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Would you call a guy who is involved with another girl if he asks you to call him?

I'm wondering what yer thoughts are, preferrably girls over 25, as I think that makes a big difference.

I think it would depend on how well I know the guy .. like if he's with a friend of mine .. no .. if he was my friend first and hanging out with somebody I dont really know and I know he'd be better off with me .. maybe .. if he was some random guy at a bar or club who was there with somebody else and tried to pick me up that night .. no way, he'd prob do the same thing to me. See the differences? But, I'm 24, so you can ignore my opinion all together. :) :2 cents:

hehe, well .. a friend of mine (:1orglaugh) saw his ex girlfirend and they hit it off pretty well, but he is in a long term relationship, nonetheless wants to meet the ex some more times. The ex does not know the current girlfriend.

I hope his current girlfriend is not reading GFY today:winkwink:

I might email, but a phone call could be too intimate as a first encounter. It takes things to a more involved level right off the bat when a casual friendship 'should' be the initial goal.

(25 and 3/4)

I wouldn't do it unless I knew his girlfriend knew about it. Also, I would make sure I knew what his intentions were, first. If he won't come clean, don't do it. :girl

I'm on the other side - I think it would depend on how well I knew the other girl . But then I'm only almost 24 too so my opinion can go with Butrflied's:)

By the way, I said 25+ because most teenagers like to play around anyway, when you get older your conscience is more evolved, as it seems:glugglug

I'm 26, and you're still an asshole ;)
J/k - guess how I voted! :1orglaugh

:1orglaugh

Thanks, I .. uuhhh ... my friend feels guilty enough as is.

Sounds like he gets off on women chasing him. why can't he call you?

To clarify, would I call a guy whose intentions were for a date or similiar? I wouldn't put myself or anyone else through that sort of mess or pain.

I trust my sweetie never do anything like that, but if he did, I would hope the chick would feel the same way I do.

Unfortunately, not all women would do the same. :(

I think it makes it much worse that it is an ex... harder to maintain just a friendship with someone you have been intimate with before. Harder to claim that was your intention in the first place. And if/when the girlfriend finds out, she will probably feel a lot more upset if she hears you...uh, "he"... has been chatting with an old ex than if she just found out he had been chatting with some girl.

I just turned 27, so there you go.

I do agree with you though, would have voted much differently 5 years ago. No when you answer a question like that you think "That could be MY man! Step off Bitch!" LOL

Oh, and I agree with Miss Novette, you left it kinda vague about the exact implications of the call... whether it is for a date, or for just casual chatting or long late night talks to try and see where you stand now and if there is any chance of reviving things.

I think the asshole factor depends on the intentions there.

Unfortunately, I agree.

Not a date.



Just the average late night calls and invitations to come and sleep over every once in a while .. I think that would be the asshole factor 100.

It is all hypothetical by the way, nothing has happened so far.

2nd thought, that too.

Oh well that is a completely different situation than I was thinking you ment.
I change my answer to Hell no ~ NEVER date backwards.

Yeah, I guess you're right ... Thanks all, I think the problem is solved. I'll take a step back and get off the asshole mode.

I can't seem to think of any reason why I would call a guy I knew was already involved with another chick. Thats stupid.

Unless she just wants sex. So if she calls you, she's a ho fo sho.

mesa 28

Hell, no..
I'd never step on toes or plant in someone else's garden..dump the other broad then we'll talk..
But..if he'd do it to her, what's gonna stop him from doing it to me..? Capice?
So, I'd tell him to go fuck himself..