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quiet · 04-02-2003, 09:48 AM

i still miss my ex gf, and it's been almost a full year. wtf?

fucking pathetic.

Ray@TastyDollars · 04-02-2003, 09:50 AM

Big heart

or just very lonley, hehe

Ray

Libertine · 04-02-2003, 09:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet
i still miss my ex gf, and it's been almost a full year. wtf?

fucking pathetic.

Not pathetic. Normal. They say it's usual to keep missing someone for half the time you've been with them...

quiet · 04-02-2003, 09:52 AM

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Originally posted by punkworld

Not pathetic. Normal. They say it's usual to keep missing someone for half the time you've been with them...

i hope that's not true. we lived together for 5 years...

Rip · 04-02-2003, 09:54 AM

I equate getting back with an ex, like finding an old pair of your shoes in the closet,

you like the way they look

when you put them on, they fit your feet good

however after you start to walk in them for a while, your feet start to hurt

when you wake up the next morning, you have blisters all over your feet, your ankles hurt, and you remember why you got rid of the shoes in the first place

angeleyes · 04-02-2003, 09:55 AM

Does she know you miss her? Do you want to get back together with her?

sinfulone · 04-02-2003, 09:57 AM

In the end, everything will turn out ok. If its not ok, its not the end.

mule · 04-02-2003, 09:57 AM

I guess you really loved her then.
It normally takes half the time you lived together to really get over someone. So in your case, 2 1/2 years. Of course, the pain wears off...the tail-end of the 2 1/2 years is nothing compared to the first months, as I'm sure it's much easier for you to handle now than it was a year ago.

mule · 04-02-2003, 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rip
I equate getting back with an ex, like finding an old pair of your shoes in the closet,

you like the way they look

when you put them on, they fit your feet good

however after you start to walk in them for a while, your feet start to hurt

when you wake up the next morning, you have blisters all over your feet, your ankles hurt, and you remember why you got rid of the shoes in the first place

Not to mention, they stink

ServerGenius · 04-02-2003, 10:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet

i hope that's not true. we lived together for 5 years...

Sit down in the middle of the room.....liquer within reach and
play:

Paul Weller - You do something to me
Elvis Costello - I want you
and ANY slow blues by Stevie Ray Vaughn

Never forget that feeling.

DynaMite

Sly_RJ · 04-02-2003, 10:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet
i still miss my ex gf, and it's been almost a full year. wtf?

fucking pathetic.

Hey man, I still love you.

You have a special place in my heart. Never forget that.

quiet · 04-02-2003, 10:02 AM

as predicted, pathetic thread. it's been a year for fuck sakes. damn.

mule · 04-02-2003, 10:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DynaSpain

Sit down in the middle of the room.....liquer within reach and
play:

Paul Weller - You do something to me
Elvis Costello - I want you
and ANY slow blues by Stevie Ray Vaughn

Never forget that feeling.

DynaMite

Shit, Dyna, after breaking up with my ex after 10 years, "I want you" by Costello still freaks me right out. That song is heavy...it's been 12 years now, and I still get goosebumps when I hear it

corvette · 04-02-2003, 10:03 AM

ever seen 'swingers'? good movie

thats a good analogy above about the shoes

good luck bro

[Labret] · 04-02-2003, 10:03 AM

replace love with rage. It is easier to hate.

Works for me.

thesexattic · 04-02-2003, 10:04 AM

Mule....thats a great sig...

mule · 04-02-2003, 10:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet
as predicted, pathetic thread. it's been a year for fuck sakes. damn.

No, it's not pathetic.
Alcohol helps

FATPad · 04-02-2003, 10:22 AM

Weren't you with her overall for 9 years?

quiet · 04-02-2003, 10:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Labret]
replace love with rage. It is easier to hate.

