Are you going to require a prenuptial agreement?
 

When you get married, will you require your fiance to sign a prenuptial agreement? For me it would be a top priority, i think ive worked hard for what i have and i wouldn't risk losing 1/2 over a divorce that would probably start with a stupid fight.

stuff is just that - stuff.

i don't think i'd want to marry with a prenub in place to be honest - it's like saying it won't last, so why bother in the first place.

nah my lady sticks by my side. fuck all that shit

I would marry with a prenup for sure.

Not because I think it wouldn't last, but because if she ever divorced me, I don't want her next guy to have my money.

Yea ive thought about that, but if my fiance refused to sign a prenum is saying she would only want me for financial reasons and doesnt expect to advance in her own carrear.

I agree! Me and my husband did not sign one at all!

dont want to
but would have to :2 cents:

Nothing is forever.

Its really a catch 22 any way you look at it.

I dunno

I don't really believe in marriage right now.

absolutely, and there is no catch 22.

a prenup is far better than having to make you "dissapear" when things go sour :winkwink: :glugglug

love and marriage is a big risk! why not risk everything?

hell no. fuck prenups. marriage is something that is meant for a lifetime. and should it not work out, it's her good right to take my shit for me having been so dumb about entering the wrong marriage in the first place. but that's never gonna happen.

nothing lasts forever, divorce rates in america and across europe are pretty high.

I gueese me and My husband trust each other. If things were to go sour for some reason, Its not like i would be in a sore position if we had to split things.

I'll be 110% sure to get a prenup when/if i ever marry. All females are evil :winkwink:

not all, its just that woman for the most part think with thier emotions and not logic. They many know they probably don't deserve 1/2 of everything the guy she's divorcing owns but her emotions tell her to seek revenge against him and what better way than taking 1/2 of what he's worked his entire life for.

Wait, if a marriage isn't working out, the male is the stupid part and deserves to have half his possessions taken away?

oh geez, i never had one the first time and I did lose out ( I was the one with property and $)... but not half though, i guess I was lucky in that he didn't care about the material goods...

Now I realisd to marry someone richer than I!

and i were to do it again, I would not have a prenup... again.

yes i will. without a doubt. life can cahgne too much, gotta protect your ass. and your assets.

trust funds

no real need for a prenup if you know what you're doing

I have a completely open financial relationship with my wife what's mine is hers and what's hers is mine...

Absolutely going to have a prenup.

I can't stand the thought of paying someone a monthly stipend just because they happened to be married to me once.

All community property will of course be split down the middle, houses, cars, joint savings accounts etc.
But there will be absolutely no alimony and she gets none of my business or individual retirement accounts, and I don't want any of her salary or accounts she has in her name either.

Exactly....


And have you ever thought that many women make more money than their partners? My father did not contribute one single penny to the house my parents live in, nor did he contribute one penny to bills or groceries or my tuition for school or to raising me. Did my mom sign a pre nup? No!
Is it likely that I and many other women can make or go make more money than their significant others....Yes!

Prenups are for people with existing wealth. And I don't mean a few 100,000's either.

If your going to get a prenup, why bother? I didn't get one, I am not rich, and I love my wife. If we split up and she needs some help, I would give it to her.

If your marrying someone you have to worry about, then your doing the wrong thing already.

Falling in love is a chemical reaction that lasts for ~six years.

But the point is that you never know nowadays, no matter how much you are in love and no matter how much you say that you would never consider a divorce.

Maximum.
Reasons: Because there is absolutely nothing holding anyone back from getting a divorce in today's society. When the love fades, and your genes make you fall in love with others (it's perfectly reasonable and even highly desirable according to evolutionary psychology), your marriage doesn't stand much of a chance unless you both have an understanding of continuing the marriage out of convenience, stigma, and/or because you have become good friends.

my wife and I had almost nothing when we met...i was a coke addict who dealt about 3 ounces a week just to support my 1.5 ounce a week habit...and she was a stripper in lexington ky, no money to be made

everything we have we worked hard together to get....so, no prenup was needed...

i would never require one from her anyway...we love each other

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ahhhh... romance. <3

No prenup for me. If I required a prenup, I wouldn't bother getting married in the first place. No matter how much wealth I have, My wife will work and we will each have our seperate savings accounts/investments that are strictly our own.

Well, my man right now barely has any money/posessions so it's not really an issue. I am not a gold digger so that's not a quality that I look for in someone. As for me, I don't have a ton of money, but I do have lots, lots more than him, but if we ever got divorced I doubt he would want any from me, because that's not the kind of person he is.

And if I was with a rich man and we divorced because he cheated on me or something similar, I would hate his guts so much that I would SPIT on his money. I would not even give him the satisfaction of thinking that I would even need his money. I would rather work at a fast food restaurant than giving him that power.

First of all if it flys,fucks or drives its better to lease
Second if you do get married just make sure everything is in place in a proper trust before then there is no need for a prenup

im in the middle of sueing a resturant (slip & fall and hurt my neck, goin to physcial therapy, doped on meds, etc etc) and my lawyer is thinkin i'm gonna get somewhere in the ballpark of $100k+ for a settlement. if so, then i'm definaly getting a pre-nup. :thumbsup

I wouldn't marry without one.
If the marrige lasts, it's meaningless..
if it doesn't last, you're fucked when she takes half while banging a 20 year old poolboy and becomes his sugardaddy with your money.:2 cents:

You're making a restaurant pay $100k because you were clumsy and fell over.
Long live american court system...
Fucking ridiculous.

Yep.

What was the circumstances surrounding this?
Someone forgot to put down a wet floor sign??
So you get 100 grand?

Of course there are woman who make more thier partners, my sister makes at least twice as much as her husband does and so dues my aunt. Prenups have nothing to do with what gender you are but are put in place to protect what youve worked hard for your whole life in case someday a stupid fight starts. The fight could range from anything like she thinks you don't want to see her or she thinks your cheating and becomes jealous. It could go both ways.

If she has more money than me... I will pray that the words prenupital are never uttered... if I have more than her she is signing the fucking thing

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