When to buy flowers to a woman you like? - GoFuckYourself.com

pornjudge · 07-27-2003, 08:27 AM

Hey guys & gals,

When is the best time to buy flowers to girl that you have feelings for? This girl works at a hair salon as an esthitician & we have been talking for a while now but I never asked her out but my hairdresser told me she is interested in me. I sent her some flowers this past friday. I went by yesterday & bought something from the salon & I saw her & she said thank-you that was so sweet

Blah Blah Blah

I asked her if she brought the flowers home, she said no. The flowers are in my room & she showed them to me. When we were alone she told me, their is one thing that bothers me about this, I said what? Now everybody in the salon is talking about this & I am a discreet woman & I don't like people to know about my personnal things? Any guys been in this situation before? As for all the woman out there, what does it mean when you get flowers, I am not talking about getting flowers in a club where you meet the guy for the first time.

Just to let ya all know, I am still strong & standing

I have been threw worst shit before

Thx...

hybrid · 07-27-2003, 08:29 AM

Sending flowers to someone you have'nt even taken out on a date is not only creepy, it's weak.

Rethink your approach, man.

TurboAngel · 07-27-2003, 08:31 AM

I think is kinda strange she didn't take them home.
But what do I know?

gornyhuy · 07-27-2003, 08:37 AM

The best way to improve the situation is to park the van you live in out in front of her house for a few days and look at her through binoculars. If she confronts you, just say you are bird watching.

MattO · 07-27-2003, 08:39 AM

My folk's own a Florist, and they tell me any time is good to send flowers..
the problem here is that she works in a Salon, which is the most gossipin' place on the planet. All those women do all day is talk about other people's business.
So keep sending her stuff at work.

TurboAngel · 07-27-2003, 08:40 AM

So true Matt!

pornjudge · 07-27-2003, 08:40 AM

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Originally posted by hybrid
Sending flowers to someone you have'nt even taken out on a date is not only creepy, it's weak.

Rethink your approach, man.

why would it be creepy? I am not a total stranger, we talked allot together on when we were alone. We talked about private things & she even wants to go to my family's cottage with me for a week or two. We even talked on opening a business together& allot of other stuff. Now why I did not asked her out? I have always asked her what she is doing tonight when I saw her but never asked her for a date. I know I will need to rethink my strategie & give it some time. I am not a cheap guy, I would give allot to this woman.

pornjudge · 07-27-2003, 08:44 AM

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Originally posted by MattO
My folk's own a Florist, and they tell me any time is good to send flowers..
the problem here is that she works in a Salon, which is the most gossipin' place on the planet. All those women do all day is talk about other people's business.
So keep sending her stuff at work.

I agree with you Matt, every time I see my hair dresser, the first thing he is asking me, so whats the gossip man

I will take your advice man, I will keep sending her stuff... I don't care what other people think, they are just jealous because they are not getting it... This isthe first time its happening to me since me & my ex left each other 7 years ago...

Undutchable · 07-27-2003, 08:47 AM

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Originally posted by pornjudge

why would it be creepy? I am not a total stranger, we talked allot together on when we were alone. We talked about private things & she even wants to go to my family's cottage with me for a week or two. We even talked on opening a business together& allot of other stuff. Now why I did not asked her out? I have always asked her what she is doing tonight when I saw her but never asked her for a date. I know I will need to rethink my strategie & give it some time. I am not a cheap guy, I would give allot to this woman.

Don't set yourself up to be played - for any woman, it's better to get her affection yourself and not buy it with flowers and the like.

Do not give it too much time, advance on her and casually ask her out. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want

Women respect that in general

hybrid · 07-27-2003, 08:48 AM

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they are just jealous because they are not getting it... This isthe first time its happening to me since me & my ex left each other 7 years ago...

You fucking reak of desperation, pal.

Zorgman · 07-27-2003, 08:48 AM

Maybe to her your more of a "FRIEND" then someone she wants to date.

The first girl I gave flowers to send them back to me with a note.

" Give them to someone that feels something back to you! ".

I kind of got the picture at that point.

TurboAngel · 07-27-2003, 08:50 AM

Zorgman that is just rude!
Sorry she did that but you are better off with out that rude bitch!

Undutchable · 07-27-2003, 08:54 AM

Women who read this:

What do you do when a guy is constantly sending you stuff, always around you but never asks you on a date......?

Exactly.

I've seen this enough to know it's the wrong way to go.

