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thefreakybeaver · 05-22-2003, 10:56 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by HoiDaKalen
had a girlfriend for the past 6 months. always treated her with respect, always tried to make her smile. we had some stale moments, but hey, who doesnt. i find out through a friend of hers that she cheated on me like 6 weeks ago. I confront her about it and she denies it. i found out again that she cheated on me through another friend, except a different time, so i confront her again. after like 40 minutes ofa rgueing she gives in but admits to only doing it once with another person (the first confrontation). i ask her about the 2nd, she denies it until i threaten to call one of her friends in front of her and make her ask. she admits to it. she tells me shes sorry, she never wanted to hurt me, she loves me, blah blah blah blah blah. cries, runs after me, all this crap. blames it on the alcohol. promises she told me everything. THEN the next day, i find out that she fucked some kid at a party verry recently. i didnt confront her about it yet. i dont know what i should do, please, any advice is appreciated.

Scanned through the thread so if this was already suggested forgive me.

Do you want to stay with her?
She only cheats when she is drunk?

If so tell her in order to stay in a relationship with you she MUST quit drinking completely. I had a friend who was the same way she ONLY cheated on her guy when she was drunk. She finally quite drinking and is now in a relationship for like 7 years and has never cheated on him to my knowledge.

I also know a few men who would only cheat when they were drinking so I think that whole drinking thing does cause more cheating because it messes up your judgement and you do things you would never do straight.

Zorgman · 05-22-2003, 10:57 AM

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Originally posted by HoiDaKalen

genius

but how do i make her feeel like shit ---- reallly regret it.

Organise a day out with her closest friends (not family) and in make a scene in front and dump her in front of them.

"Which guys did you fuck the other day? Was it him".

Revenge is only as big as you see it. With all her friends around it might change their opinions about her.

Sounds like a slut to me.

HoiDaKalen · 05-22-2003, 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zorgman

Organise a day out with her closest friends (not family) and in make a scene in front and dump her in front of them.

"Which guys did you fuck the other day? Was it him".

Revenge is only as big as you see it. With all her friends around it might change their opinions about her.

Sounds like a slut to me.

this is a really good plan

HoiDaKalen · 05-22-2003, 11:02 AM

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Originally posted by HoiDaKalen

this is a really good plan

it would just take too long

Mr Cheeks · 05-22-2003, 11:02 AM

dump the bitch, but keep her around as free pussy. you gotta give her the treatment she deserves dawg.

she's a ho, so treat her accordingly. keep her within reach, tap that ass whenever you want to, and don't get caught up on some other shit.

it's the perfect situation if you ask me. life is hsort. make the best out the situation. i know it hurts sometimes, but keep ya head up soldia! make the best out of it...

Monique Niccole · 05-22-2003, 11:05 AM

If you need us to tell you that you should break up with her then you deserve to be cheated on

stocktrader23 · 05-22-2003, 11:10 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime

Be happier without her.

Works every time. Girls can't fucking stand it if your happy after you guys split up. They'll go nuts trying to have another chance to come fuck things up again (since the last time apparently didn't do the trick)

Aint that the fucking truth.

stevecore · 05-22-2003, 11:18 AM

man, sounds exactly just like what i went through with my ex back in Sept. cheated on me, swore she loved me, tried to burn down my apt. when i broke it off yada yada yada.

just ran into her again about 3 weeks ago, she's basically living at my house again while cheating on her current boyfriend with me.... we're just keeping the relationship open so nobody gets hurt. it's still tough cuz the feelings are still there...maybe a step back in your relationship would actually help or maybe just some time off.

best advice i can give, just have fun while youre with her, nothing lasts forever.

smack · 05-22-2003, 11:22 AM

to solve this problem you will need several thing:

50 lb bag of lime
small shovel
hatchet or machette
plastic wrap

i think you can take it from here.

Cassie · 05-22-2003, 11:29 AM

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Originally posted by HoiDaKalen

genius

but how do i make her feeel like shit ---- reallly regret it.

you know what, just her knowing who she is and how she will get hers 3 fold should be enough of a regret for her pathetic life. she will come to terms on who she is one day and then realize how much she hates looking in the mirror.

i know that doesnt give you satisfaction now but mark my words she will want you back and when that happens, say one word only......NO and then either hang up the phone, close the door or walk away. at that point she will know what a slut she really is.

i am one to always stick up for my female population BUT
once a c0ck hopper, always one. what's wrong is wrong...end of story!

