serious post...
 

what would you do...


ok, short version..

I bought this house i live in now with my brother cause he needed help with a place to stay so i offered to buy a palce with him...

problem is, is he is a fucking shit head selfish cocksucking useing piece of shit that doesnt care about anyone but himself and wouldnt do anything for you unless there was something in it for him...


im considering just giving him this house and walking away clear..

he cant afford to pay for this house on his own i know, so he would be forced to sell unless he finds some idiot to agree to move in with him and pay him rent...


before I either kill him or disown him as a brother, i want to get out of here while i still slightly care for him because he is blood and pretty much the only family i have left...

only reason i have put up with it this long is because of that fact...


wtf would you do if you were in this situation? I have left a ton of shit out, but this is enough info to base a decission on...

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get your own place man. you'll come up with more ideas and make more money without the stress

a) tell him to pay you rent....
b) kick him out, someone needs to teach him a lesson....

Try and guilt trip him and offer to buy him out for some amount that is why less then he is intitled to under law. Like $10,000 or something.

Kick him out. You paid for the place. It's yours, not his. Sometimes tough love is what's needed to get people in check.

exactly.. i KNOW for a fact I will eliminate 60% of the stress in my life if i leave, but believe it or not i am a humna being and I do care about other people.. I will be leaving him high and dry, but he brought it on himself.. he will NEVER change and that is a fact..

I need to think about my health and my own life i know, i just dont like the fact I am about to lose the rest of my family because of thier own actions, not mine..

im tired of being used.. i have had it, im almost to the point where I can see myself about to snap, and thank god i recognise it, or I would be in jail in a few months i bet

make him learn the hard way, dont baby him, he will never learn

Make his life hell until he runs out the fucking door, don't shower, if he likes rap, crank metallica all day, if he likes rock, crank (insert rap name here) all day.. develop a habit of setting off fireworks in the house @ 3am, tell him you've decided to become a nudist, whenever he has a chick over, practice being a nudist.. i could go on for hours.

It sounds like his brother name is on it.

you dont read very well do you?

he OWNS 50% of this house, i cant kick him out.

man, sounds like my brother..
we would only hear from him when he needed something and everything was always everyone else fault. I believe he finally got his act together as last time I talked to him he has his own business but that's going on 2 years ago..

You can't pick your family you can only deal with them, but if he is a leach now he always will be. If you have the extra money just pay the house off and hook him up.. Maybe someday he will realize what you did for him .. if not fuck him.

pour gasoline on him and ...

I am also considering buying him out...

tell him that he needs to get his shit together and stop living off of you. if he doesnt respond then sell the house and make him fend for himself. he will never change if you take care of him.

if the house is bought and paid for then get the fuck out and get yourself a new place...if there are payments left make sure you get him to take over the payments...

regardless, get the fuck away from him, sounds like he can really drain someones life out

kick his ass out why should he benifit from your hard work?

Ahh... so buy him out.

Tell him how you feel and say you want out and we should sell the house

lol

family is so hard to deal with. I'd leave now

yeah get out.

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If you like the house, buy him out. If not, get a better place of your own, something that would make him really jealous. :glugglug

the thing is, is he does have his shit together sort of.. like he meets his responsibilities.. nills job etc..

he just likes to use me to buy shit and not pay me back, he already took out a 50k equity loan to pay off all his bills and the funny thing is, is he would have never gotten that loan if it wasnt for me, i found the loan for him and did all the paper work for him lol

im such a fucking sap

he is my older brother 30 yrs old and has a 7yr old kid divorced.. but she has custody..

he uses his daughter to get close to this c u n t he is fucking that uses him... he actually picks up his daughter to take her over to his GF's house just to spend time with her, otherwise she wouldnt have anything todo with him unless she wanted some dick.. it makes me sick to see him use his kid like that...

I have done so many favors for this guy i cant even count.. and I have never asked for ANYTHING in return other than to pay me back when i loan him money which is often...

jesus, i am about to explode im so frustrated with this situation..

I have no idea why i am so intimidated by him... he has this character FLAW that makes him hard to talk to.. he is so defensive and moody its impossible to tlak to him unless he is fucked up on something..
GOD!!!!!!!!

shit this thread got me thinking....
im gonna move in with my brother in a month to his place, and after a month we are getting a new place together....
hopefully he wont be a fuck up case....

Buying him out or leaving him there to lose the house on his own both leave him with nothing in the long run. The only difference is you lose also.

BUT, I'd still just walk away if I were you. Let him fail alone and relieve yourself of all that stress.

I don't think I could live with another family member like that. I have a hard enough time living with roommates that are my friends.

gotta change ur sig dude....its not completly true :winkwink:

why dosen't he do adult and make his own money? Even if he didn't work under your company, I'm sure he could have a fairly easy road at getting started.

I f i choose to buy him out (cause i do like this place.)

what if he wants something rediculous?

he already took 50k out to pay off his debt... so im thinking i would only be willing togo another 40k tops in cash to get rid of him..

he could say he wants 60k and im not going to give that much, then im scrwed, i have to leave cause he wont

he is not smart enough todo this.. he likes to be told what todo by his bosses.. he has no imagination, and he is too lazy to make anything happen for himself. as i said, he was too fucking lazy to get the loan himself to pay his shit off... i had todo the paperwork for him and find the place to get the loan from lol


it is so hard to explain the type of person he is, he has this ability to make you feel bad without even doing anything wrong...

i wish i could explain it properly

Go drop a massive shit on his pillow, this will do 2 things, you'll feel better and theres a good chance he'll be disgusted enough to leave, at least for the night.

But if you leave and he can't pay the bills, you will most likely never see a dime from him right?

or he might kick the shit out of pimppuppy....:1orglaugh

Buy him out. He's not fucked, you don't lose your investment, and you walk away with a clean conscience. If he doesn't want to sell, point out to him that he won't be able to make the payments... and explain to him that your only option is to sell your interest to someone else. :2 cents:

I don't know your life, so I don't know if that will work for you for sure... I'm betting you'll know what to do, though. Sounds like your heart's in the right place.

if he cant pay the bills when i leave which i know he cant, he will HAVE to sell, and i have to trust him to pay me what i am owed... im pretty much willing to just write it off and let him take all the equity just to get rid of him, but its hard to swallow 50k+ in cash as a loss :(

60 k is peanuts for a big spender like yourself...shit give him 80 or 100

Who's name is it in?

Both of you guys?

Time for a couple bowls of lucky charms

yea.... hit me up man, i need to talk to you

wow, you know something, i feel so much better just being able to vent a little and tell people how im feeling...

thanks you fucks