Young Girls Dressing Inappropriately...wtf is up with parents?
 

I have 2 nieces one is 17, the other is 12.

My oldest niece was allowed to get her belly button pierced when she turned 16.

Anyway my youngest niece she and her friend both turned 12 about a month apart from each other.

Her friend started off the school year with her mother allowing her to get her nose pierced..she was 11.

Then for her 12th birthday she was allowed to get her belly button pierced...and now this past weekend her mother took her to get her tongue pierced.

This IMO is unbelievable. The girl who is now only 12 is as tall as me, fully developed *she could easily be mistaken for 15-16 and she has informed my niece that she has the hots for some 18 year old guys in her neighborhood.

The girl's mother complains that older guys are always checking her out and talking her up but I don't see how she's helping the situation by fully outfitting her in the hoochie uniform of the day.

don't get me wrong I am not a prude...piercings etc are fine but IMO are one of those things that are age appropriate.

15-16 witha few piercing = expressing oneself

12 seems like you're just pimping out your kid.

Many teenage girls i see when i'm out wearing shorted skirts than i have seen in videos, and their parents buying them skimpier dresses and everything.

what is society coming to?

Have you checked the childrens section at any clothing store lately...amazing.

When we take the girls shopping we laugh at some of the outfits they have for kids these days....and I'm not just talking about teens or preteens...I'm talking infants...the trend now days is to take clothes from one age...teens and just scale them down to fite each eage...but that's not always appropriate.

what about going to walmart and seeing 10yr old kids with thongs? :disgust

All this and they want to crack down on porn, how about craking down on retarded parents first?

totally agreed, its a shame to see you many young girls dressing like that

At Wal-Mart in February I saw a girl who couldn't have been more than 10 years old wearing a bikini top and hot pants so tight she had a camel toe and so short that the lower half of her ass was hanging out. WTF???? And she was there with her mother, and in FEBRUARY! :feels-hot

I don't know what's wrong with parents these days. I remember when I was 13 I wanted to wear a semi-short skirt to the mall (not even a mini skirt) and my parents refused. So I wore a longer skirt and hiked it up under my shirt when I got there. Yeah, 18 year old guys were checking me out, some of them even followed me around like mini mall-stalkers, which could have been very dangerous. (Teens are stupid sometimes, but parent's are SUPPOSED to be there to keep them from doing stupid shit when they can.) My parents NEVER would have let me leave the house this way. It just boggles my mind that parents knowingly let their kids dress like that. :ugone2far

I think it's great to see teenage girls dressing skimpy and bcoming sexualized at a younger age. Let them grow up to be materialistic, sex-obsessed sluts who fall right into my clutches at age eighteen so I can offer them some excitement and money and cock :thumbsup

I complained about this very same thing at my gym. Young teens are allowed to use the "wellness center" at the YMCA where I work out. These little girls wear short shorts, thongs or no underwear and the men stand around and drool at them. They have thier chest hanging out, thier ass crack, and absolutly no sence. It discusts me that people let thier kids dress like that.

The way the men look at them disturbs me.

The worst example I've seen was in a department store, I can't remember which one now... but it was in that 'tween' clothing section, and was a white baby-tee with a sparkly cherry on it, saying "pick me".

give yourself a pat on the back for being what most would consider a sexual predator

A pierced tongue at 12? What in the fuck, is mom retatrded or just determined to raise up some content?

My thoughts exactly.

Even my 12 year old niece told her she was stupid...she just accused her of being jealous.

where is it legal to pierce those parts on girls?

i dont think shops here in LA would pierce 12 year olds.

ive never seen that here.

I'm in Vegas...and I honestly don't know.
I would think there would be an issue...but was told as long as a parent is along it's cool.

Not my daughter, over my stone dead body. :feels-hot

When my sister and I were growing up we weren't even allowed to wear make up until we were 14, and even then it was mascara and lip gloss. At 16 we were allowed to colour our hair any colour we wanted to, but the rule was - no permanent scarring. No tattoos, no piercings. At that age, you're not ready to make decisions that will stay with your body for the rest of your life.

