I'm going down for the last time
 

This industry has been good to me, and I'm not asking anyone to do anything they don't want to. I'm in serious trouble due to my medical bills.

Yes, I live in Canada; I came on a temporary resident permit. I never upgraded to permanent residency because, from the symptoms I've had, I thought I had the beginnings of diabetes, which could disqualify me for permanent residency as a "burden on the healthcare system". As some of you know, the problem turned out to be not diabetes, but high blood pressure and kidney failure. Additionally, I've been going blind for a couple of months now.

I'm not entitled to free medical care, and I'm not complaining about that. It's just that I don't have the money to pay my bills anymore. My blood pressure is getting under control but my vision is continuing to get worse; I don't know how much longer I'll be able to work or drive at all. I have an appointment with an opthalmologist in March (long waiting lists).

I've spent our grocery money on doctor visits and medicine, our rent money on groceries, and have nothing to cover the rent; I have a prescription to fill and nothing to cover it with.

As some people will be quick to point out, I've been down and out before:
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...t=losing+house

This time I may not be getting back up again.

When I realized where I'm headed I started building http://www.paytheferryman.com

Ad space is available by donation, starting at the bottom; because it will probably be viewed by people of all ages I can't allow any adult ads to be placed.. which puts me in a pickle since I don't know anyone in mainstream.I don't really expect the top ad spaces to sell as single units; I'm hoping to sell them off in pieces (a la million-dollar-you-know-what)

Links or link trades from your mainstream sites would be much appreciated. When and if I become unable to see well enough to maintain the site, I'll ask my wife to take over.

My ICQ is 47958624 if you have any questions or suggestions.

I hope things turn around for you hun.

Good luck man..hopefully things turn around soon

I'm not going down without a fight. :thumbsup

crappy ...

Damn man, that sucks.

Hopefully things pick up for you... :(

No kidding! I'll be selling pencils soon enough. That should be nice and stable.

You don't strike me as a mean-spirited guy... but put yourself in my situation and try thinking your way out of it.

I agree. How old are you Dagwolf? 41? c'mon. They need to ban these fucking donation threads or ban the people Soliciting people for money. If you can't cut it in adult, get out and get a real job.

By donating money, you're just hurting these people more than you're helping them.

Gfy is gonna hit #1 on Google for the term "lazy ass mooching dipshits" pretty soon.

pretty sure he's living illegally in canada so any government help is out of the question ... thus the webpage.

He soon will cant do any job if he will be blind.

teh boy alley needs to shut up because teh joel finds him or whatever it is annoying as shit...

Regarding the thread, hope things work out for ya. I will not donate any money learned my lesson from Nikki Nova thread but still good luck

I'll most likely be off your board and out of your industry soon enough, don't worry. See thread title.

how is going to be on the street and blind going to help him make the correct "life choices?" what "life choice" will he have at that point? whether he eats some stale fries or rotten hamburger from the dumpster?

i guess you can't expect sympathy from such a pampered priss, but come on ...

You know Dagwood here isn't exactly one of my favorite people but I'm finding myself agreeing with others and wishing that Boyalley would just shut the fuck up.

Honestly, I think BoyAlley is a kind person with trust issues. He's done a lot for charity; he just doesn't believe in putting money directly into the hands of beggars.

By the way, I'm not really illegal. I just haven't renewed my permit yet.
:Oh crap

yeah. he's just a republican in a democrats body.

Good luck to you

dagwolf has been around for awhile and he started doing pretty good
started his own paysite
and then ran into medical issues and is unable to start up again

pretty harsh of you BoyAlley

and you are Mister Charity -- why not fly up to canada w/ all that money you raised for the "poor family" you wanted to help w/ it and help dag and his wife fizzgig ???

Im sure WEGCash would be down for the money to go there

as it seems you havnt done anything w/ that money yet as you said you would be posting video's n such

Okay, looking at your earlier thread I see that back in 2002 you were alredy living in Canada, and you're still a temporary resident after something like five years?!? Wow...

So post up your most recent doctor visit paperwork (or other documentation) to provide some shred of credibility for the case you are pleading.

I didn't read all of your other threads, but can't your wife legally work in Canada? As I understand it, if she was Canadian, it would not be difficult for you to become a citizen. This begs the questions then, that she is also not a Canadian citizen, which makes me wonder why you and your wife are in Canada in the first place?

Also, if any of your children were born in Canada, I assume that makes them Canadian citizens, maybe a loophole there could help you.

I'm sure people might be more forethecoming with support if you could provide any sort of actual evidence of your plight, especially since this is not the first time you have come to GFY with a hard luck story and asked for donations....

ADG Webmaster

wish you all the best

http://www.paytheferryman.com/bills.html

I scanned this in a few days ago and censored some of it. I don't know what it proves except that I went to the emergency room and had a lot of tests done. Hit me up on ICQ if you want to see the uncensored version.

I hope things work out for you but to be honest I'm amazed that since the last time you were in trouble you havn't had some sort of backup plan...especially considering you have kids. Are you and your wife both American Citizens? As ADG said above if she is a Canadian citizen isn't there some help you can receive through her? If not then I can't understand why both of you remained there knowing that neither could work without work permits.

It's a long story but the nub of it is I didn't apply for citizenship because I was afraid I might not qualify.

Legally she can work in Canada. In reality she can only work online... I don't discuss her medical problems. I think I can safely mention that she suffers from a great deal of social anxiety though.

Sorry to hear about your health issues.

I'll offer some advice, take it for what it's worth. I think you or your wife might want to look into a different profession. It seems like both of you have been more or less just posting for money the past few months. While I'm sure it's more convenient and comfortable, I'm sure there are other types of jobs out there that offer benefits such as health insurance, or bring in a stable enough income to afford health insurance. You've been in the industry for awhile, and if you're still posting to make ends meet, it might be time for a different profession.

I don't want that to come across too negatively, but sometimes you have to look at the reality of a situation. Working retail or something might suck, but if it covers your family health insurance and brings in a stable income to live on, that's all that matters.

The bottom 6 spots are sold and I'm waiting for the ad codes.

Dear god.

I have no desire to icq you, so I'll just post my suggestion here-



You and your wife need to get jobs. Real ones.

hmmm medical is like $70 - 100 bucks a month in BC and if you go to Canada
on any sort of Visa you are entitled to Medical.
So either you didn't pay the medical or you didn't look into it properly.
Finally you don't have to pay your bills for medical what are they gonna take away from you?
Last if not least transfer all your assets to somebody you trust and go to Welfare and get them to get you on Medical.

if you came to Canada on a temp work permit you were entitled to medical:
heres the link:

http://www.healthservices.gov.bc.ca/...gible.html#who

I'm not sure how it is in Canada, but I've had friends up there for some time. I'm fairly certain they can't deny you health coverage. Sure you'll be stuck with a ton of bills, but almost every medical place will get you on a payment plan when things settle down. It's better to be paying medical bills for the rest of your life than having no life at all.

Not only that Medical can be backdated. So you have to register and then tell them the day you came to BC, provide proof of when you arrived and then you will be on the hook for the monthly premiums from the day you arrived which if you came 5 years ago will be between 4500 and 6k.
Medical premiums are based on income too.

you will be right, dags, remember that I am poor, but have said if i can i would help you out.

please be aware that all three of those temporary meds they have given you are for blood presure, so too many of them can throw you deeper into an anxious state. I would be getting more oppinions and shopping around, even asking someone if they will claim it for you. It might be wrong, but overall, you will live, and that is probably more right in the long run...