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joseph4829 02-17-2004 02:09 AM

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Thanks for the offer Joseph.. I'll definitely keep it in mind. :thumbsup

NP. What city does he live in?

J.

psyko514 02-17-2004 02:10 AM

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Originally posted by jimboc


Interesting, the truth is I don't know about that. It was a contract where you would give him money for his item, so him not giving you the item is a dept i would guess.

A dept doesn't necissarily have to be money so I think the laws for debt collection would still stand.

your location states uk. the laws there are different from the us. stop giving him shit advice.

a creditor can call you at work about a debt if you've provided the creditor with your work phone number.

in a case like this, he is not a creditor. he is simply a buyer who is being frauded by a seller.

gobigtime, calling his family, relatives, etc. is sketchy grounds. he could technically call it harassment and press charges, although he'd have little to go on, especially if you're polite during the call. if you call from a payphone, he'd also have trouble proving it was you.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 02:11 AM

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Originally posted by joseph4829



NP. What city does he live in?

J.


Lewisville.

jimboc 02-17-2004 02:11 AM

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Originally posted by psyko514


it's not theft, but it is fraud.
the police will help. the fbi does have a form to fill out to report internet fraud.

i've been there, done that and succeeded in getting my money back.

next time, think a little before you pretend to run your mouth about things you know nothing about.

gobigtime, i'd suggest calling him first and discussing the matter with him. leave him a message if he's not home. advise him that if the merchandise isn't shipped within X amount of days with a tracking number as proof, you will exploit all your available options, including a paypal chargeback, an ebay fraud complaint, a call to his police department and a fraud report with the fbi. tell his machine if he isn't home.

most people will cough up the merchandise right away and give you a tracking number, or they'll refund you. if they don't, then exploit your options, one by one. start with the ones that have the least possible consequences to you (ie: contacting his police department)

Wrong, it's only fraud if you can PROVE in court that the person deliberatly set out to decive you and never intended to pay for the goods, or was running a scam of some kind.

As this issue stands the person has just not fulfilled their side of the contract.

joseph4829 02-17-2004 02:13 AM

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Lewisville

Fuck, that's just 20 mins away. I'm aways going through there to play roller hockey in Denton.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 02:14 AM

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Originally posted by psyko514


gobigtime, calling his family, relatives, etc. is sketchy grounds. he could technically call it harassment and press charges, although he'd have little to go on, especially if you're polite during the call. if you call from a payphone, he'd also have trouble proving it was you.

Well I would want to recite the problem.. the failed transaction.

I'd blow my cover right away :)

psyko514 02-17-2004 02:17 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime


Well I would want to recite the problem.. the failed transaction.

I'd blow my cover right away :)

if you make it seem like you're genuinely interested in his well being, there's not much they can say. especially if the calls aren't recorded.

psyko514 02-17-2004 02:20 AM

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Originally posted by jimboc


Wrong, it's only fraud if you can PROVE in court that the person deliberatly set out to decive you and never intended to pay for the goods, or was running a scam of some kind.

As this issue stands the person has just not fulfilled their side of the contract.

this has nothing to do with someone not paying for goods. are you even reading the post?

the seller listed an auction, he was paid, and he failed to deliver the goods. that is fraud. i've been in gobigtime's shoes many times. i've filed police reports and fbi internet fraud reports and i've received refunds or my goods 9 times out of 10.

i know what i'm talking about.

jimboc 02-17-2004 02:20 AM

Yes my location say's UK, that's why I said I didn't know about contacting his regarding the matter, I said it would depend on local laws.

I wanted to warn this person that there are often laws resricting the rights of somebody chasing a dept.

The US legal system varies so much from state to state I hardly think there's a huge difference between Criminal and Civil law between the US and UK.

It's simple you entered into a contract and the other person failed to honour that contract. There is nothing to lead anyone to presume at this stage that fraud has been commited.

joseph4829 02-17-2004 02:20 AM

Has he ever answered the phone?

Also, where do you live?

Platinumpimp 02-17-2004 02:25 AM

This sucks dude, it happened to me once with a mobile phone, didn't send for 6 weeks, then I stated I would pay him a visit the item was there within 3 days..:1orglaugh

jimboc 02-17-2004 02:30 AM

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Originally posted by psyko514


this has nothing to do with someone not paying for goods. are you even reading the post?

the seller listed an auction, he was paid, and he failed to deliver the goods. that is fraud. i've been in gobigtime's shoes many times. i've filed police reports and fbi internet fraud reports and i've received refunds or my goods 9 times out of 10.

i know what i'm talking about.

You're right I keep going away from the thread to do something else and I forgot that the agreement was the other way around. I really doesn't matter which way around the contract was and who the buyer/ seller was.

