Listen bro...

Girls are all fucked. They always do stupid shit, it's there nature. You gotta show her that she fucked with the wrong guy. Don't fucking talk to her, don't fucking pick up her phone. Move on with your life like she doesn't exist. You have your fucking pride to keep, and you don't want to give it to a cock sucking bitch like her. Keep your pride, and forget her. Concentrate on your girl, get a day job to cover the porn shit, go to court, and see if she prove that you do porn. If she can prove it.. do this.

Tell the jury you walked in her having sex with your best friend, and you have pride and you are not willing to stay with a girl like that. Then tell them, how can porn be so bad if she actually sets a display of it in your own household with your child!!

Yeah, thanks for the advice everyone, can't believe I am able to type after so many shooters.. ciao

Fortunately, I got custody of my son from my 2nd wife. I told her I would fight to the death if she even tried to battle me on that issue. My 2nd wife, well I don't want to say it, because she is the mother of my child, but she was a challenge to say it in nice terms, and I'll leave it at that.

'it aint no fun, if the homies cant have none.'

:winkwink:

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Well you are fucking ugly and fat, why care about your reply?

ouch Fletch! Thats cold!

:glugglug

but accurate!

Honestly, fuck whacking them both. Beating them both up would only result in you having a tougher time to get custody of your kid. A few people gave you the soundest information.

1) Call a lawyer tomorrow and start working on custody of the kid.

2) Pack up all the shit of hers and tell her she has X amount of days (i believe you have to give 30 days) before you throw all of her shit into the trash otherwise you might have to pay for it all.

3) Make sure she understands that she is a worthless no good slut and you want nothing to do with her

4) Get a blood test done for multiple reasons
4-a) Make sure you dont got any HIV or shit like that.
4-b) Make sure the kid is really yours... if she was fucking around on you now chances are she was fucking around on you back then and the kid might not even be yours (biologically anyways).

5) dissovle all relationships with the guy and start spreading nastry rumors about how he has crotch rot or some shit like that!

6) find a new daycare and move the kid ASAP. As far as the daycare is concerned you both have rights to the kid and they will release her to either or. If you bring her to a new daycare the wife wont be able to touch her.

7) Start moving all your assits offshore so the slut will not be able to touch them!

Hopefully that'll get you on the right track

LOL! dood you kill me man. bust a dirty sanchez on her. haha!

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

now that you mention it.. forget giving her stuff back to her after 30 days... EBAY!

:thumbsup

If she cheated on her family she isn't worth it :2 cents:
Let her go and move on to bigger and better things :)

1. 3yo baby girl, PUT DOWN THE BOTTLE... She's the most
important thing in the world!

2. South shore, go talk to her father, North shore go
talk to your mother.

3. TALK to her, don't hit him, TALK to him... are they
just a 1 time fucking around, or is it time to work
out a "nice" parting of ways so that the 3yo is still
happy.

...Sucks man, I feel for ya. Best of luck.:(

Sorry to hear this ... my only advice would be ...

living well is the best revenge ....

Just blame it on Canada as usual

You know Dildozer, I have nothing against you, I have nothing against Canada, just because we have a different culture does not mean we have to be ennemies. I respect everyone's opinion about politics. I just can't believe french canadians will ever accept being assimilated by english culture. Sorry about that, it's in my blood and I will always vote yes and fight for it but you will always be my friend what ever happens in the future. You should be lucky, ADQ might win the next election..

But this topic wasn't about canadian politics..

Good night..

heres a few ideas.. but first keep in mind the phrase "cant make a hoe a housewife"

a) change your locks

b) keep your daughter out of it

c) contact lawyers about full custody

d) contact daycare about removing mother from guardian list (if possible)

e) get yourself tested for std's

f) gather as much info about your best friend as possible and plot to ruin his life craftfully (<--is this a word?)

g) call her parents let her know what you're planning on doing (only after speaking to lawyers). this puts the bitch in check by her parents in regards to your kid.

h) stay off the bottle

i) call the bestfriends job up and make up an ellaborate story to get him fired (selling cocaine from work, fucking boss's wife, etc)

j) and most importantly.. move on.. bitches aint shit

sorry notjoe, didnt see your post!

Agreed. Find a way to tear that fucker up. That is one of the worst violations of a friendship. As for the tramp don't ever take her back. Been there done that.

Hang with some good friends. You said you had a feeling for a while so just find the ones you can trust.

Sorry to hear...

