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detoxed · 01-22-2004, 01:40 PM

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GonePhishing · 01-22-2004, 01:41 PM

I would think it still depends on the person/persons who are in the relationship. I know several couples that are open, and several that are very monogomous.

pornkitten · 01-22-2004, 01:48 PM

I guess Im one of the few, although I am single and not having sex sucks! Guess I will find the right man someday.

detoxed · 01-22-2004, 01:51 PM

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Originally posted by pornkitten
I guess Im one of the few, although I am single and not having sex sucks! Guess I will find the right man someday.

post your ICQ and I can flirt with you baby

TampaJim · 01-22-2004, 01:53 PM

I won't date a girl seriously unless:

1. She is Hot, Model material. Call it superficial, beauty is on the inside, whatever... I have found that hot girls are just as nice as ugly ones, so why not date a hot one.

2. She has to like other girls, and actively bring other hot girls into our bedroom.

3. She has to understand that I am a man, and I am going to bang some other chick at some point. I agree to not throw it in her face, (ie: her friends or picking up another girl in front of her)

4. She has to stay monogamous to me. It is much easier for girls to only fuck one person than guys.

I am currently enjoying a relationship like this now. We are both very, very happy.

MPBWhitney · 01-22-2004, 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TampaJim
I won't date a girl seriously unless:

1. She is Hot, Model material. Call it superficial, beauty is on the inside, whatever... I have found that hot girls are just as nice as ugly ones, so why not date a hot one.

2. She has to like other girls, and actively bring other hot girls into our bedroom.

3. She has to understand that I am a man, and I am going to bang some other chick at some point. I agree to not throw it in her face, (ie: her friends or picking up another girl in front of her)

4. She has to stay monogamous to me. It is much easier for girls to only fuck one person than guys.

I am currently enjoying a relationship like this now. We are both very, very happy.

Wow well at leat you are honesty and it sounds as tho both you and your partner benefit from your guidlines.

PlayGirl · 01-22-2004, 02:00 PM

I think for most people these days, monogamy is no longer essential.

But for me, I am very much in love with my man and have no problem being faithful.

And hell no, I would not share him with anyone.

CraigA · 01-22-2004, 02:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TampaJim
I won't date a girl seriously unless:

1. She is Hot, Model material. Call it superficial, beauty is on the inside, whatever... I have found that hot girls are just as nice as ugly ones, so why not date a hot one.

2. She has to like other girls, and actively bring other hot girls into our bedroom.

3. She has to understand that I am a man, and I am going to bang some other chick at some point. I agree to not throw it in her face, (ie: her friends or picking up another girl in front of her)

4. She has to stay monogamous to me. It is much easier for girls to only fuck one person than guys.

I am currently enjoying a relationship like this now. We are both very, very happy.

Just in case you haven't heard, man stands upright now and doesn't carry around a club to beat down its enemies.
Male chauvanism at its worst. I know this industry tends to warp a few minds but wow.

BTW, glad you and your mate are happy. I guess that's all that matters. To each its own.

sherie · 01-22-2004, 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TampaJim
I won't date a girl seriously unless:

1. She is Hot, Model material. Call it superficial, beauty is on the inside, whatever... I have found that hot girls are just as nice as ugly ones, so why not date a hot one.

2. She has to like other girls, and actively bring other hot girls into our bedroom.

3. She has to understand that I am a man, and I am going to bang some other chick at some point. I agree to not throw it in her face, (ie: her friends or picking up another girl in front of her)

4. She has to stay monogamous to me. It is much easier for girls to only fuck one person than guys.

I am currently enjoying a relationship like this now. We are both very, very happy.

Number 4 is a fucking joke. Glad to see you have found an idiot to accommodate that one LOL ;)

Nikoleta · 01-22-2004, 02:26 PM

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Originally posted by PlayGirl
I am very much in love with my man and have no problem being faithful.

And hell no, I would not share him with anyone.

same here

AmeliaG · 01-22-2004, 02:27 PM

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Originally posted by MPBWhitney
After a very open and candid conversation a friend of mine last nite. I have come to the conclusion that the ideals and "rules" of relationships are evolving. More openly sexual relationships with other people. 3'somes 4'somes... bisexuality.

I am a very open non-judgmental person when it comes to people's sexual behaviour as long as you are honest with your partner(s).

So what is the deal? Do you guys think the days of banging the same wiener or muffin are done?

I would love to see other people's opinions!

Whitney

MPBWhitney · 01-22-2004, 03:04 PM

Hey Amelia~

Hahahah i look evil in that picture.... my eyes r always so red.

Hit me up on ICQ any time.

