Functioning in the "real" world - GoFuckYourself.com

Missy · 06-09-2004, 05:13 PM

Do you ever catch yourself saying/doing things in the "real" world before you remember that you aren't among fellow pornslingers? How many times have you said something without thinking, and then realized too late that most of the people in the room don't appreciate terms like "gaping anal" or "cum guzzling jizzmop".
I swear, the longer I work in this industry, the more detached I feel from the real world and "normal" people. Lately when I go out amongst regular society, it seems that the "mainstreamers" are the weird ones and I am the only normal person in a room full of uptight freaks.
Think I need to get out more?

Tofu · 06-09-2004, 05:29 PM

Great post!

I fee you! I say "anal destruction" all the time, and catch miself saying it around family!

Missy · 06-09-2004, 05:41 PM

haha... yeah, it's especially noticeable when you get a group of webmasters together in real-world surroundings and then pay attention to the reactions from the people around us because of our normal everyday conversations. Cracks me up!

Diligent · 06-09-2004, 06:04 PM

Yeah, haha..

My sense of humor has defintily gotten a more sexual flavor..
I find myself embarassed sometimes when I remember I'm not among
pornslingers

Missy · 06-09-2004, 06:05 PM

P.S. Apparently I'm the only person who needs to get a life outside this industry

Diligent · 06-09-2004, 06:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Missy
P.S. Apparently I'm the only person who needs to get a life outside this industry

Nah, that feeling is normal - we could all need that, You'll get over it

Missy · 06-09-2004, 06:15 PM

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Originally posted by Just-Anotha-Mack
Nah, that feeling is normal - we could all need that, You'll get over it

Haha... it's good to know I'm not the only one who's dysfunctional!

-=HOAX=- · 06-09-2004, 06:19 PM

I don't think so at all. Then again...I'm pretty a normal guy...

Diligent · 06-09-2004, 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Missy
Haha... it's good to know I'm not the only one who's dysfunctional!

Hehe.. let's just say that we at least aren't the majority of the Bush-voters'
favorite people - we're a bit more liberal

Oops, 3:22 AM here in Sweden now! Need to recover from 31-hour awake 'n
slinging the smut

Nightynight

Fletch XXX · 06-09-2004, 06:25 PM

no, when i leave the computer i leave the pornshit behind.

there are far more important things to dabble in when away from this part of my life.

Screaming · 06-09-2004, 06:29 PM

umm yeah you need to take a vacation or at least get more time away from the computer, no problems with relating with fellow people in the industry but thinking the rest of the world is weird and uptight my be a problem

Diligent · 06-09-2004, 06:33 PM

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Originally posted by Fletch XXX
no, when i leave the computer i leave the pornshit behind.

there are far more important things to dabble in when away from this part of my life.

Woohoo! I can break the 80-barrier before sleep!

That sounds sound man..

I guess it's a novelty thing, when You've been at it for as long as You prolly have..
it's just business hours and then "shop closed".

Probably easier to gain routine etc. in ones work with time.

NOW it's bedtime

Mr. Marks · 06-09-2004, 06:35 PM

hell, yeah. i get that, i constatntly have to check my language and keep the terms at bay, esp when kids are around.

Marcus Aurelius · 06-09-2004, 06:36 PM

Im with you on that.

Jill_J · 06-09-2004, 07:18 PM

when I turn off my laptop and enter the real life, I don`t feel the great difference between me and surroundings. Know why? "They" don`t know who are we `cause we look like them and our thoughts are not available for them

I just know that I`m different but porn biz doesn`t change me in the "real" world...
...maybe a little

Missy · 06-09-2004, 09:03 PM

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Originally posted by Jill_J
when I turn off my laptop and enter the real life, I don`t feel the great difference between me and surroundings. Know why? "They" don`t know who are we `cause we look like them and our thoughts are not available for them
I just know that I`m different but porn biz doesn`t change me in the "real" world...
...maybe a little

I tend to shy away from people who don't/can't know what I do for work, because then I always feel like I'm hiding something or have to be somebody I'm not. People who I can't be myself around tend to make me uncomfortable.
I mean, obviously I don't go out and wear a sign around my neck telling everybody what I do, but if I'm getting to know somebody, it's nice to not have to lie about stuff, ya know?

Pornwolf · 06-09-2004, 09:13 PM

Strangely, a lot of the people I hang out with are 10 times more extreme than a lot of the people here. There's a lot of keyboard pimps and keyboard wildmen here but ya get them into the real world and they're quiet as church mice and uptight as a library worker.

Me and my mainstream freinds have been proudly gangbangin chicks since we were 15... even without a videocamera present.

