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goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:23 AM

Scammed on Ebay -- What can I do?
 
The amount was under $1000 (but close)

Paid with paypal, no paypal insurance.

The person had a decent feedback rating so I didn't bother with the insurance.

He's had the payment for nearly 3 weeks and doesn't respond to email.

I know he's received the emails because I threw an image in the last email sent to him & his access was logged :Graucho



I know:

-- his name
-- his valid home address
-- his telephone number
-- his internet provider
-- his IP.
-- His wife or ex-wifes name.


What are my options?

xNetworx 02-17-2004 01:23 AM

charge it back

integrated 02-17-2004 01:24 AM

technically speaking ebay did not scam you so your comments are LIBEL

just a thought :2 cents:

SYNIKAL 02-17-2004 01:24 AM

sue em

Turboface 02-17-2004 01:25 AM

You're powerless, seriously.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by pimpporn
charge it back

I have a non-disposable paypal account.

Mike-BP 02-17-2004 01:25 AM

Give him a call?

johnbosh 02-17-2004 01:26 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mike-BP
Give him a call?
or drop by, with ummm a large baseball bat

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:27 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Turboface
You're powerless, seriously.
Nah.... not at all.


I am just looking for legitimate legal options to threaten him with now that I know he's intentionally not responding.

GonePhishing 02-17-2004 01:27 AM

Call the police station in his home town and file a report. I believe you can also file a report on the fbi site. You can also contact ebay, they used have a fraud clause where they give you up to $250. Also, make sure to fill out a bad report on him scamming you in the feedback.

twistyneck 02-17-2004 01:27 AM

A call to his local cops would be a good place to start.

pornkitten 02-17-2004 01:27 AM

kill him if he continues to fuck u over

pornkitten 02-17-2004 01:29 AM

I was kidding sue him or fuck his wife

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mike-BP
Give him a call?
Have... got the machine a couple times. Didn't leave a message yet (don't want to let on that I know his number yet)

I'll give him a 2am call tomorrow if he doesn't respond to the next email.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:32 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by integrated
technically speaking ebay did not scam you so your comments are LIBEL

just a thought :2 cents:

on eBay (referring to a seller on ebay), not BY ebay. :winkwink:

GonePhishing 02-17-2004 01:32 AM

Best of luck. I really hope you get your money back. I know how irritating it can be when you think that you are getting something, but then find out you've been cheated. Good luck dude!

jimboc 02-17-2004 01:33 AM

I don't think the cops will help, it's not a criminal matter. You should consult a lawyer and send off a legal letter to his address stating your intention to pusue the matter by civil recovery. That normally does the trick.

Legally he has just not completed his part of the contract, he has technically not stolen from you.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by GonePhishing
Best of luck. I really hope you get your money back. I know how irritating it can be when you think that you are getting something, but then find out you've been cheated. Good luck dude!

So long as he doesn't move in the next week, I guarantee I'll get my money or the item. I'm just curious about the various legal routes I can go.

GonePhishing 02-17-2004 01:38 AM

Actually, the cops will help. They helped to get my money back when I was scammed. Also, they helped shut that guy down. Another friend of mine was able to get his money back by telling the person who scammed him that if he didn't have the money back in a couple hours that he was contacting the police in his home town and listed the name of the detective that was from his area. Also, threated to contact the postmaster general, fbi, ebay, and every other place possible. The guy sent his money back... My friend still contacted all of those places... Turns out that the scammer had been selling bogus concert tickets and soccer tickets.

jimboc 02-17-2004 01:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by GonePhishing
Actually, the cops will help. They helped to get my money back when I was scammed. Also, they helped shut that guy down. Another friend of mine was able to get his money back by telling the person who scammed him that if he didn't have the money back in a couple hours that he was contacting the police in his home town and listed the name of the detective that was from his area. Also, threated to contact the postmaster general, fbi, ebay, and every other place possible. The guy sent his money back... My friend still contacted all of those places... Turns out that the scammer had been selling bogus concert tickets and soccer tickets.
That's different, that's selling illegal merchandise, which is a crime.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by jimboc


Legally he has just not completed his part of the contract, he has technically not stolen from you.


Legally I could ask a few bikers in his home town to drive their choppers up to his doorstep at 3am & ask him what the fucking problem is.

That's a bit of a pain in the ass for this amount though.

Maybe just a couple choppers. :winkwink:

sexsup 02-17-2004 01:44 AM

Try to reach him, after try with the cops and if they say they cant help you go to a lawyer(and it will be not free)

jimboc 02-17-2004 01:46 AM

Just incase there is any confusion let me explain.

If someone breaks into your property or steals your wallet, that is theft, it's a criminal offence and the police will arrest etc..

If you want to buy or sell something and enter into a verbal or written contract with somebody and one party does not follow that through it's not theft.

There could be many reasons why they could not complete their side of the contract and it's up to the civil courts to decide what action to take.

Mr. Porno King 02-17-2004 01:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by integrated
technically speaking ebay did not scam you so your comments are LIBEL

just a thought :2 cents:

But not much of a thought, cause he never said ebay scammed him.

jimboc 02-17-2004 01:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mr. Porno King


But not much of a thought, cause he never said ebay scammed him.

