Webmaster etiquette when meeting me in public - GoFuckYourself.com

OzKaNoz · 08-25-2003, 04:49 PM

Sat night my family and I are out at Bufflo Wild Wings off of FM1960.
Which includes my wife, my 9 year old son, a female cousin and myself.

I was waring my PIB shirt. Everything is cool up to this point, we're eating and having good old family meal of hot wings.

Well there I was just minding my own business when this drunk webmaster comes up to my table and says "shit I thought that was a porn is bad shirt you had on. How the fuck are you? I'm Bony (Bones or something like that, can't remember). What your fucking nick?"
This went on for a bit. My wife is looking at me in shock and so is my son.

So I nicely said to him let go smoke a cig so I could get him away from the table.
Once outside I explained to him that I don't mine webmasters coming up to me in public as long as they show some kind of etiquette in doing so.

The cusing in front of my son is what really got to me.
I meet webmasters ever now in then because I do ware my porn shirts in public. But I have never had a webmaster do what this guy did in front of my family.

So if you see me out and about, it's cool. I'd be very happy to meet you as long as you keep things clean. I'll even talk business with you away from my family.

Just venting
Oz

pussyluver · 08-25-2003, 04:53 PM

Hey, you wore the pib shirt --- duh!

stocktrader23 · 08-25-2003, 04:53 PM

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Originally posted by pussyluver
Hey, you wore the pib shirt --- duh!

Whoopty fucking doo.

TheFLY · 08-25-2003, 04:58 PM

Good point...

Most people in this biz are cool though.

Unless I'm at a convention -- leave me alone.

Kimmykim · 08-25-2003, 04:58 PM

You're wearing a porn shirt in front of a 9 year old?

SykkBoy · 08-25-2003, 04:59 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim
You're wearing a porn shirt in front of a 9 year old?

I wasn't paying attention one time and wore my GFY shirt to pick up my kids from a birthday party full of 6,7 and 8 year olds.......

GrimShawn · 08-25-2003, 05:01 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim
You're wearing a porn shirt in front of a 9 year old?

so very true

Kimmykim · 08-25-2003, 05:01 PM

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Originally posted by SykkBoy2

I wasn't paying attention one time and wore my GFY shirt to pick up my kids from a birthday party full of 6,7 and 8 year olds.......

Did you have any pants on ?

Sly_RJ · 08-25-2003, 05:02 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim
You're wearing a porn shirt in front of a 9 year old?

It was a public service announcement... Porn Is Bad.

escorpio · 08-25-2003, 05:02 PM

Uncouth drunks.

SykkBoy · 08-25-2003, 05:04 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim

Did you have any pants on ?

This time....

noshit · 08-25-2003, 05:11 PM

Wearing a porn shirt in public and worried about sheilding your kid from Real world drinkers and Real world language. Remind me the Shepard Smith said BLOWJOB on Fox. Maybe he had a few too many OR no kids!
:-}

Webby · 08-25-2003, 05:21 PM

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Well there I was just minding my own business when this drunk webmaster comes up to my table and says "shit I thought that was a porn is bad shirt you had on. How the fuck are you?

Don't matter what you were wearing.. so folks just ain't got it.

Ic3m4nZ · 08-25-2003, 05:27 PM

Congratulations

GeXus · 08-25-2003, 05:28 PM

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Originally posted by Ic3m4nZ
Congratulations

spam

AaronM · 08-25-2003, 05:29 PM

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Originally posted by OzKaNoz
Sat night my family and I are out at Bufflo Wild Wings off of FM1960.
Which includes my wife, my 9 year old son, a female cousin and myself.

I was waring my PIB shirt. Everything is cool up to this point, we're eating and having good old family meal of hot wings.

Well there I was just minding my own business when this drunk webmaster comes up to my table and says "shit I thought that was a porn is bad shirt you had on. How the fuck are you? I'm Bony (Bones or something like that, can't remember). What your fucking nick?"
This went on for a bit. My wife is looking at me in shock and so is my son.

So I nicely said to him let go smoke a cig so I could get him away from the table.
Once outside I explained to him that I don't mine webmasters coming up to me in public as long as they show some kind of etiquette in doing so.

The cusing in front of my son is what really got to me.
I meet webmasters ever now in then because I do ware my porn shirts in public. But I have never had a webmaster do what this guy did in front of my family.

