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Naughty · 03-06-2003, 10:55 AM

Would you call a guy who is involved with another girl if he asks you to call him?

I'm wondering what yer thoughts are, preferrably girls over 25, as I think that makes a big difference.

Butrflied · 03-06-2003, 11:02 AM

I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together.

Naughty · 03-06-2003, 11:04 AM

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Originally posted by Butrflied
I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together.

hehe, well .. a friend of mine (

) saw his ex girlfirend and they hit it off pretty well, but he is in a long term relationship, nonetheless wants to meet the ex some more times. The ex does not know the current girlfriend.

I hope his current girlfriend is not reading GFY today

Cheshire · 03-06-2003, 11:05 AM

I might email, but a phone call could be too intimate as a first encounter. It takes things to a more involved level right off the bat when a casual friendship 'should' be the initial goal.

(25 and 3/4)

p00p · 03-06-2003, 11:05 AM

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Originally posted by Naughty
Would you call a guy who is involved with another girl if he asks you to call him?

I'm wondering what yer thoughts are, preferrably girls over 25, as I think that makes a big difference.

I wouldn't do it unless I knew his girlfriend knew about it. Also, I would make sure I knew what his intentions were, first. If he won't come clean, don't do it.

Beastiepoo · 03-06-2003, 11:08 AM

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Originally posted by Butrflied
I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together.

I'm on the other side - I think it would depend on how well I knew the other girl . But then I'm only almost 24 too so my opinion can go with Butrflied's

Naughty · 03-06-2003, 11:08 AM

By the way, I said 25+ because most teenagers like to play around anyway, when you get older your conscience is more evolved, as it seems

Cyndalie · 03-06-2003, 11:10 AM

I'm 26, and you're still an asshole ;)
J/k - guess how I voted!

Naughty · 03-06-2003, 11:11 AM

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Originally posted by Cyndalie
I'm 26, and you're still an asshole ;)
J/k - guess how I voted!

Thanks, I .. uuhhh ... my friend feels guilty enough as is.

toonces · 03-06-2003, 11:12 AM

Sounds like he gets off on women chasing him. why can't he call you?

Miss Novette · 03-06-2003, 11:15 AM

To clarify, would I call a guy whose intentions were for a date or similiar? I wouldn't put myself or anyone else through that sort of mess or pain.

I trust my sweetie never do anything like that, but if he did, I would hope the chick would feel the same way I do.

Unfortunately, not all women would do the same.

LunaC · 03-06-2003, 11:15 AM

I think it makes it much worse that it is an ex... harder to maintain just a friendship with someone you have been intimate with before. Harder to claim that was your intention in the first place. And if/when the girlfriend finds out, she will probably feel a lot more upset if she hears you...uh, "he"... has been chatting with an old ex than if she just found out he had been chatting with some girl.

I just turned 27, so there you go.

Cyndalie · 03-06-2003, 11:16 AM

I do agree with you though, would have voted much differently 5 years ago. No when you answer a question like that you think "That could be MY man! Step off Bitch!" LOL

LunaC · 03-06-2003, 11:19 AM

Oh, and I agree with Miss Novette, you left it kinda vague about the exact implications of the call... whether it is for a date, or for just casual chatting or long late night talks to try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things.

I think the asshole factor depends on the intentions there.

Naughty · 03-06-2003, 11:22 AM

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Originally posted by Miss Novette
To clarify, would I call a guy whose intentions were for a date or similiar? I wouldn't put myself or anyone else through that sort of mess or pain.

I trust my sweetie never do anything like that, but if he did, I would hope the chick would feel the same way I do.

Unfortunately, I agree.

Naughty · 03-06-2003, 11:26 AM

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Originally posted by LunaC
Oh, and I agree with Miss Novette, you left it kinda vague about the exact implications of the call... whether it is for a date, or for just casual chatting or long late night talks to try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things.

I think the asshole factor depends on the intentions there.

Not a date.

Just the average late night calls and invitations to come and sleep over every once in a while .. I think that would be the asshole factor 100.

It is all hypothetical by the way, nothing has happened so far.

Naughty · 03-06-2003, 11:37 AM

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Originally posted by LunaC
... try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things.

2nd thought, that too.

Cheshire · 03-06-2003, 11:45 AM

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Originally posted by Naughty
hehe, well .. a friend of mine () saw his ex girlfirend and they hit it off pretty well, but he is in a long term relationship, nonetheless wants to meet the ex some more times. The ex does not know the current girlfriend.

