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Bobo 11-01-2002 03:26 PM

Translate your dreams?
 
I've studied some Freud and believe I'm in a position to interpret your dreams for you. I can help you unlock the meaning to those seemingly 'random' dreams you have. Post what you dream about and I can translate them for you in plain english.

Amputate Your Head 11-01-2002 03:30 PM

I dream of a hallway.... dark, paint chipping off the brick walls, and narrow.... maybe 4 feet wide.... more of an alleyway I guess... and a large, several hundred pound hulking monster on all fours, skinned.... the muscle and tendons exposed.... with rows of fourteen inch razor teeth... salivating.... and staring straight at me with evil dark blood red eyes and malice..... waiting to leap..... yet I just stand there.... and it waits.... :glugglug

pink_in_the_middle 11-01-2002 03:37 PM

Seriously I've been having these dreams since I was like 13 or so. I'm walking along the side of a cliff and all of a sudden jump or fall (don't remember which one).And I wake up just before I hit the ground.

wft is that all about?

Bobo 11-01-2002 03:40 PM

Amp, the hallway is symbolic of your entry into the world when you were in your mothers womb. The monster represents the world and you're a little timid about taking it on.

In your next dream you'll fight off the ugly beast. You'll have to find your way around the world but clearly you'll be ok.:1orglaugh

Maybe I'll stick to running porn sites or do some actual research rather than provide dream advice:1orglaugh

Amputate Your Head 11-01-2002 03:42 PM

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Originally posted by Bobo

In your next dream you'll fight off the ugly beast.

I've been having this same dream for as long as I can remember.... probly since I was 6.... I never got to the next dream. It's always the same one.

Machete_ 11-01-2002 03:42 PM

I have had the same dream about killing /beating the shit out of a dwarf 5-6 times... and im a nice guy, dont know why i get this dreams

tree 11-01-2002 03:44 PM

im in the back of an orange pickup truck. i cant jump out and it is heading for a cliff....i pass a tree and under it is some old lady sitting in a rocking chair laughing and waving at me....the truck goes over the hill and i wake up when it hits bottom.

wtf does that mean?

Bobo 11-01-2002 03:44 PM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
Seriously I've been having these dreams since I was like 13 or so. I'm walking along the side of a cliff and all of a sudden jump or fall (don't remember which one).And I wake up just before I hit the ground.

wft is that all about?

Oh Pink, this is just a symptom of your fear of making wrong choices. You think that somehow this little mistake or that one will be very detrimental to your life. It's not the case. There is no cliff Pink. You're going to be just fine:thumbsup

Bobo 11-01-2002 03:46 PM

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Originally posted by Amputate Your Head


I've been having this same dream for as long as I can remember.... probly since I was 6.... I never got to the next dream. It's always the same one.

Amp you're holding onto the past. You have to realize that you're a success. You have it all. You faced the world and conquered it. It's time for your dream to continue to the next episode.

TeraBabes 11-01-2002 03:48 PM

The one recurring dream I have is very bizarre. It happens in different settings, but the recurring part is that I'm chewing gum (which I rarely do in real life). I spit out the gum, but there is always more left in my mouth. I get to the point where I am reaching into my mouth and pulling out wads of gum, but there is always more stuck in my back teeth (evidently, it grows).

Very bizarre. And very annoying.

What's it mean? I've always wondered.

Bobo 11-01-2002 03:49 PM

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Originally posted by ebus_dk
I have had the same dream about killing /beating the shit out of a dwarf 5-6 times... and im a nice guy, dont know why i get this dreams
Clearly a case of inadequacy. Underneath all of your niceness there is a part of you that suspects these damn dwarfs have a bigger penis than you and that they're after your mom. Naturally you kick the shit out of them.

You have to note that all body parts aside from exceptional cases, are proportional. That is, these dwarfs have dwared penises and you have nothing to fear. Your mother has no interest in fucking dwarfs anyway.

