Im standing in line at the bank with checks in my hand when this little black kid ...
 

Walks by me and tried to grab the wad of cheques in my hand...I felt like turning around to hs mother and saying "Starting him off a little early aren't we"

I fucking hate it with stupid bitches bring their out of control little brats to the bank..

That kid was lucy i wasnt holding a wad of cash as i would have backhanded the little fucker for trying to grab my loot.

thats pretty sad

What was even worse was the mother was letting the little brat swing from the rail which controls the line up for the tellers... When the little brat hurt himself and started to cry i had a big smile on my face (this was after he tried to jack me for the checks).

I think i'll move my account to a branch in a better neighborhood :)

Best thing I ever saw with kids.....

This lady and her 5ish year old kid were in the grocery store and the kid picked up something and mom said no. The kid threw it down and fell on the floor and started screaming and kicking.

Mom left her basket, grabbed the kid by the foot and draged the kid down the aisle and out of the store. Someone beside be said that was cruel but I thought the kid deserved it. If the kid wants to be a shit he might think twice next time.

Fuck it was funny :1orglaugh

parents are allowing their kids to get away with more just to stop the whinning that they get. sad that they dont know how to discipline - but if they werent..

my mom woulda smacked the shit out of me for that, and i wouldnt have ever done it again.

some people just shouldnt be allowed to breed.

I was in wal-mart the other night...yes I shop at wal-mart..anyway I was going to get some deodorant and some kid was in the basket screaming..and just as I come around the corner the mom had, had enough.

She grabbed that kid by the back of the neck so damned hard...LOL

What did he do? He shrieked in defiance...that's when I would have said..."Okay now this is the time where we go home and I beat you worse in private out of view of all these people and cameras."

I got smacked a couple times when I was young. Funny, I rarely acted up after that.

Oh wow, that made me LOL. I feel like doing that sometimes too, but never would of course. :winkwink:

No kidding. People act as if to get the desired reaction you have to beat your children and beat them often.

That's not it..kids just have to know that parents mean what they say or their could be some painful consequences.
My mom...all it took was one look from her to know she was dead serious...and I only recall her ever spanking me once.

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I think most of you are right on the money...

We live in a world where everyone is screaming "Where are the parents Of these kids who <FILL IN THE BLANK>" yet they're the exact same fuckers who are the first to scream child abuse when a kid who deserves to be smacked gets it.

Punk ass parents make punk ass kids. Time out is a joke, if it were not jail would work. People understand pain and loss only. I am not saying you have to beat the child but I know my parent's kicked my ass good for doing things that would wind up with me being bad for society and what can I say, I am a productive member of society who has not made most of the mistakes of kids who had parents who "spared the rod".

I remember I told my mom one time I would call child protective services, she laughed and said she would kick my ass, call them for me, and continue to kick my ass till they got there. Better her than someone out in the streets I thought I could talk to any kind of way, or thinking that authority had no power or right to tell me anything and a cop put a night stick across my skull.

Who here got time outs and turned out as a perfect angel and has no problem with getting along with others in society? Or are the ones who got time outs the ones running around here not taking responsibility for the way they run their business and the way they talk to people? :2 cents:

That's just wrong. Parent's need to control their kids, especially out in public. Those brats running around terrorizing adults today are our future for tomorrow and that is a scarey thing. If the parents want their brats ripping apart their homes that's one thing, but when they take them out in public and they rip shit apart, that's another thing.

the ultimate scenario would have been you smacking him with the wad of checks and taken of OWNED Picture :)

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a good belt woopin will curb all that..... worked like a charm... the slightest jingle from a dads belt and man you went running!

She thought I was Kidding but the good news is that she learned a valuable lesson

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I remember my little girl acting up in the grocery store when she was about 5. I told her that she was going to time out if she kept it up ("time out" in our household means stand in a corner, hands at the side, standing still, until I say you can get out). She said "there's no time out in a grocery store". Well, needless to say, I found a corner in the grocery store and made her stand there for about 5 minutes while shoppers walked by. She still remembers that embarrassing incident and has never been a problem in a public place since then.

I have two kids that are VERY well behaved, and neither one of them has ever even gotten a spanking.

The bottom line is that a parent has the MAKE the rules, then ENFORCE the rules. Too many times I see parents make threats to their kids that are never followed through on. THIS negates the entire disciplinary process and dilutes the parents authority.

However, with this said, that doesn't mean that there aren't times that one has to apply the "spare the rod, spoil the child" theory :Graucho

I woulda knocked that little fucker on his ass. I have no time for ignorant fucks who can't/won't control their animal kids. :BangBang:

I've noticed that whenever I see a child out of control there's no father around.
Same with those shows like Maury with the "my child is going crazy" episodes, it's always single moms with the problem children.


...and I'm not saying it's a problem with mothers, it's a problems with the dads not being there.

RACIST -:1orglaugh :Graucho The mom or the kid? It's not really the kids fault imo.

You have hit on a very strong point. There are some single moms who can play mom and dad, much better than a man can usually play dad and mom which is why women usually get custody over men. But there are a lot of issues with kids when their father is not around such as rebellion/problem with authority. In girls you see a lot of girls out there equating sexual attention from men as a replacement of a strong male father figure to show them love and support.


