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GonePhishing · 01-09-2004, 02:30 PM

50 pissed wives!

Wizzo · 01-09-2004, 02:30 PM

Go ahead and out them, it's not EpicCash, because they always pay!

pink_in_the_middle · 01-09-2004, 02:32 PM

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Originally posted by Wizzo
Go ahead and out them, it's not EpicCash, because they always pay!

You spam too much LOL ...enough already lol

PissedWife · 01-09-2004, 03:20 PM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

It's an adult related problem...why wouldn't she come to an adult board? Makes sense to me imo.

That is a true statement and that is why I asked here...

My family and friends are not in this business and most of them have outside of the home jobs and get their paychecks at the end of the week.

cold_ice · 01-09-2004, 04:39 PM

What type of business is it?

pink_in_the_middle · 01-09-2004, 10:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PissedWife

That is a true statement and that is why I asked here...

My family and friends are not in this business and most of them have outside of the home jobs and get their paychecks at the end of the week.

Any progress Pissedwife?

xxxdesign-net · 01-09-2004, 10:41 PM

Brad Xtremepay?

Anyhow.. Im sure the company will be pissed about your post and give your husband some crap...

Nonetheless.. the company should be ashamed of themself... Your husband should gave them an ultimatum...

Digipimp · 01-09-2004, 10:54 PM

Man I'm pissed too now I just read this whole thread and there were no tits. Good luck on getting your money, it's always cheaper to kill someone if you're looking for options.

SureFire · 01-09-2004, 11:02 PM

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Originally posted by PissedWife

That is a true statement and that is why I asked here...

My family and friends are not in this business and most of them have outside of the home jobs and get their paychecks at the end of the week.

Sorry but you are silly. You posted on this bb because you wanted to get paid. Hopes it works out for you and your hubby but you should really stay out of his business unless he was behind this post.

pink_in_the_middle · 01-09-2004, 11:07 PM

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Originally posted by SureFire

Sorry but you are silly. You posted on this bb because you wanted to get paid. Hopes it works out for you and your hubby but you should really stay out of his business unless he was behind this post.

Um... wasn't that the plan? To get the attention of these ppl and get paid?

SureFire · 01-09-2004, 11:49 PM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

Um... wasn't that the plan? To get the attention of these ppl and get paid?

Yes, but a wife, husband, girlfriend or whatever shouldn?t post on the behalf of her/his partner here. Apparently, the hubby knew what he was doing and spent money that he could not afford.

xxxoutsourcing · 01-10-2004, 12:44 AM

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Originally posted by PissedWife
What would you guys do if you worked for a company that kept screwing you around with your money?

My husband works for a company thats well known on these boards and has not recieved his pay for last month yet. He also went to Vegas and ended up paying for most things himself while representing this company.

I watch my husband work his heart out and I am very pissed right now that we cannot cash one check that was given to him at internext. The check mind you was for far less than what he earned.

He keeps telling me not to out this company so he can keep his good name however we are sitting on a check for less than half his earnings that we cannot cash and have promises for the other half when it was supposed to be paid on the first of the month and here it's near the tenth of the month.

Also he used his own money to pay for everything at internext which about drained our account.

What would you do in this case? I don't want my husbands name destroyed by this post but I also can't sit back and watch him keep getting ripped off by employers that don't want to pay.

We have been through this twice before with other companies and have not outted those companies either but to me enough is enough.

No company should treat there staff like that.
Now if it's happened before then what have you learned from it to try and prevent it in the future.
It's happening again to him, what are this companies reasons for not paying him or not giving him money to spend in vegas.
Why would your husband spend personal money in Vegas when he knows his family is at home needing money?
New job or not it's not his responsability to entertain clients with personal money, the company should have given him that cash money to entertain clients.
Next time make a note, that he gets the money first from the company and plans the trip so he's not outta pocket.

Why are they paying in halfs, have they no money not enough time to pay.....
They know it's been xmas and new year and for us we make sure everyone has there money early and with bonus so the families can have a great xmas and new year.

I suggest he puts his foot down and says look, pay me what i'm due or i'm leaving.
If they respect him and his work enough they will not want to see him go as he will be to valuble for the company.
You can't let people or companies treat you like that, stand up for yourself, they are not playing fair.

Maybe he should start going in work late and finish early, see how they like it when he fucks with there time and money, differant when the shoes is on the other foot!!!!!