Scootermuze · 07-27-2003, 08:55 AM

Sending flowers is only part of it... The kind of flowers you send can mean different things..

Some flowers are for love, some for friendship, some for just being nice, yada yada..

But at the early stages of a situation, it should be kept private, especially if you have no idea how the other side feels.

cherrylula · 07-27-2003, 08:56 AM

Now all her co-workers think she's a ho for sure... kidding but that is usually why a girl receives flowers at work. Means she is giving up the poontang and somebody wants some more.

So don't give flowers unless you are fucking, because it might creep a girl out.

CDSmith · 07-27-2003, 08:56 AM

Q: what's better than roses on your piano?

A: Tulips on your organ.

hybrid · 07-27-2003, 08:56 AM

yer just full of funnies this mornin, are'nt ya?

Deepundercover · 07-27-2003, 08:57 AM

I've found that buying flowers for a woman is a tricky thing. I sent flowers (at a cost of $90, with a card saying 'I love you') to a woman I adored after two months of dating her and other intimate things. She replied, 'Thanks, but I think it is too soon to talk about love. We don't know each other.'

We went out for another few months, but I never bought her flowers again after that put-down.

Women despise weakness. Women despise you when you're too needy for them and when you shower them with gifts and affection.

Sending flowers can exacerbate a woman's concerns about intimacy or if she is worthy of love.

So next time, I'll just give her a couple of flowers and see if she appreciates them. If she does, I'll send more next time.

In this case, Judge, I don't think she likes you that much or she would've taken the flowers home and not been embarrassed about the gossip.

Scootermuze · 07-27-2003, 08:57 AM

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Originally posted by TurboAngel
Zorgman that is just rude!
Sorry she did that but you are better off with out that rude bitch!

Rude bitch? Rude bitch you say?!?!??!

I thought there was only one of those around here...

HEY TAM!!!!! What's your take on the flowers thing??

cherrylula · 07-27-2003, 08:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Undutchable
Women who read this:

What do you do when a guy is constantly sending you stuff, always around you but never asks you on a date......?

Exactly.

I've seen this enough to know it's the wrong way to go.

I think they call them Stalkers.

because nothing is free.

Nubiles · 07-27-2003, 09:02 AM

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Originally posted by pornjudge
Hey guys & gals,

When is the best time to buy flowers to girl that you have feelings for?

The only time acceptable would be after she is giving up the pussy on a regular basis.

iroc409 · 07-27-2003, 09:02 AM

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Originally posted by pornjudge

I agree with you Matt, every time I see my hair dresser, the first thing he is asking me, so whats the gossip man I will take your advice man, I will keep sending her stuff... I don't care what other people think, they are just jealous because they are not getting it... This isthe first time its happening to me since me & my ex left each other 7 years ago...

lol... oh boy.

women care what other people think, d00d

LadyMischief · 07-27-2003, 09:05 AM

As soon as possible..and send them somewhere that will get her attention.. like work. Women LOVE that sappy shit, and they love being able to show off that kind of thing to their friends...

Undutchable · 07-27-2003, 09:10 AM

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Originally posted by LadyMischief
As soon as possible..and send them somewhere that will get her attention.. like work. Women LOVE that sappy shit, and they love being able to show off that kind of thing to their friends...

What about you LM? What if a guy you weren't dating sent you flowers and gifts all the time?

AWC · 07-27-2003, 09:10 AM

IF... she took the flowers home... her hubby/boyfriend/significant other would have been pissed too.

Juicy D. Links · 07-27-2003, 09:11 AM

Porn Judge we still have unsettled business..dont think i forget shit easily.... watch who you fuck with in this business

Juicy D. Links · 07-27-2003, 09:12 AM

WHY DONT YOU GET HER A T SHIRT WITH A NAZI SWASTIKA ON IT YOU RACIST PIECE OF SHIT AND THEN MAYBE YOU GUYS ON YOUR FIRST DATE CAN GO BURN SOME CROSSES

Matt_WildCash · 07-27-2003, 09:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Deepundercover
I've found that buying flowers for a woman is a tricky thing. I sent flowers (at a cost of $90, with a card saying 'I love you') to a woman I adored after two months of dating her and other intimate things. She replied, 'Thanks, but I think it is too soon to talk about love. We don't know each other.'

We went out for another few months, but I never bought her flowers again after that put-down.

Women despise weakness. Women despise you when you're too needy for them and when you shower them with gifts and affection.

