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disregard 12-11-2005 04:13 AM

Does anyone do handshake deals anymore?
 
I'd love to hear great, or horrible stories about recent handshake deals. I just get the idea that handshakes meaning anything is a thing of the past.

And I don't mean making deals online.. everybody knows those go both ways.

RayBonga 12-11-2005 04:14 AM

Probably wouldn't do it in any situation that was really important and other than that only with very few people.

newbreed 12-11-2005 04:15 AM

In Florida this year I made a handshake deal with someone and it's payed off many times over since then. It does happen, it's just rare anymore.

phonesex 12-11-2005 05:12 AM

If your buying real estate, forget the handshake. But always good to show some respect, integrity, and loyalty when dealing with people.

WiredGuy 12-11-2005 12:31 PM

Hell no. In writing or nothing.
WG

JFK 12-11-2005 12:48 PM

I do handshake deals all the time.........If you cant trust a person on a handshake , a piece of paper isnt going to mean much :2 cents:

Greg MissionD 12-11-2005 12:55 PM

Very rare a deal is done on a handshake (Been burned on that before) and if it is I would follow it up with a written agreement, I prefer an agreement on paper so that each party knows what they have to do and their responsibility and the more legally binding the better it is for both parties protection and understanding.

That way anyone can go back to what was agreed to clear anything up as miss-communication can happen to the best of us sometimes.

Cassavetes 12-11-2005 01:00 PM

I agree with JFK... goes a long way in any dealings.

AmateurFlix 12-11-2005 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK
I do handshake deals all the time.........If you cant trust a person on a handshake , a piece of paper isnt going to mean much :2 cents:

:thumbsup

gangbangjoe 12-11-2005 01:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK
I do handshake deals all the time.........If you cant trust a person on a handshake , a piece of paper isnt going to mean much :2 cents:

:thumbsup :thumbsup

Peaches 12-11-2005 01:53 PM

Everytime an affiliate signs up for a program it's basically nothing but a handshake deal. Read the "agreements" and you'll see 99% of the programs have in there they can change the terms at any time :)

I haven't made a deal in writing since I've been in this biz and haven't been screwed over yet. Just did another one last week via nothing but ICQ (VERY part time so don't anyone think I'm really getting back into the biz ;) ). Once you've been around for a while, you know who to trust and who not to trust.

rowan 12-11-2005 02:29 PM

Handshakes mean you can post that he's a stand up guy when he's revealed as a scammer. :1orglaugh

SinisterStudios 12-11-2005 03:05 PM

Handshake deals are few and far between, in this day in age of sue happy people you cant trust a handshake. Believe me i know, boy do i know

sfera 12-11-2005 04:18 PM

handshakes dont mean anything to people anymore, results and reputation are what speak

Validus 12-11-2005 05:15 PM

Depends on what it is... but if it is a business thing... no paper, no deal.

InGayPorn 12-11-2005 05:19 PM

Some of the best deals I've done in this business have been on a handshake. Come to think of it, some of the worst have too.

Greg MissionD 12-11-2005 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Validus
Depends on what it is... but if it is a business thing... no paper, no deal.

That is tru, somethings are just not worth putting it on paper and it also depends on the business model that you have as your business might need agreements and contracts in place if you wanted to sell it one day this can be something that a buyer would want to see when he does his due diligence.

Rob 12-11-2005 05:26 PM

Handshake deals are about as valid as the person you shook hands with in most occasions.

Fuck using the courts to settle your issue since it will turn into a "he-said, she-said" affair. Everything I do is on paper and in triplicate.

TheLegacy 12-11-2005 05:31 PM

I survive in this business on handshakes but also respect anyone I work with to follow a handshake up by initiating a contract or email specifying what was discussed.

LiveDose 12-11-2005 05:37 PM

I've done a couple of them in the past month with domain transfers. It was actually the other person wiring the funds only after a few emails. $1500.00 on one occassion and $2000.00 on another. So I wasn't putting anything on the line. Either way it was a good feeling to know that some people still operate this way.

I personally am more hesitant to do handshake deals with people I don't know. Too many scammers lurking these days. But with people I know I will sometimes.

TheLegacy 12-11-2005 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LiveDose
I've done a couple of them in the past month with domain transfers. It was actually the other person wiring the funds only after a few emails. $1500.00 on one occassion and $2000.00 on another. So I wasn't putting anything on the line. Either way it was a good feeling to know that some people still operate this way.

I personally am more hesitant to do handshake deals with people I don't know. Too many scammers lurking these days. But with people I know I will sometimes.


over the years I have seen great friendships ruined over greed. Trust is earned and in these days I have a handfull that I truly trust without hesitation - but I try to give people the benefit but usually use my network of contacts to verify someones reputation and integrity. I never walk into any agreement blindly.

AmeliaG 12-11-2005 05:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK
I do handshake deals all the time.........If you cant trust a person on a handshake , a piece of paper isnt going to mean much :2 cents:

I agree with that, although sometimes a contract is nice just to remind everyone involved what they agreed to.

MaxCandy 12-11-2005 05:58 PM

Handshake/email deals, with a 50% upfront deposit, even from companies that have been around for 5+ years.

Yes! I believe

Ray@TastyDollars 12-11-2005 07:27 PM

Been going on a hadshake deal for about a year now...and many more to come im sure.

Its all about trust. Trust those you work with or dont work with them at all.

Ray

Raven 12-11-2005 08:17 PM

I was flown to Zurich this past July.

On a handshake with Joe, I am now exclusive to EuroRevenue. Every point of our deal has been honoured by both sides.....the deal was sealed with a handshake and four bottles of Austrian Reisling......No regrets....and we make a helluva team.

I agree with JFK..

My father taught me to always look eye....and contracts keep honest people honest.

sonofsam 12-11-2005 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rowan
Handshakes mean you can post that he's a stand up guy when he's revealed as a scammer. :1orglaugh

:winkwink:

Jarmusch 12-11-2005 08:20 PM

I only handshake top-notch-down-to-earth-stand-up people. :D

Marshal 12-11-2005 08:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Raven
I was flown to Zurich this past July.

On a handshake with Joe, I am now exclusive to EuroRevenue. Every point of our deal has been honoured by both sides.....the deal was sealed with a handshake and four bottles of Austrian Reisling......No regrets....and we make a helluva team.

I agree with JFK..

My father taught me to always look eye....and contracts keep honest people honest.

look at the eyes! :thumbsup

synapse 12-11-2005 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFK
I do handshake deals all the time.........If you cant trust a person on a handshake , a piece of paper isnt going to mean much :2 cents:

JFK is one guy who's handshake deal is as good as, if not better then, any damn piece of paper I can attest to that :thumbsup

reynold 12-11-2005 10:38 PM

Do the kow tow instead..


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