I hope his current girlfriend is not reading GFY today

Oh well that is a completely different situation than I was thinking you ment.
I change my answer to Hell no ~ NEVER date backwards.

Butrflied · 03-06-2003, 12:00 PM

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Originally posted by Naughty

Not a date.

Just the average late night calls and invitations to come and sleep over every once in a while .. I think that would be the asshole factor 100.

It is all hypothetical by the way, nothing has happened so far.

Okay .. adding in the ex factor .. and booty calls .. HELL NO .. can I change my vote?

Naughty · 03-06-2003, 12:02 PM

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Originally posted by Cheshire
Oh well that is a completely different situation than I was thinking you ment.
I change my answer to Hell no ~ NEVER date backwards.

Yeah, I guess you're right ... Thanks all, I think the problem is solved. I'll take a step back and get off the asshole mode.

CosmicKitten · 03-06-2003, 12:10 PM

I can't seem to think of any reason why I would call a guy I knew was already involved with another chick. Thats stupid.

Unless she just wants sex. So if she calls you, she's a ho fo sho.

mesa 28

amber438 · 03-06-2003, 12:18 PM

Hell, no..
I'd never step on toes or plant in someone else's garden..dump the other broad then we'll talk..
But..if he'd do it to her, what's gonna stop him from doing it to me..? Capice?
So, I'd tell him to go fuck himself..

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03-06-2003, 10:55 AM	#1
Naughty Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Utopia Posts: 6,484	For women only Would you call a guy who is involved with another girl if he asks you to call him? I'm wondering what yer thoughts are, preferrably girls over 25, as I think that makes a big difference.

03-06-2003, 11:02 AM	#2
Butrflied Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: SoFLa Posts: 1,344	I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together. __________________ ~Butrflied~

03-06-2003, 11:05 AM	#4
Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	I might email, but a phone call could be too intimate as a first encounter. It takes things to a more involved level right off the bat when a casual friendship 'should' be the initial goal. (25 and 3/4) __________________ just a little bit naughty

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Cyndalie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Cherry Hill, NJ Posts: 3,615	I'm 26, and you're still an asshole ;) J/k - guess how I voted! __________________ Cyndalie Marketing Director StoriesTraffic.com

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Naughty Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Utopia Posts: 6,484	By the way, I said 25+ because most teenagers like to play around anyway, when you get older your conscience is more evolved, as it seems

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Miss Novette Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 230	To clarify, would I call a guy whose intentions were for a date or similiar? I wouldn't put myself or anyone else through that sort of mess or pain. I trust my sweetie never do anything like that, but if he did, I would hope the chick would feel the same way I do. Unfortunately, not all women would do the same. __________________ [email protected] PublicNudityContent by DreamGirls ICQ: 176744220 800-896-9773, x208

03-06-2003, 11:15 AM	#12
LunaC Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA Posts: 148	I think it makes it much worse that it is an ex... harder to maintain just a friendship with someone you have been intimate with before. Harder to claim that was your intention in the first place. And if/when the girlfriend finds out, she will probably feel a lot more upset if she hears you...uh, "he"... has been chatting with an old ex than if she just found out he had been chatting with some girl. I just turned 27, so there you go.

03-06-2003, 11:16 AM	#13
Cyndalie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Cherry Hill, NJ Posts: 3,615	I do agree with you though, would have voted much differently 5 years ago. No when you answer a question like that you think "That could be MY man! Step off Bitch!" LOL __________________ Cyndalie Marketing Director StoriesTraffic.com

03-06-2003, 11:19 AM	#14
LunaC Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA Posts: 148	Oh, and I agree with Miss Novette, you left it kinda vague about the exact implications of the call... whether it is for a date, or for just casual chatting or long late night talks to try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things. I think the asshole factor depends on the intentions there.

03-06-2003, 12:10 PM	#21
CosmicKitten Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 225	I can't seem to think of any reason why I would call a guy I knew was already involved with another chick. Thats stupid. Unless she just wants sex. So if she calls you, she's a ho fo sho. mesa 28

03-06-2003, 12:18 PM	#22
amber438 Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: NY Posts: 230	Hell, no.. I'd never step on toes or plant in someone else's garden..dump the other broad then we'll talk.. But..if he'd do it to her, what's gonna stop him from doing it to me..? Capice? So, I'd tell him to go fuck himself.. __________________ Red Hot Galleries Red Hot Links