Ex girlofriends best friend?
 

Ok I am really attracted to my ex girlfriends best friend, me and my ex still get on very well and we where going to go to london on saturday to watch a fooball game and go to a party in london, however she cant come and as an off the cuff comment I asked her best mate and she said yes... Is it a good idea to get with her?

No, i think the X still likes u if she is still your friend, howeve,r you're not going out with her... ask the X and see how she feels.. if she has no problems with it then go for it and if she does have a problem then you need to decide whether the friendship with the x is worth the shot with the best friend, and whether the best friend feels the same way.

Call "Love Line" with Adam Corolla.

he was engaged

This girl is a stunner though been wanting to shag her for last 3 years...

You are into an entirely new worl of trouble if you even kiss her bro....
Holy shit, your ex will fuck you up for that :1orglaugh

Yeah man - quite hilarious you'd ask this on gfy. Not really the place for it - but hope you get some good advice somewhere...

I love it when people ask for romantic advice on here. It would be like asking for medical advice in a chip shop!

this guy can help
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Dude, who cares what your ex thinks. You aren't with her anymore. It is none of her damn business what you do in your own life. I would suggest fucking her best friend even if she was ugly just to piss off your ex. Who cares what she thinks. I am constantly trying to piss off an ex that keeps calling me. It brings joy to my life. Go for it :thumbsup

do it the way i would

:moon

:321GFY

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i think that guy NEEDs help

as to the ex's best friend..... talk to her first!.... tell her that u like her .... blah blah.... but that you don't want step on anyone's toes blah blah... and see what she says.....

maybe she likes you too.. after all she is going out with you by herself!

Well lets see, you've already asked the ex's bestfriend and she said yes. So even if you ask the ex if she is cool with it she;s going to know you asked - and if you then tell the ex's bestfriend that the ex says its not cool, now you've got the ex's bestfriend pissed at you and the ex, the ex pissed with you and the bestfriend and you've got nothing.

Seems like you've dug yourself a pretty good hole. Might as well just go with the ex's bestfriend at this point and make the most of it. Your 20/20 vision is all hindsight - and hindsight is not going to help you now.

I'm into my last ex's mother in a big way. I wish I had a pic to post, she's 48 but very hot. I've seen her a few times since I broke up with her daughter. I know she thinks I'm attractive, and she's made a bunch of sly, flirty comments whenever we've been alone together. She's also married, lol.

I'd love to hit it, but the double mother/marriage wammy is deeper than I want to get myself into.

As for your ex's best friend.. if she's that hot.. go for it ASAP!

dude...this is great...i say you have some fun with it.


Try banging her friend, but make sure the friend knows it has to be a secret, and then start sleeping with your ex again...keep us informed....enquiring minds need to know..no seriously, you are in a wicked position, who cares if it plays out badly, this is what makes it fun to be a guy...

just remember...she doesn't know shit, shes just bluffing you...

deny deny deny...ain't no proof till you say there is

It is always a good idea to nail chicks.

In my experience women are very possesive . For instance, there has been girls Ive dated and then it ended but we remained friends. But they never would try to set me up with any of their friends. Their attitude seems like "might as well keep this guy around so I can use him or need him for something, why should I give him away to a friend".

BITCHES

What the heck do you know...you scan your content from penthouse :1orglaugh

Oh darlin' most women can ALWAYS tell if you're doing something wrong :warning
You want to do something as stupid as that then be prepared to get caught.
:2 cents:

tell it from the mountain...lol

and to pink in the middle...that was the whole point...who cares what they think...unless you are planning on being serious with one of them...i say have fun...you will most likely get caught...but hey who cares...

go for the best friend! even if drama ensues, girls like drama, it'll give them something to talk about, and you'll have had sex, and in the worst case you can always find new girls to hang out with. unless the ex has major secrets about you or your credit card number or something, you should do what you want.

Ask the x if she would like to have a threesome, only logical thing to do, for sure:thumbsup

Do it. Give her "Two in the goo, one in the poo".

oh now that would be nice...

