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tony286 11-13-2013 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by NETbilling (Post 19868664)
I believe that homeschooling is ridiculous except for a few extreme cases where a child has severe mental problems and can in no way function in a "school" setting.

Every homeschooled kid I have ever met when I was young and a few kids over the years from our current neighborhoods that were homeschooled for any length of time were social retards and/or religious freaks.

Part of the school experience and social development of a child relies on integration with a variety of peers and teachers. While our public school system is far from perfect, there is no way that "you" can keep your kids home and teach him all of the life skills to not only survive, but thrive in the real world.

Mitch

You are correct. It's also a way to keep children away from other schools of thought than the parents. The post every one is praising about home school not teaching socialism says it all. A large number are home schooling to teach their children an agenda not just ABC's.

xNetworx 11-13-2013 08:49 AM

I only knew one home schooled kid growing up and he wasn't allowed candy/sugar or TV. Would be interesting to see how he turned out.

Verbal 11-13-2013 09:16 AM

Interesting conversation. I will say this, I know 3 relatively young kids (under 10) who are currently being home schooled and they are by FAR the most socially awkward kids I know. They "socialize", but mostly with other kids who are also being home schooled.

I do not doubt their intelligence and I can see why universities would want to recruit kids like this, but it will be interesting to see how the adjust to the "real" world in the long-run. Intelligence can only take you so far, you need a good balance which includes social skills and some street smarts.

ilnjscb 11-13-2013 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by tony286 (Post 19871794)
You are correct. It's also a way to keep children away from other schools of thought than the parents. The post every one is praising about home school not teaching socialism says it all. A large number are home schooling to teach their children an agenda not just ABC's.

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Originally Posted by Verbal (Post 19871922)
Interesting conversation. I will say this, I know 3 relatively young kids (under 10) who are currently being home schooled and they are by FAR the most socially awkward kids I know. They "socialize", but mostly with other kids who are also being home schooled.

I do not doubt their intelligence and I can see why universities would want to recruit kids like this, but it will be interesting to see how the adjust to the "real" world in the long-run. Intelligence can only take you so far, you need a good balance which includes social skills and some street smarts.

Perhaps your personal experiences don't reflect the whole picture.

"Myths about unsocialized home-schoolers are false, and most are well prepped for college, experts say."

My source is US News & World Report.

Home-Schooled Teens Ripe for College

I know several (well, two) home schooled children who were being bullied by dummies, and now they are happy and learn more in three hours than a classroom forced to include idiots learns in a week. It seems like the people complaining about home schooling may be fearful of meritocracy. I can't imagine why.

BlackCrayon 11-13-2013 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by ilnjscb (Post 19872182)
Perhaps your personal experiences don't reflect the whole picture.

"Myths about unsocialized home-schoolers are false, and most are well prepped for college, experts say."

My source is US News & World Report.

Home-Schooled Teens Ripe for College

I know several (well, two) home schooled children who were being bullied by dummies, and now they are happy and learn more in three hours than a classroom forced to include idiots learns in a week. It seems like the people complaining about home schooling may be fearful of meritocracy. I can't imagine why.

best to keep them safe and coddled than have to face the realities of life. everyone is talking about how weak kids are these days, i can only imagine home schooled kids are the weakest. never allowed to really grow up and never forced to face their fears or have to stand up for themselves and become self confident that they can handle things themselves instead of being pulled away and hidden under the protective blanket of a parent.

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Seth Manson 11-14-2013 03:02 AM

I think some of you didnt go to school at all.

ilnjscb 11-14-2013 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19872226)
best to keep them safe and coddled than have to face the realities of life. everyone is talking about how weak kids are these days, i can only imagine home schooled kids are the weakest. never allowed to really grow up and never forced to face their fears or have to stand up for themselves and become self confident that they can handle things themselves instead of being pulled away and hidden under the protective blanket of a parent.

Since you're saying "realities of life" and being anti-"weakness" you probably aren't going to advocate for private schools, are you? Them's fo rich sissies! So let's ask how public schools are like real life? Everyone goes for 6.5 hours and goes around to various teachers to "learn" subjects they don't give a shit about. They are fed a shitty lunch that is made for them in a cafeteria setting where every meal costs the same. All student materials are the same. All classes have the same curriculums. Their lives are organized by bells and 50 minute intervals.

Do you seriously intend to call that "real life"? That is about as far from real life as it gets. And how the fuck does that make you "strong"? Throw up a study or some 3rd party data.

BlackCrayon 11-14-2013 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by ilnjscb (Post 19873630)
Since you're saying "realities of life" and being anti-"weakness" you probably aren't going to advocate for private schools, are you? Them's fo rich sissies! So let's ask how public schools are like real life? Everyone goes for 6.5 hours and goes around to various teachers to "learn" subjects they don't give a shit about. They are fed a shitty lunch that is made for them in a cafeteria setting where every meal costs the same. All student materials are the same. All classes have the same curriculums. Their lives are organized by bells and 50 minute intervals.