Amputate Your Head 11-01-2002 03:50 PM

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Originally posted by TeraBabes
The one recurring dream I have is very bizarre. It happens in different settings, but the recurring part is that I'm chewing gum (which I rarely do in real life). I spit out the gum, but there is always more left in my mouth. I get to the point where I am reaching into my mouth and pulling out wads of gum, but there is always more stuck in my back teeth (evidently, it grows).

Very bizarre. And very annoying.

What's it mean? I've always wondered.

I have this one too Tera.... except for me it's not gum, it's broken teeth. I hate this dream..... the more I spit out, the more there is.... just like you said... it's like it grows.

Beastiepoo 11-01-2002 03:52 PM

I used to have this dream as a kid:

I'm in an old time corner shop. There is a penny gumball machine and next to it, a hole in the floor. I keep putting pennies in the machine and the gum and pennies keep falling in the hole. Eventually I get fed up and reach into the hole to retrieve my lost pennies/gumballs. I get down in the hole and suddenly I'm sitting on top of the door to my bedroom. The floor is a swamp with alligators and all I can think of is trying to get to my bed on the other side of the room. I think I sit there for a while and either leap for the bed or just sit there and give up. Then I'm standing on a hill. There are pebbles and sticks rolling down the hill passing by a log cabin with a flower garden in front. The sticks get bigger and bigger and eventually are huge logs that start by crushing the flower bed and eventually destroying the cabin.

Inevitably after having this dream I'd wake up and be sick. Usually with the flu, vomiting, the squits, and a fever. Bizarre.

In my adulthood I have had a recurring dream that I go looking for my first boyfriend and we meet up and end up getting back together. I think most people have that sort of dream though don't they, regardless of how happy they are in their lives as they are.

Bobo 11-01-2002 03:54 PM

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Originally posted by tree
im in the back of an orange pickup truck. i cant jump out and it is heading for a cliff....i pass a tree and under it is some old lady sitting in a rocking chair laughing and waving at me....the truck goes over the hill and i wake up when it hits bottom.

wtf does that mean?

Oh no...this is very troubling. Please do not read further if you don't want to know the truth.

Remember that old neighbor you had? She was a widow. The one you used to make fun of behind her back and even on Halloween you and your buddies used to take more than your share of candy from her?

Well, she's dead now and you're consumed in guilt. You left her no options. You were just a kid but you were stronger than her and you knew how feeble she was. Still, you abused her feelings.

In your dreams you're left without options. Kinda like how she felt.

TeraBabes 11-01-2002 03:54 PM

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Originally posted by Amputate Your Head


I have this one too Tera.... except for me it's not gum, it's broken teeth. I hate this dream..... the more I spit out, the more there is.... just like you said... it's like it grows.

Really? I've never met anyone else who has had this dream.

I think yours sounds worse with the teeth though. I'll stick with the gum.

Jamdin 11-01-2002 03:57 PM

There is one recurring dream that I have had through the years. The place changes but I am always jumping high and I mean about 100 feet off the ground. I jump over things such as buildings, electric poles and trees. It is a good feeling when I jump too and I am never scared.

Amputate Your Head 11-01-2002 03:57 PM

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Originally posted by TeraBabes


Really? I've never met anyone else who has had this dream.

I think yours sounds worse with the teeth though. I'll stick with the gum.

yeah, this one really sucks.... it actually wakes me up. I wake up trying to spit out mouthfuls of broken shards of teeth....

it is very bizarre indeed.... but thankfully it only seems to come a few times a year any more....

Jamdin 11-01-2002 03:59 PM

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Originally posted by Amputate Your Head


I have this one too Tera.... except for me it's not gum, it's broken teeth. I hate this dream..... the more I spit out, the more there is.... just like you said... it's like it grows.

I have had broken teeth dreams too and that's one of the reasons I hate going to the dentist. Usually it starts with one tooth and I usually spit out all my broken teeth by the end of the dream. They are not common but I have them every few months or so.

