What do you tell your dates? - GoFuckYourself.com

Zorgman · 12-15-2003, 07:56 AM

I meet this girl the other night and I have a date with her on Thursday night. I'm not sure if I should tell her what I do up front.

Is it better to leave it and wait for 2-3 days or tell her up front?
She seems like a really nice girl and I would like to make a go of it.

I have been on dates were the girl freaks out when I tell her what I do, but maybe I was unlucky all 4 times. Those 4 dates started well, but once the words "porn" or "sex sites" were spoken it went to HELL and back!

Come one guys, tell me what you would do.... girls input would also be good too. Thanks.

polish_aristocrat · 12-15-2003, 08:11 AM

Tell her you are making bling bling with sex.com's traffic

polish_aristocrat · 12-15-2003, 08:13 AM

But honestly, it depends on the girl....if she's sensitive etc, then you should wait. After she knows you well and see that you're a nice guy, then it might be less shock for her.

Krome · 12-15-2003, 08:13 AM

tell her whatever she wants to hear....lie your balls off...shit you are trying to get laid here...

irishfury · 12-15-2003, 08:15 AM

Tell her you do midget transexual porn in a joking manner she prolly won't believe you and then your off the hooo k

Juicy D. Links · 12-15-2003, 08:16 AM

Tell her you sell computer books like i do

okny · 12-15-2003, 08:16 AM

It's not what you say but how you say it, I'm sure if you explain to her what you do on a business level she shouldn't freak out or then again if she doesnt ask then dont tell her.

AWW - Kevin · 12-15-2003, 08:17 AM

test the water first, tell her you work with internet traffic or something ... people who look for books you send to amazon.com and ppl looking for adult stuff are send to adult sites and if they buy you get a %. See her reaction and take it from there !

Theo · 12-15-2003, 08:20 AM

Most girls get excited about pornography although some of them try to hide it.

stocktrader23 · 12-15-2003, 08:22 AM

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Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
Most girls get excited about pornography although some of them try to hide it.

Hehe, so true. Their jealousy gets the best of em.

Theo · 12-15-2003, 08:23 AM

a nice first approach would be:

"I deal with sluts like you all day long"

AWW - Kevin · 12-15-2003, 08:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
a nice first approach would be:

"I deal with sluts like you all day long"

let me guess, you are single right ?

Zorgman · 12-15-2003, 08:25 AM

I think I might just say im a programmer. Take the safe road home.

Theo · 12-15-2003, 08:26 AM

yes hehe,don't say that.

Theo · 12-15-2003, 08:28 AM

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Originally posted by Zorgman
I think I might just say im a programmer. Take the safe road home.

programmer? no man! this is geek's path and won't work that great

Herb Kornfield · 12-15-2003, 08:37 AM

Just tell folks " I work on some internet properties"....

Really it doesnt matter what you do, its who you are as a person because no job or project is eternal.

Paul -C- · 12-15-2003, 11:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
a nice first approach would be:

"I deal with sluts like you all day long"

That line worked on you last time

JDog · 12-15-2003, 11:05 AM

Never say porn or sex sites, I say Adult websites!

But I would wait if she is the sensitive type like said before. Cause I had a few girls, that I told them after they knew me, and they were totally cool about it!

jDoG

Tofu · 12-15-2003, 11:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
Most girls get excited about pornography although some of them try to hide it.

THis is very true! Telling her youre a pornographer might get you laid a bit quicker than standard methods.

sperbonzo · 12-15-2003, 11:20 AM

Tell her you're in e-commerce and leave it at that, until you've known her for a while...

Two reasons:

1...It's NONE OF HER BUSINESS what kind of services'products your business produces.....you don't even KNOW her yet.

2...You shouldn't be spending all your time talking about yourself and your business anyway.....ask her about herself, and don't tell her everything....she'll be more intrigued.

(shrugs) works for me...

AmeliaG · 12-15-2003, 11:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mystery Man
I always tell them on the first date

I sell erotic sites as I describe them lol and I sell viagra... if they dont like it they can fuck off.

What Mystery Man said.

