Seeing a stripper at her work
 

Short version: I met a nice girl a while ago. A few dates, doing a short indy movie with her this weekend, we text and exhange pictures every day.

Turns out she's a stripper. I didn't know at first - she said she was a model, which is how I met her in the first place.

Here it is: She invited me to come see her at the Hustler club on Tuesday. She boasted "hey we have $2 Tuesdays and its free cover before 6".

So my question is, do I go see her? Am I a chump for going to a see her? Will I fall into the "customer" category (I hear strippers don't date customers). Or is she inviting me as a way of "letting me in" so to speak.

If I do go, do I show up at 6 when no-one else is there? Or do I show up late when she is about to leave and I take her home?

I guess I will have a better idea this weekend if she stays at my place. She is coming over tonight, and she has already said she will get there late (1am). I am no dummy, I know what it means when a girl says she will arrive at your house at 1am. But the question is, will she follow through.

Advice?

I would go in REALLY late without about 90 mins to close.

go go, what can you loose ?

When she comes over you can help her count the dollar bills. That's part of stripper-girlfriend foreplay.

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CHUMP... :2 cents:

I'm not sure I would want a stripper coming over for nookie after work.

depending on the strip club, I would.

You should ask yourself:

Will you be jealous to see her give lap dances?

Will you spend any money on her?

What is being there going to do any goods or bads? Will it jeopardize or facilitate the relationship?

I dont know what strippers think or do but if my work involves anything related to flirting with males, even if it is solely for work, I still dont want my man to see. Dont want to hurt him and less drama. :2 cents:

throw her in the shower with a scrub brush and you're good to go

every penny by the sound of it

Show up late, take her home, fuck her. Simple.

she texts all her customers that.

I won't even be close to being jealous. I know it's work. I've done work in front of the camera as a stunt cock and my girlfriend was never jealous - she even watched the movie with me after, she wanted to see it (different girlfriend).I would probably throw dollars, shout, and get the other guys to throw money at her. I make a good wingman. But I would not be a customer or get a lapdance, that would be creepy.I don't know. I would go if she invited me to a rehersal at the theatre, or band practice or whatever - don't know if it's the sameWon't phase me a bit. She's working, I am her friend. Different worlds.

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Don't use a condom...

show up late, she didn't actually say to come early, just used it as a 'reason'

report back here when it all hits the fan, that's a funny pickle

not sure how i feel about kissing a stripper...i dont know if they are as dirty as the miami ones as they are in cali

After reading that i have no idea why you asked the question in the first place. :Oh crap

I will report back after she comes over tonight - if she doesn't then I guess I have my answer.

Then one less problem to be concerned. :)

That might help her but you might also be considered one of the customers.

It doesnt seem the same to me. These activities are much healthier and you get to know her better.

Only if you stay "friends" with her.


If this is very causal, of course it doesnt matter. Go and have fun! But from your posts, it seems like you like her and perhaps could go further. Tough call! :2 cents:

Good luck! It might be better than you think. :thumbsup

Don't want to be the chump, or end up as one.

Oh, what about, dont go this time, see what happens over the weekend, and if she invites you again, then you might or might not go. You can see if she sounds like she really wants you to go and why. During this time, you would also know her more and have a better idea of where this "friendship" is going.

You dont have to reject her. Just tell her you have work that day or something. :)

I mean, don't forget to wear a condom.

Don't be silly protect your willy.

Yeah after she is all sweaty, cummed on and maybe even cummed in.

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Your stripper GF is 100% female right?

ADG

Well I guess I should go just to make sure. :-)

You're a mark.

If she really liked you there'd be no cover, ever.

Have you ever been at a bar or casino around those girls after seeing male strippers? They are fucking HORNY and the pussy is dripping wet. Easy fuck targets. :pimp

p.s. the gay dudes in the crowd. lol :1orglaugh

Stay away from strippers (unless you are at a stipclub as a customer ofc lol)... at least in my country they always come with a whole range of fucking problems.

Good point.

Tell her you will show up and then don't show up. Don't text her or call her. Let her contact you and ask why you did not show up. Strippers and other hot girls LOVE unreliable guys and she will want to fuck your brains out.

Strippers date customers all the time. Every guy my mom was ever with she met in the club including the guy she married.

I've banged a few strippers in my time and picked them up at some fairly high class clubs. One of them was even married with three kids.

Those are actually women.

haha duuuuuddddeee

i was at the rio here in vegas with a few buddies. as we were leaving one of them suggested we hit the bar at the chippendales show because it was just about to end... after the homo jokes, logic started to kick in and we decided to go for it

so we get in for free and the bartender is all, "oh you guys are scumbags" (jokingly) but damn, he was right... it's like fishing with dynamite

we ALL got laid that night

hahahaha

Bet that pussy is going to smell amazing. Sweat and tears!

if you're looking for sex i would do; anything more, no.
if she doesn't put out, cut your ties with her completely :2 cents:

sounds like she needs someone to carry her bags