Works for me.

i have, and do. my drive is fucking huge - i built my business to something i couldn't have imagined previously... rage works, it's the aftermath that sucks.

iroc409 · 04-02-2003, 10:28 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet
i still miss my ex gf, and it's been almost a full year. wtf?

fucking pathetic.

know what you're going through, going through the same thing, from about a year ago. not sure what to do here, because we've been talking again, not sure what i want to do though.

angelsofporn · 04-02-2003, 10:28 AM

the most profitable times in my life have been the result of post relationship rage

mule · 04-02-2003, 10:29 AM

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Originally posted by angelsofporn
the most profitable times in my life have been the result of post relationship rage

Same here. If you channel it, you can perform miracles

Sarah_Jayne · 04-02-2003, 10:30 AM

i want to write this big long thing but I'll just leave it with saying I know how you feel.

iroc409 · 04-02-2003, 10:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mule

Same here. If you channel it, you can perform miracles

hellz yeah, rage is a huge amount of energy to be channeled in any direction.

yay adrenaline!

quiet · 04-02-2003, 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
[B]
Hey man]

cheers

fnet · 04-02-2003, 10:44 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mule

Same here. If you channel it, you can perform miracles

then you realize that you can convert any psychic chaos into woodgas. stick by stick you burn away

The Machine · 04-02-2003, 10:47 AM

These things are the hardest to deal with. The best solution is to move on, however difficult it may seem. And whatever you do, don't blame yourself or your business for what happened. If you were meant to be together, she would have stayed by your side through everything.

Rich · 04-02-2003, 10:48 AM

I'm married and sometimes I still miss my high school girlfriend. It's not our fault, it's a bitche's job to make guys crazy.

Yo Adrian · 04-02-2003, 10:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by FATPad
Weren't you with her overall for 9 years?

If so then it's understandable you're still getting over it....that's a long relationship in my book.

gothweb · 04-02-2003, 10:49 AM

I still miss some of my exes, and it's been years. Quite a few years, really. When you love someone, there is a piece of you that is only for them. That piece doesn't go away, it just gets buried. There's nothing wrong with still having feelings.

HS-Trixxxia · 04-02-2003, 10:50 AM

Rage just fills the wide gap the other half left when it was over.
I always felt that everyone that has walked through my path had a special meaning - whether I despised them afterwards or not, everything happens for a reason. Understanding why things played out the way they did and where it 'went wrong' or what was fantastic about it, will usually allow you to make peace with the outcome and helps you recognize history repeating itself or missed opportunities and make you change your gameplan accordingly.

BTW, keep the power and drive of the 'rage' and just lose the anger and everything works out for the best.

Ok.....I better not give up the day job ;-)

quiet · 04-02-2003, 10:51 AM

fuck is this weak. here i am, spit in my wound. probably your only chance :)

HS-Trixxxia · 04-02-2003, 11:09 AM

quiet,
As you can see, most of the posts were from men, all of which understood where you were coming from.
I think we'd all prefer to see ya happy. I think we can all remember that feeling.
I can send you a band-aid - but I don't spit :-)

GTS Mark · 04-02-2003, 11:10 AM

It took me almost 2 years to get over my ex. I still think of her everyday, after a while you just remember the good things and not remember so many of the bad.

I remember when it had only been a year since we broke up, I was in the same boat as you. I could'nt figure out why the hell I was still upset.

Give it some more time.

DH

hybrid · 04-02-2003, 11:35 AM

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fuck is this weak. here i am, spit in my wound. probably your only chance

No, thanks, I'm not that low. Besides, self-pity does'nt really suit you.

Look at your bank account, allocate a little cash into a seperate account and go on a chautauqua. Only way to heal is to be yourself by yourself with the world, as it is, enveloping who you used to be.

Jer · 04-02-2003, 11:41 AM

I was going to post something like "I know what you feel or I would feel the same" but... I'm with my first girlfriend. The first and the only.

I miss her, but it's because of the fucking distance. Friday I'll fly to there (3000km / ~ 1600 miles) and stay 20 or more days. I can't wait to move...

Quiet, does she have a bf now?

TheJimmy · 04-02-2003, 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet

i have, and do. my drive is fucking huge - i built my business to something i couldn't have imagined previously... rage works, it's the aftermath that sucks.

Sounds like you need a trip to the Greek islands, a few phatties, a few hotties, a few drinks with fruity things hangin out of them, etc....

....as for the time factor....I had a break up experience in the past...lived with her for 2+ years, almost got married, etc...

...took roughly a year until some of that 'damm what the HELL did I do' to wear off...

Funkito · 04-02-2003, 12:13 PM

Sounds like you were married, more or less. Ending a relationship that long is like having a part of your soul chewed off by hell-boars, especially if you weren't the one who wanted it to end. Loneliness is a totally normal feeling to have only a year later. But relationships that long end because they fucking have to, not because people want them to. A part of you will probably always miss the good parts of the relationship. Totally normal.