FYI I have worked in credit control and finance for quite a long time and used to deal with persuing people for simolar things on a daily basis.

jimboc 02-17-2004 02:32 AM

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Originally posted by jimboc


You're right I keep going away from the thread to do something else and I forgot that the agreement was the other way around. I really doesn't matter which way around the contract was and who the buyer/ seller was.

FYI I have worked in credit control and finance for quite a long time and used to deal with persuing people for similar things on a daily basis.


psyko514 02-17-2004 02:32 AM

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Originally posted by jimboc


You're right I keep going away from the thread to do something else and I forgot that the agreement was the other way around. I really doesn't matter which way around the contract was and who the buyer/ seller was.

FYI I have worked in credit control and finance for quite a long time and used to deal with persuing people for simolar things on a daily basis.

i work for a visa. i know what i'm talking about concerning credit.

this topic has nothing to do whatsoever with credit or financing.

nothing whatsoever.

jimboc 02-17-2004 02:39 AM

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Originally posted by psyko514


i work for a visa. i know what i'm talking about concerning credit.

this topic has nothing to do whatsoever with credit or financing.

nothing whatsoever.

I am aware that it has nothing to do with finance, but it still isn't fraud.

If you work for Visa, you will know the length of time that you are eligable for chargebacks for? and don't give me the US/UK bullshit because it's Visa international rules and they are standard. You can't look it up anywhere because they don't publish it.

jimboc 02-17-2004 02:47 AM

Mmmm long silence......:1orglaugh

psyko514 02-17-2004 02:55 AM

It depends on the type of chargeback you're doing. There are multiple different types of chargebacks (unrecognized charge, recurring charge, merchandise not received, credit not received, merchandise not as described, etc). typically, the time limit is 120 days and the merchant has 45 days to respond. in some cases, there's a 180 day limit.

i don't deal with chargebacks however, i deal with visa branch/customer support.

if you doubt my employment, i'll extend to you the same challenge i extend to everyone else. i'll give you my full name, the 1-800 # to contact me, my personal extension and my working hours and you can feel free to contact me.

i'm on a leave of absence until March 9th, however you can feel free to contact one of my co-workers who will gladly confirm i am indeed a visa employee and i am indeed on leave of absence.

and do not mistake my silence for ignorance. as unlikely as it may seem, i do have a life outside gfy.

ListYourPorn 02-17-2004 03:00 AM

Charge Back, or go round and see him

Theiving hahahaha - sorry dude to hear you lost some hard earned cash.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 03:00 AM

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Originally posted by joseph4829
Has he ever answered the phone?

Also, where do you live?

Never answered. I live in California mostly.

ListYourPorn 02-17-2004 03:02 AM

Post his details on dating sites and make his life hell

goBigtime 02-17-2004 03:05 AM

Well.. I basically sent him this for now:

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XXXXXXXX,

Well, at least I know you're getting the emails now.

Maybe there was some reason you didn't hit the reply button last night and you intend to reply to today.


The paypal payment for the item cleared on the 3rd.
You were notified of the cleared payment on the 6th.

I have sent you three messages asking for a tracking number or an update. February 12th, the 15th and the 16th - you have responded to none.

Today is February 17th.

If you do not contact me TODAY, I will be forced to pursue other options to get you to follow through on our contractual agreement.

These options may include:

- A report filed with the FBI online fraud division.
- A formal complaint filed with the Lewisville, Texas Police Department.
- A formal fraud report mailed to Ebay's legal department.
- A formal fraud report mailed to Paypal's legal department.
- A formal fraud report mailed to Comcast's legal department.
- Hiring a private investigator in your area to gather additional information.
- Taking appropriate legal action for this matter.
- And of course, a negative eBay feedback (which you can still avoid)

Your past feedback suggests that you are an honest guy, so I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here and giving you all day today to contact me before exercising any of my options above.

But please understand this XXXXXXXX -- you are costing me money by delaying this shipment and not living up to the agreement here. I have a client waiting to receive this.

Additionally, if it's received DOA, not in the condition as advertised,
or not at all - I will be very upset.


Best Regards,

XXXXXXXX



So everyone check your email & if you see this email sitting in there
send me my fucking package :winkwink:

psyko514 02-17-2004 03:05 AM

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Originally posted by jimboc
Mmmm long silence......:1orglaugh
Mmmm long silence......:1orglaugh

asshat.

and i'm back to work on March 8th, not the 9th. my mistake.

jimboc 02-17-2004 03:11 AM

I believe you work for visa now. It will be interesting to find out what the local police say about it. I'm pretty sure they would only get involved if there was reason to believe fraud was involved or the person needed tracking down etc.

