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xenigo · 10-23-2003, 02:47 AM

Alright, I got this female model today. She's kinda cute, but she's a little too chunky for 99% of the world. So I'm gonna have to deny her tomorrow, but I don't want to piss her off. Usually with all the guys I've shot, if I find one we can't use I'll just tell them we've decided not to use them. But how do you politely tell a girl we're not going to use her, without telling her she's fat?

johnbosh · 10-23-2003, 02:49 AM

Youre not fat, youre big boned, and we don't think there is any money for us to photograph big boned people

popcorn · 10-23-2003, 02:49 AM

Bring up a BBW site and shoot her anyways.

SpaceAce · 10-23-2003, 02:50 AM

What the hell, take the photos, anyway, and sell them. Not everyone likes those fucking stick figure women.

Do you have pics so we can see just how "chunky" she is?

SpaceAce

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 02:52 AM

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Originally posted by SpaceAce

Do you have pics so we can see just how "chunky" she is?

SpaceAce

I'll shoot her as exclusives for anyone interested.

SpaceAce · 10-23-2003, 02:54 AM

She's chubby but she's not nasty. I think you could definitely sell sets of her. I don't need any exclusive BBW at the moment or I'd certainly consider it.

Edit: did she give birth recently? A lot of that looks like loose skin and not fat.

SpaceAce

popcorn · 10-23-2003, 02:54 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
She's kinda cute, but she's a little too chunky for 99% of the world...

A little? She IS 99% of the world man! Good lord!

grogan · 10-23-2003, 03:00 AM

Put her in a burlap sack...I mean tent....and throw her in the ocean.

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 03:04 AM

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Originally posted by SpaceAce

Edit: did she give birth recently? A lot of that looks like loose skin and not fat.

Not sure, but she's only 19 so I doubt it.

grogan · 10-23-2003, 03:06 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

Not sure, but she's only 19 so I doubt it.

What a waste of a woman.

Fat chicks should get government funding for lypo and plastic surgery.

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 03:08 AM

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Originally posted by grogan

What a waste of a woman.

Fat chicks should get government funding for lypo and plastic surgery.

I think you need to go Windex your face some more... maybe throw in a coat of TurtleWax too...

grogan · 10-23-2003, 03:09 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

I think you need to go Windex your face some more... maybe throw in a coat of TurtleWax too...

oh, your a fat chick.

Trent Edison · 10-23-2003, 03:10 AM

I feel sorry I opened this thread...

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 04:56 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
Alright, I got this female model today. She's kinda cute, but she's a little too chunky for 99% of the world. So I'm gonna have to deny her tomorrow, but I don't want to piss her off. Usually with all the guys I've shot, if I find one we can't use I'll just tell them we've decided not to use them. But how do you politely tell a girl we're not going to use her, without telling her she's fat?

"I'll show your test photos to my clients and contact you if/when there is work available."

This is what I tell EVERY model. If she's a troll then she never gets a call back.

tony286 · 10-23-2003, 05:11 AM

First off she is very cute but if shooting bigger girls is not your thing. When you spoke to her the first did you ask dress size ,height and weight? These are the first questions I ask if someone contacts me I havent seen. Also tell her right now you dont have any projects she is a fit for and you will keep her on file. If she ever gets to Atlanta I would be interested in shooting her lol. I have told models when I am shooting nonbbw if they were too big, one girl said well your fat and I said right but I dont want to pose nude for a living. lol

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 05:54 AM

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Originally posted by AaronM

"I'll show your test photos to my clients and contact you if/when there is work available."

This is what I tell EVERY model. If she's a troll then she never gets a call back.

Perfect. This is what I'll tell her.

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 05:58 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

Perfect. This is what I'll tell her.

Hand her a Slim Fast shake as a consolation prize.

johnbosh · 10-23-2003, 06:02 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

I'll shoot her as exclusives for anyone interested.

damns if you compare the face with the rest of the body she's huuuugeee

Grapesoda · 10-23-2003, 06:04 AM

I usually say something like this: unfortunalty I don't think I can place you with one of my clients. I wish I could because you're a great lookin' girl. the thing is I have a limited client base and can only sell a narow selection of girls. if I find a new client I call yuou or you can check back in a month or do . . . etc.

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 06:07 AM

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Originally posted by bmb
I usually say something like this: unfortunalty I don't think I can place you with one of my clients. I wish I could because you're a great lookin' girl. the thing is I have a limited client base and can only sell a narow selection of girls. if I find a new client I call yuou or you can check back in a month or do . . . etc.

