WTF is wrong with female teachers in Tampa
 

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TAMPA - Three Tampa Bay area teachers in two weeks have been accused of having sex with students.

http://www2.tbo.com/content/2008/mar...ted-two-weeks/

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She likes 14 year old boys. Apparently had lots of fun by the smile on her face.

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Boys were 17 and 18 so to me not shouldn't even bother with arrest. But being old fat and ugly she'll do hard time. Doesn't help her case she got them liquored up first. They probably needed it.

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She's 40, but obviously hotter than the fat pig above her so she'll get probation. "Victim" was also 17. "Raped" him 10 times over a 47 day period.

lol, thats pretty funny...

Can't rape the willing... :2 cents:

how can you be a "boy" if youre 17 or 18 years old? at that age youre a hs graduate, driving, probably have a job, can enlist in the military, and can be tried for murder as an adult. but god forbid you get a bj from a teacher. some of these laws are screwy. :disgust

Well the first one me is more a rapist than the other 2 since they boy was in fact a boy. Some here might not think so, but if she was a MALE teacher fucking a 14 year old boy these same people wouldn't be saying "Oh it's part of growing up." Anyways the biggest issue is that they are teachers. if the guy is 18 then he's an adult, but she has power over him. So she should lose her job.

the school board is freaking out and having emergency meetings
for a change I am glad I have a daughter!

as you said she couldent rape :) heheh i would fuck her without thinking :)

Maybe, but I'm 39 and I know that if I met a 17 year old girl that wanted to fuck me and I fucked her, I be arrested, tried, convicted and serving hard time.

LOL, times sure have changed.

Im starting to think its a fad or the "in thing" for these teachers because you hear about these chick teachers going after male students at least once a week. There definitely is a trend going on....which is just bizarre. :2 cents:

lol... i guess but don't get it twisted ALOT of male teachers have affairs with younger girls... girls are just more embarassed to talk about it thats why you dont hear about it as much.... the whole school probably finds out when a female teacher fucks one of her pupils

I would have loved to have sex with her when I was 14 years old. In fact, I did have sex with a female student teacher 10 years older than me when I was 14 years old. It was great.

Age, looks and gender do matter here, because with an attractive woman in her twenties, chances are rather higher that the "victim" was a willing participant than they would be with a fat, ugly man in his fifties.

Chances of the boy being traumatized by this particular encounter are very slim. Or at least, they would be, hadn't the law decided to step in, label the boy a victim, put the woman he had sex with in prison, and tell him he's been through a sad, shocking, traumatizing, tragic experience.

They should all lose their jobs, yes. None of them should go to prison, though.

14 year olds want to do a lot of stuff they shouldn't. That's why they are considered MINORS. They are not mature enough to make sound decisions.

Looks shouldn't matter. So Brad Pitt can't possibly be a rapist ever? Justice is supposed to be blind. The middle teacher is not attractive so she is a rapist and the others aren't because there is no way those boys WILLINGLY fucked her?

but if if you had a 14 year old daughter and she had a teacher that looked like Brad Pitt it wouldn't matter to you if she was willing or the fact he was attractive, you'd want him in jail. At least most of society would. Some how a 14 year old girl is traumatized by sex, but boys aren't even though it's a proven fact that girls are more mature than boys. So either neither are traumatized adn grown-up should be able to have sex wit 14 year olds. Or they both are and it should be illegal. So which is it. A or B?

Also if this involved gay sex, attractiveness wouldn't mater to you either. You are being so hypocritical.

Sorry the first one should. Sorry a 28 year old should NOT find a 14 year old sexual arousing. Male, female doesn't matter.

Yeah Im sure she put her vagina in his penis 10 times and he was unwilling the entire time.

yup, and you sure as hell wouldn't have a bunch of people running around going publicly backing you up either. They'd have out the nooses...

That's why you don't let them sign binding contracts without parental consent, don't let them join the army, etc.

Sex, however, is a different matter. 14 is a perfectly normal age to start experimenting with it. 16.4 or something like that is the average age at which people lose their virginity, and about a third of people have their first sexual contact before age 16.

Criminalizing normal sexual behavior is utterly and completely insane, not to mention completely ineffective.

As long as it's safe and both parties consent, sex isn't a bad thing. 14 is a fairly young age to start with it, but it is an age at which a fair number of teens are both physically and psychologically ready to start trying it out.

Looks shouldn't matter when people pick sexual partners? Try going on a forum for teens and telling them that. Tell me what their answer was.

Sure, Brad Pitt could be a rapist. However, if you only knew he had sex with a 15 year old girl, would your initial guess be that she was coerced or forced, or that she voluntarily did it?

In the case of the attractive 28 year old teacher, it is possible that she actually coerced or forced the boy. If that is the case, she should definitely go to prison. However, it is rather more likely that he wasn't forced in any way, and that the only "rape" here was statutory. In which case the sex probably wasn't harmful to him at all, while the current legal actions probably are.

Actually, neither should be illegal because of age alone. The teacher bit should lead to firings, though.

But gender actually does make a difference, whether you like it or not. Just compare sexual attitudes among teen boys to those among teen girls. Also, compare the number of (actual) rape by males to the number of (actual) rape by females.