So if you see me out and about, it's cool. I'd be very happy to meet you as long as you keep things clean. I'll even talk business with you away from my family.

Just venting
Oz

Way to represent bro.

noshit · 08-25-2003, 06:26 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM

Way to represent bro.

You digital pictures have connotations of benevolence, you should record your words on memory sticks to add relief.
:-}

OzKaNoz · 08-25-2003, 06:35 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim
You're wearing a porn shirt in front of a 9 year old?

Kimmykim
The PIB shirt is pretty mild compared to some main stream Tee's you see on the street. There are a few of my porn shirts that I wouldn't ware in front of him but.

But I understand where your coming from and I do share the same thought about it but the PIB shirt is far less offensive then some of the tee's you see on teens now a day.

Oz

Rochard · 08-25-2003, 06:39 PM

I was wearing my GFY shirt when I visited the dentist. Had some explaining to do.

While we are discussing etigquette when running into you in public, let me as you the following.....

....If I was to spot you across the room in a public place, can I sneak up behind you with my razor and shave your hair off?

Just checking. Just in case.

Kimmykim · 08-25-2003, 06:39 PM

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Originally posted by OzKaNoz

Kimmykim
The PIB shirt is pretty mild compared to some main stream Tee's you see on the street. There are a few of my porn shirts that I wouldn't ware in front of him but.

But I understand where your coming from and I do share the same thought about it but the PIB shirt is far less offensive then some of the tee's you see on teens now a day.

Oz

Yep and if you were wearing one of those 'bad' ones and someone came up to you and said something, it would have been the same thing - believe me, I'm not perfect but I don't wear clothes that say porn or have words I don't want my kid saying on them, it's just a matter of not encouraging him.

I should also mention that I wouldn't walk up to someone with a kid, whether I knew them or their kid, and start spouting off profanities in the course of the conversation.

Vick · 08-25-2003, 06:48 PM

I don't care what I was wearing
Saying "Fuck" in front of my son is unacceptable (part of why we sit in Club Level seats at football games)

In no way am I condoning or defending the actions but ....
Don't know what a PIB shirt looks like but I can see where if it is objectionable (or was somewhat sexually graphic) how the offending person may have thought it was ok to behave as they did ..... or they may have just been a drunk jackass

Spunky · 08-25-2003, 06:51 PM

I like the shocked looks from granny's when they read my GFY shirt

OzKaNoz · 08-25-2003, 07:13 PM

Kimmy,
When the shirt was put on, I was working and at home. My wife, knowing that I love hot wings, decided that I should take her to dinner. I honestly didn't think about the shirt. I wear it at home. The PIB shirt in my opinion is not that bad. The girl is covered and it does state that Porn is Bad. Plus, I feel that when you censor what a child learns, that they go looking for it. My work is never done in front of my son and my PIB shirt is the only one I will wear when my son is around. My GFY shirt has only been worn when my wife and I have gone out. Or I am out and about by myself. My son really has never said anything about the shirt. Now after Dickweed came up cursing and causing a scene, he had lots of questions. Which my wife handled in her own way. She is one of the Moms who feels that everything should be put on the table when there are questions.

Now, I hope that you don't think that I am a bad Dad. I try to sheild my son from all of the crap that is out there. And I love my son. He is the reason that I work as hard as I do.

Oz

Kimmykim · 08-25-2003, 07:31 PM

I don't think you are a bad dad, and I do think the guy who came up to you should have been watching his language.

What I also know is that kids pick up on what they see, and I can only imagine how many of them would be going to school saying "my dad has porn shirts" no matter what the shirt said about porn itself ;)

OzKaNoz · 08-25-2003, 07:56 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmykim

What I also know is that kids pick up on what they see, and I can only imagine how many of them would be going to school saying "my dad has porn shirts" no matter what the shirt said about porn itself ;)

Very true Kimmy! I can't argue with that. But that's pretty much the only one that he's been exposed to.
"My dad's shirt says Porn Is Bad"

It would be diffrent if it was "My dad's shirt says GoFuckYourself"

Theres no nudity or anything valger and porn is a main stream word anyway.

But what you said is true.

