scheduled, it's likely I would have put it off as a bug, took him to the peds doc and got meds, etc. Likely he would have ended up brain damaged or dead. At day 10, they decided to open me up and literally pull everything out and check it. They found a hole in my large intestine that was likely made during the C-section. Everything that was supposed to be going through my body and out the other end, was instead spilling into my abdomen and slowly poisoning me. They repaired the hole, put everything back where it belonged, and there I stayeds for another 10 days. My son was there for 21 total. When I came home I had my C-section incision and an incision from the second surgery that began a couple of inches below my boobs and ran all the way down to the C-section incision. They told me not to sit for long periods, not to drive for 6 weeks, etc while the muscles heeled up (never thought you used stomach muscles to drive, but believe me..you do). I did too much too soon, because that's just how I am. I have a high pain threshold and if it hurts I just work through it. But.. all in all.. if things hadn't been wrong with me, we'd have gone home on time after a day or two. It would have delayed my son's diagnosis and I would have thought my problems were just related to the C-section and not complained because "I'm a tough girl and don't want to be a whiney baby". One or the both of us would have likely be dead.
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i wasnt able to post here for 6 days after my surgery
I couldnt even sit up in bed by myself, much less worry about GFY
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not sure I get it... I don't know any of the details of this, but someof you are acting like posting on GFY is hard or strenuous. I read GFY when I'm taking a break.. it's easy.. someone who just had surgery could be laying there watching TV, or laying there clicking a mouse and reading a message board... unless they had surgery on there arms or hands, then I really don't see the problem. am I missing something here?
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Ugh. I'm too squeemish to read this thread. I think I'm gonna toss my cookies.
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