Well she doesnt seem to have a problem that I am going to London with her best mate, but then again she doesnt know what I have planned.

Why not try and get them both in the sack at once? I dare ya.

fuck her fuck her fuck her fuck her - the best way to become the best friend - I know stupid idea.....good luck man

It's ppl like you that make other ppl all fucked up.Do you even realize when you cheat on someone how much it hurts them or what that does to their self-esteem?
Do you even have a gf/bf? You're sad :(

"whocares" well for one the girl will care a hell of alot when she finds out and you should care...you are human right?
Do you not give a flying rats ass if you hurt somebody?
Listen I'm sorry for whoever hurt you but sweety it's time to move on.

She's your 'x'... this means no longer any committment... She has no right nor reason to have any say in the matter should you choose to take her friend.

If she has a problem with it, then she's admitting there's more to her feelings for you than she lets you know.

You have no reason to even wonder about how she feels about it, unless you have more feelings for her than you are letting her know.

If her friend said yes, then she apparently sees nothing wrong with it.. which is exactly how you should look at it..

If you're gonna wonder or worry about how the x is going to react to things that you do, then you might as well get back together.

hi pink :)
im just screwing around,,,i think that he has no commitment to either of the two ladies...so he is free to do as he pleases, which is why i mentioned that he should only play both of them if he has no plans to be serious about one of them.
i'm not sad, im usually pretty happy, im single right now..and i like it that way..although if you are a hottie...im accepting applications

:)
oh and btw...i don't cheat...if ia m in a relationship, i remain faithful even when someone blatantly propositions me or offers me no strings fun... my advice was meant for a single person...with two girls why not have some fun

:Graucho

Maybe your Ex is setting you up with her best friend, she's just making an so you can take her bestfriend.

I wouldn't worry about it because if your Ex is a true friend she'd want to help you get laid.

lol Hey Brad :)
You're right he's free to do as he pleases but he should remember that their are other ppl involved who have feelings. He very well may want to play the two girls, but unless the two girls know about this it's wrong in my opinion.

Btw I'm am a hottie and I'm taken :) Thanks for the offer but I'll have to pass:thumbsup

ah well that's too bad...i love quebec girls..they rock

let me know when you are in toronto...we can chill

just don't tell your bf/gf...hehehe

fuck man.... bone her best friend. thats what i'd do. she will probly just get jealous..maybe you could end up fucking them both at once if you play your cards right :thumbsup

Now, let me think...

Bad idea. Bad, Bad, BAD idea. You will fuck up your relationship with your ex (which you seem to value) and you'll fuck up the relationship between the two females.

If this is your only chance to get laid this decade, go for it.

"threesome" my :2 cents:

yeah do value my ex used to be friends b4 we got together and she still is a good friend :)

I think i will leave be, we will have a good time but I wont try it on with her.

Shag both the ex and the friend you wanna get with.

Might as well toss the dice hardcore, like we do in Brooklyn, straight up gangsta shit.

Just do it! Who cares what the ex will think as long as your hooking yourself up, and serving yourself proper.:1orglaugh

Don't do it! A good friend of mine was here before and this is what happened.

He did the bestfriend of his Ex and they both keeped it from her. Well the Ex knew something was up and found out about it. She kicked her bestfriends ass and ended the friendship with him. The bestfriend then dumped the guy and asked for her friend to forgive her and that she messed up and she was wrong. The girls then ganged together and made his life a living hell. Trashed is car, his house and called his boss and told him things about him. Don't piss off a women and play games like this unless you understand all can get hurt even you!

I would play it cool and just be friends for now. Then take them both out for a night of fun and drinking. Then at the end of the night go to your house and maybe play spin the bottle with them. If things are going to happen it will. So you just might get your 3some and all had fun.

Threesome.

I say Ex means Ex. Its not cheating just for that reason. Who gives a fuck what she thinks. Shes prob already banging all your friends behind your back anyway so go for it,

It's hard to argue with that logic. She want's to still be your friend so you CANT fuck any of her friends. Been there and I DID fuck the friend. Now they both hate me. Trust me you don't want to look back and say "I should have"" :Graucho