Oz

Why · 08-25-2003, 08:12 PM

agreed.

i dont have kids and pretty much everyone i go out with knows what i do, but there are times when it would really suck to have something like that go down, so i agree, people should show some respect and keep it down.

but i dont have any shirts other then a couple of python ones that Brad sent me, everyone always Jipo's me out of sending me one.

Herb Kornfield · 08-25-2003, 08:16 PM

Drunk assholes are the worst to deal with in business.

From having an 11 year old girl the porn is bad shirt on in front of a child just dont sit right with me.

Certain things are for when kids arent there and also, there are people that see you with that on and the kid there and just start making assumptions without even as much as a hello.

Good move on hustling the drunk away with the lets catch a smoke line. I'll have to remember that one for down the road.....

xxxdesign-net · 08-25-2003, 09:45 PM

Boneprone?

BV · 08-25-2003, 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by RocHard
I was wearing my GFY shirt when I visited the dentist. Had some explaining to do.

I wore my new red GFY shirt to the dentist and when I was leaning forward he asked me what that said on the back. I just laughed and told him it was like a secret code.

as I was paying the receptionist his good looking blonde assistant busted out laughing behind me, I guess she figured out what it said, lol

she also said "now i see why you didn't tell him"

the old shirts you could atleast just push the sleeves up and no one can read them

Kevin2 · 08-25-2003, 10:36 PM

The other guy should at least have had the sense to see there is a kid at the table. Sorry to hear about this mate.

markell · 08-25-2003, 10:36 PM

i wear all my shirts everywhere, strip clubs, bars, and evn under my shirts in night clubs, so when i get hot i can take the one on top off.

the reason i do this is because its advertisement, especially when its about 6 on las vegas blvd, and all wearig the same shirts, it draws attention people ask questions, i get signups, however every now n then i run into some adult webmasters, most seem to be cool, soem seem to be like that guy.

i do knwo one thing tho, if you dont want drunk porn webmasters coming up to you, dont go out with your family wearing porn site shirts, your just asking for it

spamofon · 08-25-2003, 10:48 PM

trust me your 9 years old son propably hears much worse shit than that in his school

08-25-2003, 04:49 PM	#1
OzKaNoz Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Deep With In Your Mind Posts: 1,834	Webmaster etiquette when meeting me in public Sat night my family and I are out at Bufflo Wild Wings off of FM1960. Which includes my wife, my 9 year old son, a female cousin and myself. I was waring my PIB shirt. Everything is cool up to this point, we're eating and having good old family meal of hot wings. Well there I was just minding my own business when this drunk webmaster comes up to my table and says "shit I thought that was a porn is bad shirt you had on. How the fuck are you? I'm Bony (Bones or something like that, can't remember). What your fucking nick?" This went on for a bit. My wife is looking at me in shock and so is my son. So I nicely said to him let go smoke a cig so I could get him away from the table. Once outside I explained to him that I don't mine webmasters coming up to me in public as long as they show some kind of etiquette in doing so. The cusing in front of my son is what really got to me. I meet webmasters ever now in then because I do ware my porn shirts in public. But I have never had a webmaster do what this guy did in front of my family. So if you see me out and about, it's cool. I'd be very happy to meet you as long as you keep things clean. I'll even talk business with you away from my family. Just venting Oz __________________ Techie Media Web Hosting

08-25-2003, 05:02 PM	#10
escorpio I love to racism, bro! Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA! USA! USA! Posts: 23,399	Uncouth drunks. __________________ Unvaxxed, still alive.

08-25-2003, 06:39 PM	#19
Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 75,230	I was wearing my GFY shirt when I visited the dentist. Had some explaining to do. While we are discussing etigquette when running into you in public, let me as you the following..... ....If I was to spot you across the room in a public place, can I sneak up behind you with my razor and shave your hair off? Just checking. Just in case. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders

08-25-2003, 06:48 PM	#21
Vick Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Little South of Sanity Posts: 178	I don't care what I was wearing Saying "Fuck" in front of my son is unacceptable (part of why we sit in Club Level seats at football games) In no way am I condoning or defending the actions but .... Don't know what a PIB shirt looks like but I can see where if it is objectionable (or was somewhat sexually graphic) how the offending person may have thought it was ok to behave as they did ..... or they may have just been a drunk jackass __________________ Cloud9Cash.com

08-25-2003, 06:51 PM	#22
Spunky I need a beer Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠ Posts: 133,982	I like the shocked looks from granny's when they read my GFY shirt __________________ *YOUR INFORMATION HERE*

08-25-2003, 04:53 PM	#2
pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	Hey, you wore the pib shirt --- duh!

