For the guys who get laid all the time
 

What's your secret? And I don't mean the ones who have a girl who puts out.

I mean the ones who just go out every night and bring a different girl home when ever they so choose.

How do you do it?

Ask my buddy Dan
He did it before my eyes for 2 years.
Went to Winnipeg and he just freaking RAKED the women in. He would bring home several a night. I didn't get it.

EDIT: oh and yes I was at the bar while he did it and I was staying with him for awhile. So yeah... it wasn't BS.

Insert Juicy Q Factor comment here.


But seriously, all it takes is confidence and the right kind of girl :)

way to not answer my question.

Yeah, I need some juicy advice here.

Its all about the money :Graucho

Keeping it real, GFY style.

Well I'm now married and getting too old for the singles scene. But I used to find making girls laugh, being interested in them and what they did plus some light flattery worked well.

huge confidence is all it takes

Anybody ever try phermones? :Graucho

Roofies

huge dick works too :thumbsup

I know scents have a strong effect on men, but would that really do much for a girl?

And yeah, I get the confidence factor. But what do you do when you just have none? Chicken and egg thing... if you have none, then you don't get laid, if you don't get laid, you have no confidence. What do you do?

And the money comment, too vague. I have money. But I can't exactly wave my bank book around at girls. :1orglaugh

a wad of 100's in your shirt pocket works wonders...
and don't forget to tape your cell phone to your thigh.

Just be yourself and you might get some pussy ... If you look fake and you act like a dog, you won't get any . I've never had trouble getting girls even tough I'm not the best looking guy arround (not bad tough but anyways). Just be yourself :P

Phermones are supposed to be odorless...women are supposed to be able to detect it somehow and make them go crazy for you...


Why not? :1orglaugh

Well I think it´s like the story I heard....


One guy where sittin at the bar and looking at a hot chick.

Suddenly a guy walks up to her and ask her...

Hey miss do you wanna follow me home and fuck all night long?

The girl looks at him and give him one big fist in his face and walks away.

As he take some napkins to clean up his noosebleed the guy who sit at the bar ask him.

Does it not hurt bad when girls punch ya like that when you ask em to follow you home and fuck all night?

The guy look at him and say "Sure it does...but I also get to fuck alot"

:)

I have a fucking huge penis that bulges against my trouser leg as I walk.

yes, they're odorless, but it's still considered a scent. It's picked up by the olfactory and processed much like a normal scent. Sounds like some kinda gimic though when it comes to humans.

"Being yourself" gets me no where, so I ask for advice and people say "what pick up line do you use?"

Well, doesn't using a pick up line defeat the purpose of being yourself? That's kinda like trying to be like someone else who had a line that worked before you... isn't it?

ROFL, how are you going to come on gfy and ask how to get laid? wow..im missing something lol.:winkwink:

I'm sure confidence is a big factor, but I don't think the rest can be explained on a message board :1orglaugh

who are you? no wait, I don't care.

Post a picture. Let's see what you're working with.

Just do like sensei said :Graucho

Vegas..
http://www.x0rs.com/pics/stuart.jpg

Kelowna just recently.
http://www.x0rs.com/pics/maskedman.jpg

This will get you visibility at 'Mercenary Anonymous" but I'm sure they have a nice girlie club nearby :thumbsup

Confidence, and of course good looks dont hurt.
:2 cents:

Good looks and big penis :glugglug

lol funny :1orglaugh

and if you have neither?

Plastic surgeons are still outta my price range and confidence kinda comes "after" you're able to get laid at will... not before.

I'm of the opinion that you can only fake confidence to a point. I mean, if you can't hold a conversation... much less seem totally confident while doing it, then no amount of acting classes will help.

it's simple

the 3 C's


1) cash
2) confidence
3) cock


you got it good in those categories and you got it made...very simple...

of course some guys can work or overcompensate in one or two areas if lacking in another...


personally I've found #2 to be pretty vital as long as 1 & 3 aren't HORRIBLY deficient...

Stu: About the whole being yourself thing...
This is why I don't go to bars or use pickup lines.

That's not me.

And I understand I won't get laid or have a relationship for awhile because of it. But hell, I wont change me to meet someone.

Good lord, I'm freaked out now. You look *exactly* like the guy my roommate from college married. And he's a cop. :1orglaugh I wish I had a picture of him.

You're cute and dressed fine. Just had to check about that part. ;-}

Since you're wanting to go out and pick up a girl and get laid every night, I'm assuming you're chasing after stripper, hoochie mamma, club girl types, so maybe that's it. But I have no clue what you should do to bag them. I guess my only advice would be to wear a condom. :winkwink:

Woah hold on dirty sanchez.
You're NOT a bad looking man! And i can say this because I am secure in my sexuality. You have charisma for sure. It's an aura and sort of a comforting look.

The LAST thing you need is surgery. Sheesh!