RoCkMaN · 05-22-2003, 11:31 AM

fuck her mother.....
.....better yet...
fuck her father

0zzy · 05-22-2003, 11:52 AM

Okay HoiDaKalen, I have read the whole thread. Here is my suggestion. Start dating other girl while you are still with her. That way you can still bang her at night. Because if you dump her right now, you might be not doing the oil change for months. One you will find a girl of your type, than dump your current girlfriend. At least you would not have been at her level since you wouldn't have been bangging around and when you will dump her you will already have someone else to go with. I think that's your best solution.

Just my

amph · 05-22-2003, 12:02 PM

A tough one bro.. But remember, what doesnt kill ya, makes ya stronger. Just never again let anyone go away with doing anything behind your back.. keep yer eyes open and you will be fine

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Cassie · 05-22-2003, 12:12 PM

this is the exact reason i stay away from relationships. constantly looking over your shoulder and having to keep one step ahead is too much work. relationships these days are a joke and in order to be in one, people should be required to complete a 12 month class and if you cheat, you should be put on house arrest for 12 months with permission to leave for work related issues only and be required to watch the lifetime channel only (24/7). i bet quite a few people would wise up!

why people feel the need to play games when they say they care is so beyond my wanting to understand it amazes me. as if there isnt enough going on in a person's life to begin with, just add more stress by being in a relationship.

HoiDaKalen · 05-22-2003, 02:54 PM

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Originally posted by Cassie
this is the exact reason i stay away from relationships. constantly looking over your shoulder and having to keep one step ahead is too much work. relationships these days are a joke and in order to be in one, people should be required to complete a 12 month class and if you cheat, you should be put on house arrest for 12 months with permission to leave for work related issues only and be required to watch the lifetime channel only (24/7). i bet quite a few people would wise up!

why people feel the need to play games when they say they care is so beyond my wanting to understand it amazes me. as if there isnt enough going on in a person's life to begin with, just add more stress by being in a relationship.

exactly how i feel right about now

StupidFuckingWhore · 05-22-2003, 03:32 PM

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Originally posted by rooster
I was dating some broad and found out by hacking into her email that she cheated on me

hey, how do you go about hacking in hotmail or yahoo anyhow?

Mr. Jim · 05-22-2003, 03:42 PM

That is tough because you have not been prepared to sever the emotional ties. Unfortunately she is conflicted between the urge to act on sexual impulse and the security of being in a full time relationship.

I feel you need to let her go. not a hey I am mad and we need to take some time off. A clean break. Clip it off and do not look back. This kind of break up is usually the toughest because you never get full closure. You do get to walk away with your dignity in tact.

If you have committed yourself and have not had the same in return. Walk away and know you did what any grounded person would do. it is not the easiest road, in fact it is to the contrary but it is really the only choice she has left you with. Be sure to tell her that you have hurt me far beyond anything I could have imagined and for that I have to move on

she will be left at the curb looking like the shallow person she is. The best way to recover is go find a hotter girl...or a girl you are really into become very happy and not really think about her until you hear stories of insecure cheating girls who end up being 34 alone and living with two cats and spend sunday nights watching sex in the city eating pizza and being miserable withthe other women she knows who have done the same

Betray · 05-22-2003, 03:47 PM

yo straight up, og fuck other girls and fuck her on the side
treat her like she treats you.. i hate girls like that...

wildporno · 05-22-2003, 03:49 PM

fuck her and tell her "get the fuck out of here u slut"
i swear i would do exactly that

Libertine · 05-22-2003, 03:56 PM

Dump her. Tell her your opinion about her and what she did really nicely, and make it clear what exactly she screwed up.

In the end, that's what'll hurt her most. If you act like an asshole, she'll be able to justify what she did to herself, and make you seem like the bad guy in her own mind. Be nice, but dump her, making it very clear that it's all her fault.

sixzeros · 05-22-2003, 04:41 PM

Relationships.. bahhh, they're only a problem if you agree to a monogomy.

As I told my wife.. 'I'll never lie to you and I'll never cheat, and I'll never be faithful, and if you're cool with that, then lets get married.'

What fucks you up more the fact that shes a sexy horny bitch that everyone wants to fuck (ahem* and does), or those straight face lies?

