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IntenseCash · 06-04-2003, 08:48 PM

has a 6 year old daughter!!??

I just found out that one of my best friends has a 6 year old daughter! I have known him for 5 years, I guess he gave up all legal rights as soon as she was born, but he just recently starting seeing her again.

We used to hang out almost everyday. Everyone else around me knew. I dont know why I was left out... I am just so absolutely shocked! Its going to be hard for me to trust him again.

Everyone tells me its no big deal, so am I making a big deal out of this?

BTW he is 26 now

detoxed · 06-04-2003, 08:51 PM

jealous?

Steve · 06-04-2003, 08:55 PM

get over it - everyon deals with problems in their own way

dirtyone · 06-04-2003, 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by IntenseCash
Everyone tells me its no big deal, so am I making a big deal out of this?

Yes.

alias · 06-04-2003, 08:57 PM

best friends are gay

Dveron · 06-04-2003, 08:57 PM

I'm sure he had a good reason to keep it from you? Have you asked him? Even the closet friends and family keep secrets from one another for various reasons in my experience. Been too honest with somebody can do more harm than good to that relationship in the long run imho.

foolio · 06-04-2003, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by IntenseCash

We used to hang out almost everyday. Everyone else around me knew. I dont know why I was left out... I am just so absolutely shocked! Its going to be hard for me to trust him again.

two things:

1. he does not like you.

2. Are you male? If so WTF would you care? You are acting like he broke your heart or something...

Dj Furious · 06-04-2003, 08:59 PM

my buddy has a 7 year old kid.. he's 20

that is crazy shit..

IntenseCash · 06-04-2003, 09:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by foolio

two things:

1. he does not like you.

2. Are you male? If so WTF would you care? You are acting like he broke your heart or something...

LOL I just put too much trust in people I suppose

dirtyone · 06-04-2003, 09:05 PM

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Originally posted by IntenseCash

LOL I just put too much trust in people I suppose

Trust?

He had the kid a year before you knew him.

He had no responsiblity to inform you.

You're being silly.

SonOfRage · 06-04-2003, 09:06 PM

Id send him to the Navy

foolio · 06-04-2003, 09:09 PM

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Originally posted by dirtyone
You're being silly.

lol

Indeed · 06-04-2003, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by IntenseCash
has a 6 year old daughter!!??

I just found out that one of my best friends has a 6 year old daughter! I have known him for 5 years, I guess he gave up all legal rights as soon as she was born, but he just recently starting seeing her again.

We used to hang out almost everyday. Everyone else around me knew. I dont know why I was left out... I am just so absolutely shocked! Its going to be hard for me to trust him again.

Everyone tells me its no big deal, so am I making a big deal out of this?

BTW he is 26 now

he's not a real friend...disregard what others tell you here...if I had a girl, my friends would know and vice versa....sorry for you but this guy is a "superficial" friend....you can continue hanging out with him but you will NEVER fully trust him....

IntenseCash · 06-04-2003, 09:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Indeed

he's not a real friend...disregard what others tell you here...if I had a girl, my friends would know and vice versa....sorry for you but this guy is a "superficial" friend....you can continue hanging out with him but you will NEVER fully trust him....

Thanks someone who actually sees my point of view!

Indeed · 06-04-2003, 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by IntenseCash

Thanks someone who actually sees my point of view!

it's not like he just got a new TV or something..he had a daughter for 6 FUCKING years! ...

dirtyone · 06-04-2003, 09:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Indeed

he's not a real friend...disregard what others tell you here...if I had a girl, my friends would know and vice versa....sorry for you but this guy is a "superficial" friend....you can continue hanging out with him but you will NEVER fully trust him....

You're being facetious right?

NoCarrier · 06-04-2003, 09:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by IntenseCash
has a 6 year old daughter!!??

I just found out that one of my best friends has a 6 year old daughter! I have known him for 5 years, I guess he gave up all legal rights as soon as she was born, but he just recently starting seeing her again.

We used to hang out almost everyday. Everyone else around me knew. I dont know why I was left out... I am just so absolutely shocked! Its going to be hard for me to trust him again.

Everyone tells me its no big deal, so am I making a big deal out of this?

BTW he is 26 now

Next show: "I love the cock, I love my friend. But I thought he was gay. No, he has a kid".

4Pics · 06-04-2003, 11:37 PM

You are way over reacting on this, it is no big deal. Be happy you get to see her and that he is your friend.

michaelw · 06-04-2003, 11:45 PM

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Originally posted by NoCarrier

Next show: "I love the cock, I love my friend. But I thought he was gay. No, he has a kid".

Missy · 06-05-2003, 12:07 AM

Would it have changed your friendship if you had known he had a kid? I really doubt it. So why let it chang the friendship now?
Giving up the legal rights when she was born is obviously something he isn't proud of, and is now having second thoughts and trying to rectify it. That's credit in my book... even if it is 5 years later. I wouldn't let it bother me if I were you.
There's quite a few things my best friend doesn't know about me, and I'm sure there are things I don't know about her. Mystery is what keeps relationships interesting.

Ironhorse · 06-05-2003, 12:10 AM

You are right to be hurt about it but he must have a reason why he kept it secret. Maybe he felt guilty for not being full-time dad, whatever. Maybe you should ask him why he kept it a secret.

BluMedia · 06-05-2003, 02:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by NoCarrier

Next show: "I love the cock, I love my friend. But I thought he was gay. No, he has a kid".

Fucking funny as hell

Tipsy · 06-05-2003, 03:04 AM

WTF is wrong with people lately? Have we got a permanent full moon?

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IntenseCash Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Colorado Posts: 2,421	what would you do if you found out your best friend... has a 6 year old daughter!!?? I just found out that one of my best friends has a 6 year old daughter! I have known him for 5 years, I guess he gave up all legal rights as soon as she was born, but he just recently starting seeing her again. We used to hang out almost everyday. Everyone else around me knew. I dont know why I was left out... I am just so absolutely shocked! Its going to be hard for me to trust him again. Everyone tells me its no big deal, so am I making a big deal out of this? BTW he is 26 now __________________ IntenseCash.com ~ Chuck \| ICQ: 444887112 Top converting sites: BrokeStraightBoys.com, CollegeDudes.com & CollegeBoyPhysicals.com

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Ironhorse Pixel Pusher Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,093	You are right to be hurt about it but he must have a reason why he kept it secret. Maybe he felt guilty for not being full-time dad, whatever. Maybe you should ask him why he kept it a secret. __________________ [email protected]

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Dveron Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Vancouver Posts: 2,794	I'm sure he had a good reason to keep it from you? Have you asked him? Even the closet friends and family keep secrets from one another for various reasons in my experience. Been too honest with somebody can do more harm than good to that relationship in the long run imho.

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SonOfRage Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: You have a cute daughter, mind if I jack? Posts: 632	Id send him to the Navy

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4Pics Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 7,952	You are way over reacting on this, it is no big deal. Be happy you get to see her and that he is your friend.

06-05-2003, 12:07 AM	#20
Missy FLASHCA$H.COM Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: In my skin Posts: 1,257	Would it have changed your friendship if you had known he had a kid? I really doubt it. So why let it chang the friendship now? Giving up the legal rights when she was born is obviously something he isn't proud of, and is now having second thoughts and trying to rectify it. That's credit in my book... even if it is 5 years later. I wouldn't let it bother me if I were you. There's quite a few things my best friend doesn't know about me, and I'm sure there are things I don't know about her. Mystery is what keeps relationships interesting.