Just me

from what you wrote.

valley hina · 01-10-2004, 12:46 AM

pink_in_the_middle · 01-10-2004, 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SureFire

Yes, but a wife, husband, girlfriend or whatever shouldn?t post on the behalf of her/his partner here. Apparently, the hubby knew what he was doing and spent money that he could not afford.

Sounds to me that he could afford it with the money that is owed.
Men tend to be alot more loyal to their bosses and take abuse. Women tend to think a bit more clearer sometimes.

pussyluver · 01-10-2004, 01:10 AM

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Originally posted by PissedWife

Exactly.

But I wonder just how many companies are out there right now saying hmm is this one of my employees wives?

Are we affecting this persons wife and kids from eating by not paying him?

Are we screwing ourselves because when it comes out who this is this person is creditable enough to take our business down with this post?

Must suck to be a business owner right now and owe your employees while you partied hearty in Vegas huh?

I'll say this, If my husband is not paid in full what he is owed by monday noon EST your names will be outed with all the proof.

Good Luck Guys hope you play the right end of the field. Being stuck out in left field alone will suck at this point.

It really sucks to be in this position. My two cents - It's up to him to out the company if that is going to happen. Your relationship could be on the line! My sig other knows she can log on to any of ten computers here and log on as me at GFY. She also knows not to post, even though there have been some situations that pissed her off - I know you understand what I mean.

Outing that company may or may not be smart? That's more up to your other half. He owes it to you to resolve it in some way. It may be best to move on. Can't say without the details.

Putting on a show in Vegas is part of this biz. If affilates and others think a company is hurting, that could sink that biz.

To sum it up, It's his job, let him play the cards is my advice. If my sig other posted here (she's not in the biz), I'd for sure be pissed.

Wish you well, and sad that this crap happens. Can't tell how many times I've held back because it was the smater thing to do.

PissedWife · 01-10-2004, 01:17 AM

Fortunately my husband was able to afford it.

He does enough work on the side that we had a great christmas without him being paid. He was told he'd be paid weekly, then when we expected a check or paypal from the company he got the story that they paid monthly.

When it came time for Vegas he was told that the money was wired to his account from out of the country, We found out this has not happened yet.

The company that has done this knew my husband was screwed around before and they also knew he wasn't going to put up with it again.

Since I started this post my husband has been made aware of my post. He has also contacted another company about employment. There are many companies looking to hire him and at this point he is as tired of being screwed around as I am tired of watching him get screwed around.

Monday there should be a major annoucement about his future. He is negotiating his new pay and benefits. The company that screwed him over this time will be outted monday. The company that screwed him before he went to this company will also be outted for thier pay tactics and the way they treated me and my husband when he worked for them too.

I am not only making this post to get my husband paid for the work he does but many people in this business are in the same boat. It's sad but because of this there could be major changes in this industry as we are speaking to labor attorneys and finding out very interesting information.

So far we have learned:

Signing a contract while waiting for pay is considered signing under duress and the courts normally throw such contracts out. The courts also can charge the employers that do this with non payment of wages and charge the employer the wages and interest.

We also learned that any company that works an employee over 80 hours a week away from home must pay a per diem pay outside of the normal wages and not just cover hotel and meals.

Those two points above are very interesting to us since the last company he worked for seems to think because they forced us into a contract in order to get paid that they are oblivious to further prosecution.

I suggest if these facts fits the way you have treated one of your employees then you should be watching out because we are about to make sure we get paid whats owed us.

My husband at this point is behind my posting.

Mr. Marks · 01-10-2004, 01:22 AM

if i were you i will find another company who gives good credit to your work and not abuse you

pussyluver · 01-10-2004, 01:29 AM

Good to hear he is behind you in the posting!!! I'd hate to hear a realtionship got screwed over cause of this.

As for non-paying-companies being outed. That helps the industry in the end. Prolly good for them too in the long run.

Sounds like you've been through the mill on this and had some legal advice... Good for all to see!

pussyluver · 01-10-2004, 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by papichulo
if i were you i will find another company who gives good credit to your work and not abuse you

Their intent may of been good, then thay ran out of money??? Or they were assholes.. In anycase, ya need to upfront with those that make your biz work.

pink_in_the_middle · 01-10-2004, 01:37 AM

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Originally posted by pussyluver
My sig other knows she can log on to any of ten computers here and log on as me at GFY. She also knows not to post, even though there have been some situations that pissed her off - I know you understand what I mean.

