you hit it sly.

Thing is ... if you trust her, it shouldn't bother you much... BUT it still does. No matter what, it will ... so just fucking ask her to get rid of the problem ;)

I have a friend who had this exact same problem with 2 girls. They were practically obsessed. Seriously, the one was crazy. Neither one of them left him alone until he completely ignored them.

This guy is still crazy about your girlfriend. Your girlfriend needs to force him to hate her. She needs to make him think she's a bitch. He needs to get to the point where he says to himself "why was I ever with that bitch?"

Once he gets there, you're home free.

here is a good ADVICE buy at least 1/4 chilli pepper and cotton at least a fistfull then get a thick palstic, munnch those pepper to the cotton let all the pepper fluids be suck by the cotton, when this cotton absorbs all the peppers fluids it will turn the cotton a bit orange in color, take the cotton out of the plastic and let it dry for 3 days when the cotton is 100% dried look where that sick ex of your girlfiend lives maybe call the mobile company to verify his location or address, once you know where he lives go there when he is asleep light up the cotton (don't worry it wont burn) it will just smoke like a cigarette but make sure don't inhale the fumes from that cotton or else you will be a victim of your own plot :1orglaugh once the cotton starts smoking better leave the place and a note LEAVE HER ALONE! he will be sick for a week with a swollen eye and a very bad throat, no voice at all and a traumatizing experience, don't worry he can't die with this, but if you want him dead i have a few more advice :winkwink:

hire a professional dont leave any traces :pimp

my big black buddy actually manged to make this a business. For $100 he finds the guy and makes a bunch of threats like a real street nigga saying she's his girlfriend now and all that and they almost always leave him alone haha its great

Same thing with my girl... been a year now and the guy still calls. She's considering changing her phone number cause it's pissing her off. If he didn't live 1500KM away I'd consider a chat with the guy, but whatever, the loser will give up eventually and I don't worry about it.

Beat his ass, Scotty!

alright just kick his ass

Guess where she is going once you guys have a fight? Right to his bed!

I totally agree keep the pimp hand strong...

dont make her choose but act like you dont give a fuck and let her know she is replaceable
dont be a dick about it be a pimp be nice and really dont care or show weakness

If you don't get to a point where you are completely confident that he is out of her life and there is no contact, then you're always gonna be worried after you and her have an argument that she'll go running to him. Then emotional support from the ex always seems to end up being sexual support.

there is something to what you are saying :2 cents:

You need to tell him to back the fuck off.

I agree with MaskTvMaura on this one.

Relationships suck sometimes huh.

Good luck.

feeling insecure????

Trusting your gf alone and ignoring her ex will not fix the problem. You guys should talk and settle things up. Don't let that situation bother you and your gf. Tell that bastard to fuck off and find some one else.

hey, listen up, GFY is bad place to disccuss about your intimate problems... better talk to some friend and definitely find his phone number! :D

Punch the guy right in the face, then he'll probably leave her alone..

I'd tell her not to contact back at all if its really over........ each time she replies, he's getting his wish, to reach her...

Get him an AFF membership, then he can get all the tang he wants and he'll love you forever for hooking him up with strange.

hire a private eye to follow her for 2 weeks..take pictures.. you'll get your answer.

Even her replying to his text messages is the contact and connection he's looking for. he wants to keep himself fresh in her mind, whether it be good or bad. Its like a mindfuck to screw up her current relationship. Obviously it can cause some strain between you and her if he's calling all the time and won't fuck off.

She needs to get with the program and block his number, avoid his calls and not respond to his text messages. If she has no interest in the guy then she will have to realize that his contact is nothing but bad for her current life and relationship. He's trying to fuck it up.

A shovel, a 9mm, a car with a big trunk, and a 40 acre field.....Problem solved. :)


Seriously though if she is allowing his "pursuit" to continue without making an effort to stop it completely then I would definitely keep my eye on her. Sounds a little fishy if she is allowing it to continue after a year.

Dont know if I would go for that.

tell her to make a final statement to him and ask that he not contact her anymore and to respect her wishes/new life. If after that he continues, change #, contact authorities and maybe even order of protection.

If she hasn't put her foot down and given him an ultimatum she probably can't be trusted.

You can't control how she feels and you don't know how desperate or crazy this guy is.

She'll go where her heart tells her to go, not much you can do about that.

dDOS him

Man guys are pussies anymore.. What ever happend to the dominant male in a relationship.. My girl would never let this shit happen she knows shed be answering to me about it, and no man would dare. Buck up pussy..

almost sounds like a parent/child relationship :Oh crap

call the police for harasment

This shouldn't be an issue if she doesn't have interest in him. Just tell her if she doesn't want him to be stern and tell him to fuck off. If he keeps harrasing her tell her to tell him she will go to the police. I just don't see why someone bugging you would ever be a problem. Is it that hard not to respond, answer, or have any affiliation with the guy?

lmao or you can try to "boot" him if your in a yahoo chat room :Graucho

She is driving the bus therefore she can truly squash it if she wants to. Problem is most girls like the drama and the idea of men fighting over them. Dont buy into it and get yourself in a position that will cost you more.

She shouldn't be answering his messages, if she ignored him he would probably go away.

Give him a Glasgae kiss :thumbsup

I agree with the guys above, don't seem shaken by this. Tell her to cut out the replies and make sure you keep your pimp hand strong.

Detoxed is right dude! If a chick wants to put an end to something bad enough, they can she could block his text and calls perminately, get on her schedule harder, youll find that a night or two out of the week her ass is planted in his bed.


depraveddollars converstions as INSANE as 1:35 on a regular basis. TRAILER TRASH BABY!!! :321GFY

you need to tell your fucking bitch to deal with it, give her a swift assfucking if she steps out of line.

she is obviously being a scandelous hoe if she is even picking up the phone or even acting like the other guy is around.

you need to lay that pimp hand down, make her realise you are the only one and cannot be walked on, bitches are dum, u can either play it soft or hard,

play it all soft at first be like:

"o baby you should only be with me, i love you"

then act like a fucking asshole to her the next day, shit like this just fucks with girls minds and you will have her on fucking lock.

my girls ex tried to talk to her for a lil but he stopped calling because he knows i will beat his face in, little fag. I AM LOCO ESSAY.

dont let these losers walk all over you, you are the man, you are invincible!

PIMP CLASS IN SESSION

She still has feelings for him.

You wanna fight him ? It will make you like a loser and insecure.

To women DRAMA is like watching a SPORTS to men, they must have drama to make them feel they are in ' LALA land ' ... that's why you see them watching all these boring shows and chick-flicks movies.

When I get a new girl, I am always the 1st to create DRAMA ... why ? so I can end it on my own terms ... Women need DRAMA once in a while.

What you need to do is stop listening to the inexperienced and insecure fools here. You need to make friends with him ? What ? Yes, FRIENDS ! I had the same shit happened to me in a club, the guy wouldn't leave my girl alone after they broke up ... what did I do ? I told him to sit beside me and I bought him a beer we had a friendly conversation about work, sports, etc.

1) He doesn't see you as a challenge
2) It will make him feel stupid
3) She sees you as a PIMP
4) It will make you look and feel like a PIMP :pimp :pimp


PIMP CLASS DISMISSED

my wifes ex was like that too a bit, he quit when i got her pregnant, started bawling on the phone and she quit talking to him.

She has since told him to stop calling or messaging her altogether, so we'll see what happens...