Bobo 11-01-2002 04:01 PM

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Originally posted by TeraBabes
The one recurring dream I have is very bizarre. It happens in different settings, but the recurring part is that I'm chewing gum (which I rarely do in real life). I spit out the gum, but there is always more left in my mouth. I get to the point where I am reaching into my mouth and pulling out wads of gum, but there is always more stuck in my back teeth (evidently, it grows).

Very bizarre. And very annoying.

What's it mean? I've always wondered.

Hmm, it's not so much meaning that we're searching for here. Freud writes that their are several stages in development from childhood to adolescence and then to adulthood. To reach self-actualization (to know yourself and your full potentials) you have to work through each stage successfully.

One of Freuds stages is the 'oral' stage, in which you learn to gratify yourself by putting things in your mouth. Every child goes through this. Something traumatic may have happend to you during this stage of development and you're likely suppressing it. For your sake, I will not speculate in public what I think might have happend.

TeraBabes 11-01-2002 04:01 PM

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Originally posted by Amputate Your Head


yeah, this one really sucks.... it actually wakes me up. I wake up trying to spit out mouthfuls of broken shards of teeth....

it is very bizarre indeed.... but thankfully it only seems to come a few times a year any more....

While unsuccessfully researching my gum dream before, I found something that said dreams of rotting teeth or teeth falling out mean you feel guilty about lying or deceiving someone... something like that.

Does that apply? Especially to the frequency that you are having the dream? Not so much any more, but more before?

I really don't think that's what my gum thing is about though.

TeraBabes 11-01-2002 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by Bobo


Hmm, it's not so much meaning that we're searching for here. Freud writes that their are several stages in development from childhood to adolescence and then to adulthood. To reach self-actualization (to know yourself and your full potentials) you have to work through each stage successfully.

One of Freuds stages is the 'oral' stage, in which you learn to gratify yourself by putting things in your mouth. Every child goes through this. Something traumatic may have happend to you during this stage of development and you're likely suppressing it. For your sake, I will not speculate in public what I think might have happend.

Interesting. I don't think you're really on track though. And remember, I am trying to get the gum OUT of my mouth (it's already in there). I am certainly not gratifying myself by putting anything in there.

I was never abused as a child, in any way, if that's what you are getting at.

pink_in_the_middle 11-01-2002 04:07 PM

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Originally posted by Bobo


Oh Pink, this is just a symptom of your fear of making wrong choices. You think that somehow this little mistake or that one will be very detrimental to your life. It's not the case. There is no cliff Pink. You're going to be just fine:thumbsup

God bless you :thumbsup

Bobo 11-01-2002 04:08 PM

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Originally posted by Beastiepoo
I used to have this dream as a kid:

I'm in an old time corner shop. There is a penny gumball machine and next to it, a hole in the floor. I keep putting pennies in the machine and the gum and pennies keep falling in the hole. Eventually I get fed up and reach into the hole to retrieve my lost pennies/gumballs. I get down in the hole and suddenly I'm sitting on top of the door to my bedroom. The floor is a swamp with alligators and all I can think of is trying to get to my bed on the other side of the room. I think I sit there for a while and either leap for the bed or just sit there and give up. Then I'm standing on a hill. There are pebbles and sticks rolling down the hill passing by a log cabin with a flower garden in front. The sticks get bigger and bigger and eventually are huge logs that start by crushing the flower bed and eventually destroying the cabin.

Inevitably after having this dream I'd wake up and be sick. Usually with the flu, vomiting, the squits, and a fever. Bizarre.

In my adulthood I have had a recurring dream that I go looking for my first boyfriend and we meet up and end up getting back together. I think most people have that sort of dream though don't they, regardless of how happy they are in their lives as they are.

Beastiepoo, in your last sentence you say that 'most people have that sort of dream, regardless how happy they are'. This is NOT true. Get that notion out of your mind IMMEDIATELY. NORMAL people do not have these types of dreams.

Now for the diagnosis. Your dream is very complex and needs to be sectioned into smaller pieces. The first part concerning the pennies and gumball machine indicates that you're simply afraid of being a popper, of being a failure, of being 'penniless'. Not only that, but you want MORE than what you put into things. For a penny you want a giant gumball when you know it going to be at least a quarter. But you reach in to get your greedy little fingers on the gum and this is when you're returned to your bedroom, sorta like being sent to your room after you've done something bad.

