Male Co-worker tells me “love you” at the end of phone conversations sometimes - GoFuckYourself.com

VikingMan · Yesterday, 07:58 AM

He has a wife, a side piece, and 5 kids. Nothing gay. Just not sure how to handle it. I hear him tell one of is other long term friends this on the phone as well.
Do I say it back?

Spicy Wraith · Yesterday, 08:18 AM

probably just a habit from having to say it to a wife and 5 kids? or maybe he wants to get intimate... hey maybe some sexy time for ya soon

TheLegacy · Yesterday, 08:47 AM

There are those that are just affectionate but not gay - say what they feel.
You could simply reply with "right back at you" or "I feel the same way" - but its what you feel comfortable with.

Publisher Bucks · Yesterday, 09:28 AM

I do the same with people I've known since i was a kid at school, male and female.

xxxclusive · Yesterday, 09:45 AM

Sounds like a catch phrase. Do what you feel most comfortable, "you too", "thx" or tell him it sounds weird.

VikingMan · Yesterday, 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheLegacy

There are those that are just affectionate but not gay - say what they feel.
You could simply reply with "right back at you" or "I feel the same way" - but its what you feel comfortable with.

Yes I will try this . Also could this be a “black thing”? He is white but identifies as black because he grew up in da hood.

Retiree · Yesterday, 10:14 AM

Why not just ask him? Or tell him to stop if you don't like it?

CaptainHowdy · Yesterday, 10:34 AM

It's just a non-homo I love you . . .

CyberHustler · Yesterday, 10:50 AM

I tell my friends I love them all the time, especially when we’re parting ways. I’m just that type of guy. Life is too short, I like the people I love to know I love them. I’m also not exactly the biggest social butterfly, takes a lot to become my friend and if it happens it’s because I love you and ima tell you. If you think that’s weird, we’re probably not friends.

Co-workers are not automatically friends. Only say it back if you mean it.

blackmonsters · Yesterday, 03:41 PM

Damn.

Where is boyalley when you need him to answer a question.

VikingMan · Yesterday, 06:56 PM

I bought him a container of sliced organic strawberries instead of telling him him I love him. True story

Huggles · Yesterday, 09:21 PM

This seems like the backstory to an episode of The First 48 Hours

escorpio · Today, 05:45 AM

Ask him what he's wearing.

Publisher Bucks · Today, 06:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by escorpio

Ask him what he's wearing.

Then after he replies, tell him it'd look better on your bedroom floor and see what he says

TheLegacy · Today, 09:06 AM

not sure how old he is but there is a chance that as you get older you reflect on life and friends - and start to cherish each one. I never use to say it but after reading this thread I realize that some male friends of mine who are close to me I have said it but appropriate time and place.

The Porn Nerd · Today, 11:50 AM

Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

Huggles · Today, 12:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by escorpio

Ask him what he's wearing.

VikingMan · Today, 01:22 PM

Well just went I had it all figured out today we had another phone call. He said he has a 10 inch penis and stated “I will give you 2 inches. 8 inches would be better because I would get laid more”.
This is all so confusing.

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VikingMan Exploiting human weakness Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: next to a salmon stream Posts: 6,852	Male Co-worker tells me “love you” at the end of phone conversations sometimes He has a wife, a side piece, and 5 kids. Nothing gay. Just not sure how to handle it. I hear him tell one of is other long term friends this on the phone as well. Do I say it back?

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TheLegacy SEO & GEO Connoisseur Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Brantford, Ontario Posts: 18,062	There are those that are just affectionate but not gay - say what they feel. You could simply reply with "right back at you" or "I feel the same way" - but its what you feel comfortable with. __________________ SEO & GEO Connoisseur Microsoft Teams: Robert Warren SEO Telegram: @TheLegacy54 RobertWarrenSEO.com

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CyberHustler Masterbaiter Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 28,681	I tell my friends I love them all the time, especially when we’re parting ways. I’m just that type of guy. Life is too short, I like the people I love to know I love them. I’m also not exactly the biggest social butterfly, takes a lot to become my friend and if it happens it’s because I love you and ima tell you. If you think that’s weird, we’re probably not friends. Co-workers are not automatically friends. Only say it back if you mean it.

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TheLegacy SEO & GEO Connoisseur Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Brantford, Ontario Posts: 18,062	not sure how old he is but there is a chance that as you get older you reflect on life and friends - and start to cherish each one. I never use to say it but after reading this thread I realize that some male friends of mine who are close to me I have said it but appropriate time and place. __________________ SEO & GEO Connoisseur Microsoft Teams: Robert Warren SEO Telegram: @TheLegacy54 RobertWarrenSEO.com

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VikingMan Exploiting human weakness Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: next to a salmon stream Posts: 6,852	Well just went I had it all figured out today we had another phone call. He said he has a 10 inch penis and stated “I will give you 2 inches. 8 inches would be better because I would get laid more”. This is all so confusing.