should I rat out my friend????
 

he is starting to use coke. he started off drinking, then pot, then x, and now coke.

should i tell his family, or do you think they already know?:helpme

age?

Is he single or has a wife and kids?

sounds like a normal progression. get him some help.

telling his family will only make things worse,, u gotta talk to him

you gotta let him destroy his life, fuck up family, and hit rock bottom. If he wants help he will seek it, if he doesnt kill himself or someone else.:2 cents:

depending on how often.. seeing as he went from drinking to these drugs i'm guessing its like once a weekend?

.. i have a few friends completely fucked off x,pot and coke which is why i wouldnt touch the shit.. i'm always up for a beer tho!

I would talk to him about it before going to his parents, you dont wanna lose a friendship over it. Tell him he's fucking himself up.

only if he's 16 or younger, lol.

26

Talk to him. If he thinks he doesn't need your help, that's the time you could tell his family. Goodluck!

it's his life - if he was 14 i'd be worried, at 26 none of your concern

no kids. but has a gf

no parents, you talk to him if you're uncomfortable with him using those drugs

When he starts loosing wieght his family may find out anyway. but you should talk to him about it

already done that, but he says ge can quit whenever he wants and that he doesnt have a problem

I talk to him...Some won't listen I got a friend doing 3-5 in prison cause he didn't listen

I've had friends that I knew were cheating on their wives. That was always so hard to hold inside.

I hate that crap.

are you serious?

my best friend is going out with a guy that is doing shit like that.
He is 33 and he says that he will change, and quit blah blah

is there hope or he is bullshitting?

Talk to him, heart to heart. Tell him what you think, and what you feel.

If he is a good friend then get involved... if not... its not your place.... can't save the world man

the biggest problem with these kind of shit is the lying, lying all the time, lying to everyone

yeah, its a weekend only thing, but its just really fucked because I remember him always saying that he would never touch the shit and nows its like the biggest event of the weekend

grind up some insulation into his coke
he'll stop real fucking quick

26 and no kids and gets on it on a weekend?
It's not your business to run to his parents - he's not a child.
Sure if he starts doing it of a weekday have more than a chat to him and if it looks serious maybe some kind of intervention but a weekend coke habit isn't the sort of thing to be running to his mommy and daddy for.

A lot of people who say they can stop when they want can't.

no nope

I have the same fucking question on my head or at least had a month ago, i have a freind who's into coke just like urs, but thisone does it 24/7 everyday somehow his parents dont fucking know. Well i stopped chilling with him and told him to go fuck him self, don't do the same thing I did, good friends are hard to come by!

U guys have no fucking clue about cockheads, talking to them has 0 effect on it whatsoever 0! infact its like -50%!

Addicts to cocke will tell you whatever you want to hear, they'll lie like motherfuckers and look serious at times (ie you can't tell its a lie) They'll keep doing it and doing it, their system gets used to it and they need it to go on with their regular life!

Oh, fuck off....

Drinking, Ecstacy, and Coke are all fun. If he's doing them too much tell him what you think... let him make his own decisions.

Depends.. is it just a friend or is it a best friend type thing?

I wouldnt get involved if this isnt some life long friend..

i think you should have helped him stop earlier

How much is he doing? Once an hour? once a day? once a week? once a month?

If he's addicted, you have to realize that it is alot better to be addicted to coke than nicotine. Do you smoke?

Cocaine has no physical addiction associated with it, there is a strong mental addiction but that will pass after he hasn't touched it for a week or two...

Moderation is the key, and if he just started I highly doubt he's doing too much... I give him an A+ for expanding his mind :thumbsup

Depends on the person.. the drug has little to do with it.

I may not have a clue about cockheads, but i know a thing or two about cokeheads...

Some fuckup, others live comfortable for years. Fact of the matter is if someone is doing coke, they're already a step ahead of all the losers living in back alley's smoking meth.

He won't like it if you tell his family but then that's what friends are for! You're only thinking about his future, aren't you?

That's like me telling his drug dealer that he may be 1 customer less, thanks to you....

how old is he

You should only rat him out if he owns a gun, and is prone to seeking revenge.

Cheers,
:glugglug

Amen brotha...

...leave him alone dude. It isn't your job to jump in and save him. I have done coke socially for well over 15 years and I must say, in moderation it is no worse than alcohol. Stop trying to be the hero and let your friend choose his own path.

its his problem let him work it out