what would you do if you found out your best friend...
 

has a 6 year old daughter!!??

I just found out that one of my best friends has a 6 year old daughter! I have known him for 5 years, I guess he gave up all legal rights as soon as she was born, but he just recently starting seeing her again.

We used to hang out almost everyday. Everyone else around me knew. I dont know why I was left out... I am just so absolutely shocked! Its going to be hard for me to trust him again.

Everyone tells me its no big deal, so am I making a big deal out of this? :helpme

BTW he is 26 now

jealous?

get over it - everyon deals with problems in their own way

Yes.

best friends are gay

I'm sure he had a good reason to keep it from you? Have you asked him? Even the closet friends and family keep secrets from one another for various reasons in my experience. Been too honest with somebody can do more harm than good to that relationship in the long run imho.

two things:

1. he does not like you.

2. Are you male? If so WTF would you care? You are acting like he broke your heart or something...

my buddy has a 7 year old kid.. he's 20

that is crazy shit..

LOL I just put too much trust in people I suppose

Trust?

He had the kid a year before you knew him.

He had no responsiblity to inform you.

You're being silly. :eek7

Id send him to the Navy

lol

he's not a real friend...disregard what others tell you here...if I had a girl, my friends would know and vice versa....sorry for you but this guy is a "superficial" friend....you can continue hanging out with him but you will NEVER fully trust him....

Thanks someone who actually sees my point of view!

:BangBang:

it's not like he just got a new TV or something..he had a daughter for 6 FUCKING years! ...

You're being facetious right?

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Next show: "I love the cock, I love my friend. But I thought he was gay. No, he has a kid".

You are way over reacting on this, it is no big deal. Be happy you get to see her and that he is your friend.

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Would it have changed your friendship if you had known he had a kid? I really doubt it. So why let it chang the friendship now?
Giving up the legal rights when she was born is obviously something he isn't proud of, and is now having second thoughts and trying to rectify it. That's credit in my book... even if it is 5 years later. I wouldn't let it bother me if I were you.
There's quite a few things my best friend doesn't know about me, and I'm sure there are things I don't know about her. Mystery is what keeps relationships interesting.

You are right to be hurt about it but he must have a reason why he kept it secret. Maybe he felt guilty for not being full-time dad, whatever. Maybe you should ask him why he kept it a secret.

Fucking funny as hell

WTF is wrong with people lately? Have we got a permanent full moon?