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Originally posted by Deepundercover
I've found that buying flowers for a woman is a tricky thing. I sent flowers (at a cost of $90, with a card saying 'I love you') to a woman I adored after two months of dating her and other intimate things. She replied, 'Thanks, but I think it is too soon to talk about love. We don't know each other.'
We went out for another few months, but I never bought her flowers again after that put-down.
Women despise weakness. Women despise you when you're too needy for them and when you shower them with gifts and affection.
Sending flowers can exacerbate a woman's concerns about intimacy or if she is worthy of love.
So next time, I'll just give her a couple of flowers and see if she appreciates them. If she does, I'll send more next time.
In this case, Judge, I don't think she likes you that much or she would've taken the flowers home and not been embarrassed about the gossip.
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Exactly, act like you can take it or leave it.
In fact a couple of months ago I meet a lovely girl, I was half way through re-starting my internet adult business and was doing 12 hour days, I'd go over see her for 2-4 hours and leave at 1am to goto work and I often didn't have time for her when you wanted to see me. I sent her flowers after our first night together with a nice note. She loved them. I didn't give her flowsers again for 3 months but when I did I bought a teddybear made of flowers with a hand written note (she liked that). Now we are a happy couple.
I never had a girl for quite awhile, and it was funny when I finally hit the point where I didn't give a shit about girls cause I was so busy with work and just enjoying living and exercising that a beautiful girl dropped into my life.
Just make sure that when one does drop into your life that you not too keen. Its pretty easy to act like you don't care when you do. Just don't seem desperate.
I'd never send flowsers to a girl but each to there own. There is no rule book and it sounds like you havea repour going already.