LOL...He said "Narrow selection."

BWAHAHAHA

myjah · 10-23-2003, 06:21 AM

her face and hair are kinda cute...i've definitely seen worse. She might look better if she was standing up or something. And lose the lace up shoes...you should never show strings cutting into fat.
Be honest with her...tell her you are leaving for Alaska first thing in the morning and she just isn't large enuf to keep you warm! You need someone who weighs at least 40 more lbs.

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 06:24 AM

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Originally posted by myjah
her face and hair are kinda cute...i've definitely seen worse. She might look better if she was standing up or something. And lose the lace up shoes...you should never show strings cutting into fat.
Be honest with her...tell her you are leaving for Alaska first thing in the morning and she just isn't large enuf to keep you warm! You need someone who weighs at least 40 more lbs.

Fuck that. Then she will bring her fat friends by for an interview.

johnbosh · 10-23-2003, 06:25 AM

what if she reads this board too

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 06:25 AM

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Originally posted by myjah
Be honest with her...tell her you are leaving for Alaska first thing in the morning and she just isn't large enuf to keep you warm! You need someone who weighs at least 40 more lbs.

Nice, that's classic. "To be honest, we're looking exclusive for BIG girls, and you're just not big enough."

WebTitan · 10-23-2003, 06:28 AM

she is big, but not huge...i am sure you could sell the content someplace. there are 'TONS' of poeple looking for the big girls out there

Dawgy · 10-23-2003, 06:36 AM

shoot her, she'll sell.

init · 10-23-2003, 06:36 AM

tell it to her like it is, if you have no need for her then don't shoot her, but if you could get people who would buy it, shoot her so you don't make her feel bad and you make soem $ off her

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 06:39 AM

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Originally posted by Dawgy
shoot her, she'll sell.

Says the gay guy...

Dawgy · 10-23-2003, 06:41 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
Says the gay guy...

yes, i can see her inner beauty.
her desire to succeed.
her need to be loved.
her passion for life.
her...

eh fuckit, shes fat.

but bbw sells

even a fag knows that

PornDiscounts-V · 10-23-2003, 06:48 AM

Don't tell her she is fat, just tell her that her head is to skinny.

angeleyes · 10-23-2003, 06:51 AM

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Originally posted by Dawgy

yes, i can see her inner beauty.
her desire to succeed.
her need to be loved.
her passion for life.
her...

eh fuckit, shes fat.

but bbw sells even a fag knows that

I'm only a size 1 so I'm not saying this because I feel insulted by this thread, but I really don't think she's THAT fat. Chunky... yes... I personally think she would do okay in BBW, but that is just my

WebTitan · 10-23-2003, 06:54 AM

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Originally posted by vvvvv
Don't tell her she is fat, just tell her that her head is to skinny.

Dawgy · 10-23-2003, 06:56 AM

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Originally posted by angeleyes
I'm only a size 1 so I'm not saying this because I feel insulted by this thread, but I really don't think she's THAT fat. Chunky... yes... I personally think she would do okay in BBW, but that is just my

i agree.

chances are she KNOWS she isnt a fucking barbie doll. hell, shooting her might make her fucking year. make her feel great. email some bbw sites with her test shots, i bet you get at least a couple that want her.

tony286 · 10-23-2003, 07:00 AM

BBW is how I make my living she is not a bbw not even close. I see that on content sites bbw and the girl is maybe a size 12. Any girl who isnt a size 2 isnt automatically bbw . I would say she is curvy.

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 07:03 AM

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Originally posted by tony404
BBW is how I make my living she is not a bbw not even close. I see that on content sites bbw and the girl is maybe a size 12. Any girl who isnt a size 2 isnt automatically bbw . I would say she is curvy.

That girls is a 14-16 EASY....Probably larger.

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 07:04 AM

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Originally posted by tony404
BBW is how I make my living she is not a bbw not even close. I see that on content sites bbw and the girl is maybe a size 12. Any girl who isnt a size 2 isnt automatically bbw . I would say she is curvy.

Yes, I agree. She's not a BBW, but she's somewhere in between. That's actually what she told me on the phone originally, that she "has curves".

Anyone have any ideas about who might be interested in her?

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 07:05 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
Anyone have any ideas about who might be interested in her?

Greenpeace?

tony286 · 10-23-2003, 07:05 AM

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Originally posted by AaronM

That girls is a 14-16 EASY....Probably larger.