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So you are saying you timed out all of your kids and NEVER once spanked them? If you did then you still back up my point, time out is a joke it will not work the same way as one good spanking. People do not find the loss of time that big of a deal, this is why most people have not problem with procrastinating, pain is the biggest motivator for any living being, this is why you get tortured physically when someone wants info from you. I wish it were another way, the thought of in the future having to cause pain to my child is not pleasant but I have yet to see a more productive way of backing up cause and effect.

so all of you guys giving advice must not have kids..lol.

I have two wonderful kids..the third child has been my worse nightmare since he was born..knock the shit out of your children in public and someone in the area WILL call child services..when all of you guys have kids and they are all angles..then come in here with your advice :)

mine would have also, then when we got home I would have got it but good.

is there something wrong with you?

I got held up by a 5-9 year old kid in san fran with a gun.

I was with 4 friends and grabbed the gun out of the kids hand and he ran. The gun was real so I gave it to the security guard at the beastie boys concert we where going to.

I acted tough but inside I was pissing my pants.

It's been getting worse and it will only continue. Someone mentioned earlier that parents give in to their kids to keep them from whining and that is so on the money. Parenting IS actually a job which requires you to discipline your children...most people should be fired as parents.

no such thing as a time out when i was a kid.

The 1st time i heard of it was on TV and thought what the fuck, no why would that have worked with me.

use to get my ass spanked all the time, of course I was one mean little shit.

The trick is to catch the child when the behavioural problem starts, when you see them looking sad or irritable and teach them how to turn it around..

kids aren't born knowing how to do this, parents have to teach them how to be happy

Go through the drive-thru or use the ATM deposit. Or you can try to get ACH and wires and avoid all that shit.

We've had this discussion in my psychology classes. Even the "Positive Experiences" teacher thinks a kind needs their ass beat on occation. Course she limits it to about 5 reasons and says to follow up with an explination of why the child got it and what they should do the next time that situation comes up.

Example:

1. Child starts screaming and when you tell them to be quiet they outright yell "No" and try to hit you.

2. Spank child.

3. Tell child that he is not suppose to hit his mother and that every time he does, he'll get another spanking.

4. FOLLOW THROUGH!!! This is most important. Next time the child displays that behavior, spank them. They'll learn.

He just wanted some crack for his mama

That's messed up.



Sounds scary to me, even if it is a 9 year old.

WTF i think i would have smacked him and said that to his mother lol thats fucked up, but at least he didnt get them

I was beaten when I was a kid.

The belt was regular with me, I have a couple scars on my back as well to this day.

A good smack is good, getting the shit beat out of ya is another when yer a kid. Its made me a very unsympathetic person, I know what pain is, suffering is and silence is and know anyone will do it.

I do not trust people inherently due to my upbringing, I know how wicked people are even the people that love you or me can be.

Human nature is no different than a self serving animal that will do what it takes in any situation. Its Pathetic.

fucking nigs !!!

There are so many problems with this thread I don't even know where to start.

you shoulda said something to the mother..

i do when i sense the mother is a piece of shit.

and those are the ones who talk shit "don tell me how to raize mah baby!"

i love it.

The other day I saw about 5 Kids they all looked like they were about 10 years old and they were smokin' a joint!

you shoulda took it from them since you are bigger and smoked their shit.

why did you mention that it was a black kid?

If you're talking about damage control ya.. but by the time a kid says no to his mother it's a little late to expect to see any real change

Doesn't matter the color of the kid if a parent is bad a kid will be bad...

Mentioning that the kid was black was completely unnecessary.

I'm sure that white kids are just as capable of trying to take checks out your hand as asian kids are, as black kids are, as hispanic kids are.

I was a terror as a child, raised by a single mother who was a bit more passive than she should have been. She didn't know what to do with me.

There was one time I will never, ever forget that I was hungry, about 8 years old. I wanted something to eat and my mom told me I had dinner and that was enough. I ended up throwing a huge temper tantrum, kicking and screaming for about 45 minutes straight. (Yeh, I know I was horrid) Finaly, I said" You won't let me eat cause you ate all the food you fat pig"

Next thing I know, my mom ran into the kitchet, grabbed the wooden spoon and fucked me up! She chased me down, smacking me as I crabwalked backwards into my room, scream ing "Im sorry mom!"

Oh man, I'll never forget that. I so deserved every one of those and to this day almost feel guilty for not getting my head knocked off.

(My mom and I are best friends now :)

The thought did cross my mind!:1orglaugh

Very true! If you come to the neighbor hood I live in I can prove it!

Parents should be allowed to discipline, their child the old fashion way. That way there won't be spoiled out of control kids these days :2 cents:

True, however I was shopping tonight and there were a lot of mothers and kids in the store. A young child decided to knock off all the cookie boxes of the shelves. The mother was on ignore mode and didn't bother to pick up after her child?s irresponsible conduct and us shoppers, with different colored skin, wondered if this was appropriate behavior.

Feel better?

BTW, I really don?t care what color the skin is just teach your children manners or don?t take them out in public. :)