If you met someone who's business burned down and they were fucking broke, nothing left--what would you tell them to do? Cry your eyes out for a while, close that chapter of the book (cuz it's over) and then get your ass back in gear to start again and build something better. Friends help. Maybe meet some new blood and energy in graduate school. Good luck.

04-02-2003, 12:13 PM

you're fucking pathetic. hope that makes you feel better.

Martin · 04-02-2003, 12:14 PM

Know what makes me better when I'm down and out...

Coke and Hookers.. Picks me up every time

StupidNewbie · 04-02-2003, 12:16 PM

do you still have a box of her pictures and letters under your desk too?

Fugly · 04-02-2003, 12:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet
i still miss my ex gf, and it's been almost a full year. wtf?

fucking pathetic.

I miss your ex girlfriend too. I especially miss that thing she does with her... oops. I've said too much already.

HS-Trixxxia · 04-02-2003, 12:20 PM

hmmm....and the spiral down when the coke wears out and the hooker has collected her take is worse than reality...

quiet, don't do it!!!!!!

Fletch XXX · 04-02-2003, 12:29 PM

theres nothing quite like the pain of this void.

<font size="1">
Promises.

'Words
Words and expressions
All these confessions
Of where we stand

How I see you
And you see me
Dedications of symmetry
Together we will be
forever.
Promises are shit

We speak the way we breathe
Present air will have to do
Rearrange and see it through
Stupid fucking words
They tangle us in our desires
Free me from this give and take
Free me from this great debate

There were no truer words than when spoken
Let that stand as it should
There was nothing left when broken
We grab anything when we fall
Promises are shit

Stupid fucking words
They tangle us in our desires
Free me from this give and take
Free me from this great debate

You will do what you do
I will do what I do
We will do what we do
Rearrange and see it through

Go where you think you want to go
Do everything you were sent here for
Fire at will if you hear that call
Touch your hand to the wall at night

Promises. are only words.'</font>

nothing else to do but go outside and take a look around.

cheers.

Fletch XXX · 04-02-2003, 12:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Funkito
Ending a relationship that long is like having a part of your soul chewed off by hell-boars, especially if you weren't the one who wanted it to end.

to people who no longer want the relationship, REMAINING in it feels much the same I would assume, since they wanted out.

mule · 04-02-2003, 12:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by hybrid
Look at your bank account, allocate a little cash into a seperate account and go on a chautauqua.

Lol, you're into Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance? Who woulda thunk it

hybrid · 04-02-2003, 12:35 PM

Who's that, Fletch?

Fletch XXX · 04-02-2003, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by hybrid
Who's that, Fletch?

Fugazi.

hybrid · 04-02-2003, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Lol, you're into Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance? Who woulda thunk it

And what is good, Phaedrus,
And what is not good--
Need we ask anyone to tell us these things?

- Jesus Christ - · 04-02-2003, 12:37 PM

I had an ex that came and went twice. Last time I saw her was 8 months ago.... I still miss her. Strange thing was I told her I never wanted to see her again. I was wrong.

Shed prolly be here right now if I wasnt such a dickhead.

04-02-2003, 09:48 AM	#1
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	pathetic i still miss my ex gf, and it's been almost a full year. wtf? fucking pathetic.

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mule Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: hamsterdam Posts: 6,085	I guess you really loved her then. It normally takes half the time you lived together to really get over someone. So in your case, 2 1/2 years. Of course, the pain wears off...the tail-end of the 2 1/2 years is nothing compared to the first months, as I'm sure it's much easier for you to handle now than it was a year ago. __________________ Converting like a mofo

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Rip Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: somewheres wet Posts: 1,456	I equate getting back with an ex, like finding an old pair of your shoes in the closet, you like the way they look when you put them on, they fit your feet good however after you start to walk in them for a while, your feet start to hurt when you wake up the next morning, you have blisters all over your feet, your ankles hurt, and you remember why you got rid of the shoes in the first place

04-02-2003, 09:57 AM	#7
sinfulone So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Santa Clarita, CA Posts: 46	In the end, everything will turn out ok. If its not ok, its not the end.

04-02-2003, 10:02 AM	#12
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	as predicted, pathetic thread. it's been a year for fuck sakes. damn.