I have a 14 year old cousin who looks like a hooker at family dinners...and her mother is a teacher! It's fucked.

Driving past the local high school, I see all the future porn talent ripe and ready and already in uniform at 14/15. It's really sad.

ears pierced is one thing. facial and body piercings are entirely another. 18 is the legal age to have those done because that's when you are an adult. I think that's when its appropriate to consider getting pierced.

The rites of passage....for children...getting way out of hand, in my opinion. I agree with you.

When parents begin to allow this kind of stuff too early, what do they expect?

What parents don't realise is, by saying yes too soon, allows the child to think ahead to the next desire on the list. There's no delayed gratification or incentive.

There is nothing to look forward to in the sense of milestones achieved with age.

Even 15-16 might be too young for belly and nose piercings.

I don't know. It just seems kids are growing up too fast.

When we lived in Georgia, the legal age was 18, I think, for certain piercings and tattoos.

But. There's always someone willing to do it.

Ya 12 is way too young! Her parents are idiots! :2 cents:

My 11 year old son is REALLY starting to enjoy watching the high school girls.

I'm glad I only have sons, I can't help but notice how miserable Dads who only have daughters look when they're out in public together.

I know, it's insane!

I blame pop music like britney/christina for the slutty clothes... and I think there must be some sort of growth hormones in the food. Cuz none of the girls had fully developed tits when i was in elementry/jr high... now look at them!

not a shop.

of course if kids want to jab something through their lobes they can, parents are to blame.

Trash Breeds Trash

Do what you can for your own kids the rest of the world is dieing in a burning pit of imorrality:helpme

...and you're 100% right.

Yeah, it is pretty disheartening that kids are dressing the way they are now. Kids get away with so much now, as compared to when I was growing up. The problem with the kids now is that most of their parents had them when they were kids themselves, sad but true. When I was 13 there was a girl in grade 8 that making her 14 having a kid. SCARY SHIT!!! I am lucky that I had older siblings and two parents that are still married for 42 years now to instill strong morals and values in me.:thumbsup

license to breed.

I totally agree with you. 11 - 12 yr olds are dressing ridiculously and letting them get piercings is just stupid.

Yeah. A shop.

How do I know this?

Because my then fifteen year old son came home from one, proudly sporting a tongue piercing.

We said no. Apparently, the wax in his ears was overflowing.

To add to the 'let's blame the parents for everything' bandwagon..

Unless we put electronic bracelets on teenagers, there is no way to monitor them 24/7.

there are currently no state laws governing piercings in nevada only county codes in clark county...and I don't exactly what they entail.
But I do know that my sister can take her kids into a shop and get different parts of their bodies pierced as long as she is present and gives consent.

The reason I know this is because they are going to get the upper part of their ears pierced...that I can live with..but this friend with belly, tongue and nose piercings is a bit too much.

My little nephew is 4 and has glasses...my sister loves it. She says the geekier he is, the less she'll have to worry about him getting some teenage girlfriend knocked up because he won't have one. She might make him wear braces throughout high school just for good measure :winkwink:

This just "same ol' same ol'". In the 50's kids dressed "inappropriately" with leather jackets, girls wore skirts that were above their knees. In the 60's boys grew their hair long .. in the 70's girls wore tight jeans and showed off their belly button etc.

It's the same old story.

They'll eventually grow up. As adults we can worry about it all we want .. but just bear in mind that it's really nothing new. Is it right or wrong? I won't even get into that. No, I don't like to see 12 year-old girls dress like hookers but if not they'll dress like goths or hippies or rappers or whatever else is "in". No matter what adults and parents do teenagers will always be looking for new ways to fit in, express themselves, get high, get laid and be popular.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh Someone actually honest enough to acknowledge what this WHOLE INDUSTRY IS BASED ON!:thumbsup

No this is much different.give me a fucking break.
We're not talking about teens..we're talking about preteens and younger.

The sad part is these young girls dont understand the dangers they place themselves in when flaunting their bodies for all to see.

Ive been amazed when riding home late at night and seeing these young girls walking the road looking like they are out working the corner just walking along to wherever.

Why does any child under 18 need to be out til midnight????? You cant get into a bar until 21 here in the US.

