Anyone here part of any swinging scenes?
 

We're what you'd call soft swingers I believe ... we fuck girls ... and we've been to one or two parties ... but never couple swap or have guys involved (before you mention it ... this was something we discussed when Perrie said she wanted to fuck girls... as in, it was all her suggestion 4 years ago)....

We're on a site in the UK for swinging. It's all fun. Anyone else here into the scene? Just curious :) hehe

Pictures please... :winkwink:

LOL. Ok ...

http://www.timetoswing.com/swing/2.jpg
http://www.timetoswing.com/swing/4.jpg
http://www.timetoswing.com/swing/7.jpg

None with girls I'm afraid as it's not fair to put them on the net without their permission :) LOL!

Nekkid me!! :P I love those pictures!

yeah ... shame they're in black and white. Might have to get some color ones. LOL!

What the hell, here's another one :D lol.

We get off on the whole public sex thing too ... why we liked the parties :) hehe

http://www.timetoswing.com/swing/3.jpg

I?m guessing that you?re not Jewish?.:1orglaugh

haha ... no man ... and I'm happy with the way things are! :D lol

Me too! I love your cock Dave! :P

I feel kinda funny having asked you to design my header... :1orglaugh

LOL! Am I gonna end up like Tiger and lose business because of my sexual exploits?! :D LOL!

typical fake swingers.. "We want girls only".. lol.. usually means jealous dude needs an ego boost and the extra girl is part of that..

Not saying you are like that, most are though.. lol

How are the quality of the ladies at the swinger parties. I would imagine its mainly couples and not as many single gals?

Depends ... you get some singles ... first one we went to immediately got chatting to a really hot blonde girl ... late 20's ... very hot ... but we were so new to it we didn't try anything with her :P Was pretty intimidating! But yeah ... a lot of couples.

You say you're not saying we're like that ... but then you called us typical fakes? Seems a little contradictory ? :)

yes it does seem that way..

Ha! Most may be like that... But we most certainly are not! :P

One day [about 3 months into our relationship] when we were driving to see Dave's Gran.. I turned around and said 'I would love to have sex with another girl'... And it all went from there...

I have always been very attracted to girls, but the guys I was with before Dave, didn't allow me to voice such views... Dave was so laid back and open minded that I just threw it out there... And he loved the idea... Obviously! :P

It then started with me searching for girls on MySpace and sending their pictures to Dave whilst he was at work.. To see if he liked them too... Then I'd message them or whatever.

It annoys me that people think that because we only invite girls into our sex life, that it's all one sided. I don't need another guy.. I have Dave, and he gives me all the cock I want... But I wanted to invite girls in because it's something I LOVE doing. If Dave was bi-sexual then we may have had guys too.. But I am totally not bothered at all.. I get the best of both!!! :D

Amen to that :D lol

I'd say you guys are a couple who has threesomes with girls. Not exactly real swingers. Just a lucky guy who gets to have 2 women at the same time. That's cool. And I'm sure you'd have fun at the swingers clubs here in Vegas. But you wouldn't have the same selection as most folks there. Swinger couples aren't gonna be happy when their man gets left out of the fun. :)

lmk if you guys need a place to crash in the US ;)

Oh, you're 100% right ... we don't classify ourselves as full swingers. We know it's soft swing for us and that's all. But yeah, I am lucky! LOL! To be honest ... our best fun was from girls on MySpace ;) hehe

Amen to that!

Only if you can hook us up with some single girls who are up for some fun ;) hehehe

it's all good yo. Just gotta get the wife drunk enough and it's only gay if our balls touch :thumbsup

HAHAHAHA! The only way that you can be in on it JD is if you hold the camera ;)

LOL! Sorry JD! Perrie has spoken! LOL!

So cute that Dave and Perrie are following each other in threads, you 2 look so in love.. awesome... the funny thing is you guys are probably sitting next to each other..

Why don't you go ahead and send him a text real quick, it's cute.. lol

Funny you say that... we're opposite ! LOL! Except I have a 24 inch screen so can't see Perrie. LOL! She's behind it.

Not sure how it's funny.. it's obvious.. THAT is kinda funny.. :thumbsup

No funnier for being obvious :) In fact ... not sure why you even mention the fact but it's all good :D hehe

We ARE soooo in love! :P Never loved anything like I love him! :D But love has nothing to do with threesomes orrrr where we're sitting :P

I mentioned it because it was obvious, which made me chuckle.. I make a post in here then you answer, within seconds she answers.. JD makes a comment, you answer, within seconds she answers... lol.. come on.. chuckle worthy if you ask me..

How is the myspace chick hunting going Perrie?

Cool np. I'm cool with shooting POV :pimp

I guess you're right :) Yeah, I just have a few threads open and have them on refresh :) Perrie I guess has the same :) I actually can't see her screen and she can't see mine so although we're answering etc in the same posts, I don't actually know when she's doing it. I'm just sitting here working on a site while I have shit open and it's an interesting one :)

I am going to let you believe whatever it is you believe about all this, enjoy it. And whenever it bites you in the as you can then kick yourself in the butt..

OH DAYAM! LOL! Nice comeback dude! :P

How rather bleak you view things!

LOL! :winkwink:

possibly.. time will tell.. :helpme

As with everything. But to start off with such a negative view seems a little sad to me. I'd rather be positive about things :) It's much better to be that way. You can have just as much fun, and feel good about life while doing it.

Sebastian is in a foul mood tonight for some reason. :)
It was good seeing you at the show Dutch...You're so damn busy I don't ever get to see you anymore around town.

Tune into Claudia-Marie's site tonight at 7 (pacific time) and say hello to her. We'll be streaming live

new to GFY?.. Or did you just come out of church and you're all hyped up about positive things?

I am a positive guy actually, however I am also a realist. And I will say things how I see them. In this instant I also realize that no matter what is being said it is not going to make a difference to anyone, so I might as well have some fun with it, right?

Trust me when I say that at one point in Perrie's life she will be like "that fucking asshole on GFY was right".. this shit does suck and it did bite me in the ass.


It might seem awesome to you that she finds chicks etc and you guys have tons of fun, and trust me I am all for that type of stuff. But I have seen it so many times dude, serious..

Just one example of a few friends of mine who did the same thing he thought he had it made, then one day she is cranky, he had a rough day at work, things get out of hand and they end up fighting. he ends up calling one of the chicks they used to share, he made the mistake to bang her, she found out and all hell broke lose..

Shit happens quick and looks like you have a lot of fun but you are also setting yourself up.. :thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

Going to enjoy some dinner now.. Hope you guys enjoy it as long as possible and I mean that.

So because it's happened that way to people you know or have heard of.. That's the way it'll happen to EVERYONE? No.

Dave & I know each other... You don't know us.

you are right, I am.. rough day (week).. Maybe I shouldn't be on GFY right now. The I end up apologizing later.. lol

Why do I have to log on, I was hoping you'd say maybe I should come by.. heheh..

Going for dinner now.. Miss hanging out with you man.

Come on over. The show starts in an hour. :)

Difference is ... I'm not a cunt and would NEVER call up some girl and fuck her. So there you go :) Dude ... doesn't matter how many things you've seen ... you will not know someone's relationship or situation.

It's like me saying you're a virgin loser who can't get pussy so you shoot girls to get them naked. It'd be generalizing! And I don't do that.... you shouldn't either.

It's cool to be confident, but your cocky attitude is a little off base :) Glad you have an opinion ... you're just saying shit as if everything and everyone is the same. Which you should know isn't true.

Also ... Perrie and me have been literally together 24 hours a day , 7 days a week ... for all but two weeks of our almost 5 year relationship. We work together, live together, and literally all of our friends are mutual. We have zero flaws in our relationship, and have never had a proper argument. We've had disagreements, but we're both adult enough to not be a dick to each other. So we don't let arguments happen.

Some people can't believe that is possible ... that's because they've had shitty luck with girlfriends/boyfriends. We're just lucky I guess.

Thanks for the concern. But Perrie's too laid back to one day start complaining about the idea she brought up 4 years ago. :)

I'd like to add. If Perrie or me ever said we didn't want the threesomes anymore, both of us would stop immediately. :) I'd be 100% happy to do so.

Grr! It annoys me when people tell me how things in MY life are going to happen when they don't even know me! *angry face*

LOL! :) Doesn't matter!

EDIT: Wait ... I could have just said that over the desk. :D

lol at zero flaws