12-15-2003, 07:56 AM	#1
Zorgman Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 6,103	What do you tell your dates? I meet this girl the other night and I have a date with her on Thursday night. I'm not sure if I should tell her what I do up front. Is it better to leave it and wait for 2-3 days or tell her up front? She seems like a really nice girl and I would like to make a go of it. I have been on dates were the girl freaks out when I tell her what I do, but maybe I was unlucky all 4 times. Those 4 dates started well, but once the words "porn" or "sex sites" were spoken it went to HELL and back! Come one guys, tell me what you would do.... girls input would also be good too. Thanks. __________________ ---

12-15-2003, 08:11 AM	#2
polish_aristocrat Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 40,377	Tell her you are making bling bling with sex.com's traffic __________________ I don't use ICQ anymore.

12-15-2003, 08:13 AM	#3
polish_aristocrat Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 40,377	But honestly, it depends on the girl....if she's sensitive etc, then you should wait. After she knows you well and see that you're a nice guy, then it might be less shock for her. __________________ I don't use ICQ anymore.

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irishfury Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: In the hearts of cowards Posts: 2,611	Tell her you do midget transexual porn in a joking manner she prolly won't believe you and then your off the hooo k __________________ Trust no one there all snakes

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okny Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Vault Posts: 5,761	It's not what you say but how you say it, I'm sure if you explain to her what you do on a business level she shouldn't freak out or then again if she doesnt ask then dont tell her. __________________ Aim: okny Icq: 306232 Skype: OlegKrasBT

12-15-2003, 08:13 AM	#4
Krome Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: London - UK Posts: 2,851	tell her whatever she wants to hear....lie your balls off...shit you are trying to get laid here...

12-15-2003, 08:16 AM	#6
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	Tell her you sell computer books like i do

12-15-2003, 08:17 AM	#8
AWW - Kevin Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: AdultWebmasterInfo Posts: 2,353	test the water first, tell her you work with internet traffic or something ... people who look for books you send to amazon.com and ppl looking for adult stuff are send to adult sites and if they buy you get a %. See her reaction and take it from there !

12-15-2003, 08:20 AM	#9
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	Most girls get excited about pornography although some of them try to hide it.

12-15-2003, 08:23 AM	#11
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	a nice first approach would be: "I deal with sluts like you all day long"

12-15-2003, 08:25 AM	#13
Zorgman Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 6,103	I think I might just say im a programmer. Take the safe road home. __________________ ---

12-15-2003, 08:26 AM	#14
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	yes hehe,don't say that.

12-15-2003, 08:37 AM	#16
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Just tell folks " I work on some internet properties".... Really it doesnt matter what you do, its who you are as a person because no job or project is eternal.

12-15-2003, 11:05 AM	#18
JDog Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Canby, OR Posts: 7,453	Never say porn or sex sites, I say Adult websites! But I would wait if she is the sensitive type like said before. Cause I had a few girls, that I told them after they knew me, and they were totally cool about it! jDoG __________________ NSCash now powering ReelProfits.com ALSO FEATURING: NSCash.com :: SoloDollars.com :: ReelProfits.com :: BiminiBucks.com :: VOD PROGRAMS COMING SOON: Greedy Bucks :: Vengeance Cash NOW OFFERING OVER 60 SITES CONTACT :: JAMES SMITH :: CHIEF TECHNOLOGY OFFICER :: ICQ (711385133)

12-15-2003, 11:20 AM	#20
sperbonzo I'd rather be on my boat. Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Location: Miami, FL Posts: 9,748	Tell her you're in e-commerce and leave it at that, until you've known her for a while... Two reasons: 1...It's NONE OF HER BUSINESS what kind of services'products your business produces.....you don't even KNOW her yet. 2...You shouldn't be spending all your time talking about yourself and your business anyway.....ask her about herself, and don't tell her everything....she'll be more intrigued. (shrugs) works for me... __________________ Michael Sperber / Acella Financial LLC/ Online Payment Processing [email protected] / http://Acellafinancial.com/ ICQ 177961090 / Tel +1 909 NET BILL / Skype msperber