So, while neither should be illegal because of age alone, it is nevertheless more likely that teen boys decided to have sex out of their own free will than teen girls.

If I had a 14 year old daughter who had sex with a Brad Pitt-lookalike in his twenties, and she made it clear to me that it was her decision, no, I would not want to see him in jail.

Attractiveness would matter in the case of gay sex, too. Obviously. However, given the rather lower incidence of homosexuality than that of heterosexuality, it would, once again, be more likely that force or coercion played a role.

But, again, if the sex was safe, and the teen made it clear that it was his own choice, the decision should be left to the teen.

Sorry, but most adults do find certain early-developing teens attractive. Hell, some 14 year olds look just as old as most 18 year olds.

Actually, in most of the world, you wouldn't. Thankfully, at least most of the world realizes that placing the age of consent above the average age of first sexual contact is a rather silly idea.

http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm

teachers turning into sluts?

If some woman tried to jam her vagina in my penis even one time I wouldn't be willing ;) ow ow ow

damn.... too damn hot!

I think the thing it bear in mind is that teachers, especially these days are in the classroom at age 22-25. That's still very young.

Think of the stupid shit you got up to [or get up to] when you were that age. Just because they *are* teachers don't mean they're human beings, with all the various tendancies etc of a regular 2o somehing year old.

It's by no means a justification for what they're doing, but if you put it in the context of : a 24 year old girl hung out with a 17 year old boy for 6 hours a day, 5 days a week, and they ended up fucking - it sounds completely reasonalbe. :2 cents:

Omg, I just love your sites, that's what I call an innovative approach to dating and PPC...I wonder how many hatemails you get daily...

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because female rape is not considered real thing. Sexual attitudes don't matter. Also not to mention it's more than obvious that you don't know jack about teens today, because girls like and want to have sex as much as boys do today. Doesn't make it ok.

Read above.

father of the year you are.

So a teens can't possibly be gay so therefor gay sex is forced? What is "attractive"? People post picks of "hot" girl all the time I think are average at best. And I'm quite sure girls that get me going other people would think "WTF does he see in here?"

Do you REALLY think that's how a jury would see it? And that's the point. equal justice I say.

Doesn't mean you act on it. Sometimes I want to kill people that piss me off( many that post on this board included). Doesn't mean I should actually do it.

Well sure. I have a friend whose soon to be ex-2nd wife has a 15 year old daughter( his step daughter ) now the mom is pretty damn hot herself. This girl is better built than her mom. From a distance you can't tell she's 15. Up close and talking to her you can she's under 18. So while I wouldn't think a guy my age seeing her from a distance saying "Man I'd fuck that chick" was a pedo, but if he met her and found out she was 15 and still thought that way I would.

Slippery slope?


I think they are hardcore about coming down on these teachers because society doesn't want any room for abuse to happen... if it gets loosened up, more acceptable, no prosecution, what happens when some 14 year old boy really IS abused?

I don't know what it means, but society definetely has tolerance for young boys with older (especially good looking) women, but when you reverse it or talk about gay sex its like a call to arms across the nation. For some reason we think a 14 year old boy deciding to bang an older woman is normal, its all right, he knows what he's doing, but if a 14 year old girl willingly bangs an older man the girl didnt know better, was confused, needs protection, etc... the truth is that nobody at 14 or even 16 knows what the hell they're doing, and kids that age are easily manipulated into thinking they want what someone tells them they want.

I dunno. Messy topic.

One of these teachers was 40 the other 45. That being said, putting teachers( male or female ) under 28 around students reaching sexual maturity is kind of asking for trouble. If you're not old enough to go to your 10 year high school re-union, should you be teaching in a high school?

HAHA I missed this one.

The "Important update regarding MENTALLY CHALLENGED CHILDREN" is hysterical!

It is not a new thing that teachers shouldn't fuck their students. If you are a teacher you are aware of this. We work in an industry with rules and you follow them so you do not go to jail or have problems. So wtf.. Do NOT have sex with minors! This is not new and they know it. So they get to go to jail.

Damn, that's what a teacher should look like!

exactely! :thumbsup

exactely! :thumbsup

exactely! :thumbsup

Thanks for that. Hadn't you made it clear that you aren't capable of reasonable debate, I'd probably have wasted far more time on you.

One more thing, however: given your age, it probably isn't a good idea to assume you know more about the "teens today" than people over a decade younger than you.

Do you ever watch thta show? Men are getting arrested for trying to have sex with 14 and 15 year olds. You are agreeing with these men. Get it now?

There is no DEBATE. The fact you think having sex with minors well under the age of 18 is somehow "debateable" is troubling.

you = RETARD. The fact you are a 13 years younger than me shows how stupid an immature you are about this. In my book you're just a kid yourself. no wonder you want to fuck 14 year old girls.

Let's see, I have a soon to be 13 year old son. I have a sister your age so I do kind of know what teens were like when she was in school. Plus I'm not a hermit so I generally get out and see and talk to people of all ages so yes I can gauge what is on the minds of just about anyone.