04-02-2003, 10:03 AM	#15
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04-02-2003, 10:47 AM	#27
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04-02-2003, 10:48 AM	#28
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04-02-2003, 10:49 AM	#30
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HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	Rage just fills the wide gap the other half left when it was over. I always felt that everyone that has walked through my path had a special meaning - whether I despised them afterwards or not, everything happens for a reason. Understanding why things played out the way they did and where it 'went wrong' or what was fantastic about it, will usually allow you to make peace with the outcome and helps you recognize history repeating itself or missed opportunities and make you change your gameplan accordingly. BTW, keep the power and drive of the 'rage' and just lose the anger and everything works out for the best. Ok.....I better not give up the day job ;-) __________________ ~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~ Patrizia COO - ♥ MassiveDollars Email: patrizia at MassiveDollars dot com ICQ: 465.826.441 Yahoo: trixxxia_me MSN: trixxxia at hotmail dot com Last edited by HS-Trixxxia; 04-02-2003 at 10:57 AM..

04-02-2003, 10:51 AM	#32
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	fuck is this weak. here i am, spit in my wound. probably your only chance :)

04-02-2003, 11:09 AM	#33
HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	quiet, As you can see, most of the posts were from men, all of which understood where you were coming from. I think we'd all prefer to see ya happy. I think we can all remember that feeling. I can send you a band-aid - but I don't spit :-) __________________ ~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~ Patrizia COO - ♥ MassiveDollars Email: patrizia at MassiveDollars dot com ICQ: 465.826.441 Yahoo: trixxxia_me MSN: trixxxia at hotmail dot com

04-02-2003, 11:10 AM	#34
GTS Mark Vrume Mark Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 20,912	It took me almost 2 years to get over my ex. I still think of her everyday, after a while you just remember the good things and not remember so many of the bad. I remember when it had only been a year since we broke up, I was in the same boat as you. I could'nt figure out why the hell I was still upset. Give it some more time. DH

04-02-2003, 11:41 AM	#36
Jer God is Brazilian Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Brazil Posts: 10,601	I was going to post something like "I know what you feel or I would feel the same" but... I'm with my first girlfriend. The first and the only. I miss her, but it's because of the fucking distance. Friday I'll fly to there (3000km / ~ 1600 miles) and stay 20 or more days. I can't wait to move... Quiet, does she have a bf now?

04-02-2003, 12:13 PM	#38
Funkito Registered User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 92	Sounds like you were married, more or less. Ending a relationship that long is like having a part of your soul chewed off by hell-boars, especially if you weren't the one who wanted it to end. Loneliness is a totally normal feeling to have only a year later. But relationships that long end because they fucking have to, not because people want them to. A part of you will probably always miss the good parts of the relationship. Totally normal. If you met someone who's business burned down and they were fucking broke, nothing left--what would you tell them to do? Cry your eyes out for a while, close that chapter of the book (cuz it's over) and then get your ass back in gear to start again and build something better. Friends help. Maybe meet some new blood and energy in graduate school. Good luck.

04-02-2003, 12:13 PM	#39
X37375787 Guest Posts: n/a	you're fucking pathetic. hope that makes you feel better.

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04-02-2003, 12:16 PM	#41
StupidNewbie Registered User Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 864	do you still have a box of her pictures and letters under your desk too?

04-02-2003, 12:20 PM	#43
HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	hmmm....and the spiral down when the coke wears out and the hooker has collected her take is worse than reality... quiet, don't do it!!!!!! __________________ ~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~ Patrizia COO - ♥ MassiveDollars Email: patrizia at MassiveDollars dot com ICQ: 465.826.441 Yahoo: trixxxia_me MSN: trixxxia at hotmail dot com

04-02-2003, 12:29 PM	#44
Fletch XXX GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: that 504 Posts: 60,840	theres nothing quite like the pain of this void. <font size="1"> Promises. 'Words Words and expressions All these confessions Of where we stand How I see you And you see me Dedications of symmetry Together we will be forever. Promises are shit We speak the way we breathe Present air will have to do Rearrange and see it through Stupid fucking words They tangle us in our desires Free me from this give and take Free me from this great debate There were no truer words than when spoken Let that stand as it should There was nothing left when broken We grab anything when we fall Promises are shit Stupid fucking words They tangle us in our desires Free me from this give and take Free me from this great debate You will do what you do I will do what I do We will do what we do Rearrange and see it through Go where you think you want to go Do everything you were sent here for Fire at will if you hear that call Touch your hand to the wall at night Promises. are only words.'</font> nothing else to do but go outside and take a look around. cheers. __________________ Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site? Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me

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04-02-2003, 12:37 PM	#50
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