08-25-2003, 04:58 PM	#4
TheFLY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: http://www.thefly.net/ --- Quit your job and live off steady traffic. Posts: 11,856	Good point... Most people in this biz are cool though. Unless I'm at a convention -- leave me alone.

08-25-2003, 04:58 PM	#5
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	You're wearing a porn shirt in front of a 9 year old?

08-25-2003, 05:11 PM	#12
noshit Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Midwest USA Posts: 1,582	Wearing a porn shirt in public and worried about sheilding your kid from Real world drinkers and Real world language. Remind me the Shepard Smith said BLOWJOB on Fox. Maybe he had a few too many OR no kids! :-}

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Ic3m4nZ Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Montreal! Posts: 6,285	Congratulations

08-25-2003, 07:13 PM	#23
OzKaNoz Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Deep With In Your Mind Posts: 1,834	Kimmy, When the shirt was put on, I was working and at home. My wife, knowing that I love hot wings, decided that I should take her to dinner. I honestly didn't think about the shirt. I wear it at home. The PIB shirt in my opinion is not that bad. The girl is covered and it does state that Porn is Bad. Plus, I feel that when you censor what a child learns, that they go looking for it. My work is never done in front of my son and my PIB shirt is the only one I will wear when my son is around. My GFY shirt has only been worn when my wife and I have gone out. Or I am out and about by myself. My son really has never said anything about the shirt. Now after Dickweed came up cursing and causing a scene, he had lots of questions. Which my wife handled in her own way. She is one of the Moms who feels that everything should be put on the table when there are questions. Now, I hope that you don't think that I am a bad Dad. I try to sheild my son from all of the crap that is out there. And I love my son. He is the reason that I work as hard as I do. Oz __________________ Techie Media Web Hosting

08-25-2003, 07:31 PM	#24
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	I don't think you are a bad dad, and I do think the guy who came up to you should have been watching his language. What I also know is that kids pick up on what they see, and I can only imagine how many of them would be going to school saying "my dad has porn shirts" no matter what the shirt said about porn itself ;)

08-25-2003, 08:12 PM	#26
Why MFBA Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: PNW Posts: 7,230	agreed. i dont have kids and pretty much everyone i go out with knows what i do, but there are times when it would really suck to have something like that go down, so i agree, people should show some respect and keep it down. but i dont have any shirts other then a couple of python ones that Brad sent me, everyone always Jipo's me out of sending me one.

08-25-2003, 08:16 PM	#27
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Drunk assholes are the worst to deal with in business. From having an 11 year old girl the porn is bad shirt on in front of a child just dont sit right with me. Certain things are for when kids arent there and also, there are people that see you with that on and the kid there and just start making assumptions without even as much as a hello. Good move on hustling the drunk away with the lets catch a smoke line. I'll have to remember that one for down the road.....

08-25-2003, 09:45 PM	#28
xxxdesign-net My hips don't lie Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 10,129	Boneprone?

08-25-2003, 10:36 PM	#30
Kevin2 Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Location: Australia Posts: 1,429	The other guy should at least have had the sense to see there is a kid at the table. Sorry to hear about this mate. __________________ Webmasters Trade Traffic!!!

08-25-2003, 10:36 PM	#31
markell Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Las Vegas & Los Angeles Posts: 1,190	i wear all my shirts everywhere, strip clubs, bars, and evn under my shirts in night clubs, so when i get hot i can take the one on top off. the reason i do this is because its advertisement, especially when its about 6 on las vegas blvd, and all wearig the same shirts, it draws attention people ask questions, i get signups, however every now n then i run into some adult webmasters, most seem to be cool, soem seem to be like that guy. i do knwo one thing tho, if you dont want drunk porn webmasters coming up to you, dont go out with your family wearing porn site shirts, your just asking for it __________________ blah blah fucking blah

08-25-2003, 10:48 PM	#32
spamofon Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Toronto Posts: 2,999	trust me your 9 years old son propably hears much worse shit than that in his school