Sending flowers can exacerbate a woman's concerns about intimacy or if she is worthy of love.

So next time, I'll just give her a couple of flowers and see if she appreciates them. If she does, I'll send more next time.

In this case, Judge, I don't think she likes you that much or she would've taken the flowers home and not been embarrassed about the gossip.

Exactly, act like you can take it or leave it.

In fact a couple of months ago I meet a lovely girl, I was half way through re-starting my internet adult business and was doing 12 hour days, I'd go over see her for 2-4 hours and leave at 1am to goto work and I often didn't have time for her when you wanted to see me. I sent her flowers after our first night together with a nice note. She loved them. I didn't give her flowsers again for 3 months but when I did I bought a teddybear made of flowers with a hand written note (she liked that). Now we are a happy couple.

I never had a girl for quite awhile, and it was funny when I finally hit the point where I didn't give a shit about girls cause I was so busy with work and just enjoying living and exercising that a beautiful girl dropped into my life.

Just make sure that when one does drop into your life that you not too keen. Its pretty easy to act like you don't care when you do. Just don't seem desperate.

I'd never send flowsers to a girl but each to there own. There is no rule book and it sounds like you havea repour going already.

Juicy D. Links · 07-27-2003, 09:20 AM

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LOL, try again, you are wrong! If you told me you were a jew from the start, I would of never asked you for advice Adolph Hitler

TAKEN FROM A PREVIOUS POST

RACIST FUCK

pornjudge · 07-27-2003, 09:22 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
Porn Judge we still have unsettled business..dont think i forget shit easily.... watch who you fuck with in this business

Are you the jewish guy, hey man GFY you arrogant bastard

Jews always have to shout their mouth off hey!

LadyMischief · 07-27-2003, 09:22 AM

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Originally posted by Undutchable

What about you LM? What if a guy you weren't dating sent you flowers and gifts all the time?

I'd be quite flattered and I would probably CONSIDER dating him :P

Edit: Unless he was a stalker, then I'd take him into a backalley, shitkick him senseless and leave him for dead.

Juicy D. Links · 07-27-2003, 09:24 AM

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Originally posted by pornjudge

Are you the jewish guy, hey man GFY you arrogant bastard Jews always have to shout their mouth off hey!

hmmm i take it you dont like blacks,hispanics,gays either ?

cezam · 07-27-2003, 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zorgman
Maybe to her your more of a "FRIEND" then someone she wants to date.

The first girl I gave flowers to send them back to me with a note.

" Give them to someone that feels something back to you! ".

I kind of got the picture at that point.

LOL... that sucks man

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 07-27-2003, 10:26 AM

if she didnt take them home..that is a big ass sign that says " I have a significant other".....when a woman gets flowers, she likes to take them home and stare at them around her house...

I would flat out ask her if she is spoken for and if not does she want to go out on a date...

Peaches · 07-27-2003, 10:29 AM

Personally, I wouldn't like flowers sent to me by someone who hasn't even asked me out. Flowers are a 3rd+ date thing to me. I get creeped out even if they send them after the first date - it's just too much.

Kanoealoha · 07-27-2003, 10:32 AM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
if she didnt take them home..that is a big ass sign that says " I have a significant other".....when a woman gets flowers, she likes to take them home and stare at them around her house...

I would flat out ask her if she is spoken for and if not does she want to go out on a date...

True, she could have a significant other... though if she was really smart she'd say the girls at the salon got them for her because she's been there for so many years or something...

Another thought could be she loves ppl asking her about them or she spends more time at work, so they can be enjoyed more...

Fuck all the advice here and ask her already!

Lonny · 07-27-2003, 10:33 AM

don't buy them, pic them from you neighbors yard or something. then you'll have a excusse to say your broke then you'll have money for pot and booze. Iv done it more then once in the past just my

4 ya

Elli · 07-27-2003, 12:02 PM

I wouldn't send flowers until you have spoken for her. Otherwise it;s a territorial thing. If she was dating someone else, and he saw the flowers, that could cause real trouble for her. Better to bring her a single rose when you pick her up for your first date. It'll totally sweep her off her feet.

Cardboard Box · 07-27-2003, 12:10 PM

Flowers?

You're kidding, right?

It's been my experience that an SL500 makes a much better impression.