I dont think so , I think the shoes dont help and thats not the best pose for her. I am not being a smart ass one way I can tell she is not bigger than that is her ass doesnt go over the sides of that chair.

johnbosh · 10-23-2003, 07:06 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

Yes, I agree. She's not a BBW, but she's somewhere in between. That's actually what she told me on the phone originally, that she "has curves".

Anyone have any ideas about who might be interested in her?

Pwnd

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 07:06 AM

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Originally posted by tony404

I dont think so , I think the shoes dont help and thats not the best pose for her. I am not being a smart ass one way I can tell she is not bigger than that is her ass doesnt go over the sides of that chair.

No, but her thighs do. When I left my ex-wife, she had blown up to a size 12 and she was nowhere out of shape like this girl is.

JamesK · 10-23-2003, 07:11 AM

I'd still hit her

Milena Dickman · 10-23-2003, 07:12 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

I'll shoot her as exclusives for anyone interested.

Why would someone fat as that use those shoes???

OK, I know that´s a girlie comment, but good lord! It´s like there´s little cushions all over her leg... wait! She is a HUGE cushion herself!

Eyes_Without_A_Face · 10-23-2003, 07:22 AM

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Originally posted by grogan

What a waste of a woman.

Fat chicks should get government funding for lypo and plastic surgery.

LadyMischief · 10-23-2003, 07:25 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
Alright, I got this female model today. She's kinda cute, but she's a little too chunky for 99% of the world. So I'm gonna have to deny her tomorrow, but I don't want to piss her off. Usually with all the guys I've shot, if I find one we can't use I'll just tell them we've decided not to use them. But how do you politely tell a girl we're not going to use her, without telling her she's fat?

WTF!!?!??! Shoot her for some exclusive BBW stuff.. CASH IN YOU IDIOT!

angeleyes · 10-23-2003, 07:38 AM

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Originally posted by AaronM

That girls is a 14-16 EASY....Probably larger.

For once we agree on something. There is no way she is less than a 14. I was overweight in highschool and it isn't hard to jump sizes with just an extra 5 or 10 lbs. If my weight goes up to 115 lbs it easily puts me in a size 5.

Then again at 5'2''..... one lb shows on me.

BVF · 10-23-2003, 07:40 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
Alright, I got this female model today. She's kinda cute, but she's a little too chunky for 99% of the world. So I'm gonna have to deny her tomorrow, but I don't want to piss her off. Usually with all the guys I've shot, if I find one we can't use I'll just tell them we've decided not to use them. But how do you politely tell a girl we're not going to use her, without telling her she's fat?

So you're letting money walk out the door? You don't have a few extra dollars to spare to invest in some pics of her to someday sell? Or would that go over your weekly budget?

The ONLY reason I would let her walk out the door is if I didn't have enough spare change to shoot her....Any other reason is nonsense...

codymc12 · 10-23-2003, 08:04 AM

My 2 cents - if you're unwilling to shoot girls like this, you are going to lose money in the long run.

She's not a Maxim model, she's a niche model. Plenty guys out there into thick, curvy girls.

In particular, guys who like big butts are probably going to like ass shots from a girl like this. In my experience, those guys don't necessarily like the really big, BBW ass - but they do like BIG butts from the 'in between' girls like this.

Oh, and a good basic rule - don't ever take business advice from ANY of these people who can only contribute things like: "damn that's a fat bitch" or other degrading comments. They are trolls, not peers.

AaronM · 10-23-2003, 08:06 AM

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Originally posted by codymc12
My 2 cents - if you're unwilling to shoot girls like this, you are going to lose money in the long run.

She's not a Maxim model, she's a niche model. Plenty guys out there into thick, curvy girls.

In particular, guys who like big butts are probably going to like ass shots from a girl like this. In my experience, those guys don't necessarily like the really big, BBW ass - but they do like BIG butts from the 'in between' girls like this.

Oh, and a good basic rule - don't ever take business advice from ANY of these people who can only contribute things like: "damn that's a fat bitch" or other degrading comments. They are trolls, not peers.

You're a big girl aren't you?

xenigo · 10-23-2003, 08:14 AM

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Originally posted by codymc12
My 2 cents - if you're unwilling to shoot girls like this, you are going to lose money in the long run.

She's not a Maxim model, she's a niche model. Plenty guys out there into thick, curvy girls.

In particular, guys who like big butts are probably going to like ass shots from a girl like this. In my experience, those guys don't necessarily like the really big, BBW ass - but they do like BIG butts from the 'in between' girls like this.