This exact sentence "I know you know what I mean" made my hubby and I laugh our our asses off

pussyluver · 01-10-2004, 01:37 AM

Damn, I'd pay to know who this is now!!!!! I have some ideas!

A GFY drama thing.

For you, it is a bigger deal I understad. Hey, this could affect where I send traffic.

My ICQ if you care to drop the name, I will remain silent on it.

169903487

PissedWife · 01-10-2004, 01:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by papichulo
if i were you i will find another company who gives good credit to your work and not abuse you

Exactly what we are doing ... Monday should be a good day.

pink_in_the_middle · 01-10-2004, 01:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PissedWife

Exactly what we are doing ... Monday should be a good day.

Good decision

pussyluver · 01-10-2004, 01:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

This exact sentence "I know you know what I mean" made my hubby and I laugh our our asses off

Well, at least you got a laugh out of it. Have to tell ya, there have been times when I was worried and considered changing passwords. She was ready to kill (for the FBI - figure of speach) over some BS on sponsors. I better shut up before I dig a hole

pink_in_the_middle · 01-10-2004, 02:05 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by pussyluver

Well, at least you got a laugh out of it. Have to tell ya, there have been times when I was worried and considered changing passwords. She was ready to kill (for the FBI - figure of speach) over some BS on sponsors. I better shut up before I dig a hole

I'm not making fun of you if it came across that way btw.
I totally understand what you're saying

GonePhishing · 01-10-2004, 02:20 AM

Okay well good luck! I hope that it all goes well for the two of you!

PissedWife · 01-10-2004, 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pussyluver
Damn, I'd pay to know who this is now!!!!! I have some ideas!

A GFY drama thing.

For you, it is a bigger deal I understad. Hey, this could affect where I send traffic.

My ICQ if you care to drop the name, I will remain silent on it.

169903487

You could have known had you answered your ICQ's last night

cold_ice · 01-10-2004, 02:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PissedWife

My husband at this point is behind my posting.

Just cut us men off from sex and we will agree to almost anything to get it back

Herb Kornfield · 01-10-2004, 02:44 PM

When I worked at LikeWhoa back in the day they played the same game with the paychecks getting all fucked up.

The owners of the comapny blamed each other for the issues and at the end of the neither one offered to rectify the suitation for the 4 grand in back pay owned as it came out.

To this day the $4,000 remains unpaid. One of the owners left the biz entirely and the other never bothered to take care of things, yet has his own adult design business today with most of the old LikeWhoa crew working there.

Luckily, I got a new gig and things are better but it still sucks for all when adult crews think that they can have people work for them and not take care of their responsibilites to the employees that have families.

Not paying people for the time worked is wrong. At least have the decency to tell them to get other forms of employment.

timboss · 01-10-2004, 02:47 PM

its painfully obvious "pissed wife" is actually the dude who got ripped off..

Pissed wife just registered a couple days ago? this is BS man.

Dude, take off your skirt and reveal who you really are

timboss · 01-10-2004, 03:13 PM

was just talking to the guy, I wish to take back my last post

good luck !

Head · 01-12-2004, 04:58 PM

missnat · 01-12-2004, 05:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by EscortBiz
time for him to move on, in this business you have to live with the following rule "strike one and your OUT!" or else you will regret it.

Once a story teller always a story teller.

well said

I totally agree

Ross · 01-12-2004, 05:31 PM

Hey Pissedwife. I've read this whole thread. You should be careful about some information you are giving out here. Stating terms of contract and stuff. I know these guys will be aware of it but if they see this, then you out them they are more than likely gonna use up your post and not pay at all.

Just be careful what you say until you are ready to out the company. Hope you get it sorted out.

machinegunkelly · 01-12-2004, 07:11 PM

Hows this comming along ?
any resolutions ?

01-09-2004, 02:30 PM	#51
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01-09-2004, 02:30 PM	#52
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01-09-2004, 10:54 PM	#58
Digipimp BP4L OT DL Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: BP4L Swap Meet Posts: 13,481	Man I'm pissed too now I just read this whole thread and there were no tits. Good luck on getting your money, it's always cheaper to kill someone if you're looking for options. __________________ Still Hosting at Webair and You Should Be Too

01-10-2004, 02:20 AM	#76
GonePhishing Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Blah Posts: 2,474	Okay well good luck! I hope that it all goes well for the two of you! __________________ If Biff Fucks My Mom... I Might Never Be Born...