Raven · 07-27-2003, 12:23 PM

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Originally posted by pornjudge

why would it be creepy? I am not a total stranger, we talked allot together on when we were alone. We talked about private things & she even wants to go to my family's cottage with me for a week or two. We even talked on opening a business together& allot of other stuff. Now why I did not asked her out? I have always asked her what she is doing tonight when I saw her but never asked her for a date. I know I will need to rethink my strategie & give it some time. I am not a cheap guy, I would give allot to this woman.

What kind of flowers did you send?

I think it's nice....not sure I 'get' her reaction....unless she's the shy type who doesn't want a whole lot of attention drawn to her....

and I probably wouldn't suggest sending roses for a first time....but, daisies are always wonderful....and non threatening...

well..and tea roses with baby's breath...that would be awesome, too...

TheJimmy · 07-27-2003, 12:28 PM

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Originally posted by pornjudge
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When is the best time to buy flowers to girl that you have feelings for?...

when she gives you ______

exitmoney2 · 07-27-2003, 12:44 PM

send her a dozen red roses after she swallows.

archer · 07-27-2003, 12:54 PM

anytime is a good time to send flowers

it's especially a good time to sender her flowers after you've selpt with a) her sister b) her best friend c) her brother or d) any combination of the above

Micah - Drizunk · 07-27-2003, 01:31 PM

I dont buy women anything. I just let them get really drunk and.....

grogan · 07-27-2003, 01:51 PM

Send her a dead cat.

pornjudge · 07-27-2003, 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Raven

What kind of flowers did you send?

I think it's nice....not sure I 'get' her reaction....unless she's the shy type who doesn't want a whole lot of attention drawn to her....

and I probably wouldn't suggest sending roses for a first time....but, daisies are always wonderful....and non threatening...

well..and tea roses with baby's breath...that would be awesome, too...

I sent her a bouquet of Gerbera...

07-27-2003, 08:27 AM	#1
pornjudge So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Upmywomansass Posts: 2,214	When to buy flowers to a woman you like? Hey guys & gals, When is the best time to buy flowers to girl that you have feelings for? This girl works at a hair salon as an esthitician & we have been talking for a while now but I never asked her out but my hairdresser told me she is interested in me. I sent her some flowers this past friday. I went by yesterday & bought something from the salon & I saw her & she said thank-you that was so sweet Blah Blah Blah I asked her if she brought the flowers home, she said no. The flowers are in my room & she showed them to me. When we were alone she told me, their is one thing that bothers me about this, I said what? Now everybody in the salon is talking about this & I am a discreet woman & I don't like people to know about my personnal things? Any guys been in this situation before? As for all the woman out there, what does it mean when you get flowers, I am not talking about getting flowers in a club where you meet the guy for the first time. Just to let ya all know, I am still strong & standing I have been threw worst shit before Thx...

07-27-2003, 08:37 AM	#4
gornyhuy Chafed. Join Date: May 2002 Location: Face Down in Pussy Posts: 18,041	The best way to improve the situation is to park the van you live in out in front of her house for a few days and look at her through binoculars. If she confronts you, just say you are bird watching. __________________ icq:159548293

07-27-2003, 08:48 AM	#11
Zorgman Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 6,103	Maybe to her your more of a "FRIEND" then someone she wants to date. The first girl I gave flowers to send them back to me with a note. " Give them to someone that feels something back to you! ". I kind of got the picture at that point. __________________ ---

07-27-2003, 08:56 AM	#16
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07-27-2003, 09:05 AM	#23
LadyMischief Orgasms N Such! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Oakville, Ontario Posts: 18,135	As soon as possible..and send them somewhere that will get her attention.. like work. Women LOVE that sappy shit, and they love being able to show off that kind of thing to their friends... __________________ ICQ 3522039 Content Manager - orgasm.com [email protected]

07-27-2003, 08:29 AM	#2
hybrid So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Backseat of a Ford Escort Hatchback Posts: 3,253	Sending flowers to someone you have'nt even taken out on a date is not only creepy, it's weak. Rethink your approach, man.

07-27-2003, 08:31 AM	#3
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	I think is kinda strange she didn't take them home. But what do I know?

07-27-2003, 08:39 AM	#5
MattO The O is for Oohhh Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: AUSTIN TEJAS Posts: 10,861	My folk's own a Florist, and they tell me any time is good to send flowers.. the problem here is that she works in a Salon, which is the most gossipin' place on the planet. All those women do all day is talk about other people's business. So keep sending her stuff at work.

07-27-2003, 08:40 AM	#6
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	So true Matt!