Look at the thread title:Graucho

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:51 AM

Legal to call his & his wifes family members trying to 'track him down' and make sure nothing has happend to him (reciting the failed transaction to everyone as I go of course) ?? :Graucho


If he would have responded after seeing the email (which I know he saw because of the logs) -- then I wouldn't be being so aggressive about this.

But it's been nearly a month & I haven't gotten one reply from this guy over several emails.

nippa 02-17-2004 01:53 AM

Take off and nuke them from orbit. It's the only way to be sure.

jimboc 02-17-2004 01:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by goBigtime
Legal to call his & his wifes family members trying to 'track him down' and make sure nothing has happend to him (reciting the failedtransaction to everyone as I go of course) ??
Depends on local law's, often contacting somebody at a place of work about a debt is illegal.

JDog 02-17-2004 01:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by integrated
technically speaking ebay did not scam you so your comments are LIBEL

just a thought :2 cents:

He didn't say Ebay Scammed him, read the title! Scammed ON ebay!

Read next time!

jDoG

joseph4829 02-17-2004 01:55 AM

What is his info? We'll help tag team him. Maybe he lives near one of us and we can take a picture of his house to scare him.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by jimboc


Depends on local law's, often contacting somebody at a place of work about a debt is illegal.

Is it a debt? I am not a creditor.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 01:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by joseph4829
What is his info? We'll help tag team him. Maybe he lives near one of us and we can take a picture of his house to scar him.

Actually, he lives near you... ~30 mins away.

joseph4829 02-17-2004 01:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by goBigtime



Actually, he lives near you.


Well, give me his info. joseph4829 at yahoo.com

J.

psyko514 02-17-2004 02:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by jimboc
Just incase there is any confusion let me explain.

If someone breaks into your property or steals your wallet, that is theft, it's a criminal offence and the police will arrest etc..

If you want to buy or sell something and enter into a verbal or written contract with somebody and one party does not follow that through it's not theft.

There could be many reasons why they could not complete their side of the contract and it's up to the civil courts to decide what action to take.

it's not theft, but it is fraud.
the police will help. the fbi does have a form to fill out to report internet fraud.

i've been there, done that and succeeded in getting my money back.

next time, think a little before you pretend to run your mouth about things you know nothing about.

gobigtime, i'd suggest calling him first and discussing the matter with him. leave him a message if he's not home. advise him that if the merchandise isn't shipped within X amount of days with a tracking number as proof, you will exploit all your available options, including a paypal chargeback, an ebay fraud complaint, a call to his police department and a fraud report with the fbi. tell his machine if he isn't home.

most people will cough up the merchandise right away and give you a tracking number, or they'll refund you. if they don't, then exploit your options, one by one. start with the ones that have the least possible consequences to you (ie: contacting his police department)

4Pics 02-17-2004 02:02 AM

find another auction he is running and email him from a hotmail/yahoo account and ask about the item. Like ship time, costs etc. Then ask for a phone # and you want to call him to chat before you bid.

Then call and chew his ass out.

Turboface 02-17-2004 02:04 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by psyko514


it's not theft, but it is fraud.
the police will help. the fbi does have a form to fill out to report internet fraud.

i've been there, done that and succeeded in getting my money back.

next time, think a little before you pretend to run your mouth about things you know nothing about.

gobigtime, i'd suggest calling him first and discussing the matter with him. leave him a message if he's not home. advise him that if the merchandise isn't shipped within X amount of days with a tracking number as proof, you will exploit all your available options, including a paypal chargeback, an ebay fraud complaint, a call to his police department and a fraud report with the fbi. tell his machine if he isn't home.

most people will cough up the merchandise right away and give you a tracking number, or they'll refund you. if they don't, then exploit your options, one by one. start with the ones that have the least possible consequences to you (ie: contacting his police department)


Wow - This is the post with the most substance I have ever seen you make.

:thumbsup

goBigtime 02-17-2004 02:04 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by joseph4829



Well, give me his info. joseph4829 at yahoo.com

J.


Thanks for the offer Joseph.. I'll definitely keep it in mind. :thumbsup


I'm going to give the guy one more shot via email & 24 hours to reply now that I know he's getting the emails.

I would still rather have the item at this point - but my patience is wearing very thin.

jimboc 02-17-2004 02:06 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by goBigtime


Is it a debt? I am not a creditor.

Interesting, the truth is I don't know about that. It was a contract where you would give him money for his item, so him not giving you the item is a dept i would guess.

A dept doesn't necissarily have to be money so I think the laws for debt collection would still stand.

psyko514 02-17-2004 02:07 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Turboface



Wow - This is the post with the most substance I have ever seen you make.

:thumbsup

hahaha... you haven't seen some of my credit card related posts.

i work for visa customer service, so i kinda get carried away during visa topics.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 02:09 AM

I would love to send him a photo of his house with a little text on it that says:

"Is my _________ still in there somewhere or has it been shipped?"


The look on the guys face.. woo priceless.


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