Do you seriously intend to call that "real life"? That is about as far from real life as it gets. And how the fuck does that make you "strong"? Throw up a study or some 3rd party data.

i am talking about learning how to deal with various kinds of people and various situations. school is a lot more than whats just 'learned' in class. in private schools the kids still have to learn how to deal with the other kids in the school and teachers who don't think they are the most precious special thing in the world. oh and bring your own lunch. when i was in school i never once ate cafeteria food.

bhutocracy 11-14-2013 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Jel (Post 19868427)
nice post, and I think 90% of people here would agree with it. Just wanted to comment on the above section though;

predominantly religious nutballs? source?

I guess what I can't understand is why anyone wants to do away with something because not 100% of people in it/doing it/using it/whatever fit *their* own perception and preference of how 'it should be'. Whether that's homeschooling, public schooling, being involved in porn, or using guns. Or anything else.

Here's how utopia seems to be for some (generalising now, not directly in relation to the quote) on this board:

no guns
no 'dangerous' dogs
no homeschooling
no fill_in_the_blank

I think it was already mentioned in this thread about intolerance - how is it that the hardcore anti-homeschooling mob (to keep to this thread topic) can't see that they want the same utopia religious nutjobs want, just in a different form? The OP is no different from the religious nuts he is so enraged by, let alone the fact he starts a bunch of anti-religion crap on a board where I bet about 0.01% are even religious to start with...

Most stats I've seen have it around 70%. In Jesus Camp it was 75%. But I'll admit it's not a peer reviewed meta study.

Personally I'm not so much against homeschooling as I am fragmenting education along religious and class lines. Even though I have serious issues with public education I believe there should really only be public schools and selective schools for the seriously bright or people that learn a particular way. When I grew up there was really only the local public school and everyone went there. It was pretty good all things considered, rich kids, poor kids, smart kids, not so smart kids. We had a marine biology class with boats and fish tanks, we had aviation with the local airport, things even a lot of private schools in other places don't have. You found your natural friends of roughly the same intelligence and background and roughly people did as well as you were going to do. Maybe if you were bad and started tanking you'd get sent to a boys only boarding school. It's like in Finland where there is only "the local school" and they have amazing educational results.
Now 3 private religious schools have sprung up around my old high school and have siphoned off all the upper middle class kids. My old school used to be 1200 kids now it's 700 kids and the kids that are left basically have a higher concentration of bad kids pulling them all down. I of course can't send my daughter to this school and will now have to send her to the elite private school where I have to pay exorbitant sums to have Jesus shoved down her throat just so there is only one class clown not three disrupting things.

But at the same time I'm manifestly aware of the deficiencies in the school system. I'm sure I would have had the same problem at this elite private school as I would have had at my public school, the only real thing happening there is social stratification, it's not like the curriculum is manifestly different besides the inclusion of religion it's just removing the kids that come from homes where education isn't valued and have poor role models (ie the poor kids) from the class equation.

I just had a problem with authority, irrationality and was bored senseless. At 15 I scored highest in my large year of 220 kids in a national maths competition and made the female dux of the year cry because I beat her without any effort at all in class. At 17 I dropped to the second dumbest math level so I didn't have to do any study at all to pass and cut class to hang out with the music guys. If I got up to leave class the teacher didn't ask me what I was doing, they just let me do my own thing. I needed more stimulation or to be taught differently. I HATED being a rote learning monkey. When I had the opportunity to refuse to do the work in class (fucking Jane Austen in the top English class) and self study I actually did ok. So I understand there is some kind of need for self righteous know it alls like me and probably many people in many different types of learning situations.. ie Autistic kids. I didn't fit in well with any traditional schooling. But I went on to become a good freelance programming lecturer. People stayed back late after school (I was only available after work to a private tertiary institution) just to take my class because I taught the way I would have preferred to be taught.

I will be homeschooling my daughter in programming, in fact i'm thinking of giving her pocket money for learning code instead of household chores in order to get her into a work-with-your-brain-reward mindset. I just hope she's at least a little bit smart.. she's too young to know yet.

I just resent being forced to pay private tuition to keep her away from the detritus of our society and have her exposed to the friends she would have if they hadn't been siphoned off and Finland seems to be doing pretty well which is some kind of proof of concept. If somehow I've made enough money not to have to work at all and she's the exact same as I was (which I doubt highly) I would consider homeschooling her but would worry a lot about socialisation given we wouldn't be part of any church or anything but really I'd probably try and send her to some weird selective private school. Girls are slightly different though, they tend to be less self righteous jackasses.

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ilnjscb 11-15-2013 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19873715)
i am talking about learning how to deal with various kinds of people and various situations. school is a lot more than whats just 'learned' in class. in private schools the kids still have to learn how to deal with the other kids in the school and teachers who don't think they are the most precious special thing in the world. oh and bring your own lunch. when i was in school i never once ate cafeteria food.

I'm glad your (as I suspected) personal story was a happy one, and you enjoyed your lunches. You understand how you are not a representative sample, and people can have different experiences than you? Basic statistics, they taught that, right? :thumbsup

BlackCrayon 11-15-2013 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by ilnjscb (Post 19874649)
I'm glad your (as I suspected) personal story was a happy one, and you enjoyed your lunches. You understand how you are not a representative sample, and people can have different experiences than you? Basic statistics, they taught that, right? :thumbsup

i'm glad you focused on my lunches and nothing else...oh they were so good :)

ilnjscb 11-15-2013 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 19874654)
i'm glad you focused on my lunches and nothing else...oh they were so good :)

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