LD

1. take all her clothes, pee on all them
2. if ur friend has a car with a sunroof, break it open, take a shit in the sunroof
3. put tuna in all her shoes, they will start to stink like shit
4. tell her u forgive her then on the coldest day change all the locks and never speak to her again
5. change ur answering machine to a voice of a girl like say "Judy and (your name) cant come to the phone right now leave a msg

this will piss her off royally because she will tink uve moved on so quick

6. pee on her clothes again

fucking in my bed with my child in the house...they would never find the bodies

Some pretty good points here. Definitely, as in any fight, keeping a level head and keeping your wits about you is the most effective way of handling it. Losing your cool and forgetting all sense of reason and doing something stupid is not the way to go here.

NoCarrier should listen to much of what Notjoe has said.



And there is no reason why French-Canadians can't keep their culture alive and still be Canadians. It's more a matter of how you preserve it by teaching your children, and less a matter of how many times you whine for a new referendum every 5 years. Be happy.

Since there is a child involved, I think it would be worth trying to work things out after you've cooled down...depending on her attitude, of course.

Has she cheated on past boyfriends? Is this something she regularly does when she's mad about something? Then it's time to move on. But if this is totally out of character for her...hmmm.

*If* she's truly sorry & this was a one time thing, it's possible to salvage the relationship. You'd have to make her work for it...prove that she can be trusted again. Breaking up with her temporarily might be the kick to the head she needs to never take you for granted again. Plus you'd have a "Get Out Of Jail Free" card should you ever get drunk & fuck some random chick.

But if things were falling apart already & you don't think it's something you could get over, get to work on getting custody of your daughter.

Quebec may be different, but in Alberta custody is determined by what would be least disruptive to the child. 9 times out of 10, the person who resides with the child when the custody forms are filed gets the child.

Switch the daycare. Move, if you can. Get a day job. Don't let the mom see your daughter until you go to court. Shitty for your daughter, yes. But it's almost impossible for dads to get custody unless the mom is a proven crackwhore. Cheating on you will not show that she's a bad mother - just a bad girlfriend. That will never be taken into consideration in Canada.

Good luck.

congrats.. now you have a chance to dump the kid and the bitch and move on as a single man again.. time to partay!!!

get a hooker, a case of coors light and an 8 ball of coke and rip up the town d0g.

The custody issue in the US is a pretty tough nut to crack...it is very slanted in the mothers favor, find an attorney that specializes in mens rights, they are out there....you could be mother Theresa and still the wife, girlfriend will get custody...I don't know about Canada.

I finally got the kids when my ex-wife got busted for coke, but that is about what it takes. Which is why I left.

In all seriousness, kids often feel responsible for their parents problems, and a considerable amount of work would need to be done in that area. Further, if you get into a custody battle (read: an attorney's dream come true)....you are gonna have to have some deep pockets...there are endless pschological exams, hearings, court filings, it goes on forever...and it sucks for the kids.

My motto would be:

"if you love something, set it free, then hunt it dowm and kill it"

Fuck I'm sorry man, that shit is hard to get through.

There's no forgiving something like that.

And if you do things will never go back to how they were.

Keep a level head. Chill. Think about it.She's a ho. But you brotherman are a pimp! So what's the next move? I'll lay it out...you pull a bitch on her. Take her back. Keep your game face on. You're a pimp. She's a ho. Not all at once, slowwwwly, once she's been back awhile, start letting her know she's "daddy's lil' slut. You love fucking, don't you you nasty little slut?". Bust this shit while fuckin' her good doggy style and she's startin' to cum and don't wantcha to stop. She'll be yellin' "YESSS!!!" Good. You broke the bitch. You're a pimp. She's a ho. It's official,now. Slowly work this to "are you gonna suck a big cock and let your daddy take pics?" Little whore will say "yes" cuz she knows she's just a slut. Soooo....what you're gonna do now is spend the next 12 months shooting nasty ass content. "Gotta sign these papers, babe, it's just a formality. Stupid law." Inside you're laughing your pimp ass off cuz you know what you're doing. You're a pimp. She's a ho. Now that you got what you want, laugh in her face and KICK HER THE FUCK OUT! Sell the content. Make a reality site about the whole fuckin' thing. Cash in on the bitch. Cuz that's what pimps like you do! Now git to it,y'all got a bitch to break!

Get a lawyer and be the good guy, if this goes to court you will be on the losing end. Try to show how little money you make.

i agree

LMAO.....Hell Yea..:thumbsup

nice friend you have as well. You should dedicate a week to make his life a nightmare.

Fuck that shit !!


1. File for temp custody ASAP
2. Remove her name from any credit cards, bank accts, etc..
3. Pack your kid and MOVE far, far away
4. After about three years, file for custody

Shit, you all sound like a bunch of crybaby highschool boys that just got played by their first ho."Oooo,boo-hoo! I'd make a big scene and throw her shit out on the lawn and scream"SLUT" from the fuckin' rooftop..." WHERE ARE THE PIMPS? Turn this shit to you're advantage! Play it like a playa'! All I see is content. And lots of it.:cool-as-a :

Son of a bitch. Man, I'm really sorry for you and wish the best. I wouldn't wish this on almost anyone! Damn them. Be kind to yourself and move on.

Brad

what no pics? I scrolled 2 pages and not one fucking pic....

These days, it's not easy to find a Good Woman in the Sea of Bad Girls.

Keep your chin up bro. What she did is seriously fucked. She knows it to. You shouldn't even consider getting back with her, because it will never go away.

Maybe a solution, which would also help the rest of the "Good" fellas out there (Take one for the team, and coin the term "Dead Beat Moms"), would be this...

Keep your daughter.
File for full custody.
File for child support.
Fuck her world up.

Now to take care of your xbro, get him where it hurts. You should know him well enough to know the 1 thing that he cares about. Fuck that shit up man. Whatever it is, make sure he doesn't have anything left of it, but, a tormenting memory, that will echo his bad judgement for the rest of his life.

:2 cents: :2 cents: :2 cents:

That sucks buddy, good luck.

And then I'm through with it, there's nothing else to do with it
Pass it to the homie, now you hit it
Cause she ain't nuthin but a bitch to me
And y'all know, that bitches ain't shit to me

Sorry to hear about your problem. Now is the time to act like a mature adult if you want to have custody. Document everything. How long until she calls and asks about her kid? If it's like a month you may be able to get her for abandonment. If she does call you'll have to talk to her like an adult. No accusations and yelling, just get the childs interests taken care of. There is no better revenge than living well. Remember that. When you and your daughter are living high on the hog with your porn money she'll still be a ho moving from one loser to another.

She found a better man.


Lifes a bitch then ya marry one then ya die.

get a lawyer
dont know the laws in quebec
but if a girl lives with you for several years and then splits
she can come crying for 1/2 of everything you own/make)

dont get violent.. never ends up to nothing

get legal advice as to what you should do about your child

times like this make me happy because i am married now
NO MORE BULLSHITT:)

i've been in your shoes and it aint pretty
good luck!

Erick G

That really sucks No Carrier, I really hope that everything works out ok and you get to keep your daughter with you. Keep calm around your ex, hard as that might be, so that just in case the worse happens and she gets your child she won't try to make it harder for you to see her.

just make sure you do what is best for you and your child.. don't forget about the kid they are the most important thing right now.if she is to young to understand then you should explain it as soon as possible. But don't use your child to get back at her though cause it be very hard on her and you.. sorry to her dude be strong..

Turn to the dark side Luke

Well teh 50/50 split after so much time is a Urban legend in Canada, someone from Nova-Scotia went to supreme court for that and the court actually dropped the case because they never found that law in the books, except for somewhere in the Northen Terrotory (damn my spelling sucks). So If your not Married you don't have to give 50% of your stuff to her, check with around, it was on the news around xmas time.

I don't see what the big deal is. Sit down with her and talk about the idea of having an open relationship. Lots of people have them. You might just wind up in a swinging relationship with the ability to fuck as many women as you want. Bonus, your daughter gets to keep mommy.

Sorry, but nothing is less true. Marriage never stopped anybody from cheating when they want to:2 cents:

Good luck to you too.

Satan had this to say about you're predictament:

Damn, with friends like that, who needs enemies? Forget that stupid bitch, you'll have a trillion more worthless girls in your life before you find the special one that will only kind of hate you.

It's the relationship with your friend you should be worried about. There's an unspoken rule between decent guys that you wait until your friend has a new girl before you go sniffing at his used goods. This guy's shallowness and disloyalty, while endearing to me, isn't doing you a damn bit of good.

Axe them both.

Regards
NastyJack

You've got a kid. I don't care how big a whore your girlfriend looks like over this, you can't just walk away. Maybe there's no way to salvage, but anyone who says not to try should never be a parent or allowed near children.

Why will he lose in the end if it goes to court??
I know a few single father who have won custody battles.

I won't get into all the revenge crap. I will say thay be very careful about giving her another chance. Character is pretty much a constant. People can alter their behavior one way or another but their character at this point (mid 20s I am guessing) is pretty much set in stone.

At least she has exposed her self for what she is early enough on in your marriage. IMHO, take your 3 year old and make a fresh start.

As for your friend, there is no hole deep enough.

The upside is now you have a good story that should help you get chicks. Women will want to prove to you that they are not all like that.

-TNVEric.