Maybe you should both explore the retardedness of monogomy, the fucked up blurry misunderstandings of what is love and what is lust, how we think they're the same thing, and why we think that we MUST be in a relationship with someone in order to have sex, lest we be labelled whores or sluts, or assholes.

And why as soon as we have sex, that all of a sudden theres this concept of ownership inferred by the act, What are we thinking? 'I have marked this territory - therefore it now belongs to me - as well as all that maintains it.' And now you own me too, and all that I should do, and all that I might think or act.

And all because society has conditioned us into believing this is in some way normal?

Pretty fucked up deal I reckon, too bad AIDs came along, its about the only reason for pursuing such a fucked idea.

I bet such a contract would be preposterous to a pornstar. You fuck me - you own me.

But get this, nobody wants to be owned. And you can play this to your advantage, if you get intimate enough with someone to ponder these questions together, pretty soon you'll find yourself having this wonderful casual sex, whenever you want and with lots of consenting chicks, even 3 somes and more. You'll be getting booty calls all the time, by chicks who just want you to come on over and fuck them silly for the night, if you're not too busy already that is, and hey! she might even have a friend she wants you to meet.

Because really there seems to be no logical reason for the ownership and monogomous deals we make in order to have sex, other than they've been conditioned into us.

They force us into a position in which we must live in conflict. Either by lying and cheating, or by denying our natural desires.

Sounds like this girl is living honestly by her instincts, maybe you should too.

Believe me, theres nothing better than no holds barred sex with a free spirit, rather than some up tight monogomous bitch with all these fucking rules and conditions attached.

The rewards are there if you can get your head around this shit, you can start doing some serious fucking. I mean some serious fucking!

Exxxotica · 05-22-2003, 04:44 PM

I miss the old days when you could severly beat a woman for being unfaithful.

twistyneck · 05-22-2003, 04:45 PM

Keep her. I'm sure she didn't mean to hurt you and if she says she won't do it again, you should trust her.

GTS Mark · 05-22-2003, 04:49 PM

Get rid of her and get on with your life.

DH

TheEnforcer · 05-22-2003, 04:51 PM

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Originally posted by -=HOAX=-
Send her this way...she sounds dirty.

Oh man.. I just read that and just about fell out of my chair laughing!!

All these serious advice posts and then WHAM!! yours comes along. Too fucking funny!!

TheEnforcer · 05-22-2003, 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by HoiDaKalen
ok, so i am pretty much settled on the getting rid of her part. now..... how do i make her pay?

Don't. Just chalk it up as experience and move on.

AngelAllgood · 05-22-2003, 04:57 PM

fuck some other bitch and make your girl suck your dick afterwards

Mr. Jim · 05-22-2003, 05:00 PM

Originally posted by HoiDaKalen
ok, so i am pretty much settled on the getting rid of her part. now..... how do i make her pay?

in $20's

rooster · 05-22-2003, 05:03 PM

"hey, how do you go about hacking in hotmail or yahoo anyhow?"

hacking was probably the wrong word, but I guessed her password.

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Mr Cheeks Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 901	dump the bitch, but keep her around as free pussy. you gotta give her the treatment she deserves dawg. she's a ho, so treat her accordingly. keep her within reach, tap that ass whenever you want to, and don't get caught up on some other shit. it's the perfect situation if you ask me. life is hsort. make the best out the situation. i know it hurts sometimes, but keep ya head up soldia! make the best out of it...

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05-22-2003, 11:18 AM	#58
stevecore Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 6,130	man, sounds exactly just like what i went through with my ex back in Sept. cheated on me, swore she loved me, tried to burn down my apt. when i broke it off yada yada yada. just ran into her again about 3 weeks ago, she's basically living at my house again while cheating on her current boyfriend with me.... we're just keeping the relationship open so nobody gets hurt. it's still tough cuz the feelings are still there...maybe a step back in your relationship would actually help or maybe just some time off. best advice i can give, just have fun while youre with her, nothing lasts forever.