Do you want me to continue?

Bobo 11-01-2002 04:12 PM

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Originally posted by Jamdin
There is one recurring dream that I have had through the years. The place changes but I am always jumping high and I mean about 100 feet off the ground. I jump over things such as buildings, electric poles and trees. It is a good feeling when I jump too and I am never scared.
Jamdin, hehe I'm so happy to let you in on this one. You've always wanted to fly...to be Superman. There is no harm in this, but make a mental note: He who jumps off building in real life perishes.

Beastiepoo 11-01-2002 04:21 PM

You can continue if you would like. You're only reconfirming my belief that Freud had NO IDEA what he was on about. :)

The first dream could mean anything, including what you are evaluating it to mean. The point is that I haven't had it since I was about 12 and EVERY TIME after I had it, I got the flu. Really the flu. Home from school for 3 days, chucking up my guts, eating chicken soup...flu.

I have to disagree that the second dream indicates a profound unhappiness in my relationship because I am genuinely the happiest I have ever been. I DID have this dream before I was happy, but I still have it now from time to time. I am completely content in my life as it is. I'm about to celebrate my 3rd anniversary with my husband and our first child is due in January. I could understand and agree if there was some aspect of my relationship with which I was unhappy, but genuinely, there isn't. I've also read some research that says that dreams about past love/sex relationships have more to do with uncertainty in other aspects of life rather than your current relationship - usually job or financial stress.

Just adding fuel to the fire I suppose. I don't mean to contradict you, you've certainly done more reading and study than I have but I have always found Freud to be a load of crap.:2 cents:

Bobo 11-01-2002 04:26 PM

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Originally posted by Beastiepoo
You can continue if you would like. You're only reconfirming my belief that Freud had NO IDEA what he was on about. :)

The first dream could mean anything, including what you are evaluating it to mean. The point is that I haven't had it since I was about 12 and EVERY TIME after I had it, I got the flu. Really the flu. Home from school for 3 days, chucking up my guts, eating chicken soup...flu.

I have to disagree that the second dream indicates a profound unhappiness in my relationship because I am genuinely the happiest I have ever been. I DID have this dream before I was happy, but I still have it now from time to time. I am completely content in my life as it is. I'm about to celebrate my 3rd anniversary with my husband and our first child is due in January. I could understand and agree if there was some aspect of my relationship with which I was unhappy, but genuinely, there isn't. I've also read some research that says that dreams about past love/sex relationships have more to do with uncertainty in other aspects of life rather than your current relationship - usually job or financial stress.

Just adding fuel to the fire I suppose. I don't mean to contradict you, you've certainly done more reading and study than I have but I have always found Freud to be a load of crap.:2 cents:

Aww babe...I was just playing around. Don't take much of it too seriously. Be wary of psychologist, psychics, and all other mind practitioners.

TeraBabes 11-01-2002 04:33 PM

Well, I'll be damned. Look what I just found (my dream):
http://www.lifetreks.com/lifetreks3/dream01_200005.asp

And for AMP:
http://www.dreammoods.com/commondreams/teeth.htm

Beastiepoo 11-01-2002 04:37 PM

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Originally posted by Bobo


Aww babe...I was just playing around. Don't take much of it too seriously. Be wary of psychologist, psychics, and all other mind practitioners.

Not to fear - I'm not upset. Just interested. Fascinated in a funny way. I have a hard time putting too much stock in most psychological assessment. Its probably just because I'm a happy go lucky, laid back kind of gal, but I believe that MOST mental problems can be solved with some time and personal reflection. Too many people go running to shrinks with their problems. Only the seriously mentally ill really need psychological intervention. Most other people just need to take more responsibility for their own feelings.

I'll stop as I'm getting too deep now, and its nearly my bedtime. :glugglug

TeraBabes 11-01-2002 04:37 PM

I love the internet.