01-10-2004, 02:47 PM	#80
timboss Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: South Florida Posts: 627	its painfully obvious "pissed wife" is actually the dude who got ripped off.. Pissed wife just registered a couple days ago? this is BS man. Dude, take off your skirt and reveal who you really are __________________ ICQ: 338637464

01-09-2004, 04:39 PM	#55
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01-09-2004, 10:41 PM	#57
xxxdesign-net My hips don't lie Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 10,129	Brad Xtremepay? Anyhow.. Im sure the company will be pissed about your post and give your husband some crap... Nonetheless.. the company should be ashamed of themself... Your husband should gave them an ultimatum...

01-10-2004, 12:46 AM	#63
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01-10-2004, 01:17 AM	#66
PissedWife Registered User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 35	Fortunately my husband was able to afford it. He does enough work on the side that we had a great christmas without him being paid. He was told he'd be paid weekly, then when we expected a check or paypal from the company he got the story that they paid monthly. When it came time for Vegas he was told that the money was wired to his account from out of the country, We found out this has not happened yet. The company that has done this knew my husband was screwed around before and they also knew he wasn't going to put up with it again. Since I started this post my husband has been made aware of my post. He has also contacted another company about employment. There are many companies looking to hire him and at this point he is as tired of being screwed around as I am tired of watching him get screwed around. Monday there should be a major annoucement about his future. He is negotiating his new pay and benefits. The company that screwed him over this time will be outted monday. The company that screwed him before he went to this company will also be outted for thier pay tactics and the way they treated me and my husband when he worked for them too. I am not only making this post to get my husband paid for the work he does but many people in this business are in the same boat. It's sad but because of this there could be major changes in this industry as we are speaking to labor attorneys and finding out very interesting information. So far we have learned: Signing a contract while waiting for pay is considered signing under duress and the courts normally throw such contracts out. The courts also can charge the employers that do this with non payment of wages and charge the employer the wages and interest. We also learned that any company that works an employee over 80 hours a week away from home must pay a per diem pay outside of the normal wages and not just cover hotel and meals. Those two points above are very interesting to us since the last company he worked for seems to think because they forced us into a contract in order to get paid that they are oblivious to further prosecution. I suggest if these facts fits the way you have treated one of your employees then you should be watching out because we are about to make sure we get paid whats owed us. My husband at this point is behind my posting.

01-10-2004, 01:22 AM	#67
Mr. Marks Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Wherever I want Posts: 7,517	if i were you i will find another company who gives good credit to your work and not abuse you

01-10-2004, 01:29 AM	#68
pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	Good to hear he is behind you in the posting!!! I'd hate to hear a realtionship got screwed over cause of this. As for non-paying-companies being outed. That helps the industry in the end. Prolly good for them too in the long run. Sounds like you've been through the mill on this and had some legal advice... Good for all to see!

01-10-2004, 01:37 AM	#71
pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	Damn, I'd pay to know who this is now!!!!! I have some ideas! A GFY drama thing. For you, it is a bigger deal I understad. Hey, this could affect where I send traffic. My ICQ if you care to drop the name, I will remain silent on it. 169903487

01-10-2004, 02:44 PM	#79
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	When I worked at LikeWhoa back in the day they played the same game with the paychecks getting all fucked up. The owners of the comapny blamed each other for the issues and at the end of the neither one offered to rectify the suitation for the 4 grand in back pay owned as it came out. To this day the $4,000 remains unpaid. One of the owners left the biz entirely and the other never bothered to take care of things, yet has his own adult design business today with most of the old LikeWhoa crew working there. Luckily, I got a new gig and things are better but it still sucks for all when adult crews think that they can have people work for them and not take care of their responsibilites to the employees that have families. Not paying people for the time worked is wrong. At least have the decency to tell them to get other forms of employment.

01-10-2004, 03:13 PM	#81
timboss Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: South Florida Posts: 627	was just talking to the guy, I wish to take back my last post good luck ! __________________ ICQ: 338637464

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01-12-2004, 05:31 PM	#84
Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	Hey Pissedwife. I've read this whole thread. You should be careful about some information you are giving out here. Stating terms of contract and stuff. I know these guys will be aware of it but if they see this, then you out them they are more than likely gonna use up your post and not pay at all. Just be careful what you say until you are ready to out the company. Hope you get it sorted out.

01-12-2004, 07:11 PM	#85
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