And confidence takes years to build... I am still wavering because of my weight. But as it comes off I get more and more arrogant. ;) ;)

thats it basicly: looks are just like lube tho...

Girls only care about looks till the second you start communicating
with them:

if you look hot its only a tool to start a conversation / make
contact easier.

if you dont look hot you need a bit more confidence and creativity
but from the "communication started" level looks doint matter
that much.. its just CONFIDENCE.. girls smell it.

Its funny how things work:
Im an average looker.. not ugly.. certainly no juicy q factor.. just fucking average with a few glitches..6/10.

When i have a business meeting or go out for whatever reason
and did my hair, got some sleep and decent dressed up, girls
dont notice me. Im aware of that fact and it kill my confidence.

But when im tired, fucked up, too much drugs, made too much money etc the arrogance hits in.. i look like shit and with my
shittiest clothes and hairstyle i hit the streets.. totally fucked up
not giving shit heading out for a burger: THEN girls start noticing you. And because i really dont give a fuck at those times
i respond to their communication attempts with pure ignorance
and THAT does it. The bad thing is that during that mindstage
im not in the mood picking up girls (oh wait.. i have a gf so i shouldnt pick up girls.. but you know what i mean) but i could.. with ease..

The basic rule is: you can pick up as many girls a night or day you want as long as you remember:

the less you care, the more you get.

What are you doing to lose weight? Please don't say Atkins

Man, seriously if you're asking, you're a good looking guy but try to smile more and of course be confident about it and most of all relax, girls tend to be drawn to guys that are confident and relaxed, a little bit of sense of humor (which often comes from being relaxed) will do the trick..

Everyone I've ever known or ever met has said that I remind them of someone, or that I look like someone they've known. EVERYONE.

Nah, I hate clubs, strippers are... shallow, for the most part. I'm just talking about every day girls.

Brad, you kinda hit the nail on the head... comforting.

One thing I can say is that without a doubt, that's how I am to women. Comforting. I've had women feel that they can tell me anything, and feel more comfortable with me than anyone and yatta yatta yatta.

I'm the straight gay guy that they can be themselves around without any pressure. Ya know? The brother they've never had..... the one sentence I've heard the most in my life is "I wish I could find a guy like you" and I'm standing there going "Hello!!!!"

and I hate it. With a passion. You can only hear that so many times before you finally snap and take out a mall with an uzi.

This is 100% true... From my experience if you're in the environment and are relaxed and not actually looking for anything, good things will come to you.

Not eating takeout (ok aside from my poutine I HAD to get right now)
Drinking water
Going for nightly walks

Starting my run/walk program soon :D

Before I was married I used to go out every night of the week for about 4 or 5 years and heaps of girls used to hit on me. Be confident, be happy and be yourself! :thumbsup

Actually I think you need to switch this around, getting laid comes after you get confidence :2 cents:

We lead very similar lives... you and I. It's amazing actually.

I met some beautiful fucked up women who used me to get their head straight. Want a good guy. But god forbid I suggest ME, then they get creeped out and stop calling you.

Fuckem all. Act like an asshole and you'll get the hotties that want to fuck.

You never get laid because you're a tard. But I already knew that.

Shut the fuck up tart.

This is true. Your goal should not be to get laid, your goal should be to kick back and have a good time. Be confident in yourself, life, whatever, not your ability to score chicks :P

exactly.. but dont fool yourself blaming shit on your weight issue..

Its just an excuse in your head: "ahh.. girls are waiting just have
to kill some weight and THEN ill start being productive"..

I guarantee you: even if you were 50 pounds bigger.. put the
biggest players brain into your body without telling him
he switchted and hell still score the same amount
of chicks he used to do with his Peter Andre look ;)

I go out all the time and bring back girls constantly. Just dress nice, be calm and relaxed and don't act like its such a suprise for you to talk to the girl. Half the time i talk to a girls i don't get their number but instead walk away saying it was nice to talk to you and have them yell to me "Can I give you my number?". Just relax and don't try too hard, extreme attention to girls is a big turn off.

This really is not a good board to ask such a question, most ppl dont have a clue, nothing except all the BS stuff u can read off from newstand magazines giving chump advice.

That being said, do a search on "best pick up line". I posted some pointers in that thread that should help you.

And yes, the key is NOT about pickup lines or "just" being yourself. (Unless you are a natural player, which you wouldnt need to ask about this in the first place)

The only good advice that has been given here is "not giving a shit about it". It really is the less you care, the more you get. (to a certain extent)
:2 cents:

So basically, as always suspected... what a girl says she wants, and what she truly wants are 2 different things.

A girl says she wants what they see in me (for a bad example)... someone to be comfortable with, someone they can talk to, who's responsible, will take care of them..... blah blah blah.

What they mean is that they want someone who'll treat them like dirt, someone who doesn't really care that much about them and is probably not even considering knowing them in an hour, much less the next morning.

Correct?