Women are confusing. Translate this for me:
 

Her reply to me:

It was nice meeting you too. I actually live really far from Tracy but next time I get up that way I'll give you a call



My original message sent on Myspace:

Hey it was great meeting you the other night! Maybe sometime this week or next week we can get together for lunch or something. I'd like to get to know you. :)

Lemme know if that sounds like fun. There's also a bar in the city called Swig that really has a cool atmosphere and a good crowd. You might like it.

(XXX)XXX-XXXX

-Noah



Any idea what that means? If I were interested in a chick, I'd certainly look at her location on Myspace. I figured that's easy enough right? I met this girl in Tracy. But I live near her in the city. It looks like she figured I was from around there. But I can't figure out if she's just trying to give me the soft let down.

Any thoughts?

If you met her in person it must not have been that great of impression man.

Total brush off!

It's a soft let down. If she were into you, she would try to cement a date or at the very least say when she might be in the area again. just my :2 cents:

ps this could potentially be wrong if the distance we are talking about is plane ride length. If it's 45 minutes or an hour drive or something, then I go with my original statement.

She's just not that into you...

Hey what is your ICQ... i was JUST talking to someone about you or your email.

I think this sums it up .........

https://youtube.com/watch?v=dwnqqj5Q1BU

I would say that was a very polite soft let down

she fucked that dude with all the gel in his hair

Don't listen to these fucking idiots, who have probably never even stuck their dicks into a vagina before without paying.

This is what it means...

She wants you hard and fast, for all the 5.6 seconds you can give her... she also doesn't want to know when you're coming... shes spontaneous like that... she wants you to just look her up in the phone book, and then find her address..

wait outside her house and when she comes home from walmart, to jump on her from behind and judo chop that bitch in the neck so she passes out.... then you bone her while shes knocked out... sounds a little sick, right? nah.. not at all.. shes a freaky bitch like that... how do you think the sleep rape fetish sites were started? because she boned one of the webmasters and asked her to do that... thats how the fetish was discovered..

then after you are done boning her... you put a ski mask on, and just stand an inch away from her face until she slowly starts coming to..

then when she wakes up you turn on a chainsaw and run around the house screaming YOU'RE DEAD BITCH, IM GONNA FUCKING LIGHT THIS PLACE ON FIRE IF YOU DONT MARRY ME - I LOVE YOU AHHHHHHH


and that my friend... is how you steal her heart...

pfftt... anyone who has any game at all knows this, sonnnnnnnn

btw... if that doesn't work... just tell her how big your postcount is

You are fired......

hahahaha, thats a good one,pandafucker, man what it means is she is acting gray, you were nice , but you didnt make her want you, so be "cooler"

Its a nice way of saying she's not really that interested. In other words, she doesn't mind being friends, but don't expect to be banging her anytime soon.
WG

Yea definitely a soft let down. Obviously you're a nice guy just not her type.

Oh and messaging a chick on myspace to ask her out on a date is a BIG no no. You definitely needed to have called her to have even had a chance.

In the future never ask girls out on dates via a myspace message.

Chicks these days would get creeped out if a friend of a friend who they only met once just called them out of the blue..

maybe back in the day maybe it would work... but not nowadays..

heres my advice...

personally i think you would have had a way better chance if you didn't ask her out right away... and i think that alone will have killed any chance of it developing in the future...

but in the future, if you meet a chick you really like... don't give them too much attention... and if shes a friend of a friend it'll be a lot easier... whenever you are talking to that mutual friend, and he/she invites you to wherever you are going.. you can find out if that chick you like will be there...

then just go out as often as you can when you know that chick will be there, a chat here and there.. don't show her you're really into her.. yet anyways

keep doing this till you are in her comfort zone, and you guys are able to talk more comfortably and joke around with her a lot... making a girl laugh a lot is like a key to her heart..

now a common mistake is becoming TOO much of a friend, and then you make the girl view you only as a friend... so be cool with her, but dont get TOO comfortable around her that you do embarrasing stuff that makes you look like a dork..

if she you notice she starts to act like shes liking you, don't jump in head over heels and act like you were waiting for her to come around, cause something i've learned is that when girls KNOW they can get you, they lose interest somewhat..

follow those basic guidelines and i think you'll have a way better chance of hookin up with a girl like that...

but honestly bro, i don't think its gonna happen with this chick

i'm not a huge mack, but i have a shitload of hot ass girl - friends and i was in a relationship for 5 years while i was friends with these chicks, so i never hit on them and they became really really good friends.. and now i know what girls wanna hear... and what they look for..

good luck in the hunt :thumbsup

Get on with your life.

If she calls, she calls. If not.... next.

fuck the hand man, fuck the hand.

As much as a fucking homo i think you are, and as much as i dislike you... i'm going to have to agree with you on this one :2 cents:

don't try to understand money eaters .. i mean girls.
just fuck'em and dumb'em - that's the kind of men they like anyway.
if you let a money eater.. i mean girl mess with your mind or your heart she will fuck you up real good.

she is probably just trying to be polite...

you are all wrong

My guess is a soft let down with the potential for a booty call if she's in town and doesn't find someone she wants more.

At least there's a chance dude.

I'd say that was a rough translation of

"Thanks for giving me your number that I didn't really ask for even when I was face to face with you. I'll file it appropriately."

Odds are it's all just a game to her and now that you've bit it is on to the next.

Either that or she is the proverbial sack of hammers kinda gal and later realized you two do not live within the same zip.

I am stunned by the fact that people actually get together with those they've yammered with on the web (MySpace etc)? I guess predators and stalkers do not leave a lasting impression.

Except me.

I'd translate that into a polite let down too ;(

Dummy myspace?

:1orglaugh

Hm... Not sure about that. How was a date? Any body language signs?

Lol at panda fucker

It means you're ugly and probably gay,fuck off

coudnt say it better :thumbsup

i beg to disagree guys. not all women are like that. :(

she is just not interested.

Translation: You creeped me out a little, but we have a mutual friend and I feel obligated to respond to you.

Translation: I know it's only a 20 min drive but I don't like you that way.

Translation: If your lucky we can all go out as friends again. But this will just be a group of friends going out together. Please don't confuse this as being a date.

hahahaha couldn't say it better!!

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh!

That's a polite brush off...

Enlight us then...

"soft let down"? Dude she just told you to fuck off plain and clear, forget and move on

it means never again