Where exactly are the parents in these cases? How can they sleep knowing their 15 year old daughter is out at 12am doing god knows what and where?

Fucking amazing how out of touch society has become for some...They dont deserve the privilige of being a parent.

Same with the 60's, 70's, and 80's...

There was an article published in the Philadelphia Inquirer, years ago. The author's name was withheld until the next day. The article spoke to the problems with youthful behaviours, rudeness, inappropriate dress, etc.

The next day, the author's name was published. It was Socrates.

So, you're right. Same old news. My son is now twenty. Most of his piercings are gone. He's working and growing into a wonderful man.

If you think the whole industry is based on this then you are very narrow minded and have yet to see the whole picture:2 cents:

*shrug*

None of my business if people want to raise their daughters to be whores. Doesn't effect me until they turn eighteen and legal and decide they want to be in porn.

No he's not right...and it's not the same old news.

We're talking about 12 year olds and younger..not 15-16-17-18 year olds...kids who can experiment with their dress a bit etc.

no doubt they pierce ears, im talking about noses, belly buttons.

i know places like Hot Topic etc, dont even sell belly jewelery to kids, at least not in this state anyway.

its 18+ for anything aside from ears I believe.

Well tell that to the 12 year old that has the tongue...belly and nose piercings.

First of all, it was a joke....

Secondly, where does the content come from? When you buy content to sell to surfers, how do you think those pictures are taken? The vast majority (not all), of the "talent" in the porn industry tend to be to be pretty sad cases of girls who are "materialistic, sex-obsessed sluts" who have nothing better going on in their lives than to do this. I don't think that any webmaster here, particularly on this thread, would want their daughter to do the things, and live the lifestyle that "content" girls do. I knew quite a few in LA, and I know quite a few in Miami, and they almost always have some history of emotional, or physical abuse, and are really unhappy in general.

I'm sorry if this is hard to hear, but this is what you are buying and selling.

Thirdly.....IT WAS A JOKE!

society is going downhill nuff said

ya know, I have thought about this myself. Blaming Britney etc because of her slutty outfits.

But, when I was like 10 and Madonna came out I didn't immediately want to dress like a slut, and Madonna was pretty slutty. My parents would have never ever let me dress like slutty though, even if I had wanted to.

blame bad parenting

Just got off the phone with pair a dice tatoo parlor and this is what the owner told me...
there are no current laws that require a person to be of a certain age to get any piercings in Vegas.

It is a personal choice for each shop owner...he will not do facials for anyone under 18 and will do bellies for 16...but he said he would not be surprised if someone in the area would do it...but would not call them reputable.

I'm not saying it's right. It isn't. Children should be children for as long as possible. They aren't ready for most of what comes down the pike, until they're at a certain age.

I've seen parents try real hard to keep their children age appropriate.

The results vary.

To blame television or parents totally isn't appropriate, either. I know how hard I tried and my son still did it. Does that make me a bad parent? Maybe. But, I know I tried like hell to keep his activities limited to what I thought was age appropriate. He had other ideas.

Still, he grew up, in spite of himself and is headed in a wonderful direction. But, that's my kid.

I've seen so many kids take wrong turns, through no fault of the parents and I've seen kids do it right, in spite of parents.

Sigh. Seems like a crap shoot sometimes.

lol.. you see, I am a content girl..

What I was trying to point out is that porn is not all about young girls waiting to turn 18 so you can prey upon them..

I have no history of emotional , physical or sexual abuse.. I must be the exception :winkwink:

That's great that you are the exception, but if you know other content girls, than you probably know what I was talking about. I'm not holding it up as some great thing to prey upon girls to get content, but to be honest, a lot of the girls are open to manipulation and that is what the content people take advantage of. I'm not saying that it's all one sided, but there is that tendency. I'm not shying away from it, people use each other all the time......I'm just pointing out how funny the post that jim_gunn put up was.

:glugglug

i'd still hit it?

The problem is parents want to be friends not parents. I go to the mall and these little girls are dressed like whores walking with their parents. Then they wonder why the kid is fucking around at 13 and with a kid at 15.