Life can be a rollercoaster. sorry to hear about this.

Thats sucks Rob.

By the way, if there were no heartbeat, it wasn't a baby yet. So don't feel too bad.

Good luck.

My condolences...

Truly sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with ya-

Brad

Don't worry everything happens for a good reason. I am sure everything will be perfect for you in the end.

I vote for polygomy.

I'm surprise there was no "troll" posts before the 50th

OMG man that hits my heart so bad...me and my gf have been trying for over a year and it has finally happened to us. We are so happy it's happened...there's nothing more I could wish for this season than for it to happen with you and your woman...I sincerely mean that man. - Shedding tears for you. - Best of luck this holiday season brother :thumbsup

Ho damn man, sorry to hear that :(

Sorry to hear about this, best wishes to you and you're girl.

Thank you, everyone for your heartfelt replies. I'm 31 years old and have never felt pain like this before...and I've been through a lot. The Mrs. is doing well (feeling a little empty and helpless) but she is doing very well. I'm proud of her.

Thanks again everyone! I am so glad that I have a place where I can vent and bring intimate emotions and have such overwhelming support! Much love to everyone!

My condolences on your loss

My baby boy turned 6 months today, and reading this brought tears to my eyes.

Sorry is not a word that can make you or her feel better, but I hope that you know that we all hurt for you.

whoa, bro, i'm very sorry to hear this. i wish you and your wife the best.

Sorry to hear. Keep trying!

Sorry for your loss. All the best wishes for the next one.

maybe youll get twins next time
i am sure it will happen soon sweetie everything that is meant to be always happens
and true there is always adopting

Awww man! That is so sad. If this helps at all..... my sister had a baby still born a little over a year ago....they thought everthing was fine.


And they tried again, and she gave birth to a very healthy baby a month ago. I pray that things will work out well for you man. Stay strong.

It does comfort me a lot when I hear of other people that have gone through this before and now have healthy, beautiful children. My first thought when I heard the news was that there was something wrong with me. Then I thought there was something wrong with her. Then I did some research and have had a TON of support from people calling and ICQ'ing me since I posted this. It really has helped out a lot and I understand that its something that a lot of people face before having a full term pregnancy.

Once again, all of the people that called me and ICQ'd me, I really do appreciate what you did. Also, the people that posted in this thread; I appreciate you and your sentiments.

:(

im so sorry

duke

keep trying man... wish you good luck :thumbsup

I'm terribly sorry for hearing this man, my prayers are with you and your family.

Best of luck.

Sorry to hear that man, keep your chin up.

So sorry to hear that, I would be lost if that happened.

sorry to hear about the bad news :(

Thats awful man sorry to hear that

:(

sorry to hear that Rob... yeah just comfort her, I know it been hard for her too... maybe its just isnt the time... just dont lose hope...

I'm so sorry for your loss :( My condolences.

People assume that conception and delivery is a lot easier than it actually is. However, the timing and conditions have to be nearly perfect. It seems that other people are pushing out babies left and right, especially people that shouldn't have any and it makes it that much harder to cope with when people that really want and deserve a baby are struggling with it.

I was reading just yesterday that it takes on average about a year for a couple to conceive... that's a long time, considering how it seems some women are pregnant just looking in their general direction. When the time is right, you could go see the best fertility specialist you can find. They say that the treatments they have now have over 90% success rate for most couples.

I'm sure your wife is taking this even worse than you are. Support her all you can... and encourage her. Don't give up! The best to you both.

Im sorry to hear :(

That sucks man, sorry to hear that.

I can't imagine what I would've done in that position.
Probably wouldn't be able to post here, for sure.

Keep your head up and try try again :(

Very sorry to hear that mate, It's very common though so don't take it personally, my GF's sister miscarried the first time they tried for a baby a year ago and I fully expect to have to go through it when the time comes. I'm almost considering adopting some tanzanian kid instead of russian rouletting a healthy baby. My brother and his wife didn't tell anyone of their pregnancy until after the 3 month "danger zone" both times.

It's truly, truly horrible, but sadly for the best. Statistically you will win out in the end with a healthy child.. Good luck.

Rob, that's really harsh news.

I don't really know what to say. Just that I'm sorry for your loss and hope that things will get better for you on that.

All the best.

M.O.

Sorry :(

Condolence Rob. :(

Really sorry to hear of your loss, I hope in time your dreams of having a child comes true...

Sorry to hear that Rob.

After two ectopic pregnancies (1 ruptured and lost tube), two miscarriages, and a failed first in vitro attempt last month; I think it's safe to say that the wife and I know what you guys are going through. It's tough, but all you can do is be supportive, work through it yourself, and try again.

Again, my condolences.

Just as I'm sure things will eventually work out for us, I'm sure they'll work out for the two of you as well.

Rob,

My heart goes out to you and your lady, brotha.

:(

So sorry to heat that :(

Keep at it man. Think about adoption. you could save some poor kid from having to grow up in a gay couple's family.

And, good luck.

sorry to hear that your young you can try again

Sorry to hear that Rob, keep trying man

Aww that really sucks... Take heart though, there's always another chance. I went through a miscarriage and the doctor told me I'd likely not have another child... but I got pregnant with my last one, and even though it was a difficult pregnancy, everything ended up ok :) Never give up hope :)

Sorry to hear Rob, it's hard cause things like that mean so much. Keep trying buddy!

Very sorry to hear that, keep your chin up and keep trying, it'll work out in the end.

I just went an hugged my two daughters...

I'm sorry to hear that, man. Bad news, especially at this time of year when family's so important... :(

damn, that sucks, keep your head up dude

aww man, so sorry to hear about your loss... :(

sorry to hear that man, that is really sad, my wife is expecting right now, hope it all goes well cause she's been super sick lately.

sorry to hear that bro

Not sure why you would post something personal like this on GFY, but if you are anything like your board persona in real life this is probably a blessing from above cause you seem way to emotionally unstable to be having kids. :2 cents: