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My Girlfriends Ex Wants Back With Her
He keeps texting, and calling her, asking her to take him back.
They broke up about and year ago, and i've been with her since. She keeps telling me she'd never take him back, and wouldn't leave me. I believe her, but he is seriously pissing me off. He doesn't stay anywhere close to me, so i never really get to see him at all. I don't even know where he stays exactly, and she won't tell me. What would you do ? What actions would you take ? Should i just leave it be, and tell her to ignore him untill he gets the message, or do i try take it further, and deal with it myself ?? |
Has she told him straight up that she doesn't want anything to do with him? either that or just have her change her number - thats how I get rid of annoying ex's.
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She wont tell you where he lives because she is fucking him and staying at his house half the time.
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She is replying to his texts, just telling him though that she wants nothing to do with him again, and that she is happy with me.
If it carries on much longer, she says she will just change her number. But i still think he's a complete asshat, and she shouldn't even have to be forced to do that... |
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block his number :2 cents:
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Shit happens. My gf has a 33 year old stalker who calls her 5 times a day. She's only 22. :(
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Have her call him and tell him to go fuck himself and that he never even came close to pleasing her in bed like you do now. And as he tries to talk to her have her repeat your a loser your a loser over and over laughing at him all the time she is on the phone. IF he doesn't get the message then maybe they where meant to be together
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I would re-check it with your g/f , if this guy keeps on calling , then he feels he got some chance ?
anyhow , if it's not the case , call him and meet him , explain him politelly that he ain't her boyfriend anymore , it's all over and that this girlie with ya since then. If he won't understand that , do that violence way. |
Sorry man, you might be fucked.
You might be her rebound relationship from that, she most likely still has feelings for this guy, if he broke up with her, there is even a stronger chance he gets her back.. I'd say keep a close eye. |
send him flowers with a note "we both want you back". that'll get him.
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Scott MCD, does she talk to him in any way what so ever? If so, she has not shut him out. My would he keep on calling her if she did not give him any type of indication she would go back with him.
If she's not able to let go of the past and move on, then you should reconsider your position with her. |
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Think to yourself how long this has been going on for, he should have got the point after the 2nd day if he keeps calling all the time. So now, if she keeps on replying to him or talking to him, it seems like she's holding on to something. Otherwise she would have either blocked the number or not replied anymore.
Tell her to tell the guy calling to fuck off... see what her reaction is and shit. |
... Don't let her reply back and forth with the guy, cause if thats the case, you know she's got other intentions.
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We've been going out for over a year now. Rebound relationships are usually over pretty quick. I believe her when she says she's happy with me. She's not the problem, of this i'm sure... |
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Don't blame him for it. Your girlfriend is in control at this point, and she must want something from him if she keeps picking up the phone. :2 cents:
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I don't believe in statistics though... :winkwink: |
if he ever calls from a land line do a reverse lookup and go tell him yourself to stop calling
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I don't think that will be a problem if you do trust your girlfriend.
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leave it be......
ignore him and everything about him, she will pick up on it and ignore him too. you give him attention, she will give more attention to the situation, and thus more attention to him. |
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tell the fucker to stay away
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Or you could hire a bunch of guys to go round to his house and sort him out, warm him never to call her ever again or else.....
I only recommend this if it's really REALLY pissing you off and its starting to seriously interfere with your relationship with your girlfriend |
If you know his full name it's surprising how easy it is to find out where he lives :)
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she'll never admit it but probably likes the attention. why reply otherwise? she should tell him hes not interested and she isn't going to respond anymore.
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Look, you're girlfriend is testing you... if you fail this one, she'll walk all over you!
She wants to see if she can let bullshit happen right under your nose and how long you'll put up with it. Once she knows she has you under her thumb, she'll start playing lots more silly games like this. Make her choose between you and him -- now and for good! Tell her that as a guy, you can tell when someone's sniffing around trying to steal your woman! That's exactly what he's doing, and that's exactly what her encouragement (by responding to him) tells him and YOU! This is one of the first signs of a potential cheater -- if she gets away with this now, she'll be fucking somebody else soon enough! Believe me... I used to pull the same shit... and it worked every time! Go on the offensive, don't back down... be a big meanie about this issue! If you don't show her who's top dog, she'll start shopping for one! |
Just take her word for it and treat her well..Ex's always come back in the picture
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Why can't she just ignore the fucking twirp? I'm sorry to say it man, but things aren't sounding too good if she has you worried about the situation.
1. RELAX If she really does not want to be with him, she'll blow him off - its not really anything for you to "worry" about. Quote:
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your lucky she dumped him, if it was the other way around it wouldn't be good
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She shouldn't be answering his messages. In his twisted mind he's taking it as a sign that she still likes him and there may be a chance. But really, she needs to stop answering his messages and he'll eventually go away.
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good advice, if she is answering it's not good. It's just going to give him more hope.
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Just make sure to confront her and make HER do something about it ... just get rid of the fucking problem ASAP...
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