As he has the address already I think they will tell him to take legal advise. Hopefully we will find out....

psyko514 02-17-2004 03:15 AM

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Originally posted by jimboc
I believe you work for visa now. It will be interesting to find out what the local police say about it. I'm pretty sure they would only get involved if there was reason to believe fraud was involved or the person needed tracking down etc.

As he has the address already I think they will tell him to take legal advise. Hopefully we will find out....

Like I've said, I've been caught in his exact same situation many times, and the cops have been very helpful.

acctman 02-17-2004 03:16 AM

here's what to do, call paypal and they'll put a freeze on the sellers account and then they have 5-7days to present a valid tracking number for the product if they don't then paypal will refund your money back from them. since they have access to that person CC and Checking account. I've done this to a few times already and have received the product or refund.

you have to do this within 30days though. don't listen to the people on here giving bad advice. let paypal dispute is for you they can get the money back faster without causing yourself more headaches and problems.

Firehorse 02-17-2004 03:19 AM

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Originally posted by integrated
technically speaking ebay did not scam you so your comments are LIBEL

just a thought :2 cents:


accurately speaking

the tread title is "Scammed on Ebay what can I do?"
It doesn't read Scammed by Ebay what can I do?

just an observation :thumbsup

goBigtime 02-17-2004 03:24 AM

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Originally posted by acctman
here's what to do, call paypal and they'll put a freeze on the sellers account and then they have 5-7days to present a valid tracking number for the product if they don't then paypal will refund your money back from them. since they have access to that person CC and Checking account. I've done this to a few times already and have received the product or refund.


Cool... still well within 30 days.

If he doesn't respond tomorrow, I'll definitely pursue the other options.

joseph4829 02-17-2004 03:34 AM

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So everyone check your email & if you see this email sitting in there send me my fucking package.
Is he a member of this board?

goBigtime 02-17-2004 03:40 AM

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Originally posted by joseph4829


Is he a member of this board?


I doubt it.

But wouldn't it be funny if he were?

:glugglug

dodint 02-17-2004 04:58 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime
Well.. I basically sent him this for now:

Do you mind if I use a modified version of this? I'm having a similar problem and if I don't hear anything for a few days, this may come in handy. I can't afford to throw away $889 for no reason.

goBigtime 02-17-2004 05:01 AM

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Originally posted by dodint


Do you mind if I use a modified version of this? I'm having a similar problem and if I don't hear anything for a few days, this may come in handy. I can't afford to throw away $889 for no reason.

np.. have at it :thumbsup

dodint 02-17-2004 09:07 AM

Great.

I'd write my own, but yours is so damn comprehensive why bother.

WHOA

Just noticed the Vic-20. How much?

Are you going to Philly Classic?

NBDesign 02-17-2004 09:14 AM

Stop buying crap on Ebay.

Ebay = SUCKER :1orglaugh

joseph4829 02-17-2004 01:23 PM

Status?

joseph4829 02-17-2004 09:47 PM

???

goBigtime 02-18-2004 01:14 AM

FOLLOW UP:

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Subject: Shipment Notification from The UPS Store #4738


A carrier shipping label has been generated for the shipment to XXXXXXX and is awaiting carrier pickup. It will be picked up by UPS on Tuesday, February 17, 2004
:winkwink:

rounders 02-18-2004 01:17 AM

try calling them and paypal - paypal will handle it.

erehwon 02-18-2004 03:25 AM

For reference, in case this happens again to any of you...

eBay pretty much has a non-existant privacy policy, if you scam someone on eBay, all you need to do ask ask your local police department to send a fax to eBay asking for information on the party that scammed you.

"One fax to eBay from a lawman - police investigator, NSA, FBI or CIA employee, National Park ranger - and eBay sends back the user's full name, email address, home address, mailing address, home telephone number, name of company where seller is employed and user nickname. What's more, eBay will send the history of items they have browsed, feedbacks received, bids they have made, prices they have paid, and even messages sent in the site's various discussion groups."

All of this without a subpoena. :thumbsup

http://www.haaretzdaily.com/hasen/pa...&listSrc=Y8/03

Hope this helps someone in the future!

natkejs 02-18-2004 03:29 AM

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Originally posted by goBigtime
Legally I could ask a few bikers in his home town to drive their choppers up to his doorstep at 3am & ask him what the fucking problem is.

That's a bit of a pain in the ass for this amount though.

Maybe just a couple choppers. :winkwink:

That is what I would do, well something similar.
Would get your money back and maybe he'd think twice before pulling such a stunt again.

:2 cents:

goBigtime 02-18-2004 03:41 AM

Btw... he STILL never actually RESPONDED or appologized for the delay or lack of (any) communication.

After sending him the email above, he just entered my email address online when creasting the UPS pick up request & it kicks out an email to me.


Worst ebay transaction ever.


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