Need Advice. Caught my girlfriend cheating on me today
 

I can't believe this shit..

This is the classic situation.. Got back from shopping earlier than expected and caught my girlfriend getting fucked by my best friend. I was so pissed that I kicked both of them almost naked outside of the house and it's winter time in Montreal. They left with his car in a hurry and now I am with my little 3 year old girl asking me where mom is.

I am driking Jack Daniels thinking what is the next move I should do..

Any suggestions!?

pics?

Was she screwing around on you with your kid in the house?

Well you have a new ex best friend to destory.

Get rid of her and cross him off your best friend list.

Dude, that's just wrong...

















:1orglaugh

You need to find some girl who looks just like her, and screw her, then dump her, man...

Sorry, couldn't resist paraphrasing one of the better lines from Say Anything....

be depressed for the next 6 months but DON'T take her back... don't worry about revenge and don't fall into something where she has you apologizing and asking her back... good luck bro,I've experienced the same shit...

become more competent in bed?
:1orglaugh

Violence is the answer you seek

Sorry, couldn't help it.

Nah, I had to go get my little girl from daycare. I have been suspicious about this shit for a couple of weeks..

Don't make any hasty decisions, stop drinking and call a good friend right away. Sorry to hear about this...

DH

P.S. Very good site to check out http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp

Soap Opera anyone?

That could probably help me also

Apparently "good friends" aren't the answer.

If you really want to get back at her, there are a few things you can do to feel better.

If she is still into you, and is the jealous type, I recommend finding the type of girls she is intimidated by the most and booking about 5 shoots with various ones...

Film it, shoot some reality-Max Hardcore style shit, and send her the tapes... or, do some hardcore anal with the girls, then don't wash before seeing your soon to be ex.

Tell her you want makeup sex, and get her to go down on you...

Then smile secretly inside, finish, and contemplate your next move...

Well, if there was any sexual problems in our relationship, she was one of the best acting bitch in the world. Trust me, I've been there, and it wasn't about fucking. Jesus Christ, what the fuck is wrong with women..

Fuck her one last time, and the end the relationship.
That way you will feel better bro.

when was the last time you had sex?



exactly

Put your kid to bed.

Get all her shit and throw it out in the front lawn.

Close door, turn out lights, go back to drinking quietly in the dark for the rest of the night. Don't answer phone, don't answer door.

You have to let her go, Stop drinking ! You have a little girl to be strong for.

Is the daughter from this relationship? I say get the brass Knucks and go abeating.Watch the look on her face as you knock some teeth out.Drink some more liquid courage and go kick this turds ass.No way I would let this shit go by without some beatings.

Destroy all of the things that mean the most to her IE clothes, shoes makup pictures etc..

kill her plants, put meat in her underwear drawer so it rots in a few days and ruins all her undies.

Call her mom and dad and break the news to them what their little slut bitch daughter has done to the family.

tell your EX bestfriend she has herpies.

Violence is easier

You set the custody rules and never look back.....you have a great story to get a new squeeze.

" I was being a good Dad getting my little girl and she was off fucking myy friends like a whore blowing truckers"

You will get the awwwwww poor thing......trust me you can spin this to work in your favor the best revenge is happiness......say as oiften as you can that this really turned out for the best ad that you had not realized how much you missed your life without her.....

They're women, that is what is wrong with them..

Fucking buncha no good sluts.


This is what i would do.. Get someone over to watch your kid... get really fucking drunk and go to your x-bestfriend's house and kick the shit out of them both.

Make sure you're drunk enough that you'll pass out once they bring you into the cop shop, it makes time go by faster!

Hell, I'll take a trip out to montreal to beat the fuck out of him for ya (just cover my expenses) ;)

He missed the opportunity. Could have killed them both when he walked in. Act of passion. Could have gotten off completely or gotten a lighter sentence.

Now it'd be premeditated and he'd go to jail for life.

What's the lesson? If someone does something to you, kill them instantly!

a savage beatdown is in order

Yea what he said..*Grumble* dam whores all of them! *shakes fist in air*

He has a kid this aint revenge time, nor drinkin time really sorry to say.

Is this your kid, her kid or both yours?

If its both yours, better start calling lawyers ASAP, get a consultation with every single lawyer in the area and surrounding areas. That will kind of hinder her ability to aquire one to try to get the kid.

Dont blow up in front of the kid. If she happens to call dont get into it with kid around, if she wants to talk to the kid let her but listen in.