07-27-2003, 08:50 AM	#12
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	Zorgman that is just rude! Sorry she did that but you are better off with out that rude bitch!

07-27-2003, 08:54 AM	#13
Undutchable Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 2,217	Women who read this: What do you do when a guy is constantly sending you stuff, always around you but never asks you on a date......? Exactly. I've seen this enough to know it's the wrong way to go.

07-27-2003, 08:55 AM	#14
Scootermuze Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 4,513	Sending flowers is only part of it... The kind of flowers you send can mean different things.. Some flowers are for love, some for friendship, some for just being nice, yada yada.. But at the early stages of a situation, it should be kept private, especially if you have no idea how the other side feels.

07-27-2003, 08:56 AM	#15
cherrylula lol Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15,969	Now all her co-workers think she's a ho for sure... kidding but that is usually why a girl receives flowers at work. Means she is giving up the poontang and somebody wants some more. So don't give flowers unless you are fucking, because it might creep a girl out.

07-27-2003, 08:57 AM	#18
Deepundercover Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 312	I've found that buying flowers for a woman is a tricky thing. I sent flowers (at a cost of $90, with a card saying 'I love you') to a woman I adored after two months of dating her and other intimate things. She replied, 'Thanks, but I think it is too soon to talk about love. We don't know each other.' We went out for another few months, but I never bought her flowers again after that put-down. Women despise weakness. Women despise you when you're too needy for them and when you shower them with gifts and affection. Sending flowers can exacerbate a woman's concerns about intimacy or if she is worthy of love. So next time, I'll just give her a couple of flowers and see if she appreciates them. If she does, I'll send more next time. In this case, Judge, I don't think she likes you that much or she would've taken the flowers home and not been embarrassed about the gossip.

07-27-2003, 09:10 AM	#25
AWC Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Bumfuck Posts: 1,223	IF... she took the flowers home... her hubby/boyfriend/significant other would have been pissed too.

07-27-2003, 09:11 AM	#26
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	Porn Judge we still have unsettled business..dont think i forget shit easily.... watch who you fuck with in this business

07-27-2003, 09:12 AM	#27
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	WHY DONT YOU GET HER A T SHIRT WITH A NAZI SWASTIKA ON IT YOU RACIST PIECE OF SHIT AND THEN MAYBE YOU GUYS ON YOUR FIRST DATE CAN GO BURN SOME CROSSES

07-27-2003, 10:26 AM	#34
C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	if she didnt take them home..that is a big ass sign that says " I have a significant other".....when a woman gets flowers, she likes to take them home and stare at them around her house... I would flat out ask her if she is spoken for and if not does she want to go out on a date...

07-27-2003, 10:29 AM	#35
Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	Personally, I wouldn't like flowers sent to me by someone who hasn't even asked me out. Flowers are a 3rd+ date thing to me. I get creeped out even if they send them after the first date - it's just too much.

07-27-2003, 10:33 AM	#37
Lonny Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Riverside Ca. Posts: 3,539	don't buy them, pic them from you neighbors yard or something. then you'll have a excusse to say your broke then you'll have money for pot and booze. Iv done it more then once in the past just my 4 ya

07-27-2003, 12:02 PM	#38
Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	I wouldn't send flowers until you have spoken for her. Otherwise it;s a territorial thing. If she was dating someone else, and he saw the flowers, that could cause real trouble for her. Better to bring her a single rose when you pick her up for your first date. It'll totally sweep her off her feet. __________________ email: [email protected]

07-27-2003, 12:10 PM	#39
Cardboard Box Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: Blue Mountain Beach Posts: 46	Flowers? You're kidding, right? It's been my experience that an SL500 makes a much better impression.

07-27-2003, 12:44 PM	#42
exitmoney2 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 5	send her a dozen red roses after she swallows. __________________ David. http://www.ExitMoney2.com (We buy traffic and have beards)

07-27-2003, 12:54 PM	#43
archer Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,721	anytime is a good time to send flowers it's especially a good time to sender her flowers after you've selpt with a) her sister b) her best friend c) her brother or d) any combination of the above __________________ Looking to promote uncut cock? Check out Uncut Cash. It rocks.

07-27-2003, 01:31 PM	#44
Micah - Drizunk Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: San Diego Posts: 759	I dont buy women anything. I just let them get really drunk and..... __________________ Sig was always too big...

07-27-2003, 01:51 PM	#45
grogan So Fucking Banned Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: CHICAGO Posts: 2,284	Send her a dead cat.