When you go out on a date
 

When you go out on a date, do you tell your date you work in the adult entertainment
what is their reaction usually?

I tell them I'm a Millwright and dabble in network marketing and leave it at that

Me: I do Internet marketing,,,like Netflix
Her: Do you do porn sites?
Me: No, there is no money in porn

Some actually like that.

You have to feel it out. I used to get reactions from religious zealots that ranged anywhere from "I don't date people who exploit women." to "OMG that's so incredibly hot... why didn't you tell me sooner? I TOTALLY would have fucked you on the first date if you hadn't waited so long to tell me what you did for a living."

With the woman I'm dating now, I told her I'm a professional photographer, shooting weddings and portraits, and "other more risque stuff I'll elaborate on later". Then when talking on the phone for the first time, I told her "I must confess... I minimized the sound of my involvement in the 'more risque' stuff... the truth is I make a living in adult entertainment."

Either you can approach it head on, and sound confident... confidence can make her more comfortable. If you beat around the bush, it can make you sound potentially sleazy. Nothing is guaranteed, however. Some will simply not talk to you again.

A few years ago a girl saw Jordan Capri fan sign wallpaper on my computer screen and ask what I did, I told her I shot porn. She thought about it for a few minutes and said "I heard about you, your Steve Lightspeed!"

How would a chick who's not in this business know who Steve Lightspeed is?

In the past I have always told them up front. I have a girlfriend now and she knew before I ever asked her out. She thinks it's funny. She once told me, "If you ever piss me off I'll get on your computer and sign you up for all of those gay dating sites you promote and you will wake up to an inbox full of cock!"

Long story short, My friend made the Jordan Capri song and the girl looked up Jordan Capri on the web and read about Steve Lightspeed. A few days later she met me and my friend told her my name was Steve.

I make no excuses for who I am and what I do. That being said I usually don't talk about my job or boring shit on the first couple dates anyways. I tell them stupid shit like I'm a jewel thief or bank robber, usually by the 2nd or 3rd date they get agitated and if they keep pressing then I tell them all the boring shit like what I do for a living, where I went to college, etc in rapid-fire. :upsidedow

BTW, if you come across as uncomfortable about it, it will creep them out no matter what. If your attitude is this is who I am and what I do, if you don't like it then move along; you da man no matter what you do for a living. :1orglaugh

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why lie?

Dont tell it on the first date..

all the time :P

Reaction:

- "You're a gangster. Stop doing illegal shit."

Not in the first date, nope

yea internet marketing no longer works

'what, are you in porn or something?'

It sounds better than telling them I'm a lawyer... :)