Should I KILL My Dad or Break Up With My BLACK GF?
 

I've been dating this Haitian (Black) girl for 5 months today and everything is going well. Except the fact that my dad doesn't like her because "she's nothing close to our culture" and "I have no future with her". He gave me a huge speech yesterday night, about keeping the Armenian race alive and all, and that dating a stanger/black would do nothing more then "Upset" our culture/community and family and they would end up "Denying my existance".
:(
I love her very much, but it's a delicate situation where you have to choose between you dad or your girlfriend.

What should I do?
I need help from wise/experienced GFYers or perhaps some of the Armenians on the board.

If you can find another girlfriend that your father likes, do it. But if you REALLY love the woman, and think that you can't do without her, then get with her...

But if you dump her, send her my way. I love the haitian girls.

Move out of the house and say" Fuck off racist..It's my life and I'll date anyone I want ..it's 2005" :thumbsup

shoot her and give me the content...

http://www.myblackgirlfriend.com

it takes courage to fight for the one you love. but you dont have to kill your dad for it.

Ditch your father. He needs to have time alone to evolve.

:2 cents:

Kill your father. What a fucktard :1orglaugh j/k

Kill your father.

Fuck your father ... seriously ...

He's plain retarded ... if he cannot accept you dating a black woman, then let it be ...

he will most likely accept it

Ya forget your dad then when your bitch dumps your ass, you have lost your dad and your girlfriend. Lose the broad, family is forever

Spunky is right. I've had several black girlfriends and my stepfather was kind of a racist as well. Fuck 'm, it's your life and there really is no difference in the white or non-white people. If it would be a religious difference, I could see problems. I've had friends who are moslims dating jews and at one time or another, that is gonna cause problems, especially when they start about the upbringing of kids and such.

If the only difference is color, tell your dad to grow up and get with the program.

Tell your dad to go fuck himself. Do you need your parents anymore? No, you dont.

I think you just need to get your dad laid by a sista...

... he will never bitch again

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BIG B

Oh my dad also threaten me to kick me out of the house if I don't break-up with my GirlFriend, he was like: "go live with her if you want!" :(
He'll probably disinherit me... :Oh crap

Dude, I'm only 20 and I'm still in college... :warning

Stand up for yourself. Let the old bastard know that you're an adult and entitled to make your own decisions. Also let him know that Americans aren't a race. We're just people who left alot of different lands and ended up forming together into a nation. Your father sounds like he isn't very open to reasoning so I wouldn't go much farther than to let him know that its your life.

that is a sad situation he has put you in. I think you have to live your own life. If you love her then fuck him. If you don't love her, I would still say fuck him because some day you will have kids and the last thing this world needs is him sharing his views with your children.

man.. the stupidity of the young. Im 44, and to think that there are grown men out there that think more of their reputation and prejudices that they are prepared to harm their own children makes me sick. Family is family, you always stand together and help one another even if you disagree.

Hes not being a real father who loves you - he simply is being an asshole who is only thinking of his KKK buddies not seeing whats walking across the same doorstep as they do when going to their friday night cross burning.

So now its money vs woman. Dude, if you love her, the get a fucking job - save some money do anything if not for her, for yourself to get out of an environment where they teach you racism. Report him to the police or some black groups in the area who would love to offer financial assistance to you in getting out of there. your dad and soon you will need counselling to get over this sickness

Tell your dad to go fuck himself.

If you're posting on this board you're working in Adult? 1. He can't like that any more than you dating a darkie. 2. You should at least be able to pay your fucking rent to live on your own.

Your dad is way outta line. That racism gotta stop. You have to gain his respect. If you really love this girl, stick with her! Tell him thats how it is, and thats how it will be. If you are 20, its not that bad being thrown out. My parents threw me out :)

:2 cents:

If he is a real father, which means, he loves you unconditionally, then he will get over it...and if not, you are better off without him in your life.

:thumbsup and here I was thinking you're a big racist... what's with all darky comments I've seen you post?

The truth may be that your dad only cares about himself and not you.

You're 20 and you've known her 5 months and THEN you come on GFY of all places asking for advice. Anyone of these is a tipoff that you are doing something wrong but all 3? You've hit the stupidity trifecta!

The only cure for racism is cold hard cash. Just ask Tiger Woods. Make alot of money and get out of your fathers house.

If you want to be a man, you can't let daddy tell you who you can fuck.

I bet the girlfriends father feels pretty much the same as your father.

I'm 32 and grew up with the racial bounderies in my area, when I was in 6th grade I had a black friend in school who used to come over my house all the time. When it came time for me to go over his house for a birthday party, somehow I wasn't welcome (was a big mystery at the time), but later he told me his father didn't feel comfortable.

Goes both ways.

I've knowned her for a couple of years, we've only been going out for 5 months.
I asked a couple people, but can you really ask relationship tips to a 20 year old? You underestimate GFY, they're a lot of smart people in here. (You can't really run a business well if you're a dummy, right?)

wait do you plan to marry her or something? have kids with her?

if not, then what's the problem... girlfriends are temporary

20 years from now,,,how would you like your son asking people if he should kill you?

i think you should kille them both, then kill yourself....

i would stay with her. I have been in that situation before when I dated outside my race. He will get over it in time. Make yourself happy.

at ur age, girlfriends come and go.. drop this one.

Nah I met them and they are very cool with it. It's really just my father...

:thumbsup

kick his ass and go for your gf, shes your future your dad isnt

know what ya going thru
been there.. but then they turned around
once they got to know the girl
not all are teh same.. and they found she was very nice girl
now when I bring anotehr girl home and she different nationailty.. doesn't botehr them anymore

You need the Miracle Oncle Benny Therapy ! Max you know u are welcome here, whenever you want just bring ur ass here

:thumbsup

your first piece is always your toughest. :1orglaugh