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Cassie Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: NJ Posts: 3,139	this is the exact reason i stay away from relationships. constantly looking over your shoulder and having to keep one step ahead is too much work. relationships these days are a joke and in order to be in one, people should be required to complete a 12 month class and if you cheat, you should be put on house arrest for 12 months with permission to leave for work related issues only and be required to watch the lifetime channel only (24/7). i bet quite a few people would wise up! why people feel the need to play games when they say they care is so beyond my wanting to understand it amazes me. as if there isnt enough going on in a person's life to begin with, just add more stress by being in a relationship. __________________ ICQ: 309756847 ]

05-22-2003, 03:42 PM	#68
Mr. Jim Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 4,372	That is tough because you have not been prepared to sever the emotional ties. Unfortunately she is conflicted between the urge to act on sexual impulse and the security of being in a full time relationship. I feel you need to let her go. not a hey I am mad and we need to take some time off. A clean break. Clip it off and do not look back. This kind of break up is usually the toughest because you never get full closure. You do get to walk away with your dignity in tact. If you have committed yourself and have not had the same in return. Walk away and know you did what any grounded person would do. it is not the easiest road, in fact it is to the contrary but it is really the only choice she has left you with. Be sure to tell her that you have hurt me far beyond anything I could have imagined and for that I have to move on she will be left at the curb looking like the shallow person she is. The best way to recover is go find a hotter girl...or a girl you are really into become very happy and not really think about her until you hear stories of insecure cheating girls who end up being 34 alone and living with two cats and spend sunday nights watching sex in the city eating pizza and being miserable withthe other women she knows who have done the same

05-22-2003, 03:47 PM	#69
Betray Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Toronto Posts: 346	yo straight up, og fuck other girls and fuck her on the side treat her like she treats you.. i hate girls like that...

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wildporno Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 108	fuck her and tell her "get the fuck out of here u slut" i swear i would do exactly that

05-22-2003, 03:56 PM	#71
Libertine sex dwarf Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 17,860	Dump her. Tell her your opinion about her and what she did really nicely, and make it clear what exactly she screwed up. In the end, that's what'll hurt her most. If you act like an asshole, she'll be able to justify what she did to herself, and make you seem like the bad guy in her own mind. Be nice, but dump her, making it very clear that it's all her fault. __________________ /(bb\|[^b]{2})/

05-22-2003, 04:41 PM	#72
sixzeros Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 53	Relationships.. bahhh, they're only a problem if you agree to a monogomy. As I told my wife.. 'I'll never lie to you and I'll never cheat, and I'll never be faithful, and if you're cool with that, then lets get married.' What fucks you up more the fact that shes a sexy horny bitch that everyone wants to fuck (ahem* and does), or those straight face lies? Maybe you should both explore the retardedness of monogomy, the fucked up blurry misunderstandings of what is love and what is lust, how we think they're the same thing, and why we think that we MUST be in a relationship with someone in order to have sex, lest we be labelled whores or sluts, or assholes. And why as soon as we have sex, that all of a sudden theres this concept of ownership inferred by the act, What are we thinking? 'I have marked this territory - therefore it now belongs to me - as well as all that maintains it.' And now you own me too, and all that I should do, and all that I might think or act. And all because society has conditioned us into believing this is in some way normal? Pretty fucked up deal I reckon, too bad AIDs came along, its about the only reason for pursuing such a fucked idea. I bet such a contract would be preposterous to a pornstar. You fuck me - you own me. But get this, nobody wants to be owned. And you can play this to your advantage, if you get intimate enough with someone to ponder these questions together, pretty soon you'll find yourself having this wonderful casual sex, whenever you want and with lots of consenting chicks, even 3 somes and more. You'll be getting booty calls all the time, by chicks who just want you to come on over and fuck them silly for the night, if you're not too busy already that is, and hey! she might even have a friend she wants you to meet. Because really there seems to be no logical reason for the ownership and monogomous deals we make in order to have sex, other than they've been conditioned into us. They force us into a position in which we must live in conflict. Either by lying and cheating, or by denying our natural desires. Sounds like this girl is living honestly by her instincts, maybe you should too. Believe me, theres nothing better than no holds barred sex with a free spirit, rather than some up tight monogomous bitch with all these fucking rules and conditions attached. The rewards are there if you can get your head around this shit, you can start doing some serious fucking. I mean some serious fucking!

05-22-2003, 04:44 PM	#73
Exxxotica Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oregun Posts: 4,396	I miss the old days when you could severly beat a woman for being unfaithful.

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05-22-2003, 05:00 PM	#79
Mr. Jim Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 4,372	Originally posted by HoiDaKalen ok, so i am pretty much settled on the getting rid of her part. now..... how do i make her pay? in $20's

05-22-2003, 05:03 PM	#80
rooster Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 2,384	"hey, how do you go about hacking in hotmail or yahoo anyhow?" hacking was probably the wrong word, but I guessed her password.