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Old 09-12-2011, 10:43 AM   #51
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Old 09-12-2011, 10:54 AM   #52
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Yes, kids read our text messages.

Kids tend to use their phone a lot and charge them up enough, and when their cell phones die they grab their parents phones and use them. Yesterday my kid's cell phone died, and she used my cell phone to text her friend - who was using her mom's phone because hers died.

And we are lazy and don't want to get up to see who text us, we have our kids do it. Get used to it.
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Old 09-12-2011, 10:57 AM   #53
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Indeed. I mean, this cunt was married 20 years, saw his wife battle cancer for 4 years, lose, die, and a massive 10 months later he is behaving totally irrationally. Makes the mind boggle doesn't it.
It was dumb and selfish of him IMO to get into a relationship in the first place, especially if he wasn't done mourning. Doesn't change my opinion whatsoever.
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Old 09-12-2011, 11:09 AM   #54
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It was dumb and selfish of him IMO to get into a relationship in the first place, especially if he wasn't done mourning. Doesn't change my opinion whatsoever.


Let me guess, you have yet to go through the emotional explosion of a 10/15/20+ year relationship ending. Rational thought just isn't there for a long time, and *because* it isn't there, you can't make the rational decision of not entering a new relationship because it would be 'dumb and selfish' because he wasn't done mourning.
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Old 09-12-2011, 11:21 AM   #55
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Let me guess, you have yet to go through the emotional explosion of a 10/15/20+ year relationship ending. Rational thought just isn't there for a long time, and *because* it isn't there, you can't make the rational decision of not entering a new relationship because it would be 'dumb and selfish' because he wasn't done mourning.
Some people can think rationally while in distress, while others can't. I guess I lack empathy, not that I care to have any about that particular situation.

Solution: Avoid long-term relationships. My last 4 year stint was enough.
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Old 09-12-2011, 12:29 PM   #56
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So his parents were married for 20 years, only a few months after his mom died his dad was knocking on your door. It seems pretty clear to me why the kid doesn't like you.
At the time we started to go out I knew she had passed but I didn't have a clue it wasn't that long ago. I found out last month when he said that September was going to be a bad month. His sons best friend hung himself on September 5th then his kids B-Day was 9/11 and his mom passed a month later.

Please don't make it out like I'm the bad guy here as I have told him the whole time that I felt next year would be the year and this year I wasn't going to be looking or pushing him in any way.


I mean 2 weeks ago when he was at the lake house he called and told me we would be taking a trip to Jamaica after graduation.
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Old 09-12-2011, 12:49 PM   #57
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Yes, kids read our text messages.

Kids tend to use their phone a lot and charge them up enough, and when their cell phones die they grab their parents phones and use them. Yesterday my kid's cell phone died, and she used my cell phone to text her friend - who was using her mom's phone because hers died.

And we are lazy and don't want to get up to see who text us, we have our kids do it. Get used to it.
I find that intolerable I would never look at someones text and would be very irate if someone looked at my phone. I can't stand people who are noise and don't tolerate it in my life. I was with Turboface for 11 years and he NEVER looked/answered my phone, my pocketbook, drawers, or laptop. I found that to be one of his best attributes.
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Old 09-12-2011, 01:05 PM   #58
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At the time we started to go out I knew she had passed but I didn't have a clue it wasn't that long ago. I found out last month when he said that September was going to be a bad month. His sons best friend hung himself on September 5th then his kids B-Day was 9/11 and his mom passed a month later.

Please don't make it out like I'm the bad guy here as I have told him the whole time that I felt next year would be the year and this year I wasn't going to be looking or pushing him in any way.


I mean 2 weeks ago when he was at the lake house he called and told me we would be taking a trip to Jamaica after graduation.
I'm not saying you are the bad guy or that you should even care. I am simply saying, look at it from his perspective. That is why he doesn't like you.
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Old 09-12-2011, 01:06 PM   #59
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I don't have any kids, but if I did I wouldn't want them reading my txts
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Old 09-12-2011, 02:30 PM   #60
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Children to read your text messages is not ok! So the relationship was probably not so important for his part .....
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Old 09-12-2011, 04:55 PM   #61
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I'm not saying you are the bad guy or that you should even care. I am simply saying, look at it from his perspective. That is why he doesn't like you.
That's why I have been taking it slow and told him numerous time next year.
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Old 09-12-2011, 06:05 PM   #62
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Old 09-12-2011, 06:35 PM   #63
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You said something sexual in the text, and I think you meant it or you would just have said I cooked this shit, come eat it.

Doesn't mean he needs to break up because his 17 yr read it, is his 17yr a virgin or what.
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Old 09-12-2011, 06:46 PM   #64
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Old 09-12-2011, 06:47 PM   #65
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You said something sexual in the text, and I think you meant it or you would just have said I cooked this shit, come eat it.

Doesn't mean he needs to break up because his 17 yr read it, is his 17yr a virgin or what.
The text said.....

I have something for u 2 try.
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Old 09-12-2011, 06:55 PM   #66
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Old 09-12-2011, 08:15 PM   #67
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he wasnt that into the relationship to begin with, sucks, but maybe lesson learned in the future to avoid guys with possible drama or hangups in their lives at the current time.
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Old 09-12-2011, 08:47 PM   #68
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So you txt him with "I have something for u 2 try" his son apparently reads it, he gets the shits and dumps you.

Sounds to me like he is the child here. You were only asking him to try the lasagna right? sounds like you are the blessed one here, move on and be happy it ended here I think.

Oh side note. I see his wife passed away, his son wouldn't be nasty to you on purpose as I am sure you know, he would be like this with anyone.

Good luck
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Ok you all were right as I talked to him and he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship don't know why he waited 7 months to tell me this but that's what he said.
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Old 09-13-2011, 01:58 PM   #70
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at least you have that whole lasagna to yourself now.
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I hang up and delete the number from my phone, I'm kinda pissed off about the whole thing cuz is that something that would make you wanta break up with someone? I don't know whats going on but I'm a little pissed.
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Old 09-13-2011, 03:36 PM   #73
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And really nobody that offer his phonenumber to msg with TA ?

Can't believe none of you is in for a new buddy
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The son doesn't like me cuz his mom died (sometime last November) and he wants his dad to be miserable.
and that right there explains everything that you didn't
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This. You just gave him an easy out where he doesn't look like a bad guy.
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Ok you all were right as I talked to him and he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship don't know why he waited 7 months to tell me this but that's what he said.
Wild guess here but did you sleep with him during this time? if so there is the answer you are looking for...
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I think you should stalk him constantly until he takes you back
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If that's all it took the end was coming anyway. Move on, sounds like upgrading will be easy.

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Wild guess here but did you sleep with him during this time? if so there is the answer you are looking for...
It was the best sex I have ever had, we would go to bed at 8 and fuck till 4am.
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Not going to do that.
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