Call locksmith and change the locks.

Then think about the daycare, do you want her picking the kid up?

One of th fucked up things about all this is when women screw around other women still feel sorry for them! Like somehow it's still the guys fault. At least guys when they screw around have the good grace to admit their scum and come crawling back. All the women I've ever known who screwed around had a list of excuses why it wasn't their fault. When people can't even truthfully admit they fucked up it makes fixing things pretty hard.

Very good point. you are a wise man

If children were not involved i would say kick the shit out of both of them and toss her shit to the curb...but you have to remember your actions will be seen and remembered by your daughter..break up and split up , but custody is hard to get as a single dad, adultery does not make one a bad parent in the courts eyes..good luck, it sucks:(

Not to be all reasonable and end the crazy chick-bashing fun (which I do enjoy on occasion)...

But what do you think was the real cause? Were you and your girl good friends? How was the communication?

Sometimes, it is easy to draw the map to how this shit happens...

It sucks, but at least learn from it and move on.

axe the bitch.

Dnot' drink around your daughter please :(

....unless you give her some too.

Well, the thing is, We are not married, and yes, she's the mom. If we go in court and battle for custody, she knows what I am doing, and believe me, in front of a jury, the porn webmaster will get his ass kicked whatever the situation is, and that's what worrying me now. I don't care about the relationship, I only want my little girl.

wow.. that sucks..

violence wont work well with the kid and all..

Try to be the cool one in this situation, it's your way or the highway.. but don't be a asshole about it.


you'll be on top when all is said and done.



-jason

Like i said get a consultation with every lawyer anywhere close to you. It is very hard to get custody if she does not have one and you do.

Well you know what's funny, is that I believed our relationship was based on communication and trust. I guess it's all bullshit right now. I can't resume 6 years of relationship in 4-5 lines, all i can say right now, is that I believe in my Jack Daniels bottles and the funny replies about how I should kick the shit outta both of them.

Once a cheater always a cheater. There is a very good chance that this has happened plenty of times before and this is just the first time you caught here. She was obviously comfortable enough to do it in your home while you were on errands and while your daughter was under the same roof. Your girlfriend is a seasoned vet in the infidelity field. If you caught her in some complex scheme to cheat on you, then there would still be hope. My advice is to let your ex-best friend have the girl, he deserves here. The right thing to do is rarely the easiest thing to do. Just my :2 cents: . Good luck man

Warden

yeah, it sucked, i was dating this girl for a really long time, and it was great. thought i was going to marry the bitch. then, find out she had a second boyfriend for an unknown amount of time, and during the time she was dating us both (well into our relationship), she was chasing other guys too. 2 guys just weren't enough.

and to think, she was usually so honest and sweet and perfect.

fuck 'em.



oh yeah, she claimed she never slept with any other guys, but the evidence i had was pretty hard to refute.

Its the best four letters in the alphabet!

N E X T

Don't even get pissed, vindictive or let it get you.
Kick her ass out and get another GF.

PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T GET PISSED GFY GIRLS with the remarks I'm going to make now, because this only applies to 90% of women out there and I know the ones here are not like this.

Anyway, its sad to say and I hate saying it, cause I love women
like crazy, but after 30 years of relationships going back to all the women in my life since my teen years, I've come to
the absolute undeniable conclusion 90% of women are not to be trusted and will use men to no end.

Lies. Lies. Lies. Expect nothing less.

Professional bullshiters. They spend your money with a lusty smile to keep you going. That's the scam.

And yes there are some true blue honest ones out there I'm sure. But I sure as hell haven't found a single one yet. Hopefully before I die, one will come my way.

so true... been so hard to find someone to truly be able to trust.

sucks man, be calm, hope you get it figured out. good luck with the custody. get a damn good lawyer.

Anyway guys, I don't know why I even created that thread wich is so about my personnal life and no one ever noticed me here before. LOL! But I want to thank everyone for the support so far, going to go to sleep with my little girl still asking me where mom is..Hope the night will give me advice..

Thanks guys.. good night.

that is fucked up, yo! funny but fucked up.

Keep Your Head Up Bro..Good Luck with your daughter custody thing.It hurts only for a short time and you are better off without that tramp. I'd still kick that fuckers ass ..One day when he doesnt suspect it ...Whack a bat to the knees :thumbsup

Well why ask?
You're a separatist!
There's your answer