The fact is my son is a 12 year old 7th grader and yet a good % of his classmates moms aren't even 30. Do the math. His best friend's, who is 13, mom turns 29 later this year. Hmmmmmm. Yes all these moms were raped as teens I'm sure. The local high school which only has 300 female students has at least 6-10 girls wind up pregnant each year. All rape victims to be sure since teen girls don't want sex according to you.

Women have equal rights and should be treated as equals, throw the fucking book at the sex offenders.

yah i wish i had teachers like this back when i was in high school.
i did have one hot math teacher back then.
blond, slim, very pretty and had that MILF looks. would have loved for her to take advantage of me back then.

No, I don't watch the show. That's because I live in another country. One which happens to have different laws, you fucking idiot.

I take my previous post back. The reason you don't understand teens isn't that you're too old, it's that you have the maturity of an 8 year old.

No, you can't. Teens don't tell their parents everything, and they certainly don't tell random 37 year old men everything. To even think you can gauge what is on the minds of "just about anyone" is ridiculous, no matter your age.

And where did I say teen girls don't want sex? They certainly do, but they most often also have somewhat different attitudes towards sex than male teens. They tend to consider relationships more important, as well as the person they're having sex with. Guys, on the other hand, tend to be willing to have sex with just about anything that looks attractive and is willing to have sex with them.

Also, your choice of example is interesting. I happen to be from country with a lower age of consent, more sexual education, opener attitudes towards sex, and on top of all that, much, much lower teen pregnancy rates.

Gee. I wonder why that is.

But I'll stop wasting my time on you now. Arguing with you is as pointless as arguing with stickyfingerz, theking, or a brick wall. None is likely to elicit anything resembling an intelligent response.

Thats fucking hot.

it fluctuates... but yeah, the reaction to a lot of the sites is just incredibly insane and almost depressing. the internet gives you a lot of insight into people, their thought process and what they're all about than you had 15 years ago... and its really horrible and depressing to look down that rabbit hole. i was happier thinking people weren't so simple and easy to manipulate

Seriously where were these teachers when I was a kid? Actually I do know one of the teachers who was notorious for banging EX students, but she was really gross.

i currently live in tampa. i wish i went to hs here:(

At age 17 I had my own car, my own job, had been living on my own for the past year in a foreign country, and had signed up fort he US Marines and entered boot camp.

17 isn't really a boy is it?

17 year old victim? We're a society that loves to create victims where there are none. Just fire her for inappropriate behavior with a student and be done with it.

My teachers would probably have got my attention more if they looked like anything that... :thumbsup

you can debate on and on all day about not raping the willing and that it's great and fun for these boys..blah blah...
what is scary is what is wrong with these women that they find teenage boys attractive. I know in the one instance the boy was 17 and that is borderline but he is still a student at the school where she teaches. That in itself should make it clear that he is not available for sex.
It's not like she met him somewhere and he was posing as an adult and tricked her. She knew him from SCHOOL and he was obviously not a co-worker.

i met a chick (well.... for 30.00 per song) at Mons Venus that was paying for school by working there. maybe it has a lot more to do with tampa, teachers unions, fear of pathetic lawsuits and a town that has a strip club on every corner?

i don't get why people are so confused as to why crazy people do crazy shit. the question is not "how could she...." the question people should be asking is "how the fuck do we have a school system that consistently hires sexual predators to teach children"

Well here in AMERCIA, you idot, which is where these teachers live, you CAN NOT have sex with minors.


Says the the person that says grown-ups having sex with 14 year olds is ok as long as the adult is good looking.


Do you know me? No. Do you live my life? No. But suposedly you can somehow tell me what I know or don't know yet I am not able to gauge what's on the minds of others I am actually in contact with? Hmmm. How about predicting the lottery numbers for this week while you're at it.

now who is shwing thier ignorance of the modern teen.

Then how in the fuck can you say you know better than me what AMERICAN teen age girls attitudes about sex is? Ok first you infer they have the same attitudes as girls in your country, but then you infer it must be different since your country has a much lower teen pregnacy rate than America. So which is it? Or is tlaking out bother side of your ass something you like to do?

You're 26 so you don't know shit about shit. You're barley out of diapers. So STFU already. You want to talk about how you would react to your own teenage daughther fucking an older guy like it's all cool. A) you don't even have fucking kids. It's obvious. I like how people who aren't parents tell parents how they should raise kids. B) You're still wanting to fuck some guys teen-age daughter yourself and have to justify it.

Im not sure whats wrong with teachers in Tampa but this is out of hand, gotta figure though its one of the largest scool disctructics in the us

Well maybe the one in her 20's you can say this might be a first offense thing. But the 40 and 45 year old no way. They didn't wake up at 40 and 45 and decide to do this. They had to be doing this for YEARS and YEARS. And yeah at 17 no I'm not going to call a guy that age a "victim" but that 40 year wasn't ugly and I'm sure in Tampa there were TENS of THOUSANDS of MEN that she'd find attractive that would have been willing to fuck her, yet she choose teen age boys. Something is wrong with her brain there.

Don't think the fact she was in a position of power didn't have anything to do with it. It had to. That nearly makes it rape since rape isn't about sex it's about power so they say.