Here is my dream, EXACTLY, and a reasonable explanation:
http://www.ozdreamtime.com.au/dream_of_mnth_kris2.htm

Amputate Your Head 11-01-2002 04:37 PM

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Originally posted by TeraBabes
Well, I'll be damned. Look what I just found (my dream):
http://www.lifetreks.com/lifetreks3/dream01_200005.asp

And for AMP:
http://www.dreammoods.com/commondreams/teeth.htm

hahaha.... good work man.... :thumbsup
but according to that, they pretty much covered just about anything you wanna believe it is.... lol..... I guess I'm going through menopause. :Graucho

Bobo 11-01-2002 04:41 PM

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Originally posted by Beastiepoo


Not to fear - I'm not upset. Just interested. Fascinated in a funny way. I have a hard time putting too much stock in most psychological assessment. Its probably just because I'm a happy go lucky, laid back kind of gal, but I believe that MOST mental problems can be solved with some time and personal reflection. Too many people go running to shrinks with their problems. Only the seriously mentally ill really need psychological intervention. Most other people just need to take more responsibility for their own feelings.

I'll stop as I'm getting too deep now, and its nearly my bedtime. :glugglug

Very nice....I agree:winkwink:

Bobo 11-01-2002 04:42 PM

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Originally posted by TeraBabes
Well, I'll be damned. Look what I just found (my dream):
http://www.lifetreks.com/lifetreks3/dream01_200005.asp

And for AMP:
http://www.dreammoods.com/commondreams/teeth.htm

lol good stuff

railz 11-01-2002 04:44 PM

This is my recurring dream since I was about 7 years old.

I'm about 25 and Asian. I'm walking along with simple platform sandals on, a robe and I have a sword across my back. I walk for hours, calling a girl's name. The name is Nakomi.

I'm deadly serious.

TeraBabes 11-01-2002 05:06 PM

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Originally posted by railz
This is my recurring dream since I was about 7 years old.

I'm about 25 and Asian. I'm walking along with simple platform sandals on, a robe and I have a sword across my back. I walk for hours, calling a girl's name. The name is Nakomi.

I'm deadly serious.

That's fucked up.

Maybe you should talk to this 20 year old chick - Can't hurt. Her ICQ is 9901921.

RedShoe 11-01-2002 05:10 PM

I had a dream the other night that TooDamnFli was drivinga blue ford festiva. He was driving all over cemetaries, and crashing thru furneral services.

Now this is where it gets wierd. While he was driving, he was also looking up words in the dictionary.

Sunshine McGillicutty 11-01-2002 05:20 PM

I've never understood why people give any creedence to Freud. He had an obviously neurotic obsession with attempting to explain every pathology in existence with obtuse theories of childhood sexuality. Freud practiced the absolute opposite of good science.. he came to a conclusion and then played procrustes with the data until it fit what he wanted to believe.

C. G. Jung had a much better ideas about dreams. He theorized that most dreams are compensatory mechanisms which serve to rebalance the psyche. In compensatory, balance-restoring dreams, a person who has been humiliated by someone he admires may dream that he is praised or befriended by one of his heroes... perhaps a movie star or athlete; and the dream will help to restore his self-esteem. Likewise, if on some occasion a person has been overly smug about himself, he may dream that one of his heroes snubs him; and the dream will have a disquieting, sobering effect. Compensatory dreams serve to moderate the extremes of our ego's pride or debasement.

Dreams which are repetitive in nature are usually trying to call the dreamers attention to some psychological problem which he or she needs to resolve. Not necessarily a major psychological illness, but if you are having repetitive dreams, especially if they are negative in nature, you can be sure that there is something at least slightly out of whack.

Sunshine McGillicutty 11-02-2002 08:52 AM

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Originally posted by Amputate Your Head


I have this one too Tera.... except for me it's not gum, it's broken teeth. I hate this dream..... the more I spit out, the more there is.... just like you said... it's like it grows.

