Girls, what turns you on most about a guy
 

Is it looks, sense of humor, personality, wealth, power, shoe size, cooking capabilities, double knit suits, or something else? Please do tell.

Money?

cock size????

no, it's money

personality, attitude, sense of humor, brain size :2 cents:

girls are attracted to some weird shit physically.. my gf says i have a nice jaw???

and lots of money

killer smile, beautiful eyes?

Since I don't have any of those, would "apple tree in the backyard" or "orange shag carpeting" be on the list? :helpme

yeah, girls love when you chew the meat for them

Personal hygiene is the deal breaker....with focus on oral and genital. Keep your pubic hair trimmed....no one wants to floss with it!

doesn't have to be book smart, but intelligence with wit and a dry sense of humour a must.

I have been spoiled by being with a fashion hound.
No high tops with ratty jeans and stupid tee shirts.
If you are lost, pick up a copy of GQ and pick things that you can style with a fun, spiderman comic sense of style.

Dandruff drives me fukin nuts.....take care of it!!!

Know where the clit is and the g-spot.

don't wear the same socks two days in a row unless you get bi-weekly pedicures.

Yes, for me cooking is a pleasant surprise. I am quite the chef myself and doing something better than me is a turn on.

Like animals but dont ever use baby talk with me unless I've told you I like it (I don't). Liking animals shows an emotional compassion that women like.

Don't EVER compare me to an ex-girlfriend. Unless it is to tell me that I'm soo much better.

Don't walk like a pengiun and don't strut like a male lion.

Read my magazines that I leave in the bathroom and pay attention to the pages that I've dog-eared.

Now those are the kinds of posts we're talking about here. Great advice. :thumbsup

I don't know about any other women but I am sure there are others like me who dig all that "as expected stuff" as well as how well endowded he is.

Boobies are to men as cox are to women like me (you get what I am trying to say right - a little champange goes a looooong way).

:girl

Great tips! I'd keep it in mind!

Okay, now answer the question: what turns you ON MOST in a guy?

we need more posts like that :thumbsup

physical at first...eventually, INNER!

Guys that don't irritate me by stepping on afore mentioned landmines!

I'm into guys who know about energy. How to recieve and reciprocate in an appropriate fashion. If a guy knows how to use Reiki, he can make me orgasm by placing just one hand on my inner thigh and the other on my lower abdomen.

Kamma Sutra is also a plus.

Open the car door for me. Doesn't have to be all the time, but when I'm dressed up and we are going out, it's a nice gesture.

Pull out my chair. Ask me before the waiter does what I want to drink. Then when she comes, say, " The lady will have....."

I also like to be told that I smell good and taste better.

If you're going to kiss on my neck and ears ( I like), don't "fuck" my eardrum with your tongue.

I used to think that, but the guys I dated with money were always on the run and I was left behind.. fuck that.:1orglaugh

In other words, you want to be treated like a queen?

I never said I wanted a man at my 'Beck and Call'

However, If my home is my castle, and I am the alpha female, then yes, I expect to be treated as a queen, and in return, my man gets treated like a king.

And all my pets are the court jesters. I could use another one, are you interested?
There is a fancy collar outfit in the deal.....

Most women I've dated, and even the one I eventually married, hated this. :2 cents:

haha :1orglaugh

Good point. But I was just stating as a matter of my personal preference. Every woman is different. Don't take any of my suggestions as far as to represent females as a whole.

I like my men to be confidently assertive with out being overbearingly aggressive. If he is paying attention to my needs and sometimes frivolous wants, then I'm happy.

if the comments made in this thread doesnt prove that most guys on GFY are nasty as all fuck I dont know what does.

My point is "Get real"

2 types of Situations:

1 where the girls knows you already, then you can say shes turned on by something other then looks

2 in a club or on the street etc, ONLY looks will do it, if you dont have it dont say well they like wide shoulders and shit, yes they do but not with a bug gut that comes with it.

Physical apperance does not mean rugged good looks.

I like geek guys. :-)

what turns me on the most is the willingness to please and take care of me. If the guy is truely into me, I will have a great time in bed.

keep it in mind for what?? For christ sakes just be yourself. Taking "notes" what women want and trying to act on those... djiez! Stop being a pussy and live the life how you want it not how women "like it". This way of life gets me far more pussy than acting "just the way they like it!"


(typo)

lol

I am an expert on most things including women :1orglaugh here is what they need.

Positive Mirroring

If you can make her feel attractive that is all.:thumbsup

I like when guy is a MAN , strong ,serious ,loving....

Nice awnser!

Probably money, and having a guy they can be proud to show off.

Brains and personality mostly... it's about that "click" factor. I also like a cuddly, strong guy... glasses are sexy.

honesty, loyalty, looks, sense of humor, personality, wealth, power,


In that order =) Unless they're extra funny, or have an amazing personality...then looks comes a lil later...like in front of wealth =)

I agree and disagree with you. A guy can be hot as hell, but if he's sloppy and drunk...I don't want him on me. Then you can take an average guy and if he's respectable, and not sloppy drunk...I'd much rather give that guy my number.

However, if I were a pig, then the looks would be it...since I'm sure I would not be looking for anything meaningful anyway, just a romp in bed.

Guess it depends on the girl, and what they're looking for that night.

i'm not a girl, but i do know what plenty of girls like.

they don't respect a guy they can control.

a real guy does what the fuck he wants and treats a woman as an equal.

but a real guy is never controlled.

Note to self: Never date Evelyn

:1orglaugh

Nice butt and a nice bulge!

I was trying to think of the one thing about my husband that must have won me over....and there isn't just one thing that turns me on about him.
He has this particular look in his eyes sometimes....damn..melts me
Right after he shaves his face....hell knows why
His intelligence, his attitude, the way he makes me laugh.
Damn, I guess it is just everything about him

Nice to know that there are still some who doesn't think much about wealth. :)

girlys like the money, being famous never hurts either :D

EARDRUM SEX!

yeah baby - i see a hot babe on the street and say to myself - I want FUCK HER eardrum HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

believe me - tooooo many women forget about the second part of that statement.

you like gay guys?

Didn't Punker Barbie already touch on this?

It turns lots of us on when a guy is confident enough in his own sexuality and eager enough to please that he will put on a show for us with another guy. :thumbsup

I don't have any one set of criteria for guys turning me on, but one thing that always excites me (physically, emotionally, etc.) is a guy who is enthusiastic. Not like a cheerleader, but someone who allows himself to feel and express joy, delight, awe, excitement, happiness, curiosity, etc. Someone who is in the moment and responds to positive stuff, instead of just being a bitchy sarcastic negative "macho" dick. Guys who will sing along with stupid songs on the radio, laugh really hard, etc.

Oh yeah, and I totally disagree with Evelyn on that whole sock-changing, grooming thing. I am more turned on by people who are not clean freaks and enjoy getting a little stink on them and smelling like a human being rather than a bar of soap. As long as a person knows how to clean-up when it's appropriate, they should know how to work up a smelly sweat when it's appropriate too. The whole mouthwash gargling and showering after every orgasm is a turn-off.

I would bet its a combination of a bunch of things