258589210
Whitney

rocki · 01-22-2004, 03:13 PM

I have never brought a girl into a relationship of mine with a guy so i do not have any opinions on that subject...

i do have a close friend that has been with his girl for about 9 years and they have an open relationship and they are very honest with each other, they are best friends. If the husband happens to kiss some girl at a club he runs home to tell his wife. His wife is not bisexual and they are both deeply in love. His sex drive is much more then her sex drive and she doesn't think that she should regulate him and has no problem with this open relationship. He never has to lie to her or be sneaky. I respect that.

My whole life i didn't believe in any other kinds of relationships other then Monogomous ones... i did not believe in dating or one night stands and I have had probably every guy cheat on me. I even had bf's try to screw my gf's while i was dating them. (like my gf's are not going to tell me)
Girls know when their man is fucking around whether they say something to him or not, they know.

Being cheated on is not what hurts for me, I think being lied to when you thought this person was your best friend is what hurts.

xxxjay · 01-22-2004, 03:46 PM

The sexual morays of today?s society are a lot more open than they used to be. Unfortunately, especially here in the United States, the religious right holds sexual freedoms in the church?s stained glass prisons. The importance of one man / one woman family unit is rammed down people?s throats my the media, government, and schools from an early age ? your average person considers anything else weird or perverted.

With that all being said -- men and women that have these feelings outside of society?s norms must lie to their partner, family, and just about everyone in order live a double life just -- instead of being honest about what they really want. Being dishonest is a lot worse than being sexually open.

Plus, you also can?t forget how jealous, petty, and insecure both men and women get. I think one man / one woman is here to stay, but that?s just my opinion.

StacyCat · 01-22-2004, 04:03 PM

Honesty is the most important part to a relationship.

Im poly. I have a poly family, consisting of a girl that I sleep with and her husband that I dont sleep with. I date other guys and girls, they know about everything.

I dont think that there is one guy or girl out there for me. I envision a close family type unit of a few people, with occasional diversions. I dont think that sex outside of the relationship hurts a solid relationship.

Definatly, dont get into swinging or outside relationships if yours is on the rocks. I have found that open couples tend to have more solid relationships, because they are completly honest with each other. The lack of honesty leads to many more problems than sleeping with other people.

Dwreck · 01-22-2004, 04:17 PM

What an interesting read. You really hit home Rocki that's what I want with my girlfriend.

I need to work on getting laid before anything esle LOL

tony286 · 01-22-2004, 04:41 PM

Swinging and a open marriage are two different beasts. I considering a open relationship a path to pain. Swinging is shared for the most part, where open in going on dates and such. I think if you are only seeing a person to go to dinner and fuck its all happy and very hard not to get attached. Where swinging is we all get together get crazy and then everybody goes home, its pure physical.

MPBWhitney · 01-22-2004, 04:51 PM

Honesty is key in any relationship or friendship. No one likes being decieved and lied to.
Especially if the partner is doing it to save face in the name of their sexual "deviences".

I dont think sex is the only way to share your most intimate motments.

lloyd · 01-22-2004, 04:52 PM

"it doesnt matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home"

guess im just old fashioned.. but more harm than good seems to come of 3somes etc if anyone has serious feelings for the other..

Rick Latona · 01-22-2004, 04:56 PM

Does anyone here think this thread would have gotten so long if it wasn't a cute girl like Whitney that started it?

rocki · 01-22-2004, 05:00 PM

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Originally posted by Rick Latona
Does anyone here think this thread would have gotten so long if it wasn't a cute girl like Whitney that started it?

i think it would have done well becuase it's a great topic but def helps with a sexy ass female starting the thread! heheh

Rick Latona · 01-22-2004, 05:04 PM

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Originally posted by rocki

i think it would have done well becuase it's a great topic but def helps with a sexy ass female starting the thread! heheh

You think? lol, you are a sexy ass female as well. Hot group here. I think I'll hang around and see what happens.

xxxjay · 01-22-2004, 05:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rick Latona
Does anyone here think this thread would have gotten so long if it wasn't a cute girl like Whitney that started it?

I gotta agree with that.

rocki · 01-22-2004, 05:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rick Latona

You think? lol, you are a sexy ass female as well. Hot group here. I think I'll hang around and see what happens.

why thank you *batting eyes*

call me 602.230.4210

hehe

MPBWhitney · 01-22-2004, 05:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by rocki

i think it would have done well becuase it's a great topic but def helps with a sexy ass female starting the thread! heheh

Cutness def does have its perks!

I'd love to hear your view on the subject Richard ...