Quote:

Originally posted by TeraBabes
The one recurring dream I have is very bizarre. It happens in different settings, but the recurring part is that I'm chewing gum (which I rarely do in real life). I spit out the gum, but there is always more left in my mouth.
I know a bit about dreams but I have a friend & teacher who I write regularly who knows much more. She is, believe it or not, a legtimate Zen Master (has recieved formal Dharma transmission and is ordained) and the abbottess of a Chan (Zen) Buddhist Order in mainland China. Her secular career, before she started studying Zen, was in psychology, so she is doubly qualified.

I mentioned your recurring dreams in an email I wrote her last night. She usually doesn't respond this quickly, but I got a reply this morning. This is what she had to say:

Quote:

"Now.. your friend's recurrent dream. These are usually not archetypal dreams but rather the Buddha Self (the Dream Director) is trying to get somebody to do something that the person needs to do. At this "personal unconscious" level of dreaming, the dream is quite likely to be in metaphor. For example, if I use the expression "kick the bucket" to mean "die" and I dream that I'm walking down the street with Uncle Earnie and there's a bucket on the sidewalk and he kicks it... I have quite likely dreamed that he has died.

Likewise your friends probably use the expression "spit it out" to mean "spill the beans" or "confess" or "tell something that you are having trouble articulating". It is never sufficient to analyze a dream with such a limited 2nd hand sample... but my guess is that the person has done something that she is ashamed of or that she knows something that she thinks she should reveal - but is afraid or ashamed to tell.... So she should visit a priest (if she's a Catholic) and perhaps go to Confession... or find someone - not necessarily a psychologist - that can wind up costing her a lot of money - to tell. Sometimes it helps to write a fictional account of something... let a character in the piece articulate the subject that she is not able to speak about in real life. The same is true of the fellow who dreams about spitting out the broken teeth. He has been "chewing" on something for a long time... mulling it over and over and over. He's in worse shape... part of him (a vital part) is broken... an infection (mentally) and he's in trouble exorcizing it. He, too, needs to talk to a priest.... or create a fictional dialogue in which whatever it is is given voice."
Take it with a grain of salt, as she indicated she is only making guesses from a 2nd person account - a personal or telephone interview is needed for these sorts of things - but I thought you two might be interested in what she had to say.

Shes an interesting woman :)

TeraBabes 11-02-2002 09:57 AM

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Originally posted by Sunshine McGillicutty


Take it with a grain of salt, as she indicated she is only making guesses from a 2nd person account - a personal or telephone interview is needed for these sorts of things - but I thought you two might be interested in what she had to say.

Shes an interesting woman :)

Very interesting, indeed. Thanks.

A couple of things:

1. I'm a guy :)
2. I truly, truly don't believe I have something that I need to reveal but am ashamed to. The only thing I can think of that might apply is that not everyone in my life knows that I work in the adult industry (which I am not ashamed of, btw), BUT, I've had this gum dream for years... far longer than I've worked in this biz...

Still cool to read all these different interpretations...

Gramma 11-02-2002 10:03 AM

Hey Bobo
want to do a site with me at
dreammeanings.com ? :)

Sunshine McGillicutty 11-02-2002 10:42 AM

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Originally posted by TeraBabes


Very interesting, indeed. Thanks.

A couple of things:

1. I'm a guy :)
2. I truly, truly don't believe I have something that I need to reveal but am ashamed to. The only thing I can think of that might apply is that not everyone in my life knows that I work in the adult industry (which I am not ashamed of, btw), BUT, I've had this gum dream for years... far longer than I've worked in this biz...

Still cool to read all these different interpretations...

Its interesting what the mind will do of its own accord sometimes! I wouldn't have brought it up with her were it not for the fact that two people reported having almost exactly the same repetitive dream. I thought it might be some sort of common symbology she'd be able to easily identify - like the dreams which are obviously compensatory I talked about. I guess not.

sorry about the sex confusion too! lol

EscortBiz 11-02-2002 11:06 AM

dream that when sponsor say it converts 1:68 it really is true

edmo 11-02-2002 11:16 AM

Try lucid dreaming...
http://www.lucidity.com/


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