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Old 07-27-2003, 08:57 AM  
Deepundercover
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I've found that buying flowers for a woman is a tricky thing. I sent flowers (at a cost of $90, with a card saying 'I love you') to a woman I adored after two months of dating her and other intimate things. She replied, 'Thanks, but I think it is too soon to talk about love. We don't know each other.'

We went out for another few months, but I never bought her flowers again after that put-down.

Women despise weakness. Women despise you when you're too needy for them and when you shower them with gifts and affection.

Sending flowers can exacerbate a woman's concerns about intimacy or if she is worthy of love.

So next time, I'll just give her a couple of flowers and see if she appreciates them. If she does, I'll send more next time.

In this case, Judge, I don't think she likes you that much or she would've taken the flowers home and not been embarrassed about the gossip.
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