Allison · 06-09-2004, 09:19 PM

I usually feel like others are less normal if I hang out with chicks from outside the industry. I think guys in the industry and out are all the same though ;)

~Alli

Missy · 06-09-2004, 09:31 PM

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Originally posted by Allison
I usually feel like others are less normal if I hang out with chicks from outside the industry. I think guys in the industry and out are all the same though ;)

~Alli

Hey girl! How's it going? Long time no chat with!

SlickRick · 06-09-2004, 09:45 PM

You need a vacation

Also when you go out you leave your shop talk at home. Not a lot of people outside of this business want to hear stuff about that.

I mean really how many porn stars talk about fucking on the set when their out to dinner with family or friends...

reynold · 06-09-2004, 10:28 PM

You do need to get out more!

Missy · 06-09-2004, 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SlickRick
You need a vacation

Also when you go out you leave your shop talk at home. Not a lot of people outside of this business want to hear stuff about that.

I mean really how many porn stars talk about fucking on the set when their out to dinner with family or friends...

You pretty much missed the point, but you're right... I DO need a vacation!

06-09-2004, 05:13 PM	#1
Missy FLASHCA$H.COM Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: In my skin Posts: 1,257	Functioning in the "real" world Do you ever catch yourself saying/doing things in the "real" world before you remember that you aren't among fellow pornslingers? How many times have you said something without thinking, and then realized too late that most of the people in the room don't appreciate terms like "gaping anal" or "cum guzzling jizzmop". I swear, the longer I work in this industry, the more detached I feel from the real world and "normal" people. Lately when I go out amongst regular society, it seems that the "mainstreamers" are the weird ones and I am the only normal person in a room full of uptight freaks. Think I need to get out more?

06-09-2004, 05:29 PM	#2
Tofu The Video Specialist Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: California Posts: 5,615	Great post! I fee you! I say "anal destruction" all the time, and catch miself saying it around family! __________________ tofu916 video services - tofu916.com twitter: tofu916 \| skype: tofu916 \| tel: 916-672-TOFU \| e: tofu # tofu916.com

06-09-2004, 06:04 PM	#4
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06-09-2004, 06:19 PM	#8
-=HOAX=- Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: CrackYaMental Posts: 4,365	I don't think so at all. Then again...I'm pretty a normal guy... __________________ Insert Value Here. Last edited by -=HOAX=-; 06-09-2004 at 06:21 PM..

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06-09-2004, 05:41 PM	#3
Missy FLASHCA$H.COM Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: In my skin Posts: 1,257	haha... yeah, it's especially noticeable when you get a group of webmasters together in real-world surroundings and then pay attention to the reactions from the people around us because of our normal everyday conversations. Cracks me up!

06-09-2004, 06:05 PM	#5
Missy FLASHCA$H.COM Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: In my skin Posts: 1,257	P.S. Apparently I'm the only person who needs to get a life outside this industry

06-09-2004, 06:29 PM	#11
Screaming I can change this!!!!! Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 18,972	umm yeah you need to take a vacation or at least get more time away from the computer, no problems with relating with fellow people in the industry but thinking the rest of the world is weird and uptight my be a problem __________________

06-09-2004, 06:35 PM	#13
Mr. Marks Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Wherever I want Posts: 7,517	hell, yeah. i get that, i constatntly have to check my language and keep the terms at bay, esp when kids are around.

06-09-2004, 06:36 PM	#14
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06-09-2004, 07:18 PM	#15
Jill_J Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 3,599	when I turn off my laptop and enter the real life, I don`t feel the great difference between me and surroundings. Know why? "They" don`t know who are we `cause we look like them and our thoughts are not available for them I just know that I`m different but porn biz doesn`t change me in the "real" world... ...maybe a little __________________ Cash Maniacs - around 50 sites, all niches!

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Pornwolf Drunk and Unruly Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hollywood Posts: 22,712	Strangely, a lot of the people I hang out with are 10 times more extreme than a lot of the people here. There's a lot of keyboard pimps and keyboard wildmen here but ya get them into the real world and they're quiet as church mice and uptight as a library worker. Me and my mainstream freinds have been proudly gangbangin chicks since we were 15... even without a videocamera present. __________________ I've trusted my sites to them for over a decade... Webair, bitches. Last edited by Pornwolf; 06-09-2004 at 09:14 PM..

06-09-2004, 09:19 PM	#18
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06-09-2004, 09:45 PM	#20
SlickRick Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Kingman AZ Posts: 2,849	You need a vacation Also when you go out you leave your shop talk at home. Not a lot of people outside of this business want to hear stuff about that. I mean really how many porn stars talk about fucking on the set when their out to dinner with family or friends...

06-09-2004, 10:28 PM	#21
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	You do need to get out more!