How life can fucking suck sometimes! I lost my baby today.
 

How the best day of my life turned into my worst in the span of 5 minutes. :(

We have been trying to have a baby for over a year and it finally happened. We were excited and everything was going great. Today was the appointment where I was supposed to hear the baby's heartbeat for the first time. They did a sonagram and there was no heartbeat. The baby hasn't developed since her last appointment and the fetal sack was starting to deteriorate. A sign that her body is getting ready to miscarry the baby.

I wanted a child more than anything in this world and I guess it just wasn't my time. My number one goal right now is to comfort her and reassure her that she did not let me down since she knew how excited I was about it.

Life can really fucking suck sometimes! You see poverty stricken kids that don't want children and can't support children have them every day.

DAMN! DAMN! DAMN!!!!!!!!

Oooof. man thats harsh.

Well, take comfort in the fact that the body often ends pregnancies for a reason... keep trying man! At least the process of trying is really really fun!

Sorry to hear about your loss man. :(

I can't imagine how that feels... I know I would have been devastated but still, I'm sure the scope of it is way beyond how hard I think it could be.

Sorry to hear man... take care of your woman. It'll happen when it's meant to.

damn sorry to hear that shit bro

have you thought about adopting ?

I'm so very sorry, Rob. :( If you need someone who's been there to talk with, you're welcome to email me.

Sorry for your loss man.

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Hey I know this is a sad day for you man but this is not the place to post this sort of thing.. :2 cents:

Rob, Sorry to hear that. Best wishes and we'll be thinking of you and your wife

My sincere sympathy. If all goes well, you will have have better luck next time.

In my case, my wife and I were never able to conceive a child, so we make happy with our pets and spoil the hell out of our nieces, nephews and friend's kids.

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keep your head up bro

Rob, that's tragic but more common than you may think. Not that it's frequency is any comfort to you, but know that many others deal with this often and resume life shortly after. This cloud has a silver lining too, it just may take some time to find it. Again sorry to hear that for you.

Oh hun I'm so sorry to hear that, you know I'm on ICQ if you need to talk.


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thats really shitty, atleast it happened now rather than be born with something wrong with it. Support your girl and try again when the times right, thats all you can do

sorry to hear your loss :(

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hate to hear bad things happen to good people - keep your head up man - you've go the right attitude about going forward and (more importantly) comforting you'r better half.

I am very sorry to hear that. Men often get over looked in these situations so don't forget to take some time for your own comforting while you are looking after her.

that sucks man. my heart goes out to you and your woman

Sorry to hear. Keep your chin up & think on the positive side.

When my wife & I were trying to have our first, same thing happened & she miscarried at 3 months along. Anyway, she claims that night she had a dream of a little girl, who said to her, "it's ok mommy" & this little girl took a small baby by the hand & flew away (no wings). Anyway, 10 months later, we had a beautiful, healthy, smart baby girl. She is 6 years old now,very beautiful, bright, smart & healthy & I love her more than anything in this world.

Your wifes body is aiming for perfection, once her body know's that it will produce the best, that is when it'll come to fruition.

Some people believe that our souls are out there before we are born. Perhaps your son or daughter has decided that maybe now isnt the right time & is waiting to make some changes so that everything will be perfect.

thats rough man sorry to hear that hopefully things work out better next time..

Hey Rob keep your head up. My wife and I went through that same type of cycle the first time. It was devastating especially for her. Right now comfort your girl and stay positive. Sometimes the timing/factors are just off and the next time around everything will go perfectly. It's no indication of the future. Stay strong man.

sorry to hear that

That's awful Rob. I can't even imagine how you must feel, but try to be a little strong for your girlfriend. She's going to need it. I am so sorry for your loss. :(

sorry to hear that :(

I'm realy sorry for you Rob life realy suck somtimes :

Today I found out that my younger sister she will probably lose her baby too last night she start bliding the doctor said that is 99% posibile to lose the baby :(

life realy sucks :mad:

fuck man this gave me shivers

i want to go hug my daughter (shes not home)

god bless ya go, give your wife a bunch of love, shes going to need it

I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband and I had the same thing happen to us about 10 years ago and I know how hard it is. I had very bad postpartum depression afterwards because your body still considers it a pregnancy, whether it's 40 weeks or 12. You're a good man staying by your girl...it can be very bad for the mom.

Rob - I am so sorry to hear that man. I know there isn't much anyone on here can say to comfort you but I feel for you. I'm sure your time will come, hang in there!

that sucks - really bad - been there done that
it takes time to heal for both of ya..

Sorry to hear that, be thankful it happened early on. My friends just lost their baby at birth, can't imagine going 9 months and having that happen. My wife miscarried last year early on like you, but a few months later was able to get pregnant again. We just had a very healthy girl five weeks ago, and the timing was perfect. Just keep trying and don't get discouraged.

sorry to hear it buddy

Sorry for your loss, you have my deepest sympathy. Take care of your lady and take care of yourself.

Misscarrages happen, a lot, I stopped counting long ago, but I once has to pull one out of the toilet because the hospital wanted to find out what went wrong, once had twins come up on a sonogram. gone.

If that was the first, there was probably something really wrong with the baby, if it happens over and over, her body isnt ready for one yet.

Sooner or later it'll happen, I got a 7 year old in her room playing teacher with a bunch of stuffed animals right now, and there was a SHITLOAD of miscarriages before that.

oh man i'm so sorry to hear that!

oh man that's so sad...sorry to hear bout that!

Wow, Rob, I'm really sorry to hear that. Maybe you and your girl should take a few days off and go chill out somewhere while you get yourselves back in order.

Sorry to hear Rob :(

I just talked to you about you hearing the hearbeat and I noticed how happy you were bro, Im so sorry if you need anything hit us up

I'm sorry to hear about this, Rob. :(

Best of luck to you both and I hope that you can try again with a successful result in the future. Keep your chins up.

Outch ... that has got to hurt... misscarriages are never funny. My best friend had one last year and even if she didn't want the baby, it still hurts

Sorry to hear that mate. my auntie had 2 miscarages before she gave birth too her 4 sons

Thats rough Rob. Keep trying, Give your girl hug.

Very sorry to hear this man. I hope you two can find some peace and move forward.

Wow.....

Rob...only time can heal the wound. I lost my girlfriend of 2 years...the person I wanted to marry. And to be perfectly honest with you...it's been a year and 2 months and I still think about her on a daily basis.

It's never going to be "ok" but it will get better. Rest assured. You will become a stronger person because of the loss of your baby.

My condolences...

thats very sad! :(

Rob, I'm so sorry to hear that. Breaks my heart to hear it.

I can't even imagine the feeling.

Keep your head up and try again.

So sorry to hear that bro

Sorry to hear about your misfortune. Chin up!

Sorry to hear this

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