Oh, and a good basic rule - don't ever take business advice from ANY of these people who can only contribute things like: "damn that's a fat bitch" or other degrading comments. They are trolls, not peers.

Good advice. I'm all about the niches by the way, which is why I shoot mainly twinks.

codymc12 · 10-23-2003, 08:19 AM

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Originally posted by AaronM

You're a big girl aren't you?

I'm a thin guy - but I like big butt women.

10-23-2003, 02:47 AM	#1
xenigo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oakland, CA Posts: 8,067	denying models Alright, I got this female model today. She's kinda cute, but she's a little too chunky for 99% of the world. So I'm gonna have to deny her tomorrow, but I don't want to piss her off. Usually with all the guys I've shot, if I find one we can't use I'll just tell them we've decided not to use them. But how do you politely tell a girl we're not going to use her, without telling her she's fat?

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myjah Back in the harbor Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 11,482	her face and hair are kinda cute...i've definitely seen worse. She might look better if she was standing up or something. And lose the lace up shoes...you should never show strings cutting into fat. Be honest with her...tell her you are leaving for Alaska first thing in the morning and she just isn't large enuf to keep you warm! You need someone who weighs at least 40 more lbs. __________________ VP of Marketing AVN Media Network Skype: AVNJill [email protected]

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johnbosh Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Netherlands, Rotterdam Posts: 8,965	Youre not fat, youre big boned, and we don't think there is any money for us to photograph big boned people

10-23-2003, 02:49 AM	#3
popcorn Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 26	Bring up a BBW site and shoot her anyways.

10-23-2003, 02:50 AM	#4
SpaceAce Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Magrathea Posts: 6,493	What the hell, take the photos, anyway, and sell them. Not everyone likes those fucking stick figure women. Do you have pics so we can see just how "chunky" she is? SpaceAce

10-23-2003, 02:54 AM	#6
SpaceAce Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Magrathea Posts: 6,493	She's chubby but she's not nasty. I think you could definitely sell sets of her. I don't need any exclusive BBW at the moment or I'd certainly consider it. Edit: did she give birth recently? A lot of that looks like loose skin and not fat. SpaceAce

10-23-2003, 03:00 AM	#8
grogan So Fucking Banned Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: CHICAGO Posts: 2,284	Put her in a burlap sack...I mean tent....and throw her in the ocean.

10-23-2003, 05:11 AM	#15
tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	First off she is very cute but if shooting bigger girls is not your thing. When you spoke to her the first did you ask dress size ,height and weight? These are the first questions I ask if someone contacts me I havent seen. Also tell her right now you dont have any projects she is a fit for and you will keep her on file. If she ever gets to Atlanta I would be interested in shooting her lol. I have told models when I am shooting nonbbw if they were too big, one girl said well your fat and I said right but I dont want to pose nude for a living. lol

10-23-2003, 06:04 AM	#19
Grapesoda So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Montana Posts: 46,238	I usually say something like this: unfortunalty I don't think I can place you with one of my clients. I wish I could because you're a great lookin' girl. the thing is I have a limited client base and can only sell a narow selection of girls. if I find a new client I call yuou or you can check back in a month or do . . . etc.

10-23-2003, 06:25 AM	#23
johnbosh Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: The Netherlands, Rotterdam Posts: 8,965	what if she reads this board too

10-23-2003, 06:28 AM	#25
WebTitan Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Western NY Posts: 5,114	she is big, but not huge...i am sure you could sell the content someplace. there are 'TONS' of poeple looking for the big girls out there

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PornDiscounts-V Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: L.A. Posts: 5,744	Don't tell her she is fat, just tell her that her head is to skinny.

10-23-2003, 07:00 AM	#34
tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	BBW is how I make my living she is not a bbw not even close. I see that on content sites bbw and the girl is maybe a size 12. Any girl who isnt a size 2 isnt automatically bbw . I would say she is curvy.

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10-23-2003, 08:04 AM	#47
codymc12 Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 719	My 2 cents - if you're unwilling to shoot girls like this, you are going to lose money in the long run. She's not a Maxim model, she's a niche model. Plenty guys out there into thick, curvy girls. In particular, guys who like big butts are probably going to like ass shots from a girl like this. In my experience, those guys don't necessarily like the really big, BBW ass - but they do like BIG butts from the 'in between' girls like this. Oh, and a good basic rule - don't ever take business advice from ANY of these people who can only contribute things like: "damn that's a fat bitch" or other degrading comments. They are trolls, not peers.