01-22-2004, 01:41 PM	#52
GonePhishing Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Blah Posts: 2,474	I would think it still depends on the person/persons who are in the relationship. I know several couples that are open, and several that are very monogomous. __________________ If Biff Fucks My Mom... I Might Never Be Born...

01-22-2004, 01:53 PM	#55
TampaJim Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 207	I won't date a girl seriously unless: 1. She is Hot, Model material. Call it superficial, beauty is on the inside, whatever... I have found that hot girls are just as nice as ugly ones, so why not date a hot one. 2. She has to like other girls, and actively bring other hot girls into our bedroom. 3. She has to understand that I am a man, and I am going to bang some other chick at some point. I agree to not throw it in her face, (ie: her friends or picking up another girl in front of her) 4. She has to stay monogamous to me. It is much easier for girls to only fuck one person than guys. I am currently enjoying a relationship like this now. We are both very, very happy. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

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xxxjay Tube groupie. Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: LoScandalous, CA Posts: 13,482	The sexual morays of today?s society are a lot more open than they used to be. Unfortunately, especially here in the United States, the religious right holds sexual freedoms in the church?s stained glass prisons. The importance of one man / one woman family unit is rammed down people?s throats my the media, government, and schools from an early age ? your average person considers anything else weird or perverted. With that all being said -- men and women that have these feelings outside of society?s norms must lie to their partner, family, and just about everyone in order live a double life just -- instead of being honest about what they really want. Being dishonest is a lot worse than being sexually open. Plus, you also can?t forget how jealous, petty, and insecure both men and women get. I think one man / one woman is here to stay, but that?s just my opinion. __________________ http://donttellmehowtoruinmylife.com/ - http://www.jmdigitalmarketing.com/my...s-and-reviews/ - http://www.wouldyouhitit.org - http://shinyobjectreviews.com/

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detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	50 cheating whores

01-22-2004, 01:48 PM	#53
pornkitten Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,412	I guess Im one of the few, although I am single and not having sex sucks! Guess I will find the right man someday.

01-22-2004, 02:00 PM	#57
PlayGirl Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Sin City Posts: 1,062	I think for most people these days, monogamy is no longer essential. But for me, I am very much in love with my man and have no problem being faithful. And hell no, I would not share him with anyone.

01-22-2004, 03:13 PM	#63
rocki Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Fort Lauderdale Posts: 988	I have never brought a girl into a relationship of mine with a guy so i do not have any opinions on that subject... i do have a close friend that has been with his girl for about 9 years and they have an open relationship and they are very honest with each other, they are best friends. If the husband happens to kiss some girl at a club he runs home to tell his wife. His wife is not bisexual and they are both deeply in love. His sex drive is much more then her sex drive and she doesn't think that she should regulate him and has no problem with this open relationship. He never has to lie to her or be sneaky. I respect that. My whole life i didn't believe in any other kinds of relationships other then Monogomous ones... i did not believe in dating or one night stands and I have had probably every guy cheat on me. I even had bf's try to screw my gf's while i was dating them. (like my gf's are not going to tell me) Girls know when their man is fucking around whether they say something to him or not, they know. Being cheated on is not what hurts for me, I think being lied to when you thought this person was your best friend is what hurts.

01-22-2004, 04:03 PM	#65
StacyCat Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Texas Posts: 1,167	Honesty is the most important part to a relationship. Im poly. I have a poly family, consisting of a girl that I sleep with and her husband that I dont sleep with. I date other guys and girls, they know about everything. I dont think that there is one guy or girl out there for me. I envision a close family type unit of a few people, with occasional diversions. I dont think that sex outside of the relationship hurts a solid relationship. Definatly, dont get into swinging or outside relationships if yours is on the rocks. I have found that open couples tend to have more solid relationships, because they are completly honest with each other. The lack of honesty leads to many more problems than sleeping with other people.

01-22-2004, 04:41 PM	#67
tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	Swinging and a open marriage are two different beasts. I considering a open relationship a path to pain. Swinging is shared for the most part, where open in going on dates and such. I think if you are only seeing a person to go to dinner and fuck its all happy and very hard not to get attached. Where swinging is we all get together get crazy and then everybody goes home, its pure physical.

01-22-2004, 04:51 PM	#68
MPBWhitney Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 507	Honesty is key in any relationship or friendship. No one likes being decieved and lied to. Especially if the partner is doing it to save face in the name of their sexual "deviences". I dont think sex is the only way to share your most intimate motments. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

01-22-2004, 04:52 PM	#69
lloyd Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: 858/604 Posts: 798	"it doesnt matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home" guess im just old fashioned.. but more harm than good seems to come of 3somes etc if anyone has serious feelings for the other..

01-22-2004, 04:56 PM	#70
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